The philosopher becomes disappointed ... by all his thoughts. His friends ... sees his inability of acting as a small child that intuitively knows when to connect or disconnect from the experiences that the Universe offers to us.
The philosophers ... decides to reconvert himself into a simple spectator watching the show of life ... cause of this new horrible concept appeared in his mind ... the illusion of the illusions.
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Being a witness becomes a better path ... just like he used to be when he was in the nature.
He knew the path ... but forgot about it.
His friend realizes that there is only one chance left for him ... find inside himself the inner child ... lost by such a long time ... connect to him ... and ask for guidance while living so many experiences.
The inner child could be also a witness ... but he needed to become a better actor.
And redefining himself ... suddenly becomes his new obsession.
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You can define yourself however you want ... but the real you is the one that you’ll see in limit situations from the scene of your life.
I saw many people defining themselves in many, many ways ... either positive or negative.
Some of those persons became experts in defining themselves in an amazing way ... and i was actually wondering myself if this is their real personality or they are talking just about a mask they are carrying now.
But ... i had the chance to experience all that on myself.
I was analyzing and defining myself all the time ... at the end of the day.
How did i acted in that day?!
Did i changed a little bit in a positive way ... or i am the same with the me that i’ve been yesterday, or a week ago ... or months before?!
Same as many others ... i became an expert into defining myself into a good way.
I was actually using the theory of affirmations in my advantage ... so that i can look as a positive character.
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But the tests came from the Universe ... were not stoping at all.
Everyday ... it was a new and a new test .... a non ending
story ... tests that were actually revealing my real status of
where i was spiritually.
I hated those tests.
Every morning when i was waking up ... i was wondering ...
“what the hell is going to happen today?!”
Until one day ... when i realized that ... same as it was in school ... i could not control in any possible form ... the exams.
I just had to learn all the lessons ... so that i could pass my exams ... and it was the same in the real life.
And ... the tests were repeated on and on ... and on. I saw ... i had no escape ... than adapt myself to the universal laws of the Divine Infinity ... and also see in all limit situations from the scene of my life ... the perfect opportunity for my .. spiritual evolution.
So ... i changed the tactics ... and i was starting to live every experience ... even the ugly ones as a blessing. Was it easy?!
Hell no ... but i realized i had no other chance ... than becoming a better self.
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The karmic chain can be broken only ... with love
I started 2022 with a very weird situation in my life.
2 of my clients, husband and wife ... he ... kind of a coach and she ... employee at IRS ... they started to create a nightmare for myself.
I will not even bother to give you the details ... cause is just a silly story between people that have a little bit of intelligence inside of their brains, they tell to everyone that they are very good at communicating with the others ... but we actually could find no way of connecting together and solve the conflict.
We started the relationship in a very good way ... but it all started to become in one point ... the ugliest story of my life. The so called coach ... was calling me and was screaming on the phone as a lion from the jungle ... acting as an idiot.
His wife was sending me sms after sms ... then she started to send emails ... 1,2,3 ... 27 ... and nothing could stop her. She also started to make complains to all kinds of authorities
... and even if the reasons were ridiculous ... i could still define the whole story as a ... nightmare.
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It all began with a sewage problem at the house i’ve rented to them ... problem that was repeated 4 times ... somehow because of my fault, but also by their fault. The house was not in fire.
There was no hurricane to destroy the roof of the building. Just a simple blockage of the sewage ... that was solved every time in the same day.
The harassment came from their side destroyed my inner silence for days.
I lost my guidance.
I started to see on dark colors everything.
I actually entered on their frequency .. and almost believed everything they told me ... but it was all an overreaction. Had no idea how the hell i could stop this.
Wrote them an official letter and explained that i want to end the contract ... but again it was useless.
They replied that ... they won’t leave ... and will stay at least 2 more years from now.
So ... bottomline ... i was starting a nightmare that will last at least for 2 years.
I saw no way out and decided to go to a wise friend that he is also very influential in my country ... asking for help. “What the hell am i doing?!” I asked.
The guy smiled .. then laughed while replying ...”Listen to me! This is a karmic story and it is a way in how the Universe is revealing you the game of illusions! There is only way out of breaking the karmic chain and end the story ... one of the sides must treat the other side with infinite love and
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understanding.
I thought you knew those things, cause you write about them all the time. Ahh ... i got it ... theory is just theory ... but theoreticians usually fail on the scene of the real life.”
I understood right away that he was right ... but still ... had no idea what should i do.
I was just hoping and praying that they will just leave from my life.
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You can’t really understand life ... unless you experience it
Many people have tried over the centuries to understand life from books.
The proportion of those people ... in the present time is totally ridiculous.
Millions ... maybe tens of millions ... or even ten or hundreds of millions of people from all around the world are doing it now ... but can we really find the answers about life from books?!
Can we understand betrayal by reading a novel?!
Can we really understand pain ... by studying what happened in Auschwitz?!
Can we understand the concept of desire ... without having a big dream deep inside us?!
Can we understand what love is about without meeting the soulmate?!
Well ... too many questions and even if we know the answers, we don’t really accept the truth. Then one day ... a tsunami is happing.
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I mean ... in a metaphorical way ... and life becomes a total mess.
And ... when we have the strong inner belief that our lives are arranged ... someone appears from nowhere ... and destroys all we thought that we built with so much work. We start to believe that we are a victim of circumstances ... but we are wrong again.
I know the script.
I experience it.
Thought the books will help me a lot ... but i was underestimated the power of meditation, relaxation and the one of the ... inner peace.
I was feeding myself with what is called ... the energy of the ... chaos ... without realizing that all is an exchange of energy ... and the chaos from my outer world will actually become the chaos of my inner world and vice versa.
A weird balance between the 2 worlds ... ruined me emotionally ... and in one point after analyzing and defining all that is going on ... i realized that i just can’t understand a thing.
All the books ... and all that time used to read them ... was useless.
I look at myself and can’t even recognize my soul acting on the scene of life.
Then i suddenly smile ... “Oh! My God! I was so fucking stupid! This is just like in school. I was reading the theory from books ... and now ... through all those weird experiences, i had to also pass the exams ... which is a
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simple evaluation of what i had learnt”.
Simple.
... but weird.
... and also illusory.
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“Destroying” someone
... an art or a must?!
... the reason why karma is using us to do “dirty” things
I once had a conflict with a lady and somehow i was blocking for her ... at least for a while ... the process she was doing for adopting a child.
In the beginning we were friends ... but somehow ... our relationship was ruined by some silly events and without noticing we jumped from friendship to being enemies. I could not believe it.
She was attacking me in all possible ways ... legal and illegal ... so i just said to her that i will stop the contract and the relationship i have with her.
And this is what i did ... but that meant in the end that the adopting process ... was stoped or delayed for a long time from now.
And i was wondering myself ... did i did something bad?!
Am i a negative character on the scene of life?!
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When everything calmed down a little bit ... i was analyzing and defining everything was going on.
... i did not know what to believe about myself anymore ... but suddenly i remembered that at a moment seeing her what she was doing against me ... i’ve asked ... “What kind of soul are you that you act so ugly?! Do you think that a nice little baby deserves to live near a person as you?!” She did not answer anything at all.
Her husband mentioned that our friendship is closed for a life time ... so a discussion as that is useless.
But it was funny cause ... everything could be stoped in the last moment ... and they could do the adopting process ... having my full support just by asking me one more time ...
but the power of their egos was much powerful.
But it was much more powerful as the idea of adopting a child .... because me ... as a simple character from their life ... i was irrelevant.
Somehow ... karma was using me and even if i had moments when i thought i am not doing a good thing ... the Universe was saying through me “... just stop ... is not the right time. You need to be redefined as the child to appear in your life. That soul needs beautiful energies.”
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Having the guts to say the truth ... that no one would ever tell them ... a way of ruining your relations ... but help them ... at least to think about the change
A guy i know was in conflict with a lady that was working at IRS Seattle.
He drove her crazy so much ... that in the end, even if it was a private matter ... she was making him complains at all the authorities of the state where they were living.
It all became a non sense ... but also a non ending story. And even if the lady was so damm powerful ... she was actually the most depressive person he ever met.
But she was explaining so well the story ... that everyone was believing her.
Somehow the non sense guerilla war ... became slowly a lost war for him ... and he could not see a way for improving the situation.
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And the non sense became a ... nightmare.
The episodes were repeating on and on and on.
He was analyzing a lot ... the whole story ... but could not define for clear any way out of this silly unbelievable story. It all started ... because of her anger against him .... when he was telling her the truth about her as a human being ...
and the fact that she is a very ugly soul.
She was so damm hurt ... that she founded 1 million ways of hurting him back with all kind of non sense complains to the authorities.
One day ... when he finally realized that this is a non ending story .... having a karmic message behind ... he writes her ...
“ You can start searching ... not 1 million, but 1 billion ways to make me stupid complains ... but in the end no one will be able to remove my words from your mind.
You’ll need to find a way to survive with all what i told you ...
and it’s funny ... cause you really are an ugly soul”
She closes her eyes and ... suddenly understood that he was right.
Did not liked the truth ... but she really had an ugly soul ...
and there was no way of redefining herself.
Or maybe there was one ... to think on and on and on ... till she will find the answer ... what is the path for a real change.
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Looking for a magical way of getting out of an ugly story?!
... well ... just ignore it ... and the intensity of all those energies will drastically decrease ... until a point when the whole story will be seen as a total nonsense
Personal growth is teaching us lots of beautiful things ... but i haven’t seen so much on social media ... a practical way of changing your life overnight.
Real case scenarios are situations that usually create us unbelievable headaches ... and most of the times after defining and analyzing everything too much ... it all becomes an annoying process of overthinking.
You might even believe, at one point, that you are in a story similar with the one of David and Goliat.
But the balance of your emotions, all those ugly repeated events ... will not let you even know who you really are …
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