But i knew i had to be neutral .. so i asked him ... “Listen to me! You never beat your wife?! They all deserve to be beaten! Don’t you think so?!”
I never agreed violence, but i had to close the discussion with him ... in a polite way.
Hearing that ... the guy said: “Yes! You are right! I divorced 2 times. The first was a bitch and the second one a whore. I was beating both of them for years.
You know ... in the country side is quite ok to beat your wife. No one judges you, but i thought things are different in here, cause we are close to the capital of the country.
I am sure the guy is right ... if he is beating his wife every night.
He is doing something that i’ve done also ... and i need to be by his side and don’t judge him.
I am sorry for bothering you with this.
Am leaving to the city now ... have a good day!” I was smiling ... seeing his reaction.
I could stay the whole day with him ... analyze and define the situation, but i am sure i could not redefine the things regarding the tenants from the other unit.
But i was laughing because of this man that was seeing morality from outside ... analyzing the same episodes from his life ... but with different characters on the timeline.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
59
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
To understand life .... make
experiments ... but test everything on yourself.
You will understand things
much easier.
In my opinion, after reading a lot ... i started to believe that it’s not that we should not read books to understand what life is about, but we should keep the right balance between study the theoretical concepts and living the life for real.
And i also believe that is quite easy to analyze and define the others .... but everything will remain on a theoretical level ...
cause whatever we would believe, just in a small percentage of the cases we will be able to redefine the script of the real life.
The best experiment ... when we have a vision about life is to ... test our theoretical concepts mainly on ourselves.
We will feel the impact right away ... having a clear feed back from the inner self.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
60
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
Everything will be revealed to us ... if it is the right or the wrong path ... and we will see the future much easier. But we should always keep in mind the right balance between theory and practice.
Books will show us ... different paths.
Real life ... will present to us life lessons and following the intuition ... we might probably have the awakening moment that will tell us the secrets about real values that we should have in mind for the best scenario for ourselves.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
61
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
I was wondering ... should we bother to give Christmas presents?! Sounds as a nonsense question ... but …
I believe that offering Christmas presents is almost a
cliche ... as long as we can’t do it with all the people from the timeline of our lives.
I would love to have the power to make an experiment and send this year some nice presents to all my enemies and all the ones that drove me crazy this year. Imagine the surprise ... of doing that.
I really believe that if we really want a change with ourselves
... we should start to do things in a totally different way ...
and surprising in a beautiful way all the people that we dislike and that dislike us ... is maybe an interesting experiment for all of us.
So ... should i bother to buy silly presents for the people that i like, following a simple cliche ... or try the trick of connecting with all those people that i could not succeed to have a good connection by giving them a Christmas present?!
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
62
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
What should make more sense?!
I have many moments when i analyze and define everything means ... dogmatism in my life ... and Christmas is one of them ... but i try to redefine it in a way ... that would surprise to myself also.
I am curious if i will do it .... because i am quite good when it
comes about theory, but not so good about practice ... but i still hope at a change ... a real big one ... that should come from my soul and redefine me as a human being.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
63
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
“I was fucking my vibe on simple things ... so i was not having full control on myself ... at least not yet”
I realized by i long time that i have a good and a bad side ... but even if i read it in so many books as a confirmation ... i did not really understood what is this story about.
One of the biggest mistakes that i’ve done over the years is that even if i was starting my days on a positive vibe, everything was always fucked up over the day in a silly way. I can give you a huge list with reasons why it happened, but it happened so many times ... that i actually realized that i was ruining my life like that.
One day i decided to stop and start to analyze what was going on.
But when i started to define situations .... i just did not liked
the conclusions ... and i stoped.
I saw the buttons that the others were pushing to destroy my vibe .... but i was not ready to start the journey on the path of healing.
And my life was ruining more and more.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
64
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
While analyzing i saw inside of me an angel ... but also a daemon ... and all those people that drove me crazy over the years ... including my wife, my kids, my family, my friends ...
the people i disliked ... and all my enemies ... they were actually activating the daemon from inside of me.
And once activated .... i became a wild person.
It was a personality that i totally disliked ... but that was me on the scene of my life ... acting as an idiot. I had no control over the daemon.
But it was even worst ... it was not only one daemon. There were many of them inside of me and all those people that were fucking my vibe ... took to the surface all those silly reflections from myself.
And one day ... i realized that i own a collection of daemons .... but they were dominating my life. I had to redefine the script of my life.
I really had to do it, cause otherwise i would become a ruin. Lots of small things were destroying my vibe and i had no control over the situation.
I had to accept the truth and find a way to stop seeing how i am ruining myself ... and the only chance of doing that was to control all those daemons that i had inside of me.
I started to smile to all the people that were pushing my “fucking vibe” buttons ... and became ignorant, but also tolerant.
I saw that what i defined as enemy ... was actually a teacher .... the one that was actually teaching me how to gain the control on myself.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
65
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
I did not need to control the world around me, but just to have real control over the whole spectrum of my personalities.
And .... i started the process of redefining myself ... and
actually the process of healing.
It was funny losing so much time in the illusion.
I was connected to beautiful vibes and i let so many times the ones from my life ... destroy my days.
I was doing that for years ... and i was only a decision away to stop that ugly story.
Later on ... feeling better ... i realized that i also have an angel inside of my soul.
I totally forgot about duality ... and i knew it ... but ... i was blind.
Finally the message came to me ... and i decided to focus more on the angels and ignore all those silly daemons.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
66
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
Christmas is an amazing holiday. It’s mainly about saying stop to our dark side ... and show to everybody that even if does not look as that ... we also have a beautiful side.
Imagine we should analyze more what is Christmas about and define all its aspects.
And after meditating a lot ... remembering what happened the whole year ... seeing all the moments when we’ve been dominated by the dark side of us ... but also realizing that a change is actually a must ... at least for a day in a year ... in the Christmas day ... we should redefine us, in a beautiful day.
The snow, the songs ... seeing the people smiling all around ... makes us have the faith that we can be better human beings ... at least for a day ... in a year.
We smile ... and hope the magic will continue much longer after the Christmas ... but guess what?!
One day later .... we totally forget everything.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
67
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
But why?!
Why do we need a holiday to make us be better beings?! Why can’t we show that we have a light side all the time?! Why we don’t change a little bit the mental software that is dominating our way of acting on the stage of life?!
... and actually start to act in a beautiful way ... in all the other days of the year.
Well maybe Christmas is a one day lesson ... maybe it’s about making us understand that life can be fulfilled with .... magic.
But whatever it is about ... understanding that a beautiful change should appear in our way of being ... is probably the most important message for us.
So ... dare to redefine yourself ... be a good person ... with positives vibes all the time ... and actually be a spark ... in a world that looks so damm dark. Redefine yourself and keep that path!
You ... as the rest of us ... need a beautiful change ... but not only for the Christmas day.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
68
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
The illusory dream and vision ... about Santa
We have a dogmatic vision about how Santa Claus is looking like ... but i’ve been discussing with many of my friends that are actually more than 40 years old ... and after analyzing and defining this illusory concept ... we decided that we have the right to redefine the image of Santa.
You see all men between 40 and 50 ... they are kind of community ... even if we don’t know each other so well. Same as AA ... or gay ... or motorcycle lovers communities ... we have another vision about reality ... our own philosophy ... but also our dreams.
You see a man about our age ... already made enough money, had success ... had achieved many of his dreams ... except one ... that today became a forbidden desire.
Being married ... with kids ... feeling trapped like in a prison with invisible wall ... the man passed by 40 .... still has a dream.
We dream on kind of an angel ... a young beautiful girl ... probably of 20 ... or not more than 25 ... that will make us believe in magic one more time.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
69
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
When we were boys ... we believed in Santa Claus ... but now we have a different version about the subject.
Santa ... is a young beautiful lady ... that is making us feel so damm alive.
Might sound as illusory ... but many of us ... from this community ... reached a point when we feel that we have everything ... but we actually don’t have anything at all ... because we don’t feel alive anymore.
The angel ... is missing ... or if she is present in our lives ...
she appears as a mistress that we hide from the others ... so
that they don’t judge us.
But why to judge us?!
Because someone is still making us believe in magic?! ...
same as Santa succeeded many, many years ago.
Well ... i had the guts today to write about our real hidden desires ... but it’s a true fact.
The human being ... needs someone to remind that life can be magical.
We should not be ashamed of that and don’t bother to redefine this dream after seeing how the others are analyzing and defining us.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
70
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
Damm it ... i knew it ...
Love ... is the path
I love coffee.
I sometimes wonder what i love most ... coffee or sex?!
I am for the moment in a life chapter were i experience all types of weird things on myself.
I don’t eat for days ... i totally disconnect from the news ... i remove from my life all the people i interacted with into the past ... but i still have an abstract desire ... to live a happy life.
The problem is that i’ve got no idea how a happy life would look like.
I am daily analyzing and defining my life ... and am trying to find the answer ... but still i could not redefine my life into an amazing way.
Yes ... i wanted not a life ... but an amazing life ... and i was doing miserable.
I was on a pathless path ... and realizing it gave me a bad vibe all the time.
But inside of me i was having the faith ... that i will receive a special message from the Universe ... that will reveal me the right path to follow.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
71
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
I knew that the Universe was always talking to us into an abstract way ... but many, many times i ignored that. ... and on the Easter my house was on fire.
On the roof appeared a ... heart.
... but i ignored it.
On the Christmas day ... while drinking my coffee ... a heart appeared again on my cup of coffee. I could not believe it.
So ... the heart was the problem.
The message was clear ... but i was too blind to see it.
I had to fix ... my heart ... and had no idea how could i do that.
... it was so damm simple.
I just had to open it ... to everybody.
Treat with love all the people from my life ... friends, relatives, my kids, my wife, my mistress ... my enemies and all the others that were driving me crazy over the years. Love was the answer ... and the path to follow.
Damm it ... why it took it so long to understand that?! Most probably ... most of the others are living ... same as i live ... in ignorance.
Just think about it ... and try to redefine your life.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
72
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
Abstract karma .... having
everything, but feeling that they actually have nothing at all
I’ve been watching on different movies with the world war
I never agreed violence, but i had to close the discussion with him ... in a polite way.
Hearing that ... the guy said: “Yes! You are right! I divorced 2 times. The first was a bitch and the second one a whore. I was beating both of them for years.
You know ... in the country side is quite ok to beat your wife. No one judges you, but i thought things are different in here, cause we are close to the capital of the country.
I am sure the guy is right ... if he is beating his wife every night.
He is doing something that i’ve done also ... and i need to be by his side and don’t judge him.
I am sorry for bothering you with this.
Am leaving to the city now ... have a good day!” I was smiling ... seeing his reaction.
I could stay the whole day with him ... analyze and define the situation, but i am sure i could not redefine the things regarding the tenants from the other unit.
But i was laughing because of this man that was seeing morality from outside ... analyzing the same episodes from his life ... but with different characters on the timeline.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
59
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
To understand life .... make
experiments ... but test everything on yourself.
You will understand things
much easier.
In my opinion, after reading a lot ... i started to believe that it’s not that we should not read books to understand what life is about, but we should keep the right balance between study the theoretical concepts and living the life for real.
And i also believe that is quite easy to analyze and define the others .... but everything will remain on a theoretical level ...
cause whatever we would believe, just in a small percentage of the cases we will be able to redefine the script of the real life.
The best experiment ... when we have a vision about life is to ... test our theoretical concepts mainly on ourselves.
We will feel the impact right away ... having a clear feed back from the inner self.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
60
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
Everything will be revealed to us ... if it is the right or the wrong path ... and we will see the future much easier. But we should always keep in mind the right balance between theory and practice.
Books will show us ... different paths.
Real life ... will present to us life lessons and following the intuition ... we might probably have the awakening moment that will tell us the secrets about real values that we should have in mind for the best scenario for ourselves.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
61
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
I was wondering ... should we bother to give Christmas presents?! Sounds as a nonsense question ... but …
I believe that offering Christmas presents is almost a
cliche ... as long as we can’t do it with all the people from the timeline of our lives.
I would love to have the power to make an experiment and send this year some nice presents to all my enemies and all the ones that drove me crazy this year. Imagine the surprise ... of doing that.
I really believe that if we really want a change with ourselves
... we should start to do things in a totally different way ...
and surprising in a beautiful way all the people that we dislike and that dislike us ... is maybe an interesting experiment for all of us.
So ... should i bother to buy silly presents for the people that i like, following a simple cliche ... or try the trick of connecting with all those people that i could not succeed to have a good connection by giving them a Christmas present?!
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
62
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
What should make more sense?!
I have many moments when i analyze and define everything means ... dogmatism in my life ... and Christmas is one of them ... but i try to redefine it in a way ... that would surprise to myself also.
I am curious if i will do it .... because i am quite good when it
comes about theory, but not so good about practice ... but i still hope at a change ... a real big one ... that should come from my soul and redefine me as a human being.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
63
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
“I was fucking my vibe on simple things ... so i was not having full control on myself ... at least not yet”
I realized by i long time that i have a good and a bad side ... but even if i read it in so many books as a confirmation ... i did not really understood what is this story about.
One of the biggest mistakes that i’ve done over the years is that even if i was starting my days on a positive vibe, everything was always fucked up over the day in a silly way. I can give you a huge list with reasons why it happened, but it happened so many times ... that i actually realized that i was ruining my life like that.
One day i decided to stop and start to analyze what was going on.
But when i started to define situations .... i just did not liked
the conclusions ... and i stoped.
I saw the buttons that the others were pushing to destroy my vibe .... but i was not ready to start the journey on the path of healing.
And my life was ruining more and more.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
64
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
While analyzing i saw inside of me an angel ... but also a daemon ... and all those people that drove me crazy over the years ... including my wife, my kids, my family, my friends ...
the people i disliked ... and all my enemies ... they were actually activating the daemon from inside of me.
And once activated .... i became a wild person.
It was a personality that i totally disliked ... but that was me on the scene of my life ... acting as an idiot. I had no control over the daemon.
But it was even worst ... it was not only one daemon. There were many of them inside of me and all those people that were fucking my vibe ... took to the surface all those silly reflections from myself.
And one day ... i realized that i own a collection of daemons .... but they were dominating my life. I had to redefine the script of my life.
I really had to do it, cause otherwise i would become a ruin. Lots of small things were destroying my vibe and i had no control over the situation.
I had to accept the truth and find a way to stop seeing how i am ruining myself ... and the only chance of doing that was to control all those daemons that i had inside of me.
I started to smile to all the people that were pushing my “fucking vibe” buttons ... and became ignorant, but also tolerant.
I saw that what i defined as enemy ... was actually a teacher .... the one that was actually teaching me how to gain the control on myself.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
65
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
I did not need to control the world around me, but just to have real control over the whole spectrum of my personalities.
And .... i started the process of redefining myself ... and
actually the process of healing.
It was funny losing so much time in the illusion.
I was connected to beautiful vibes and i let so many times the ones from my life ... destroy my days.
I was doing that for years ... and i was only a decision away to stop that ugly story.
Later on ... feeling better ... i realized that i also have an angel inside of my soul.
I totally forgot about duality ... and i knew it ... but ... i was blind.
Finally the message came to me ... and i decided to focus more on the angels and ignore all those silly daemons.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
66
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
Christmas is an amazing holiday. It’s mainly about saying stop to our dark side ... and show to everybody that even if does not look as that ... we also have a beautiful side.
Imagine we should analyze more what is Christmas about and define all its aspects.
And after meditating a lot ... remembering what happened the whole year ... seeing all the moments when we’ve been dominated by the dark side of us ... but also realizing that a change is actually a must ... at least for a day in a year ... in the Christmas day ... we should redefine us, in a beautiful day.
The snow, the songs ... seeing the people smiling all around ... makes us have the faith that we can be better human beings ... at least for a day ... in a year.
We smile ... and hope the magic will continue much longer after the Christmas ... but guess what?!
One day later .... we totally forget everything.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
67
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
But why?!
Why do we need a holiday to make us be better beings?! Why can’t we show that we have a light side all the time?! Why we don’t change a little bit the mental software that is dominating our way of acting on the stage of life?!
... and actually start to act in a beautiful way ... in all the other days of the year.
Well maybe Christmas is a one day lesson ... maybe it’s about making us understand that life can be fulfilled with .... magic.
But whatever it is about ... understanding that a beautiful change should appear in our way of being ... is probably the most important message for us.
So ... dare to redefine yourself ... be a good person ... with positives vibes all the time ... and actually be a spark ... in a world that looks so damm dark. Redefine yourself and keep that path!
You ... as the rest of us ... need a beautiful change ... but not only for the Christmas day.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
68
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
The illusory dream and vision ... about Santa
We have a dogmatic vision about how Santa Claus is looking like ... but i’ve been discussing with many of my friends that are actually more than 40 years old ... and after analyzing and defining this illusory concept ... we decided that we have the right to redefine the image of Santa.
You see all men between 40 and 50 ... they are kind of community ... even if we don’t know each other so well. Same as AA ... or gay ... or motorcycle lovers communities ... we have another vision about reality ... our own philosophy ... but also our dreams.
You see a man about our age ... already made enough money, had success ... had achieved many of his dreams ... except one ... that today became a forbidden desire.
Being married ... with kids ... feeling trapped like in a prison with invisible wall ... the man passed by 40 .... still has a dream.
We dream on kind of an angel ... a young beautiful girl ... probably of 20 ... or not more than 25 ... that will make us believe in magic one more time.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
69
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
When we were boys ... we believed in Santa Claus ... but now we have a different version about the subject.
Santa ... is a young beautiful lady ... that is making us feel so damm alive.
Might sound as illusory ... but many of us ... from this community ... reached a point when we feel that we have everything ... but we actually don’t have anything at all ... because we don’t feel alive anymore.
The angel ... is missing ... or if she is present in our lives ...
she appears as a mistress that we hide from the others ... so
that they don’t judge us.
But why to judge us?!
Because someone is still making us believe in magic?! ...
same as Santa succeeded many, many years ago.
Well ... i had the guts today to write about our real hidden desires ... but it’s a true fact.
The human being ... needs someone to remind that life can be magical.
We should not be ashamed of that and don’t bother to redefine this dream after seeing how the others are analyzing and defining us.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
70
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
Damm it ... i knew it ...
Love ... is the path
I love coffee.
I sometimes wonder what i love most ... coffee or sex?!
I am for the moment in a life chapter were i experience all types of weird things on myself.
I don’t eat for days ... i totally disconnect from the news ... i remove from my life all the people i interacted with into the past ... but i still have an abstract desire ... to live a happy life.
The problem is that i’ve got no idea how a happy life would look like.
I am daily analyzing and defining my life ... and am trying to find the answer ... but still i could not redefine my life into an amazing way.
Yes ... i wanted not a life ... but an amazing life ... and i was doing miserable.
I was on a pathless path ... and realizing it gave me a bad vibe all the time.
But inside of me i was having the faith ... that i will receive a special message from the Universe ... that will reveal me the right path to follow.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
71
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
I knew that the Universe was always talking to us into an abstract way ... but many, many times i ignored that. ... and on the Easter my house was on fire.
On the roof appeared a ... heart.
... but i ignored it.
On the Christmas day ... while drinking my coffee ... a heart appeared again on my cup of coffee. I could not believe it.
So ... the heart was the problem.
The message was clear ... but i was too blind to see it.
I had to fix ... my heart ... and had no idea how could i do that.
... it was so damm simple.
I just had to open it ... to everybody.
Treat with love all the people from my life ... friends, relatives, my kids, my wife, my mistress ... my enemies and all the others that were driving me crazy over the years. Love was the answer ... and the path to follow.
Damm it ... why it took it so long to understand that?! Most probably ... most of the others are living ... same as i live ... in ignorance.
Just think about it ... and try to redefine your life.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
72
ANALYZE. DEFINE. REDEFINE.
... tips and tricks for a better life
Abstract karma .... having
everything, but feeling that they actually have nothing at all
I’ve been watching on different movies with the world war
