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Then he had the chance to double his income ... and replaced beer with marihuana.
We were speaking many times about the philosophy of life and he was quite good on defining that.
After starting to use drugs, he was daily explaining me that i will never understand philosophy unless i will become addicted as him. I was smiling ... just to not reply with an offense back. He started to be totally chanced.
I remember how he was when he was daily drinking 5-6 beers a day and how he is today, after taking drugs.
He actually became ... a ruin ... totally destroyed mentally.
A smart guy, beautiful as soul ... just became a ruin that probably will never reborn again.
I decided to even stop saying him anything at all about the mistake he is doing, cause he already sees me as an enemy ... but i will just close this connection.
Is useless to have around me a person as him, cause 100% an influence will come from his side ... and not a good one. So ... should we drink alcohol?!
Should we take drugs?!
Should we have other strong addictions?!
Well ... yes ... drink alcohol ... taste drugs of any kind ... experience anything illegal and immoral ... but do it just as an experience ... not as an addiction.
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Impossible to get rid of an
amazing pleasure
... or should we name this the poem
of our emotions?!
... a real story
In the past i used to write about love, love stories and everything was related with the subject.
I’ve got lots of emails during the time .. but i remember that once a guy wrote me something interesting regarding the influences that come from the partners we have in life.
The guy was married ... but a very beautiful lady, that he knew by a
long time, wrote him and made him understand that she wants to
have a love affair with him.
He could not believe it.
That amazing beautiful lady wanted him ... so he totally forgot that he was married.
But something weird happened.
Every time he was meeting her ... even if it was amazing ... 5 minutes after he was leaving he was receiving an unexpected bad news.
First time he believed it was a simple coincidence ... second time, the same ... but after a while he realized it was a 99.99% chance as something bad to happen if he was meeting her.
He understood the things with the energies, but his wife did not found out ... so he continued the game for months.
It was like the meeting with the Devil, but the devil was an amazing lady ... and he did not wanted to stop seeing her.
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The guy was writing me, asking for an advice about how he can stop this bad influence that comes after meeting the lady.
He knew what an energy field was ... and he understood everything is related with the connections between the human beings.
The problem was that the lady was so beautiful ... that he was balancing all the time between her and avoiding problems.
Her negative impact was visible right away, but what the guy was not seeing was that not the lady was a negative person ... but the connection itself was a negative connection.
As long as they were only chatting as friends everything was quite ok ... but when they were meeting for continuing their story as sex mates ... that was not bringing good influences in their lives.
And it is the same with many relations that we have ... it’s just the fact that the common path is not of positive impact on us.
Those persons might be ok ... but we need to understand what the Universe is whispering ... and that is ... you just have different directions you should follow.
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Don’t give so many options
... it will become confusing
I’ve been born in a communist country ... and the funny thing is that what i remember about that time is that ... we had only one type of chocolate, one type of beer, one type of car ... the buildings with
apartments were looking the same all over the countryso
basically there was nothing to choose.....
Today i go with my little son in the super market and he has the option of 25 to 35 types of chocolate.
It takes 5 minutes for him to decide what to buy ... and he totally dislike the type of chocolate from my time.
Some smart guys, reinvented the brand and the chocolate of my childhood in still in the supermarket, but now is just an option from many other options.
When i tell my little son that i had no options of other chocolates ... he just can’t believe it, but the simple fact that he is not able to choose right away ... made me realize that having so many options ... is not really a good option.
There are people that even when they are in front of 2 options they become so undecided ... that their lives just go on hold on mode. When they have more than 5 options ... their minds become frozen. In front of the decision they have to make ... even like a kid that has to choose between 25 to 35 types of chocolates ... the influence of indecision ruins their vibes.
Nazism gave probably no option to the people.
Communism ... in many cases ... only one option.
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But nowadays ... when we live in a free world, having so, so many options ... everything becomes confusing.
I saw people that looked so damm unhappy ... that they could not decide which type of BMW or Mercedes-Benz they should buy.
I saw people that could not decide if they should choose Thailand or Maldives when they had to go in vacation.
But i also saw people that not knowing what to choose ... they bought also the Mercedes-Benz, but also BMW ... and also people that love to travel and from the vacation of 2 weeks in Thailand ... they went directly in Maldives.
And i also saw men that wanted to divorce because they were in love with the mistress and after a month with the mistress ... realized that the wife was not such a bad option.
Then they came back ... and one month later they left one more time at the mistress.
Today ... i realize that the influence of all the thoughts that we have in our mind when we are in front of too many options ... is just overwhelming.
So ... whatever you do ... don’t give so many options ... it will become confusing!
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Addiction for dreaming
... a good or a bad habit?!
... or maybe we are too much influenced by our emotions.
I’ve been tasting myself ... same as any other human being ... many, many addictions.
One of them was the addiction of dreaming and i realized it existed in my life only when a new friend told me that he had this addiction. Now i am wondering myself if this is a good or a bad habit ... and don’t really know which is the answer.
But what is funny is that i somehow got everything i dreamed in life. I read a lot about the law of attraction and it influenced me a lot in a good way ... the simple fact that i knew how to dream with my eyes opened.
So ... i got everything i wanted, but forgot to mention you that none of all those dreams that became true ... gave me the pleasure of feeling that i enjoy life.
I had lots of dreams and goals ... but never thought that the only real purpose that i should have in life ... is actually enjoy the present moment.
In fact ... i dreamed so much in my life that i just missed the chance to enjoy the life itself.
Today ... i should redefine a little bit my behavior and ask myself before i start fo follow any dream and the path to it, i would ask myself if it really worth it.
If the answer is no ... i will just forget about the dream.
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I also believe that many of our dreams ... should be actually named desires and we should not let ourselves be influences so much by our emotions.
For example you could dream for a Lamborghini or a Rolls-Royce, but does it worth to pay so much money for one?!
You could just rent one for few days and enjoy the pleasure of temporary having it ... because anyway everything is temporary. Well ... what i want to say is quite simple.
Many times we confuse the addiction of dreaming with the non ending need of satisfying illusory desires.
We only have few real important dreams in live that really worth the effort of sacrificing us ... but we need to analyze and define better what is a dream and what is a desire.
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