Truth might hurt,
but lies destroy
It’s not that we dislike the truth , or we are liars ... but sometimes the truth is so powerful that we don’t have any power to confront it.
And what we do ... in an amazing way ... is that we hide it and we even do our best to totally forget about it. Lies appear as a way of avoiding the real ... reality.
And we become liars .... not because we want ... or we like
that, but because we try to protect ourselves from seeing the truth.
It all becomes ... a nonsense.
We analyzed in an automatic unconscious way the whole script from the present moment .... but if we define our lives in a honest way ... it will hurt a lot.
The pain will certainly appear and will be difficult to handle it ... but this will be the reason why lies might appear as an illusory way of protecting us ... at least for a while.
And we start lying ... the others from our lives and even ourselves.
Soon after ... again in an illusory way .... we start to believe
that in time things will be ok, ignoring that lies can’t really save us.
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And we lie more and more ... just to continue the actual script from the present moment.
We cheat or we are cheated by the partner ... but we protect
everything with daily lies.
Today one lie.
Tomorrow another one.
And the day after tomorrow ... we become experts in that. In fact we become experts ... in avoiding the truth ... by the help of lies.
Time is passing ... and we suddenly realize that we actually became addicted to the habit of lying ... and there is almost no way out of this illusory world that we had been created.
Or ... if it is ... that should be telling the truth ... and nothing by the truth ... but also accept all the consequences that will appear in that moment.
And the day we say stop to the addiction for lies ... the truth is revealed.
It will hurt a lot ... but is the truth .. the real reality ... not the one from our minds.
In a moment of awakening we suddenly realize that we actually destroyed everything with the lies and is not that we lied everyone around us ... but we lied even ourselves.
So ... we finally had the gut to say it ... defining the real truth ... but maybe is already too late.
The only thing left to do ... is redefining the whole script and totally forget the lies, all the events from the past and everything else.
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And we see a simple law of the real life ... truth might hurt, but lies destroy.
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Mental health is one of the main important things that we should pay attention to.
I see more and more people around me that pay lots of attention to what they eat, to what they drink or ... to the quality of environment where they live.
Don’t get me wrong ... it’s quite ok ... but if i start to analyze and define those people ... in small details ... i suddenly realize that they missed the essential.
I see them how they lose their temper, how they don’t respect the simplicity asked by the laws of the Universe ...
not realizing that this is just a simple requirement for a life lived in harmony.
And still ... if you have to meet them ... you’ll me amazed of the long talks about the influence of everything we put inside of us ... but being totally blinded at the power of the thoughts and ideas that comes from the world where we live in.
We actually see life as primitive beings, same as people from thousands of years ago.
And truth be told .... we could be defined as ignorants .... or
even idiots ... if we don’t have the power to see that the
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power of the thoughts is much powerful than the things that are needed as the human being to survive physically. I maybe did the same as all those people.
I am a vegetarian ... don’t smoke, don’t drink alcohol anymore ... and still i find it useless. I am not yet on the right path.
Recently i realized the fact that the way i react on the stage of reality is actually a reflection of the spiritual stage where i am now ... and tells everything about my mental health. The way i act.
The way i react.
The way i handle the overreactions from the other side ... but also my overreactions.
The collapse of my thoughts.
Those things defines together my mental health, the fact that i live or not in harmony and in fact makes everything else irrelevant.
Today i don’t care anymore that i don’t smoke, don’t drink alcohol .... or that i am vegetarian ... and i smile in front of
all the ones that tells me the importance of that ... but i keep analyzing on and on and on the status of all the attributes that defines my mental health.
So ... do i run on automatic pilot ... and everything runs
perfect?!
Hahaha
Hell .... no.
But i started to pay a huge attention to those things ... and
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every time i over react ... i realize something is wrong ... and i need to redefine the whole scene.
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When you see the worst version of yourself ... it’s time to leave
You see ... you are not defined by what you usually say about yourself.
You are not even defined by your thoughts.
Of course that all those elements reflects a part of your being ... but what really defines you ... are your reactions in worst case scenarios.
And when i say this i am thinking ... at all the weird events that life has to offer us in different forms ... from the worst ones as the cases of the people that went in nazi concentration camps for example ... and ending with the bad luck of the ones that had a car accident with their amazing Bentley or Rolls-Royce.
I actually speak about nightmares ...
Of course ... there are millions or billions of other types of worst case scenarios ... that in fact are just silly events from life ... but we see them in such a personal way ... that if we are great story tellers ... the story itself can be much dramatic as the ones from a war.
But i am smiling writing all these ... because the story is not
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about an event ... but about our reactions at that event ...
that took us to the limits of life.
And those reactions ... defines the stage where we are ...
mentally, philosophically ... but also spiritually.
I know we have a tendency of analyzing and defining the others ... but i try the opposite ... to analyze myself ....
because i know that this will help me a lot to evolve as a soul.
I look at my reactions ... especially at the weird or the negative ones.
... and i keep wondering why i acted that way?!
In many ... many ... in fact too many cases ... i act as a primitive being ... even if i try by so much time to redefine my personality into a positive way.
I really hate when i have days when i show the worst version of myself ... but those days exists ... and unfortunately i can’t hide them anymore.
But i started to accept the fact that i have a beautiful ... and also a dark side.
Each time when my ugly personality is activated ... i decided
to leave and come back just when i am ready to act again in
that scene.
Is that wise?!
Well ... don’t even care how it looks like ... the way i act ...
but is probably the best thing i can do.
I leave ... i visualize again the whole scene ... i analyze everything ... i define all the details ... then hope that i will have the power to redefine everything.
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I always lie to myself
... but i wonder why?!
Maybe is something about motivation that i got wrong
I lied to myself so many times in life.
Maybe too many times.
It was somehow a confusion between optimism and the fact that i was not realizing that i don’t need so many things in life to be happy.
I started to analyze all what was happening ... why i was happy, why i was not .... why i wanted so many things in my life ... why, why, why ...
Studied lots of books about motivation and thought that i am in a position in life when i can have absolutely everything i want.
And what i actually did ... was to wish lots of things that in the past i could not dream for.
One by one my desires became real.
All that collection of illusory dreams .... became more an
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effect of the fact that i studied motivation and i understood how i could make for real everything i wanted. But did I really wanted those things?!
... or i was just lying to myself?!
But when i understood that all those desires where not making me happy .. and are just pathless paths that i was following ... just because i thought i have to have all what the others wanted ... i actually got the message from life. Motivation learnt me a lot ... with its techniques how to achieve my dreams ... but i also had to learn the art of defining very clear all those dreams ... if they were mine or not.
I was sure that i was not following my real path in life ... and i lost so much time ... while i was lying to myself for years. But i am still happy that after such a long journey ... i could redefine the way i was acting in front of the desires ... in fact my desires.
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Karma can be an event or a series of events ... that seem endless ...
but aimed at making us understand the fundamental laws of the Universe
I look around ... and I smile.
I look at myself ... watching my actions ... and laugh. Then I stop, realizing that all we do ... both me ... and everyone else I see present on the stage of my life ... is to try
Illusory to fool the Universe.
We believe that we have a kind of nobility that allows us to be immune from obedience to spiritual laws.
We consider that we deserve everything that is better and more beautiful. ... but acting in a way that shows a stupid pampering of the Ego.
We ask the Universe to show us its beautiful side ... while we display only our dark side.
Anchored in a stupid frequency of negativity, we illusory hope that the scene of life will present only elements of positivity.
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But the universe leaves us alone.
It is forgiving.
Somehow he lets us do our number, hoping that we will still
redefine our naive idioms.
But indulgence is useless.
We are unable to understand the importance of following the laws of the universe in which we live.
Somehow ... if we had the strength to understand them ... it would be easier ... but the mental cocktail in our minds ...
this stupid combination of ignorance, stupidity and wickedness ... to make us live in the illusion that we have immunity in everything we do.
Nothing wrong ... but we continue in this direction ....
without stopping.
And everything was simple.
Don't do what you don't like to be done.
Or ... behave in the real world ... just as you would expect others to treat you.
But I know ... it's too simple ... to understand such a fact. In fact, these laws, like many of the laws of society, are made exclusively to protect us in the first place. The answer of the Universe comes late.
Very late.
Suddenly we begin to feel overwhelmed by events ... that seem foreign to what we actually wanted to see on the stage of life.
It can be a single event ... or even a series of events ...
difficult to understand and especially to accept.
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The universe is starting to look ... unfriendly.
Really very ... unfriendly.
But we refuse to understand the message ... transmitted so abstractly.
Although everything is a lesson ... we see reality as something very painful, not realizing that the only purpose is to understand the laws and how everything actually works. But we refuse to give up ignorance and stupidity ... looking at everything with even greater wickedness.
We don't understand that getting out of that hostile reality can be done ... by analyzing, defining ... and then redefining our thoughts and behavior.
Alignment with the real values of the universe in which we live is the path to a beautiful reality.
What we call karma is just going through a transformative process ... with the simple role of making us align with the beautiful side of humanity.
When karma is present on the stage of life ... there is no turning back.
We have to decide the real values to follow.
It will be difficult to accept in the first place ... but not impossible.
It all comes down to a decision ... the decision to understand the world we live in.
His spiritual laws ... and their pursuit ... become the key to getting out of karmic tests.
Redefining itself ... starts with redefining ourselves as beings ... as the end to see everything redefined in a way
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that pleases our soul.
Not being blind ... spiritually speaking ... can be one of our spiritual obligations ... but it's all a decision.
And the decision itself ... comes down to spiritual awakening ... karma being the factor that guides us on that path.
It seems abstract ... that it's all about the cause and effect ...
but once the karmic process begins ... things are serious.
The patience of the Universe ... has disappeared ... and our
only chance becomes exclusively understanding and
alignment with the fundamental values of the Divine Spirit.
Analyze your life.
Define it.
But once you understand everything that is ok and what is not ok ... reconsider everything ... still meaning ... everything related to the soul that is in us.
The insanity of the spirit ... thus becomes the main goal of our life.
In the end we will understand that following this path we do it voluntarily ... or through a painful or even very painful karmic process.
