Small countries or important ones .. the scenario is almost the same as it was 2000 years ago, or 800 ... or 250 years. Today i start to believe that not Stalin or Hitler were the daemons of those times ... but a part of that society that created a very ugly scenario ... believing that the whole world will go in a direction ... where everything will be quite easy to be dominated by them.
Those two negative super heroes ... were just the leaders ...
and actually great symbols of an evil system.
And is funny analyzing the past and seeing that those 2 leaders got the full support of their people.
We see them today as real devils ... but unfortunately many, many people ... even the honest ones ... believed in their ideology ... and gave them the full support ... believing that a better life is going to come in the near future.
But naivety is part of the human being ... and you can find at all the ordinary people ... even if they always had a beautiful and honest soul.
The ironic fight between good and evil continues ... and those kinds of liars are keep appearing on and on ... telling us beautiful lies about an amazing scenario that is going to happen into the future ... by fighting with different kinds of influences.
But ... you see ... the need of hearing a different scenario of a better tomorrow ... force us to accept in our lives all those
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false Messiahs.
We give them credit ... believing in their lies ... even if we know that for a better life we just need ... harmony and a good connection with the self.
Maybe in the end .. i should add that is time to run our lives by ourselves.
Today ... we don’t need anymore a great leader to dream big.
We are the ones that can redefine reality in any way we want that to happen ... cause the art of dreaming big is really accessible to the all of us ... but we should keep all the time in our minds the mistakes seen in the history. Of the others ... and the ones of us.
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Beautiful lies ... that were
said to us in a amazing way
... redefined our view about reality.
But later on ... we found the whole truth and all what remains to be done is ... to smile.
I recently saw a movies witch i saw 10 years ago ... 20 years ago ... but also 30-35 years ago.
First time when i saw it ... i was just a young kid at that time ... and i loved it.
It was about a kid of 13 years old ... that helped the communist leaders to fight for gaining the power in my country.
Everything happened during the second world II ... and the movie was created by the greatest artists from here ... probably around 1980s.
The story was explaining in a fabulous way how they fought against the nazi forces that were running the country at thar time, so that we become partners with the Soviet Union. The kid was playing in an amazing way the role.
20 years ago ... when i saw the movie again, i was already a young man ... and the communist party was just history.
10 years ago ... i realized that the whole movie was a big
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lie ... told in a very beautiful way.
And now ... seeing the movie again with my kids ....i just
smile.
My kids loved the movie ... not realizing what is for real the story about ... seeing just a positive character into that kid of 13 years old.
The movie ... after so many years ... even if it was a movie about communism... but with a scenario written so well ... is an example of saying an ugly story ... a big lie, about negative characters from the human history ... the communists .... in a great way.
And after so many years .... the movie is still a loved movie.
The communist knew how to use the power of this story ... about a kid that was believing that was doing something great ... but he was just a kid ... and did not knew what the whole story with the communists was.
My kids adored the movie ... even if it was an old one and in the end asked me ... “why did you said to us that the communists are bad guys?!”.
So ... even after so many years, the movie succeeds to send a very powerful message to all the ones that are watching it ... and in the same time ... make them ask themselves if the communists were good or bad guys.
My kids believed till today that communists were negative characters from our history ... but not anymore.
They loved the guy of 13 years old from the movie ... and the whole movie.
They saw him as a hero ... and in fact he was a hero. The same funny thing is happening for sure with many similar episodes from our lives and we end up not knowing if
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that was a positive or a negative issue for us.
The story might be so beautiful ... especially if it is a new experience ... that you actually don’t really know what to believe.
... and this is only because sometimes ... the lies are painted in in very beautiful colors.
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Ignoring or reacting to the dark side of the others. Which one is wiser?
But what if ignoring should end up in fact as obeying to that situation?!
Oliver was a businessman from Florida, that was traveling all the time .... all around the United States.
In Miami he was living with his dog ... and each time he had to leave, he was letting his dog at a very nice hotel for pets. He was friend by a long time with the owner of that hotel, but did not knew so much his wife.
One day, being in a hurry ... and also being afraid that he will not catch the flight to Los Angels ... Oliver takes his little beautiful dog, goes to the pet hotel ... lets the dog at the reception and wanted to leave ... without saying another word.
His taxi was waiting him outside.
The manager of the hotel, the wife of his friend Liam ... was close by the reception and smiling to Oliver is saying:
“I’m sorry sir ... you can’t just leave your dog in here and leave.
You need to sign some papers, tell us few things about the health of your dog, make the payment ... and then you can
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leave.
I promise you, that my colleague will help you and will not take more than 5 minutes”.
The lady was very polite to Oliver, but instead of understanding that he needs to follow some internal rules of the hotel .... he became very annoyed ... and said to the lady right away:
“Listen! I don’t want to argue with you ... but i will!
First of all i am a friend of your husband ... and this is the rule i have with him .... i come here, i let the dog and leave. When i come back i pay.
Simple!
Why do you force me to sign 20 papers?!
I need to catch up a flight to LA! I am really in a hurry ... and i totally dislike to follow all those procedures”. Smiling again the lady says:
“My husband is not here now, but i assure you that those are the rules for all our clients.
We don’t want to offend or annoy anyone.
We have some rules in here ... just in all the other hotels.” Seeing no way out of the situation ... Oliver is obeying to the procedures .... signs the papers and pays with his credit card.
In the same time ... another guy, a man of about 60 years old ... comes with his dog ... lets the little being ... in the receptions and leaves.
The manager is just looking at him ... they smile to each other ... then they say good bye by shaking hands ... but without saying a word.
Oliver gets really annoyed ... but tries to control himself …
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seeing the scene, and politely ask the manager:
“I don’t want to be totally unsatisfied by your services today ... buy a guy just entered in here ... let the dog, did not signed any paper ... did not payed ... just let the dog and left.
Same as i wanted to do, but you explained me i just can’t do that.
It’s obvious you dislike me ... and actually want to provoke me a heart attack”
The lady smiles again and replies:
“Mr Oliver! The client that just left is having a medical problem and is almost impossible to communicate with him ... cause he is deaf.
His daughter sent us all the informations over email and payed us by bank transfer ... and you can do the same. We don’t want you to have a heart attack, but that man is just the person that is taking the dog to us”
Still annoyed ... Oliver leaves ... but he was still unhappy
cause he had to follow all those silly rules from the hotel.
He almost had a heart attack because of the old man that
came in the same time with him ... not realizing the
missunderstanding ... and even if he was informed by the
manager what is going on ... he was still feeling offended.
He was reacting in a silly way to a standard situation ... that
he could just ignore ... by losing 5 minutes with the
procedures of the hotel.
But why?!
He had the illusory idea that the lady wanted to annoy him ... and he was totally convinced that he was reacting to the dark side of her.
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But was that true?!
Did the lady wanted to annoy her client, before taking his money?!
Well ... maybe Oliver was just under stress, because he was afraid of losing the flight to LA, but certainly he did not know how to react in those type of situations.
And many .... too many of us ... just act as Oliver.
We over react ... so easily ... most of the times, believing we react to the dark side of the people from our timeline ... but it’s all an illusion.
Actually ... it’s all a simple misunderstanding. There is not about any dark side ... in many of the situations ... but simple by the fact that we over react ... most of the times.
We believe that people are asking us to obey to their rules or philosophy ... but they just came up with some procedures that in many cases ... were created just for helping us to work better together.
The dark side that we see ... is only an illusion from our mind ... and nothing more ... or maybe a simple reflection of our thoughts.
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What is love about?! Well ... maybe is about
... “forget your head and listen
to your heart”.
But why?!
Why does it work this way?!
Can we still have control over the situation ... or we become totally dominated by the love story?!
I read and wrote .... all kinds of things about love ... and
bottomline ... the short story is that .... unbelievable
energies are stealing the control over our lives and all we actually see is the story and that person that we fall in love with.
There is nothing more around ... but love.
But why are we actually taken by force in such stories?! ....
what is the meaning of all that?!
We actually lose our minds ... and listen just to the heart?! We all know what losing our minds means and the results generated by this fact ... and always believed that listening to our hearts is risky.
... but we still do it ... somehow by force ... under the influences of strange energies ... that we will never
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understand.
And ... still ... even being dominated ... we love it.
So ... is a love story a negative or a positive thing in our lives?!
Should we accept the story and embrace all what is going on ... after losing our heads?!
Everybody around will say the ... opposite ... but it’s funny cause our simple reply is ... you can’t understand ... you don’t know what love is about.
And is true ... but still ... being just under the influences of our hearts ... we become totally changed ... until one day ... when we wake up.
We smile .. and realize it all was so weird.
It was not the real us in the story ... but a totally different person.
Those energies that took us to the path of love ... suddenly disappeared ... and looking at the person that we loved so much ... we don’t see that beautiful angel anymore ... but even the devil itself.
No one has the power to understand us anymore.
Is like we said such a long time by something that is white ...
and now we explain that is actually black.
We look one more time as persons ... that lost the control over their thoughts ... coming up with such contradictory ideas.
But you know .... any story .... has a lesson.
What was the lesson of life?!
Well ... maybe to understand how to love ... but to love everybody and everything around ... not just a person that is whispering to us amazing words about love.
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And ... also to understand ... by force ... the art of listening our hearts ... “because the truth is, there’s no sense living without this ... to make the journey and not fall deeply in love. Well ... you haven’t lived a life at all”.
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Experiencing is the key
... even if it’s positive or negative
Coming back in time, in the prehistorical age ... the scientists are telling us that the first human being appeared in Africa. So ... it’s kind of a paradox ... cause the countries from Africa are not so very well developed today.
Those human beings ... started to be nomads, following the crowds of animals that were providing them the necessary food to ... survive.
People were just consumers and were not producing anything ... yet.
They were just living their existance ... hoping that they will have all what they needed daily.
They were consumers ... but were thinking just at the daily needs ... and nothing more ... not the kind of consumers we are today.
The time passed and some of those human beings from the prehistorical age started to travel more and more.
At that time ... there was no one in Europe or North America ... where we consider today that live the most powerful nations of our times.
But being nomads ... in the end the human beings went all around the world.
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Those two negative super heroes ... were just the leaders ...
and actually great symbols of an evil system.
And is funny analyzing the past and seeing that those 2 leaders got the full support of their people.
We see them today as real devils ... but unfortunately many, many people ... even the honest ones ... believed in their ideology ... and gave them the full support ... believing that a better life is going to come in the near future.
But naivety is part of the human being ... and you can find at all the ordinary people ... even if they always had a beautiful and honest soul.
The ironic fight between good and evil continues ... and those kinds of liars are keep appearing on and on ... telling us beautiful lies about an amazing scenario that is going to happen into the future ... by fighting with different kinds of influences.
But ... you see ... the need of hearing a different scenario of a better tomorrow ... force us to accept in our lives all those
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false Messiahs.
We give them credit ... believing in their lies ... even if we know that for a better life we just need ... harmony and a good connection with the self.
Maybe in the end .. i should add that is time to run our lives by ourselves.
Today ... we don’t need anymore a great leader to dream big.
We are the ones that can redefine reality in any way we want that to happen ... cause the art of dreaming big is really accessible to the all of us ... but we should keep all the time in our minds the mistakes seen in the history. Of the others ... and the ones of us.
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Beautiful lies ... that were
said to us in a amazing way
... redefined our view about reality.
But later on ... we found the whole truth and all what remains to be done is ... to smile.
I recently saw a movies witch i saw 10 years ago ... 20 years ago ... but also 30-35 years ago.
First time when i saw it ... i was just a young kid at that time ... and i loved it.
It was about a kid of 13 years old ... that helped the communist leaders to fight for gaining the power in my country.
Everything happened during the second world II ... and the movie was created by the greatest artists from here ... probably around 1980s.
The story was explaining in a fabulous way how they fought against the nazi forces that were running the country at thar time, so that we become partners with the Soviet Union. The kid was playing in an amazing way the role.
20 years ago ... when i saw the movie again, i was already a young man ... and the communist party was just history.
10 years ago ... i realized that the whole movie was a big
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lie ... told in a very beautiful way.
And now ... seeing the movie again with my kids ....i just
smile.
My kids loved the movie ... not realizing what is for real the story about ... seeing just a positive character into that kid of 13 years old.
The movie ... after so many years ... even if it was a movie about communism... but with a scenario written so well ... is an example of saying an ugly story ... a big lie, about negative characters from the human history ... the communists .... in a great way.
And after so many years .... the movie is still a loved movie.
The communist knew how to use the power of this story ... about a kid that was believing that was doing something great ... but he was just a kid ... and did not knew what the whole story with the communists was.
My kids adored the movie ... even if it was an old one and in the end asked me ... “why did you said to us that the communists are bad guys?!”.
So ... even after so many years, the movie succeeds to send a very powerful message to all the ones that are watching it ... and in the same time ... make them ask themselves if the communists were good or bad guys.
My kids believed till today that communists were negative characters from our history ... but not anymore.
They loved the guy of 13 years old from the movie ... and the whole movie.
They saw him as a hero ... and in fact he was a hero. The same funny thing is happening for sure with many similar episodes from our lives and we end up not knowing if
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that was a positive or a negative issue for us.
The story might be so beautiful ... especially if it is a new experience ... that you actually don’t really know what to believe.
... and this is only because sometimes ... the lies are painted in in very beautiful colors.
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Ignoring or reacting to the dark side of the others. Which one is wiser?
But what if ignoring should end up in fact as obeying to that situation?!
Oliver was a businessman from Florida, that was traveling all the time .... all around the United States.
In Miami he was living with his dog ... and each time he had to leave, he was letting his dog at a very nice hotel for pets. He was friend by a long time with the owner of that hotel, but did not knew so much his wife.
One day, being in a hurry ... and also being afraid that he will not catch the flight to Los Angels ... Oliver takes his little beautiful dog, goes to the pet hotel ... lets the dog at the reception and wanted to leave ... without saying another word.
His taxi was waiting him outside.
The manager of the hotel, the wife of his friend Liam ... was close by the reception and smiling to Oliver is saying:
“I’m sorry sir ... you can’t just leave your dog in here and leave.
You need to sign some papers, tell us few things about the health of your dog, make the payment ... and then you can
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leave.
I promise you, that my colleague will help you and will not take more than 5 minutes”.
The lady was very polite to Oliver, but instead of understanding that he needs to follow some internal rules of the hotel .... he became very annoyed ... and said to the lady right away:
“Listen! I don’t want to argue with you ... but i will!
First of all i am a friend of your husband ... and this is the rule i have with him .... i come here, i let the dog and leave. When i come back i pay.
Simple!
Why do you force me to sign 20 papers?!
I need to catch up a flight to LA! I am really in a hurry ... and i totally dislike to follow all those procedures”. Smiling again the lady says:
“My husband is not here now, but i assure you that those are the rules for all our clients.
We don’t want to offend or annoy anyone.
We have some rules in here ... just in all the other hotels.” Seeing no way out of the situation ... Oliver is obeying to the procedures .... signs the papers and pays with his credit card.
In the same time ... another guy, a man of about 60 years old ... comes with his dog ... lets the little being ... in the receptions and leaves.
The manager is just looking at him ... they smile to each other ... then they say good bye by shaking hands ... but without saying a word.
Oliver gets really annoyed ... but tries to control himself …
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seeing the scene, and politely ask the manager:
“I don’t want to be totally unsatisfied by your services today ... buy a guy just entered in here ... let the dog, did not signed any paper ... did not payed ... just let the dog and left.
Same as i wanted to do, but you explained me i just can’t do that.
It’s obvious you dislike me ... and actually want to provoke me a heart attack”
The lady smiles again and replies:
“Mr Oliver! The client that just left is having a medical problem and is almost impossible to communicate with him ... cause he is deaf.
His daughter sent us all the informations over email and payed us by bank transfer ... and you can do the same. We don’t want you to have a heart attack, but that man is just the person that is taking the dog to us”
Still annoyed ... Oliver leaves ... but he was still unhappy
cause he had to follow all those silly rules from the hotel.
He almost had a heart attack because of the old man that
came in the same time with him ... not realizing the
missunderstanding ... and even if he was informed by the
manager what is going on ... he was still feeling offended.
He was reacting in a silly way to a standard situation ... that
he could just ignore ... by losing 5 minutes with the
procedures of the hotel.
But why?!
He had the illusory idea that the lady wanted to annoy him ... and he was totally convinced that he was reacting to the dark side of her.
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But was that true?!
Did the lady wanted to annoy her client, before taking his money?!
Well ... maybe Oliver was just under stress, because he was afraid of losing the flight to LA, but certainly he did not know how to react in those type of situations.
And many .... too many of us ... just act as Oliver.
We over react ... so easily ... most of the times, believing we react to the dark side of the people from our timeline ... but it’s all an illusion.
Actually ... it’s all a simple misunderstanding. There is not about any dark side ... in many of the situations ... but simple by the fact that we over react ... most of the times.
We believe that people are asking us to obey to their rules or philosophy ... but they just came up with some procedures that in many cases ... were created just for helping us to work better together.
The dark side that we see ... is only an illusion from our mind ... and nothing more ... or maybe a simple reflection of our thoughts.
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What is love about?! Well ... maybe is about
... “forget your head and listen
to your heart”.
But why?!
Why does it work this way?!
Can we still have control over the situation ... or we become totally dominated by the love story?!
I read and wrote .... all kinds of things about love ... and
bottomline ... the short story is that .... unbelievable
energies are stealing the control over our lives and all we actually see is the story and that person that we fall in love with.
There is nothing more around ... but love.
But why are we actually taken by force in such stories?! ....
what is the meaning of all that?!
We actually lose our minds ... and listen just to the heart?! We all know what losing our minds means and the results generated by this fact ... and always believed that listening to our hearts is risky.
... but we still do it ... somehow by force ... under the influences of strange energies ... that we will never
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understand.
And ... still ... even being dominated ... we love it.
So ... is a love story a negative or a positive thing in our lives?!
Should we accept the story and embrace all what is going on ... after losing our heads?!
Everybody around will say the ... opposite ... but it’s funny cause our simple reply is ... you can’t understand ... you don’t know what love is about.
And is true ... but still ... being just under the influences of our hearts ... we become totally changed ... until one day ... when we wake up.
We smile .. and realize it all was so weird.
It was not the real us in the story ... but a totally different person.
Those energies that took us to the path of love ... suddenly disappeared ... and looking at the person that we loved so much ... we don’t see that beautiful angel anymore ... but even the devil itself.
No one has the power to understand us anymore.
Is like we said such a long time by something that is white ...
and now we explain that is actually black.
We look one more time as persons ... that lost the control over their thoughts ... coming up with such contradictory ideas.
But you know .... any story .... has a lesson.
What was the lesson of life?!
Well ... maybe to understand how to love ... but to love everybody and everything around ... not just a person that is whispering to us amazing words about love.
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And ... also to understand ... by force ... the art of listening our hearts ... “because the truth is, there’s no sense living without this ... to make the journey and not fall deeply in love. Well ... you haven’t lived a life at all”.
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Experiencing is the key
... even if it’s positive or negative
Coming back in time, in the prehistorical age ... the scientists are telling us that the first human being appeared in Africa. So ... it’s kind of a paradox ... cause the countries from Africa are not so very well developed today.
Those human beings ... started to be nomads, following the crowds of animals that were providing them the necessary food to ... survive.
People were just consumers and were not producing anything ... yet.
They were just living their existance ... hoping that they will have all what they needed daily.
They were consumers ... but were thinking just at the daily needs ... and nothing more ... not the kind of consumers we are today.
The time passed and some of those human beings from the prehistorical age started to travel more and more.
At that time ... there was no one in Europe or North America ... where we consider today that live the most powerful nations of our times.
But being nomads ... in the end the human beings went all around the world.
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