analyze, define and then redefine your life ... but he was somehow pushing the stop button ... when it came about redefining and all looked like an eternal funeral.
I started to understand what my friend wanted to tell me ... but i was wondering if it really existed a way in how i could help him.
He was speaking to me in a nice abstract way ... somehow protecting me of the sensation of hearing it as a complain. Actually the guy was on a good spiritual level ... and i suddenly understood that he is not in a karmic process ... but he is living the test of illusions ... which i believe today that is a great one ... if you see its importance.
So ... instead of writing him back ... i called him asking ... “Can you please tell me what is the reason that you don’t stop this eternal funeral day?!
I mean ... just bury all that negativity from your life ... and then totally redefine the meaning of your days.
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You can live like in a funeral day for the rest of your life.”
I hear him ... smiling ... then replies:
“Listen to me! I tried and tried and tried ... but i can’t get rid of this situation. All the days look the same ... and i can’t see any other future.
Can’t see any possibility ... just can’t really see it!”. The guy was stuck ... in the middle of some negative energies and his life looked really ugly ... but what was the solution?!
Could i help him?!
Why he appeared in my life ... so that i can help him ... if i don’t have a solution?!
But ... suddenly the message came to him.
I call him back and say:
“Listen! I know it might sound weird ... but all you can do now ... at least as a test ... is to enjoy the funeral!
Say ok to everything needs to end in your life ... and let everything flow in the direction it needs to go.
Smile ... embrace with love all the events from the present moment ... and say good bye. But do it with detachment”.
The guy needed to say good bye to some people and some situations from his life.
He knew that had to do it ... but was too attached of everything around him.
It was like when we go at the funeral of a person of 95 years old.
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We like that person a lot ... but we feel that we don’t agree that he needs to go ... because the time had come. We just ... can’t agree.
But in many occasions .... people are not dying ... they just
need to leave the scene of our lives ... and we can’t agree with that.
We can’t accept what the Universe tells us ... for so many, many days in the row .. and the sensation of a funeral day continues ... without actually having any funeral at all.
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Understanding the concept of
energetic interferences, but also the one of energetic fields ... is a must for a better life
The human history is full with stories of different totalitarian regimes.
Even in the modern history there are lots of scenarios like that.
And worst ... if we analyze all the countries from the plannet ... we will still see countries with this kind of stories. But why should we care what is happening in North Korea or China ... or an unknown country from Africa?!
Sometimes the totalitarian regime might simple be represented by the city hall from the small community where we live in.
And we feel oppressed ... by different issues that we can’t solve dealing with them.
We start to feel like in the stories we saw on tv regarding the countries where democracy is not present at all.
Sad by what is going on ... we go home ... and unfortunately ... we see the same totalitarian regime.
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So ... conspiracy theories are real ... but it’s even worst as we thought.
The scenarios are happening to the scene of our lives.
Hitler is the mayor, Stalin is the neighbor ... and Kim Jong-un is the spouse.
If we will write down the story of our lives, without giving names and details ... but explaining just what we strongly feel inside of us ... the story itself might look as a letter wrote by a prisoner from Auschwitz.
I smile ... write and reading this ... cause unfortunately ... i find myself in this scenario, without understanding what Albert Einstein said ... “The most important decision we make is whether we believe we live in a friendly or hostile universe.”
The concept of universe ... means our world ... and actually the world is not the president of the country, the people from European Counsel etc etc ... but the small place where we live and people that make our lives hard.
We can’t see the illusion of all those situations.
We just can’t.
Yes ... the concept of illusion is too abstract to be understood.
Too bad we could not realize what is an energetic field ... and the energetic influences ... but also their importance for a better life.
We continue life, feeling prisoners in our private virtual ... ridiculous ... North Korea ... defining the people around us in lots of silly ways ... but also comparing them with despots
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that were ruing million of lives during the time.
But ... we can’t see the meaning of what Einstein said ... and we can’t practice the awakening either.
We have the power to analyze and define lots of things ...
but not our own lives.
We can’t see the ridiculous from what we are saying ... and there is almost no chance of redefining the script from the present moment.
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The problem is that they analyze and define us too much ... but they never can see who we really are
I was going in a short vacation.
On the way ... i’ve asked to my wife to look on the messaging system in our booking app to see if the host wrote us the phone number so that i can give them a call and ask something about the reservation. Suddenly i see how she changed her face.
She was analyzing the conversation that i had with the person that was renting us the apartament at the seaside. Then i hear her ... “Why the hell you need to speak like that to everybody?! You act as a teenager ... and you are not a teenager anymore.”
I was looking at her ... not really understanding what the fuck she is speaking about and asked:
“I have no idea about what you said. Can you be more specific?!”
Angry she replyed: “I am talking about the way you spoke in the conversation with the host that we have now.
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You are always too friendly to everyone and act in a weird way”.
I started to laugh.
“So you read the conversation on the booking app.” “Yes. I did it. 3 times ... and i get annoyed”.
“My dear ... no matter how i spoke, i was polite and is totally unclear if behind that chat was a man or a woman. There is no name, no signature. No photo. Nothing to make us believe that i was speaking to a lady ... or that i was flirting with her.”
I was amazed.
She was analyzing and defining a simple non sense conversation ... the only real problem being the fact that behind the chat it was a person that loved chatting with people.
We used terms as ... “kindly thank you” ... “hahaha”... “loved that” ... “it was so nice explaining me all that”... etc etc.
But it was nothing ... about flirting, because i did not even knew who i am speaking with.
We closed the subject, we arrived at the location ... and a beautiful lady was expecting us to give the key of the apartment.
She was the person behind the chat room ... so it was the perfect occasion as my wife to be annoyed again. Could i redefine anything?!
Hell no ... but it was ridiculous accusing me of flirting.
I was pretending i could not speak with the beautiful lady cause i was carrying the luggages ... and stop a subject that
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could end with a silly fight with my wife.
The situation itself had been quite silly ... but you see ...
many, many others are analyzing and defining us, living with
the illusion that they have this right ... but i just find it ...
simple ridiculous.
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Is quite easy to define the others ...
but we are blinds when it comes to ourselves
I wake up at 4 am and i start chatting with an amazing lady, that is a great coach.
She just had a personal problem that disappointed her a lot few days ago.
I read what she wrote me and in a second i analyze and define everything, writing her down the way the situation should be redefined.
Am amazed of how easy i can see the situations of others ...
and how blind i become when it comes about me.
The day is starting .... and the sun appears on the sky.
I go to a notary, i sell an apartment, get the money ... then i go to the city hall from my area, where i try to solve some important things ... unsolved by 2 years ... trying to push the the lady from urbanism department and the vice mayor. Annoyed ... in the end .. the vice mayor says to me ... “Get out of the city hall! Now!”
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Well ... if we analyze the case and define it in a honest way ... the vice mayor was right.
I was pushing him to solve some issues for me which were not 100% legal.
But i forgot to give you all the details of the situation.
I live in a far away country from Eastern Europe, that was a communist country 30 years ago .... but now the democracy
we have is not exactly the model that you see in France, Germany or USA.
Because the ones from the city hall are lazy and incompetents everyone is building illegally and you need to give them big tips to solve the things.
Basically ... i was becoming the first one from the history of the city hall from our commune, that i had to respect the law
... and the vice mayor wanted to give a lesson in this direction.
But i knew that the guy, like all the other politicians from my country ... was a thief ... so i asked ... “You want to tell me that you are a honest and correct person ... and i am incorrect?!
Is this a joke?!”
In his demagogue style he replies ... “Yes! I am correct person!”
I started to laugh.
I almost wanted to kill him ... but had to leave the city hall ... cause he was the vice mayor and i was a simple citizen.
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Walking to my car .... i started to laugh again.
Same as my dear friend, the great coach ... maybe i was not passing the test of illusion that the Universe gave to me. It was ridiculous.
I knew the theory ... that i don’t need to push things, get annoyed etc ... but i was blind ... on the scene of my life.
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The non sense is the key.
Study it!
I saw a weird toilet today.
The evacuation of the water was totally different than we usually know ... using small plumbery.
And it also produced a strange noice after using it.
For the ones that are not used with construction issues ... the wc i saw might look as a totally non sense, but for me ...
seeing it in a bar, near the beach ... looked quite logical in the end.
I was analyzing it for almost a minute ... making an abstract analogy between it and the way we should function as human beings in ... totally different case scenarios, than the ones we are used to live.
The analogy itself is weird ... but sometimes we need to see different models ... that we can draw on a piece of paper ...
and then see in the drawing ... a similar model with the lines that redefine the new life model we have in mind.
Analogies can help ... a lot, but unfortunately will look like a philosophical pathless path.
Its weird side ... will make you believe ... that you should not even dare to share it with the others ... cause you will be
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defined as an idiot.
But ... let me ask you one question ... what will you do when no one will be able to help you chance the nonsense life that you are following?!
What is the way out of that illusory prison?!
What if ... only psychology, philosophy and spirituality can give you some good answers ... while defining the non sense?!
But what is the nonsense?!
Well ... quite simple.
Every illogical thing that you do so often ... on and on and on ... till it actually defines you as a human being.
But ... the ability of seeing the abstract ... and understanding this nonsense ... is the key ... even if it looks so real studying a wc.
Dare to do it ... might help you a lot!
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Connecting to the beautiful energies of the nature is amazing ...
and does not cost anything
I’ve been on the beach.
It’s winter and the wind was ...
But i loved it.
Somehow ... even if i am not a master of connecting to the present moment ... i was feeling the sea.
The big waves and the wind ... made me believe that i was flying ... just after i was closing my eyes.
Connecting to the sea .... i suddenly realized the beautiful
energies that are all around us ... in the nature.
But i was too blind to see all that till now.
I was only seeing the people and lots of the silly inter connections that are generating ugly energies ... that in fact end up with the chaos from our lives.
Connecting to the sea ... even if it was for a short time ... i understood why my life is a total mess even if it was so damm easy to have daily moments like that ... when i could re generate my energies.
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Connecting to the Earth and its energies is actually the gateway to the Infinite.
