ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
ANALYZE.
DEFINE.
REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
1
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
ADRIAN GABRIEL DUMITRU
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
Year: 2022
Author: Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
2
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
What makes people despair...??
Why people called life absurd ...???
I guess because...
We people are envelopes of
emotions.....
We are not conscious of the things
We desired....
It leads us to astray.....
We need to understand the
naturalness of perfect
perception ...
I analyse ...
We need to start revive our souls...
They ll collect wisdom...
They ll transform deep suffering
into deep peace...
ARIJ EMAAN
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
3
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
INTRODUCTION
by Nolene Sheppard
Analyse, Define, Re-define
Are you looking for a better life, one that is more fulfilling? It is often that we look for answers, answers on how to achieve this – answers relating to different themes – subject matters about health, work, relationships, friendships, passion; also themes of emotions such as love, hate, anger, joy, frustration, and happiness. I understand your search for a better life, and your desire to understand how to achieve this in the complex world we live in.
Could you have a better life right here and now? The answer is yes!
Questions that you should be asking yourself –:
What does a better life mean to me?
Is my response to life and daily activities a good one? How can I make it better?
Do I get the results I’m looking for?
Why do I do things the way I do?
Am I self-sabotaging myself from having that better life I dream of?
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
4
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
What limits my determined efforts to do right?
Actually - Who determines right and wrong for me?
Whom have I given permission to have control over my very existence and my ability to have a better life?
The questions go on and on. You are left in a state of confusion and haven’t gotten further.
To begin - You analyse, then define, then re-define.
To analyse is to understand. To analyse is for the search of meaning, of purpose, of reason. In search of your happiness, you need to understand yourself. Then you define - You define your thoughts and your perception of things. We then define our actions. Daily self-reflections are necessary as an important part of this process. “Appropriate or not appropriate? Could I have done this better – with more love, with more conviction, with more passion, with less intensity? With less thought? Am I overthinking? Who is the judge of all that I do? Am I my best critique?” – Personal questions with complex answers. Maybe it is just simple. Everything is quite simple once we know how.
You set your own standards based on your morals, ethics, culture, and experience. What is your intention for every action? You redefine again, and again and again, until every aspect is polish to your liking, not perfection, but it leads to a better being. The process is simple, and it repeats itself as you continue to seek to live the life of feeling at peace and in oneness with your spirit. It’s life evolution. You are forever
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
5
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
changing in thoughts, words, and deeds. Nothing remains the same. Nothing remains forever. Your ideology of a better life is changing too.
To live in true oneness of a truly better life, the mind, body, and soul must all be in alignment with the physical and spiritual world. The work in progress is daily, it’s constantly analysing, defining, and redefining all aspects of our being. Each day is therefore a perfect day in our own imperfection.
Let us look closer and deeper into how you can live your better life right here, right now.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
6
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
Analyze. Define. Redefine.
Tips and tricks for a better life
One day i realized that i have only one chance for changing my life .... and that was to become my own therapist.
I had no idea how i could do it ... but i knew i had to do it.
I was reading blogs.
Then books.
Then ... lots of books.
I found lots of ideas ... but not the secret to heal myself. It was quite annoying to be on a journey to a pathless path ... and it was in fact even worst.
I was trying to hide that by myself ... which was quite ridiculous.
And i continued like this for years.
I knew something was wrong ... but did not decided to start a process of analyzing and defining what was going on.
In fact ... i could not accept the fact that there was so much junk in my life ... but in the end seeing no way out from a miserable reality .... i said to myself .... “maybe the time for
that has come. I need to be brave enough to analyze all the details that actually define my past, my present and the possible near future.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
7
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
And i am laughing today ... looking back at the beginning of this process ... remembering about how i was lying to myself. Instead of telling the truth ... not to the others ... but to myself ... i was hiding all kinds of obvious things and situations .... and truth be told .... it was absolutely ridiculous.
But the good part is that i continued this journey of trying to find myself.
I realized that the real trick for changing our lives is to ... first stop from running away from our souls ... then start to analyze, define and in the end redefine everything around ... all what we name ... life.
It’s a quite a simple process and i can guide you with lots of examples given in my essays.
And all what i try to explain is that i’m not talking about rocket science ... but a simple method of becoming your own therapist ... cause remember .... in fact ... you are the best therapist you could find for yourself.
Will it be easy?!
Hell no.
Can anyone do it?!
Well ... maybe at the proper time ... we will all have the power to start this process.
So ... in case you are looking for tips and tricks for a better life ... the method of analyzing, defining and redefining ... might be the real key for the change.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
8
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
It’s nice to have friends of the
opposite sex. Helps you understand the other side much, much easier, but we should remember that we need to understand us first.
Paula was in love with Jerry, but Jerry was married.
And it was a funny situation .... cause Jerry’s wife was in love
with Oliver.
But Oliver was a friend of Paula and they were chatting a lot especially about those illicit love stories they were involved in.
Everything was a nonsense ... and they all were on a journey to a pathless path.
Soon all of them started to believe that life is not fair .... not
realizing that it never was and it will never be that way. But what they did not saw in this scenario from the timeline of their daily life ... was that in fact not life was unfair cause they let them fall in love .... being married with someone else ... but they were the ones not acting in a fair way.
Oliver and Paula were trying to define a lot the situation ...
and ask themselves why they could not have Jerry and his
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
9
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
wife ... if the love was so damm powerful.
Well ... even if they were trying to analyze so much what was going on ... feeling as victims of life ... they never had the courage to say that they were too cowards to divorce and start a new life.
Today i believe that life was not unfair.
At the right time ... it sent them in the right love story ... but you see .... the Universe is creating us the circumstances ...
and we are the ones that need to know how to act and decide if we really want that story in our lives.
Oliver was understanding from Paula the point of view of a woman and Paula was understanding the point of view of a man ... but they were still feeling that life was not fair.
It was much easier to think in that way ... than accepting that they were acting as some cowards that were afraid of change.
Divorce is easy nowadays.
Much easier as it was 100 years ago ... but the mind of the humans remained in the same blockage.
Oliver, Paula, Jerry ... his wife and all the others that are in the same position as them ... wanted just to taste the change ... not to do it for real.
Discussions between Paula and Oliver .... were helping them
to understand the philosophy of the other side and it was great ... but still neither of them could understand their own philosophy.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
10
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
There are different forms of art ....
but we should not judge our
preferences
Once upon a time there were 2 guys ... that loved money so much that for 20 years they forgot living and enjoying life ... because they were too busy trying to get rich.
And guess what?! ... they got all they wanted and became really wealthy persons ... but the difference between those 2 guys and other businessmen was that they also read philosophy.
And when i say that ... i mean hundreds or even thousands of books.
It was really funny ... cause after 20 years those 2 men realized that being blinded by the desire of getting rich ... they forgot to live and enjoy life.
Now ... close to 40 ... they started to look for ladies ... wanting to have those experiences that they could have at 20 or 30.
Was this written in the philosophy books they read for so many years?!
But why they realized it so late?!
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
11
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
Well .... they were chatting a lot ... trying to analyze and
define what they missed all those years ... and this is what they learnt from philosophy.
Somehow they wanted to redefine their lives ... near amazing ladies ... and were studying a lot the subject. In fact ... they were studying the art of admiring the feminine beauty and her impact on the a masculine spirit. They were looking to find the gateway to that reality that they could have years ago ... but missed the chance for it, because they were interested only about money.
It was funny watching 2 guys at 40 ... acting as 2 guys of 20 ... but maybe everything was a way of feeling as 20 when they were 40.
Should we judge them for doing that?!
Well ... there will be many people that will do that ....
watching them practicing this art of admiring beautiful ladies ... or even ignore the fact that this is an art ... but in the end ... we all miss lots or important things in life, then we come back in time and start to redefine the scenario. It fact everything becomes ... the art of redefining life.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
12
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
Nostalgia ... an effect of the fact that the story was so damm beautiful or ended too soon
... and you had the chance to see only its positive side
Viktor was a guy from Saint-Petersburg.
He used to work at the city hall ... but he was in fact a dreamer that was reading a lot of books.
He dreamed of a fairy tale with a lady that will infinitely love him ... and guess what?! ... one day the lady appeared in his life.
They had an amazing love story ... and Viktor thought that the theoretical concepts from his mind will help him continue the story ... but things were different.
He was loving Karemina a lot ... and even if he was trying to do everything properly .... they spoiled everything and the story ended.
It was the love of his life ... and it was the same for her ... but because we don’t understand that we can’t run our lives believing so much in theoretical concepts from books ... the
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
13
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
fairy tale ... ended.
They were suffering a lot.
In the beginning they thought it will take days to forget each other ... then after weeks it was the same. Months later ... the nostalgia was still present
One year after .... they were seeing everything in the same
way.
So ...?
Both of them started to analyze and define what was wrong that they fucked everything even if the story was so damm beautiful ... but it was useless.
Nothing could be changed anymore cause they were both married with someone else now.
Even if the nostalgia was present in their souls ... they thought that starting a new life will change the situation, but it was not like that.
Maybe they were not ready for being together even if they were ... soulmates.
So many explanations came when they analyzed and defined everything .... but the worst part was that they could not redefine the script anymore.
It was too late ... and their time was gone.
Today they only enjoyed the memories of a beautiful story ... balancing between contradictory emotions ... remembering the beautiful but also the dark side of the story. Could the script be rewritten?!
Maybe ... but Viktor did not realized that you can’t learn from books the art of acting with courage on the stage of life.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
14
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
You see ... the courage comes by itself ... but you need to believe in your dreams or desires ... and you will always get sooner or later what you want from life.
Viktor missed the chance of having Karemina for a lifetime ... in an amazing love story ... and nostalgia remained the only thing left for them ... but for all the ones that knows how to act on the stage of life ... nostalgia will never be accepted. Live it ... or forget about it!
Life is too short and too beautiful for useless regrets!
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
15
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
... tips and tricks for a better life
ANALYZE.
DEFINE.
REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
1
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
ADRIAN GABRIEL DUMITRU
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
Year: 2022
Author: Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
2
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
What makes people despair...??
Why people called life absurd ...???
I guess because...
We people are envelopes of
emotions.....
We are not conscious of the things
We desired....
It leads us to astray.....
We need to understand the
naturalness of perfect
perception ...
I analyse ...
We need to start revive our souls...
They ll collect wisdom...
They ll transform deep suffering
into deep peace...
ARIJ EMAAN
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
3
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
INTRODUCTION
by Nolene Sheppard
Analyse, Define, Re-define
Are you looking for a better life, one that is more fulfilling? It is often that we look for answers, answers on how to achieve this – answers relating to different themes – subject matters about health, work, relationships, friendships, passion; also themes of emotions such as love, hate, anger, joy, frustration, and happiness. I understand your search for a better life, and your desire to understand how to achieve this in the complex world we live in.
Could you have a better life right here and now? The answer is yes!
Questions that you should be asking yourself –:
What does a better life mean to me?
Is my response to life and daily activities a good one? How can I make it better?
Do I get the results I’m looking for?
Why do I do things the way I do?
Am I self-sabotaging myself from having that better life I dream of?
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
4
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
What limits my determined efforts to do right?
Actually - Who determines right and wrong for me?
Whom have I given permission to have control over my very existence and my ability to have a better life?
The questions go on and on. You are left in a state of confusion and haven’t gotten further.
To begin - You analyse, then define, then re-define.
To analyse is to understand. To analyse is for the search of meaning, of purpose, of reason. In search of your happiness, you need to understand yourself. Then you define - You define your thoughts and your perception of things. We then define our actions. Daily self-reflections are necessary as an important part of this process. “Appropriate or not appropriate? Could I have done this better – with more love, with more conviction, with more passion, with less intensity? With less thought? Am I overthinking? Who is the judge of all that I do? Am I my best critique?” – Personal questions with complex answers. Maybe it is just simple. Everything is quite simple once we know how.
You set your own standards based on your morals, ethics, culture, and experience. What is your intention for every action? You redefine again, and again and again, until every aspect is polish to your liking, not perfection, but it leads to a better being. The process is simple, and it repeats itself as you continue to seek to live the life of feeling at peace and in oneness with your spirit. It’s life evolution. You are forever
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
5
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
changing in thoughts, words, and deeds. Nothing remains the same. Nothing remains forever. Your ideology of a better life is changing too.
To live in true oneness of a truly better life, the mind, body, and soul must all be in alignment with the physical and spiritual world. The work in progress is daily, it’s constantly analysing, defining, and redefining all aspects of our being. Each day is therefore a perfect day in our own imperfection.
Let us look closer and deeper into how you can live your better life right here, right now.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
6
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
Analyze. Define. Redefine.
Tips and tricks for a better life
One day i realized that i have only one chance for changing my life .... and that was to become my own therapist.
I had no idea how i could do it ... but i knew i had to do it.
I was reading blogs.
Then books.
Then ... lots of books.
I found lots of ideas ... but not the secret to heal myself. It was quite annoying to be on a journey to a pathless path ... and it was in fact even worst.
I was trying to hide that by myself ... which was quite ridiculous.
And i continued like this for years.
I knew something was wrong ... but did not decided to start a process of analyzing and defining what was going on.
In fact ... i could not accept the fact that there was so much junk in my life ... but in the end seeing no way out from a miserable reality .... i said to myself .... “maybe the time for
that has come. I need to be brave enough to analyze all the details that actually define my past, my present and the possible near future.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
7
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
And i am laughing today ... looking back at the beginning of this process ... remembering about how i was lying to myself. Instead of telling the truth ... not to the others ... but to myself ... i was hiding all kinds of obvious things and situations .... and truth be told .... it was absolutely ridiculous.
But the good part is that i continued this journey of trying to find myself.
I realized that the real trick for changing our lives is to ... first stop from running away from our souls ... then start to analyze, define and in the end redefine everything around ... all what we name ... life.
It’s a quite a simple process and i can guide you with lots of examples given in my essays.
And all what i try to explain is that i’m not talking about rocket science ... but a simple method of becoming your own therapist ... cause remember .... in fact ... you are the best therapist you could find for yourself.
Will it be easy?!
Hell no.
Can anyone do it?!
Well ... maybe at the proper time ... we will all have the power to start this process.
So ... in case you are looking for tips and tricks for a better life ... the method of analyzing, defining and redefining ... might be the real key for the change.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
8
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
It’s nice to have friends of the
opposite sex. Helps you understand the other side much, much easier, but we should remember that we need to understand us first.
Paula was in love with Jerry, but Jerry was married.
And it was a funny situation .... cause Jerry’s wife was in love
with Oliver.
But Oliver was a friend of Paula and they were chatting a lot especially about those illicit love stories they were involved in.
Everything was a nonsense ... and they all were on a journey to a pathless path.
Soon all of them started to believe that life is not fair .... not
realizing that it never was and it will never be that way. But what they did not saw in this scenario from the timeline of their daily life ... was that in fact not life was unfair cause they let them fall in love .... being married with someone else ... but they were the ones not acting in a fair way.
Oliver and Paula were trying to define a lot the situation ...
and ask themselves why they could not have Jerry and his
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
9
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
wife ... if the love was so damm powerful.
Well ... even if they were trying to analyze so much what was going on ... feeling as victims of life ... they never had the courage to say that they were too cowards to divorce and start a new life.
Today i believe that life was not unfair.
At the right time ... it sent them in the right love story ... but you see .... the Universe is creating us the circumstances ...
and we are the ones that need to know how to act and decide if we really want that story in our lives.
Oliver was understanding from Paula the point of view of a woman and Paula was understanding the point of view of a man ... but they were still feeling that life was not fair.
It was much easier to think in that way ... than accepting that they were acting as some cowards that were afraid of change.
Divorce is easy nowadays.
Much easier as it was 100 years ago ... but the mind of the humans remained in the same blockage.
Oliver, Paula, Jerry ... his wife and all the others that are in the same position as them ... wanted just to taste the change ... not to do it for real.
Discussions between Paula and Oliver .... were helping them
to understand the philosophy of the other side and it was great ... but still neither of them could understand their own philosophy.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
10
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
There are different forms of art ....
but we should not judge our
preferences
Once upon a time there were 2 guys ... that loved money so much that for 20 years they forgot living and enjoying life ... because they were too busy trying to get rich.
And guess what?! ... they got all they wanted and became really wealthy persons ... but the difference between those 2 guys and other businessmen was that they also read philosophy.
And when i say that ... i mean hundreds or even thousands of books.
It was really funny ... cause after 20 years those 2 men realized that being blinded by the desire of getting rich ... they forgot to live and enjoy life.
Now ... close to 40 ... they started to look for ladies ... wanting to have those experiences that they could have at 20 or 30.
Was this written in the philosophy books they read for so many years?!
But why they realized it so late?!
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
11
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
Well .... they were chatting a lot ... trying to analyze and
define what they missed all those years ... and this is what they learnt from philosophy.
Somehow they wanted to redefine their lives ... near amazing ladies ... and were studying a lot the subject. In fact ... they were studying the art of admiring the feminine beauty and her impact on the a masculine spirit. They were looking to find the gateway to that reality that they could have years ago ... but missed the chance for it, because they were interested only about money.
It was funny watching 2 guys at 40 ... acting as 2 guys of 20 ... but maybe everything was a way of feeling as 20 when they were 40.
Should we judge them for doing that?!
Well ... there will be many people that will do that ....
watching them practicing this art of admiring beautiful ladies ... or even ignore the fact that this is an art ... but in the end ... we all miss lots or important things in life, then we come back in time and start to redefine the scenario. It fact everything becomes ... the art of redefining life.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
12
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
Nostalgia ... an effect of the fact that the story was so damm beautiful or ended too soon
... and you had the chance to see only its positive side
Viktor was a guy from Saint-Petersburg.
He used to work at the city hall ... but he was in fact a dreamer that was reading a lot of books.
He dreamed of a fairy tale with a lady that will infinitely love him ... and guess what?! ... one day the lady appeared in his life.
They had an amazing love story ... and Viktor thought that the theoretical concepts from his mind will help him continue the story ... but things were different.
He was loving Karemina a lot ... and even if he was trying to do everything properly .... they spoiled everything and the story ended.
It was the love of his life ... and it was the same for her ... but because we don’t understand that we can’t run our lives believing so much in theoretical concepts from books ... the
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
13
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
fairy tale ... ended.
They were suffering a lot.
In the beginning they thought it will take days to forget each other ... then after weeks it was the same. Months later ... the nostalgia was still present
One year after .... they were seeing everything in the same
way.
So ...?
Both of them started to analyze and define what was wrong that they fucked everything even if the story was so damm beautiful ... but it was useless.
Nothing could be changed anymore cause they were both married with someone else now.
Even if the nostalgia was present in their souls ... they thought that starting a new life will change the situation, but it was not like that.
Maybe they were not ready for being together even if they were ... soulmates.
So many explanations came when they analyzed and defined everything .... but the worst part was that they could not redefine the script anymore.
It was too late ... and their time was gone.
Today they only enjoyed the memories of a beautiful story ... balancing between contradictory emotions ... remembering the beautiful but also the dark side of the story. Could the script be rewritten?!
Maybe ... but Viktor did not realized that you can’t learn from books the art of acting with courage on the stage of life.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
14
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
You see ... the courage comes by itself ... but you need to believe in your dreams or desires ... and you will always get sooner or later what you want from life.
Viktor missed the chance of having Karemina for a lifetime ... in an amazing love story ... and nostalgia remained the only thing left for them ... but for all the ones that knows how to act on the stage of life ... nostalgia will never be accepted. Live it ... or forget about it!
Life is too short and too beautiful for useless regrets!
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
15
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
