It might probably explain ... why i study the nonsense itself. But ... what about you ... my dear reader?!
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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In life you’ll need to learn to lose ....
otherwise you’ll not be able to continue your journey in peace
Somehow life is like ... school ... but we never see it this way.
We have in our minds the illusory concept that the meaning of life is to grow up, finish school, get a good job, get marry, have a beautiful house, buy an amazing car ... bla, bla, bla, bla.
But somehow the collection of all those experiences ... make us become the one that we are at the end of our lives.
The journey itself ... defines life ... maybe in an interesting ... or a boring story ... but the meaning of it is probably to teach us become a better self. Some ... succeed.
Some ... never understand the illusion of life, still believing till the last moment that we had to follow that dogmatic bla, bla, bla ... path ... that society told us about, even since we were kids.
The concept of seeing life as a school ... is basically a nonsense ... for maybe more than 99% of us.
We follow illusory ideas, not understanding the meaning of the messages behind the message that reality sends us. And life is in the end a chain of repetitive ... nonsense events.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
56
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Stupid battles.
Ego issues ... unsolved for years.
Desires ... that are not even our desires.
The feeling that we can’t act properly on the stage of our own lives ... just because we have something to lose. What can we lose ... in school?!
Well ... just the exams, but the Universe loves us too much and gives us the chance to have the exams again and again and and again.
And acting in a silly way, most of the times, we just follow what we saw to the others ... being too attached of an illusory reality ... and maybe understanding too late the concept of ... school of life.
Today ... i strongly believe that ... there is nothing to lose in this so called ... reality ... and we are too cowards to ... live ... and be the best version of ourselves.
We should just enjoy the experiences and see the meaning of them.
When a chapter ends ... a new one is starting .... and then a
new one ... and a new one ... till the second when we will just lose what we call life .... and continue our journey in peace.
We should always keep in mind that life is a journey ... not a destination .... and the only thing we might lose from an
experience is just not to see the right message ... the spiritual one.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
57
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Philosophical essays
“The nonsense itself was that she was all what i wanted
... but it was just an illusion”
I wrote about 10 books with love essays.
I wrote them in the night ... on the couch from my living room ... while drinking a very good wine ... but also early in the morning ... 3-4-5 am ... cause i could not sleep for more than 2 years in a row.
I was posting a lot on social media, especially on lots of facebook groups and it was an amazing chance to talk with lots of people from all around the world ... men and women ... and talk a lot about what love is about.
I’ve been surprised to see that a love story can have the same beauty even if it was happening in India, Uk, Tunisia, Australia, Serbia ... or whatever other country.
But what i also saw ... and disliked at that time ... was that after a while ... they all told me ... “i believe i lived an illusion”.
I remember about a guy from Paris that wrote me one day ...
asking for an advice.
The email started as following:
“I’ve studied a lot the law of attraction and personal growth. You see ... i wanted a love story ... but one as in love movies made at Hollywood.
I’ve been visualizing a lot that beautiful love story.
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58
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I almost saw and felt her soul.
I could even say that ... i was listening to all the beautiful words that she was whispering ... to me. And one day ... guess what?!
She just appeared in my life.
Was the most unexpected person i ever thought about ... and the weird thing was that she was acting exactly how i visualized everything.
She was actually saying the same words i wanted her to tell me.
It was all just like in the story ...the one from my mind ...
regarding the perfect love story i was chasing for.
I simple ... could not believe it.
Law of attraction worked .... and i proved myself that i know
how to deal with it.
But the Universe was laughing of me behind my back ... cause she was not a honest person and she proved in the end to be just an ... illusion.”
I was laughing hearing the story .... cause i know the other
side of the story ... of the law of attraction ... which might look as a nonsense ... but it’s not.
You see ... we can attract indeed what we do visualize ... but we attract what we actually are ... and this is what the guy attracted ... a person which was not honest ... same as he probably was in fact.
He came ... asking for an advice from me ... and give him an idea about what he should do with such a story, cause she really liked the lady, but disliked her character.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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I could tell him the truth ... about the law of attraction ... and also his character, but it could be a total nonsense that would probably offend him ... so i just reply: “Just look for another lady!
I’m sure that at the right time ... you’ll just meet the right person”.
... and i continued to laugh.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
60
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Philosophical essays
“Between a blonde and a brunette ... i might chose the blonde, the brunette, both of them ... or no one.
It all depends of the vibe i feel from that connection.”
Joseph was an engineer from Texas.
He was already divorced by few years and started to enjoy being alone.
Being helped by the dating apps, but also by his life experience and his charm ... his new problem became the fact that he was meeting with too many beautiful ladies. He came in the position of not really knowing which one to chose and start a relationship for real ... with one of them ... in fact ... any of them.
One day he started to ask God ... to help him stop searching and searching and searching again. While praying ... he was saying to God:
“I like Lisa ... she is blonde ... and you know i prefer the blonde girls ... but i also like Claire, even if she is brunette, cause she has a beautiful soul.
Melinda is satisfying me sexually in an amazing way.
With Paula ... i love to travel.
She is a wonderful companion.
God ... i like all of them ... but help me chose one ... any
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which you think is ok for me.”
It was funny what was happening.
Joseph was enjoying being alone, but he also loved being in the company of all those ladies.
Day by day ... he started to desire more and more to find the right path to follow ... but the Universe was offering him more and more opportunities to meet new ladies.
Months and months were passing, until one day when Joseph met Paul ... an old friend from school.
Paul was in search for a partner ... but he was not so lucky. He just could not find any lady ... even of he was an ok person.
They started to chat for hours .. telling their problems to each other ... which in fact were contradictory cases ... and realized that God arranged as them to meet to see the opposite example.
Hearing his friend ... Paul is saying in the end to Joseph ... “Listen to me friend! I’m not so lucky as you are to meet so, so many ladies ... and in fact i met no one, since my wife died ... but if i would be you ... i would not care if she is blonde or brunette ... but just pay attention to what vibe i would feel in the company of that lady.
Most probably ... the vibe is a parameter that defines the connection between the souls.”
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
62
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Philosophical essays
Cheating looks as a nonsense
.... but maybe it’s not.
It might be about the need of living on multiple frequencies ... with a life splitted between ... lots of scenarios.
I saw men cheating.
Lots of men.
But i also saw women doing that ... and not only one, but many.
There were times when i judged those persons and paid a lot of attention to the moral aspects of life, until one day when i actually understood that before judging them ... maybe i should listen to what their souls had to say.
But the Universe let me see deeper those examples ... by sending on the timeline of my life people that were doing that.
They appeared as friends ... and we talked a lot ... and suddenly what i saw for such a long time as a nonsense ... suddenly made lots of sense to me.
For example Sarah, that i already know by 3 years is splitting herself between the ex husband and another 2 ... lovers. Total nonsense ... you might say, but what you did not knew was that Sarah was dreaming of a man which should be a combination of the 3 of them.
She still loves the ex husband, loves a lot one of the 2 lovers ... but also likes a lot the freedom given by the 3rd
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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man ... that knows the whole story with the ... 4 of them.
Jerry ... another friend of mine.
35 years old, a gorgeous wife, 2 beautiful children ... boy and girl ... a nice house in a good area, last model of Audi ... a business running very well.
I could continue for hours defining Jerry’s life ... as a beautiful example of a man of success. And guess what?!
Jerry is cheating his wife.
... all the time.
Basically ... since i know him, he had hundreds of love adventures ... and one day believing that is a total nonsense what he was doing ... i’ve asked:
“Jerry ... you have everything a man ever wanted. Why do you still search for those other women?!” Jerry smiled ... replying:
“Indeed ... it might look like i have the perfect life, living near the perfect wife ... but she is not offering the affection i need from a woman.
I might look like a person which is not sensitive, but i’ve always been, since i was a kid.
All those other ladies from my life ... complete this desire for a perfect wife.
Might look weird, but this is the truth.”
Hearing Jerry, but also talking to Sarah for so many times ... i suddenly realized that those persons that i judged for so many times, even if they were my friends, they were ... right on what they were doing.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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In the search for the perfect life, they found a collection of multiple scenarios ... that could be lived in a parallel way. Another example ... a gipsy lady i met about one year ago, told me that the love story of her life was a gentleman from Germany that was in her life for 9 years.
He was a businessman and traveled all the time ... and even if gypsies have great intuition ... she never thought that he was a married man.
He offered her ...the perfect life, until the day when she found out that he had a parallel life, being married in another country..
She was judging him for a very long time for what he did to her ... but after a while ... seeing that she is not living anymore a beautiful life ... she understood the meaning of his presence in her life.
He appeared to make her live the perfect life scenario ... and she appeared in his life to complete his own dream of ... a beautiful life.
I know lots of other examples ... of people doing that ... but today i have the power to not judge them anymore.
I simple see them as people that are searching in multiple directions ... the concept of ... the perfect life. Looks immoral.
Looks as a total nonsense.
... but it’s not.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
65
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Philosophical essays
And one day everything becomes ... just a ruin ... even the great places, having an amazing history behind.
... but i smile seeing that the nature around kept its beauty.
I was visiting today kind of an old palace, one hour from my home.
First i’ve been to a museum and then i found this property, that probably belongs to no one today.
Was done in the french style and is a copy of the Big Trianon from Versailles.
It’s interesting cause it belonged to an important person from the history of my country, but indeed ... it’s a total nonsense that the palace is a ruin today, even if the facade of the building is still looking good.
On the gate it was written ... “Please don’t enter. This is a private property” ... but i ignored the sign and entered to see the big yard and also the ruins.
There were enough elements in there to remind even today that the place itself was a amazing property from that time. The yard was huge.
They had a small lake, the palace was on a hill, with a great view to other hills ... and the vibe of the place ... it was amazing.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
66
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Philosophical essays
I could write of the owner, but it’s not an important person in the history of the world ... to mention him, even if for my country ... he was one of the most important families from here.
And in fact ... i don’t even know so much about him.
Just heard many times his name ... when i was in school.
But i was amazed of one thing.
Even if today the palace is a ruin ... the courtyard is still fantastic.
When i walked on the alleys ... the trees were whispering to me the energy of the glory times.
And i start smiling, realizing the illusory creation ... of the human being.
Even the work of the great people from the history of any place from this plannet ... becomes one day ... just a ruin ...
and only what the Universe did ... the nature around keep telling that beautiful story of that past.
But we ignore that ... when we see a ruin ... and continue to
adore ... our creations.
Total ... nonsense.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
67
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Philosophical essays
All the silly ideas from our heads ... are simple perceptions
I remember a discussion i had few years ago with a beautiful lady ... regarding fashion and its meaning.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
55
PRACTICING … THE NON SENSE … AN AS ART
Philosophical essays
In life you’ll need to learn to lose ....
otherwise you’ll not be able to continue your journey in peace
Somehow life is like ... school ... but we never see it this way.
We have in our minds the illusory concept that the meaning of life is to grow up, finish school, get a good job, get marry, have a beautiful house, buy an amazing car ... bla, bla, bla, bla.
But somehow the collection of all those experiences ... make us become the one that we are at the end of our lives.
The journey itself ... defines life ... maybe in an interesting ... or a boring story ... but the meaning of it is probably to teach us become a better self. Some ... succeed.
Some ... never understand the illusion of life, still believing till the last moment that we had to follow that dogmatic bla, bla, bla ... path ... that society told us about, even since we were kids.
The concept of seeing life as a school ... is basically a nonsense ... for maybe more than 99% of us.
We follow illusory ideas, not understanding the meaning of the messages behind the message that reality sends us. And life is in the end a chain of repetitive ... nonsense events.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
56
PRACTICING … THE NON SENSE … AN AS ART Philosophical essays
Stupid battles.
Ego issues ... unsolved for years.
Desires ... that are not even our desires.
The feeling that we can’t act properly on the stage of our own lives ... just because we have something to lose. What can we lose ... in school?!
Well ... just the exams, but the Universe loves us too much and gives us the chance to have the exams again and again and and again.
And acting in a silly way, most of the times, we just follow what we saw to the others ... being too attached of an illusory reality ... and maybe understanding too late the concept of ... school of life.
Today ... i strongly believe that ... there is nothing to lose in this so called ... reality ... and we are too cowards to ... live ... and be the best version of ourselves.
We should just enjoy the experiences and see the meaning of them.
When a chapter ends ... a new one is starting .... and then a
new one ... and a new one ... till the second when we will just lose what we call life .... and continue our journey in peace.
We should always keep in mind that life is a journey ... not a destination .... and the only thing we might lose from an
experience is just not to see the right message ... the spiritual one.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
57
PRACTICING … THE NON SENSE … AN AS ART
Philosophical essays
“The nonsense itself was that she was all what i wanted
... but it was just an illusion”
I wrote about 10 books with love essays.
I wrote them in the night ... on the couch from my living room ... while drinking a very good wine ... but also early in the morning ... 3-4-5 am ... cause i could not sleep for more than 2 years in a row.
I was posting a lot on social media, especially on lots of facebook groups and it was an amazing chance to talk with lots of people from all around the world ... men and women ... and talk a lot about what love is about.
I’ve been surprised to see that a love story can have the same beauty even if it was happening in India, Uk, Tunisia, Australia, Serbia ... or whatever other country.
But what i also saw ... and disliked at that time ... was that after a while ... they all told me ... “i believe i lived an illusion”.
I remember about a guy from Paris that wrote me one day ...
asking for an advice.
The email started as following:
“I’ve studied a lot the law of attraction and personal growth. You see ... i wanted a love story ... but one as in love movies made at Hollywood.
I’ve been visualizing a lot that beautiful love story.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
58
PRACTICING … THE NON SENSE … AN AS ART Philosophical essays
I almost saw and felt her soul.
I could even say that ... i was listening to all the beautiful words that she was whispering ... to me. And one day ... guess what?!
She just appeared in my life.
Was the most unexpected person i ever thought about ... and the weird thing was that she was acting exactly how i visualized everything.
She was actually saying the same words i wanted her to tell me.
It was all just like in the story ...the one from my mind ...
regarding the perfect love story i was chasing for.
I simple ... could not believe it.
Law of attraction worked .... and i proved myself that i know
how to deal with it.
But the Universe was laughing of me behind my back ... cause she was not a honest person and she proved in the end to be just an ... illusion.”
I was laughing hearing the story .... cause i know the other
side of the story ... of the law of attraction ... which might look as a nonsense ... but it’s not.
You see ... we can attract indeed what we do visualize ... but we attract what we actually are ... and this is what the guy attracted ... a person which was not honest ... same as he probably was in fact.
He came ... asking for an advice from me ... and give him an idea about what he should do with such a story, cause she really liked the lady, but disliked her character.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
59
PRACTICING … THE NON SENSE … AN AS ART
Philosophical essays
I could tell him the truth ... about the law of attraction ... and also his character, but it could be a total nonsense that would probably offend him ... so i just reply: “Just look for another lady!
I’m sure that at the right time ... you’ll just meet the right person”.
... and i continued to laugh.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
60
PRACTICING … THE NON SENSE … AN AS ART
Philosophical essays
“Between a blonde and a brunette ... i might chose the blonde, the brunette, both of them ... or no one.
It all depends of the vibe i feel from that connection.”
Joseph was an engineer from Texas.
He was already divorced by few years and started to enjoy being alone.
Being helped by the dating apps, but also by his life experience and his charm ... his new problem became the fact that he was meeting with too many beautiful ladies. He came in the position of not really knowing which one to chose and start a relationship for real ... with one of them ... in fact ... any of them.
One day he started to ask God ... to help him stop searching and searching and searching again. While praying ... he was saying to God:
“I like Lisa ... she is blonde ... and you know i prefer the blonde girls ... but i also like Claire, even if she is brunette, cause she has a beautiful soul.
Melinda is satisfying me sexually in an amazing way.
With Paula ... i love to travel.
She is a wonderful companion.
God ... i like all of them ... but help me chose one ... any
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
61
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Philosophical essays
which you think is ok for me.”
It was funny what was happening.
Joseph was enjoying being alone, but he also loved being in the company of all those ladies.
Day by day ... he started to desire more and more to find the right path to follow ... but the Universe was offering him more and more opportunities to meet new ladies.
Months and months were passing, until one day when Joseph met Paul ... an old friend from school.
Paul was in search for a partner ... but he was not so lucky. He just could not find any lady ... even of he was an ok person.
They started to chat for hours .. telling their problems to each other ... which in fact were contradictory cases ... and realized that God arranged as them to meet to see the opposite example.
Hearing his friend ... Paul is saying in the end to Joseph ... “Listen to me friend! I’m not so lucky as you are to meet so, so many ladies ... and in fact i met no one, since my wife died ... but if i would be you ... i would not care if she is blonde or brunette ... but just pay attention to what vibe i would feel in the company of that lady.
Most probably ... the vibe is a parameter that defines the connection between the souls.”
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
62
PRACTICING … THE NON SENSE … AN AS ART
Philosophical essays
Cheating looks as a nonsense
.... but maybe it’s not.
It might be about the need of living on multiple frequencies ... with a life splitted between ... lots of scenarios.
I saw men cheating.
Lots of men.
But i also saw women doing that ... and not only one, but many.
There were times when i judged those persons and paid a lot of attention to the moral aspects of life, until one day when i actually understood that before judging them ... maybe i should listen to what their souls had to say.
But the Universe let me see deeper those examples ... by sending on the timeline of my life people that were doing that.
They appeared as friends ... and we talked a lot ... and suddenly what i saw for such a long time as a nonsense ... suddenly made lots of sense to me.
For example Sarah, that i already know by 3 years is splitting herself between the ex husband and another 2 ... lovers. Total nonsense ... you might say, but what you did not knew was that Sarah was dreaming of a man which should be a combination of the 3 of them.
She still loves the ex husband, loves a lot one of the 2 lovers ... but also likes a lot the freedom given by the 3rd
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
63
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Philosophical essays
man ... that knows the whole story with the ... 4 of them.
Jerry ... another friend of mine.
35 years old, a gorgeous wife, 2 beautiful children ... boy and girl ... a nice house in a good area, last model of Audi ... a business running very well.
I could continue for hours defining Jerry’s life ... as a beautiful example of a man of success. And guess what?!
Jerry is cheating his wife.
... all the time.
Basically ... since i know him, he had hundreds of love adventures ... and one day believing that is a total nonsense what he was doing ... i’ve asked:
“Jerry ... you have everything a man ever wanted. Why do you still search for those other women?!” Jerry smiled ... replying:
“Indeed ... it might look like i have the perfect life, living near the perfect wife ... but she is not offering the affection i need from a woman.
I might look like a person which is not sensitive, but i’ve always been, since i was a kid.
All those other ladies from my life ... complete this desire for a perfect wife.
Might look weird, but this is the truth.”
Hearing Jerry, but also talking to Sarah for so many times ... i suddenly realized that those persons that i judged for so many times, even if they were my friends, they were ... right on what they were doing.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
64
PRACTICING … THE NON SENSE … AN AS ART
Philosophical essays
In the search for the perfect life, they found a collection of multiple scenarios ... that could be lived in a parallel way. Another example ... a gipsy lady i met about one year ago, told me that the love story of her life was a gentleman from Germany that was in her life for 9 years.
He was a businessman and traveled all the time ... and even if gypsies have great intuition ... she never thought that he was a married man.
He offered her ...the perfect life, until the day when she found out that he had a parallel life, being married in another country..
She was judging him for a very long time for what he did to her ... but after a while ... seeing that she is not living anymore a beautiful life ... she understood the meaning of his presence in her life.
He appeared to make her live the perfect life scenario ... and she appeared in his life to complete his own dream of ... a beautiful life.
I know lots of other examples ... of people doing that ... but today i have the power to not judge them anymore.
I simple see them as people that are searching in multiple directions ... the concept of ... the perfect life. Looks immoral.
Looks as a total nonsense.
... but it’s not.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
65
PRACTICING … THE NON SENSE … AN AS ART
Philosophical essays
And one day everything becomes ... just a ruin ... even the great places, having an amazing history behind.
... but i smile seeing that the nature around kept its beauty.
I was visiting today kind of an old palace, one hour from my home.
First i’ve been to a museum and then i found this property, that probably belongs to no one today.
Was done in the french style and is a copy of the Big Trianon from Versailles.
It’s interesting cause it belonged to an important person from the history of my country, but indeed ... it’s a total nonsense that the palace is a ruin today, even if the facade of the building is still looking good.
On the gate it was written ... “Please don’t enter. This is a private property” ... but i ignored the sign and entered to see the big yard and also the ruins.
There were enough elements in there to remind even today that the place itself was a amazing property from that time. The yard was huge.
They had a small lake, the palace was on a hill, with a great view to other hills ... and the vibe of the place ... it was amazing.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
66
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Philosophical essays
I could write of the owner, but it’s not an important person in the history of the world ... to mention him, even if for my country ... he was one of the most important families from here.
And in fact ... i don’t even know so much about him.
Just heard many times his name ... when i was in school.
But i was amazed of one thing.
Even if today the palace is a ruin ... the courtyard is still fantastic.
When i walked on the alleys ... the trees were whispering to me the energy of the glory times.
And i start smiling, realizing the illusory creation ... of the human being.
Even the work of the great people from the history of any place from this plannet ... becomes one day ... just a ruin ...
and only what the Universe did ... the nature around keep telling that beautiful story of that past.
But we ignore that ... when we see a ruin ... and continue to
adore ... our creations.
Total ... nonsense.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
67
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Philosophical essays
All the silly ideas from our heads ... are simple perceptions
I remember a discussion i had few years ago with a beautiful lady ... regarding fashion and its meaning.
