On the other hand he could not afford to fall in love ... cause that will end for sure with leaving his wife and kids.
Sex mates ... was the best formula for both of them ... no matter how bad the concept sounds.
But all the time ... they missed the change of making the step, even if they liked each other.
Everything was perfect and then ... bang ... the connection closed.
And they did this once, twice ... and even 10 times.
It was a total nonsense and he could explain to himself what is going on.
Why the forces from the energy field that control reality ... let them connect and then suddenly disconnect everything.
The process itself was ... illogical and it was for sure something behind the real life that was controlling the scene.
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about ... timing.
They had a good connection, but it was not the right time ... because she was not ready for real for a new person in her life and he was married, even if his life was a total mess.
He liked her ... and she liked him ... but the sexual path ... was not the one of enjoying the relationship they had.
You see ... timing is sometimes everything, but we need to understand the signs behind the events ... and somehow accept what is going on.
If the Universe is keep telling you ... that is not the right path ... just think about it.
The timing is very important ... even if everything looks perfect as a connection.
I am sure that many of you ... could define the story as an immoral one, but it’s a real scenario from the real life ... with a message behind the message.
And maybe the simple fact that we hear the story ... is also a message for us.
Start to pay attention at what the Universe is ... whispering. It’s important ... for a good life!
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Temptations ... will always appear.
They are part of life.
You could name it ... the Devil, that is always around.
Or simpler ... maybe the temptations came from him ... but you see ... temptations are real and sometimes keep appearing all the time, as a test of life.
Someone could be married and have a real great relationship with the spouse ... but having a life fulfilled with all kinds of opportunities ...
sometimes the chance of testing and tasting a new connection might look like a beautiful story.
That individual might already be in an energetic field dominated by very powerful energies that define a beautiful reality ... which actually means a beautiful life.
For example ... i’ve seen during my lifetime lots of men that i’ve interacted with ... that were following this scenario.
They had a beautiful wife, a beautiful house, a beautiful car, a successful company, beautiful kids that were at a good school etc etc. From outside ... everything looked amazing.
They were living a perfect case scenario ... and actually it was all a beautiful story.
But they did not understood that after an age ... they should practice the rules of morality especially when they already got everything from the Universe.
We somehow don’t understand that when we already are in the best energy field that sends us such good vibes ... we should not look for
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anything else.
Temptations somehow means ... like the Universe is telling you: “Hey, i already offered you everything you’ve asked ... and probably even more.
You want something else also?!
Want to try it ... just for a while?!”
And many times ... we say ... “yes!” ... even if we already are in the best case scenario.
Most probably ... we don’t understand so well ... the perfection ... and
we are looking for being in more than one perfect case scenario ... in
the same time.
Should we do it?!
How should we treat ... temptations?!
Well ... it’s all about how we see and feel life.
But probably we should practice gratitude for all the beautiful things from our lives and enjoy the scenes that the Universe offers us ... without thinking about anything else.
... not even pay attention at the amazing temptations.
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“You are not allowed to leave this house. You are our parents and you need to stay with us. Both of you!”
I recently seen a russian movie ... which was about a family that was living in Moscow.
I am usually used to look at movies where i hear the dialogues in english, but hearing russian words ... in a second i understood that everywhere i should go in the world the disfunctional scenarios for families are looking the same.
The husband and wife were not having a good relationship. They were ok as individuals, but the reaction of the connection between the 2 of them ... was a total mess. But the huge problem was that they had 2 kids.
In fact they had everything.
A beautiful house, a good business, enough money to live a decent life ... everything was perfect except the fact that they did not had a good connection between the 2 of them, as human beings.
The movie itself was a motivational one, in the russian style, telling a story about how the Universe gives us everything ... and we don’t know how to manage reality near a partner that we decided to be with ... but we actually don’t like at all.
The perfect hollywoodian scenario, but the version from Moscow ...
which i actually see much closer by the real life.
A piece from the puzzle was missing ... so the puzzle was not completed and most probably will never be completed.
But, in the movie, one of the kids after seeing a horrible fight between his parents, seeing that the father wants to leave them and also the
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mother agrees to divorce ... started to cry and tells them: “You are not allowed to leave this house.
You are our parents and you need to stay with us.
Both of you!”
Everything stopped.
It was ... silence.
The kid wanted that reality ... to enjoy his childhood near his both parents.
Wanted to be in an energy field dominated by both energies ... the masculine and the feminine one.
He felt ... this was the perfect way of living even if he was too little to pay him so much attention for his thoughts. But the kid was right.
He was feeling the energies behind reality and knew what he and his brother need for a beautiful childhood.
He did not knew what yin and yang was ... but was understanding life ... in a better way as his silly parents.
So ... maybe it’s time to start listening ... especially at the ones with beautiful energies ... as kids.
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The toxic energy field. Hating each other, but influencing in a negative way everything around
It happened many times that i’ve been asked why the couples that don’t like each other ... don’t have a life fulfilled with beautiful events in their lives.
Well ...if it is quite logical, cause we can’t attract positive things for us while staying in a negative energy field, generated by the ugly reaction from both individuals involved into the couple. But we don’t pay attention to those details.
We see everything separated, not understanding the inter connection and all the influences from everything means our lives.
Sometimes we change the vibe ... and we connect again to positivity, but most of the times, we lose our time and energy hating each other ... in fact the person that we share the same bed with.
We feel the toxicity ... but also feel that we can’t change anything and that life is the way it is and nothing will change.
Not even for a second ... we can’t realize that what we define as a life with so many negative events ... it’s actually a life generated by us, while staying in a reality controlled by an energy field, that on the other had is dominated by our own energies ... the ones from the couple.
We see everything as bad luck, we blame everyone around ... and not even for a second won’t admit that we are under the influences of our own thoughts and energies.
Is so, so simple and logical ... but can’t see any way of changing life.
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But i ask myself now, while practicing the method of defining ... what is the opposite of ... hate?!
I believe the answer is ... love?!
So ... what if ... instead of losing all our powers on hate ... we make a shift and ... love?!
Do you believe that toxicity will disappear?!
But ... will you have the power to make the shift?!
Well ... everything we do in life is in the end .. a decision, but we should see that our thoughts and our actions have a huge impact on our lives.
... just think about it!
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“I want a bible ... not a Rolls Royce”
In 1966, the romanian patriarch goes to London and visits the Queen of England.
The queen is so impressed of the long and amazing conversation between the 2 of them ... that she suddenly decided to give him as a present ... a Rolls Royce.
The patriarch smiled and said to the queen:
“Your majesty ... kindly thank you and i really appreciate your intention for offering to the orthodox church from Romania ... such an amazing car, but maybe ... instead of helping us for my own confort, what do you say about helping me to publish a bible?!
I am already patriarch by 10 years and i could not print a bible yet.
All the other patriarchs did this ... but i could’t.
Our people, living in a communist regim ... really needs bibles”. The queen smiled, being amazed of what she was hearing. Instead of a beautiful Rolls Royce, that he could use for his own confort ... the patriarch asked the help to print the bible.
She could not believe that she had the privilege to meet such a person, in a world that was always dominated by money, opulence and personal interests.
The queen then said: “My dear new friend, what do you say about 100.000 bibles?
Will that be enough?!”
The patriarch was really happy.
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In 1968 the bibles arrived in Romania and were distributed in the public bookstores, all around the country.
Being a present from the Queen of England, the communist president from that time, Nicolae Ceausescu .. could not refuse the bibles, even if he was against religion.
The patriarch knew that his people needs to hear the word of God, especially in a time when even the word God, started to be prohibitive.
In 1966 ... not so many people from the world were having a Rolls Royce and the guy missed the chance to have a car like a king or a billionaire.
He refused a gift, that not so many of us ... would refuse.
His mission in life ... was to influence through the power of the orthodox church, the people from his country.
Did not wanted to be seen as a king ... but to act as a king that really loves his people and wants to help them ... especially in a spiritual way.
All of us always need spiritual help, but we don’t really care so much about helping the others around us.
The patriarch was in a universe that had behind an energy field dominated by the higher moral and spiritual standards.
All those energies that were influencing him in such a way that between printing a bible and a Rolls Royce ... he wanted the bible ...
were creating a character that could be defined as a real positive influencer for those times.
Our meaning in life is not living in a beautiful confort zone ... with luxury and opulence all around us ... but maybe to change the world into a better place, especially when we have the power to do it.
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Was the ghost in the house, or the ghost
came with the new owners?!
Near my house, there is a big property.
I know the guy that built the house and stayed in there for 7-8 years ... then he sold it.
The new owner bought the house with a huge amount of money. For him and his wife ... if was a love at first sight when they saw the lake, the pontoon, the yard.
The house had the opulence they needed so that they can show to everybody the amazing success of their family.
And for a while ... everything was great, but soon the wife started to observe weird things that were happening in there.
She not even mentioned to her husband, but he started to see things difficult to be understand ... but also believed.
So ... after realizing that those are not simple coincidences and that strange things are happening in their house, they called a priest. But problems did not stopped.
It was like in the house they had some ghosts that were appearing from time to time, so that they should not enjoy the pleasure of living in there.
Being wealthy ... she called few other priests and told them that she will pay them a huge amount of money if they will clean the house of those evil spirits.
I’ve been seeing her at the lake from time to time.
She was always thinking at the problem and i remembered she was quite happy when she moved, but not anymore.
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What she did not knew and maybe the priests did not tell her, even if she wanted to give them lots of money for help, was that they moved in an energy field that belonged to someone else.
They saw the exterior, but even if that they liked the vibe of the property ... she and her husband did not know how to connect with the energies of that place.
When they became familiar with the house ... the ghosts felt free to appear.
But still ... is weird cause i don’t think the ghost were there.
The first owner was my friend and he did not mentioned me the story about those ghosts.