karma …. but many of them lived karmic stories … difficult to be defined and accepted logically.
Karma is real.
Sometimes … is represented by a guy like the mayor. But sometimes .. like a more powerful guy … like the ambassador of my country in Moscow.
So … maybe it’s time to meditate more … about how we treat the people from the timeline of our lives … no matter of who we are.
Cause …. there is always someone more powerful … as us.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
59
IF IT'S NO LOVE IT'S KARMIC
philosophical essays
She was leaving … but always coming back. But why?! Well … maybe she was dominated by her both sides … and the
emotional dance of contradictory feelings did not allowed her to keep her promises to … herself.
Petra is calling her sister Maria.
“If you are unhappy there all the time … and you want to leave … why don’t you do it?!
Life is not so long as we might think so that we always live with this eternal unhappiness in the soul. You should simple be … more courageous.
You wake up and say that today you will do it … but in the night you come back to your husband … all the time. Maybe it’s all a dharmic relationship …. mixed with karmic
meaning … but … still …. you need to make a change ….
unless you don’t want to spend all your life in an emotional mud.”
Maria was indeed unhappy by long, long time.
She left her home few times …. but she was always coming
back.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
60
IF IT'S NO LOVE IT'S KARMIC
philosophical essays
The problem is that in the last few months … this idea became … an obsession.
She was waking up with this idea in her mind … but at the end of the day she remained dominated by the things that she needs to do …. totally ignoring what she loved to do.
So … few times a day she decided to be happy … but … still … it was all an emotional dance … and nothing more.
She never found the courage to act in the way she wanted to act.
Days were passing … and nothing changed.
The weeks …. months … and years.
Everything remained the same ….
The only real problem was that the obsession became stronger and stronger.
Same as many of us … Petra remained in an unwanted Universe …
In the outside world … she was dominated by reality … but in her inner world … the desire to be happy made her have a non ending balance between the 2 realities.
Petra continued her life … with the hope that one day ….
things will change …. not understanding why the Universe is
sending us in those positions when we need to remain in karmic … or dharmic situations.
She was asking herself … on and on and on … “why?! Why?! Why?!”
And indeed in life … we need to start to meditate more and more so that we understand …. what is really going on and
why we keep repeating the same unhappy scenario … if the heart wants something else.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
61
IF IT'S NO LOVE IT'S KARMIC
philosophical essays
She was analyzing … defining ….but somehow she could not
redefine reality.
But why?!
Well … maybe life is the way it is …
We can’t understand those karmic or dharmic episodes … but still the hope … remains …
We are so, so many as Petra … people living in … an unwanted Universe.
Can we judge her for continue living in an unhappy marriage?!
Can we really understand what it is in her … soul?!
Or maybe … the real truth is that in this world dominated by duality, we can’t really understand what means … happiness … without exploring … the unhappiness.
But you see … life continues … and maybe at the right time we should understand the meaning of everything.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
62
IF IT'S NO LOVE IT'S KARMIC
philosophical essays
Just let the karma … do the whole job. Revenge is not a positive … option.
I’ve wrote in the last time more and more about karma … and seeing that … John, a guy living in a village from the south of London wrote me his funny story …. somehow
laughing of himself that even if he read all my essays and understood them … he could not see the concept applied in the real life.
John is a real example of the ones that know the theory, but when it comes about applying it into the real world … they don’t really know how to act on the stage of reality.
You see … John lives in a village for a quite life, but still … he is involved into lots of businesses.
This is the reason why he needs to deal from time to time with the authorities … and that annoys him … a lot.
For example at one of the institution … there is a guy that really hates him by a long, long time.
Somehow this guy was right … cause long time ago John went out with the mistress of that director.
He could not forget him for that … even if today he had a new mistress.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
63
IF IT'S NO LOVE IT'S KARMIC
philosophical essays
So …. every time John had to solve something there, the
response was also delayed and it was … no.
And that happened on and on and on.
John started to be so frustrated by that … even contacted a lawyer to call the director into the court … for abuse against him.
He wanted a revenge … and he wanted that .. now. It’s funny cause John always commented on my posts regarding karma, looking like someone that knows pretty well about the concept … but when it came about his real life
he could not understand that revenge is not a positive option.
I’ve talked with him many times … explaining that he must let his frustration, anger … and hate … disappear.
He wrote me back one day saying … “i know i should let everything go … but i simple can’t.
This guy created me so many, many problems …. how the hell could i forgive him?!”
I reply … “Listen John! You are not a God. You are not even a … judge.
You simple need to disconnect yourself from this story. Can’t let those negative emotions overwhelm you. And can’t do that … forever.
Let the guy do against you whatever he wants to do … cause at the right time you will hear the karmic song on the scene of life.”
Few weeks later John writes me back.
“Listen Gabriel! I realized i need to forgive that guy for what he did against me.
And guess what?!
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
64
IF IT'S NO LOVE IT'S KARMIC
philosophical essays
A friend of mine … who is kind of a Don Juan showed me the picture of a lady that he started with … a new love affair. I could not believe it.
It was the wife of that director.
My friend revenged me … without even knowing it … and i
can’t stop myself laughing.
Life is indeed funny.”
You see … John was right …. but could see that only after he
practiced forgiveness for real.
The so called revenge … if it really needs to happen into a karmic mode … it will just happen … but only at the right time … when the Infinite Intelligence will decide that. So … forget about the silly concept of revenge.
Just let karma do its job … when it will be the right moment. Then … you probably have the right to smile, or even to laugh … but always remember you are not a judge.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
65
IF IT'S NO LOVE IT'S KARMIC
philosophical essays
Sometimes all you need to do is ….
nothing but wait.
Simple watch how the Universe is …
rearranging things.
Not so long time ago … i got so, so annoyed with a situation that i could not solve …. no matter what i was doing … that i
ended up asking myself why the hell things are happening this way.
It was a total … total nonsense.
But still … i could not get that thing.
One day i realized it became an obsession.
I was waking up with that idea in my mind and in the night before going to bed i was thinking of the same thing. Somehow i was realizing that i am losing my time … no matter what i should do.
One day … a friend came to me and said … “Listen to me … you should simple let everything … go. Ignore the story … disconnect from it and at the right time … you will get what you need to get from life.”
And it’s not that i agreed with him, but i realized it’s all useless.
For the first time in my life i was accepting the karmic factors that were influencing my destiny … so, so much.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
66
IF IT'S NO LOVE IT'S KARMIC
philosophical essays
I hated the situation, but … i was probably in front of what should be called … the illusion of life.
But why i accepted the concept …. just by force?!
Why i could not readapt myself from the scene 4, 5, 6?! Why i’ve wanted as the same episode to be repeated on and on and on?!
Paul was laughing on me.
I could hear him … “hahahaha. We talk about the illusion of life by so, so many years … and you are so dominated by it. But why?!
You can’t let the illusion to ruin your life.
Just stop it … “
So … Paul was sending me the same message … as the other friend.
I had to embrace the karmic factors from my life.
Stop my stupidity … that continued by such a long, long time. So … seeing myself incapable of doing anything at all … i was following a new path … the one of … non action.
I realized that only the Universe knows why the things are happening in the way that were happening.
Embracing reality … no matter what is going on …. Is not just
a wise decision … but a must.
And again i ask myself … why i waited so much to take that decision?!
I came in a point of totally ridiculousnesses so that i could accept to surrender myself …. instead of hearing at the karmic song.
I thought i understood life … but … maybe the lesson with the karmic factors was too complicated to understand it without seeing so much opposition on the timeline of my life.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
67
IF IT'S NO LOVE IT'S KARMIC
philosophical essays
My obsession became so irrelevant when … my attention went in another direction. And i was laughing understanding how idiot i’ve been.
Recently i had again an obsession.
In fact … during my lifetime i had lots of obsessions, but … this one …
Well …. It simple ruined me emotionally thinking and thinking
again and again …
But one day i was waking up and realized that i have to stop this silly situation.
I had to get rid of it.
But how?!
… cause it dominated me by such a long, long time.
Then i was remembering about a trick i was using with my friend Paul.
During our philosophical debates about lots of things that involves life itself … the moment when we realized we are following a contradictory path …. we ended up the discussion
by sending to each other pictures or movies with beautiful ladies.
And suddenly… the discussion ended.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
68
IF IT'S NO LOVE IT'S KARMIC
philosophical essays
We both loved admiring those amazing souls …. and our
philosophical debate became so, so irrelevant.
But you see …. an obsession is …. an obsession … and the
rules of getting rid of it are the same.
The obsession also might be … karmic.
Might also look as a nonsense … but every time it looks stronger … we should simple smile, ignore it and try to focus our attention on something totally different.
Sounds weird what i am saying … but solving karmic problems … can be done just by using some tricks and with great wisdom.
The illusion itself … which is actually the obsession … is being dissolved … in that moment.
We change the frequency where we activate and seeing a new reality … we totally forget about all those obsessive thoughts we had for such a long, long time.
A little bit later …. we smile looking back into the past …
understanding how silly we’ve been letting ourselves be dominated by the obsession.
But we are happy cause we got rid of it.
nothing else matters. The trick … worked.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
69
IF IT'S NO LOVE IT'S KARMIC
philosophical essays
How you react
… it’s actually an art
Have you ever wondered why we react so ugly in many, many situations?!
Why we dislike so much that reality is not the way it should be … or how we would love to be?!
I believe that even if i am not 870 years old, i probably had till now on million episodes when i reacted as an … idiot.
I was annoyed … angry … totally disliking facts that … i could not even control and actually should make absolutely no sense to bother doing that.
Today … i would define those moments … karmic moments. You see … i somehow realized that for many, many years did not even knew what karma is.
Now i would say that… first of all it’s a … lesson.
Those repetitive ugly reactions of mine … were probably just …. life lessons, but i could not see that.
And i was reacting on and on and on … as an idiot …. not
finding any cure for that behavior.
But that only till one day … when i said … it’s enough.
I can’t lose my temper forever.
I just can’t continue as that for the rest of my life.
I actually understood that … reacting … is an art … and i need to learn it.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
70
IF IT'S NO LOVE IT'S KARMIC
philosophical essays
It was all a simple decision … cause the Universe was laughing behind my back …. sending me in all sorts of
circumstances … that had to do with such a large spectrum of weird people.
So … instead of being annoyed …. angry … frustrated …. I
started to keep my calmness and sometimes even … smile. I understood it was all … a karmic test repeated on and on and on … and i was too idiot to pass the test.
But i was lucky … cause i took the decision of learning this
abstract act of … reacting.
Life improved … a lot.
It’s not that i live the perfect case scenario …. but … at least i
am not seeing the nightmare present everyday. So … just think about … the art of reacting. Might help you … a lot!
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
71
IF IT'S NO LOVE IT'S KARMIC
philosophical essays
Calmness is sometimes … the key
Someone i follow in social media … a great therapist … is always writing about … calmness and to tell you the truth … i found it weird all his posts … for a long, long time.
His message was so damn simple and repeated on and on and on, but i was not realizing that he was actually talking to … everybody.
He wanted to be … heard …
But silly as always … i was actually asking myself why the hell he keeps saying only that.
I mean … a guy as him could write about lots of scientifically stuff … and he was telling us just about … calmness. Certainly …. I was missing the point.
Then one day … when being in a karmic situation …. the
answer finally came to me.
I was hating what was going on … on the scene of my life ….
and all i wanted was as time to stop … and be overwhelmed at least for a short j … by calmness.
So … i asked to the Universe … this weird concept called … calmness … which by the way i’ve found so boring by such a long time.
Karma is real.
Sometimes … is represented by a guy like the mayor. But sometimes .. like a more powerful guy … like the ambassador of my country in Moscow.
So … maybe it’s time to meditate more … about how we treat the people from the timeline of our lives … no matter of who we are.
Cause …. there is always someone more powerful … as us.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
59
IF IT'S NO LOVE IT'S KARMIC
philosophical essays
She was leaving … but always coming back. But why?! Well … maybe she was dominated by her both sides … and the
emotional dance of contradictory feelings did not allowed her to keep her promises to … herself.
Petra is calling her sister Maria.
“If you are unhappy there all the time … and you want to leave … why don’t you do it?!
Life is not so long as we might think so that we always live with this eternal unhappiness in the soul. You should simple be … more courageous.
You wake up and say that today you will do it … but in the night you come back to your husband … all the time. Maybe it’s all a dharmic relationship …. mixed with karmic
meaning … but … still …. you need to make a change ….
unless you don’t want to spend all your life in an emotional mud.”
Maria was indeed unhappy by long, long time.
She left her home few times …. but she was always coming
back.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
60
IF IT'S NO LOVE IT'S KARMIC
philosophical essays
The problem is that in the last few months … this idea became … an obsession.
She was waking up with this idea in her mind … but at the end of the day she remained dominated by the things that she needs to do …. totally ignoring what she loved to do.
So … few times a day she decided to be happy … but … still … it was all an emotional dance … and nothing more.
She never found the courage to act in the way she wanted to act.
Days were passing … and nothing changed.
The weeks …. months … and years.
Everything remained the same ….
The only real problem was that the obsession became stronger and stronger.
Same as many of us … Petra remained in an unwanted Universe …
In the outside world … she was dominated by reality … but in her inner world … the desire to be happy made her have a non ending balance between the 2 realities.
Petra continued her life … with the hope that one day ….
things will change …. not understanding why the Universe is
sending us in those positions when we need to remain in karmic … or dharmic situations.
She was asking herself … on and on and on … “why?! Why?! Why?!”
And indeed in life … we need to start to meditate more and more so that we understand …. what is really going on and
why we keep repeating the same unhappy scenario … if the heart wants something else.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
61
IF IT'S NO LOVE IT'S KARMIC
philosophical essays
She was analyzing … defining ….but somehow she could not
redefine reality.
But why?!
Well … maybe life is the way it is …
We can’t understand those karmic or dharmic episodes … but still the hope … remains …
We are so, so many as Petra … people living in … an unwanted Universe.
Can we judge her for continue living in an unhappy marriage?!
Can we really understand what it is in her … soul?!
Or maybe … the real truth is that in this world dominated by duality, we can’t really understand what means … happiness … without exploring … the unhappiness.
But you see … life continues … and maybe at the right time we should understand the meaning of everything.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
62
IF IT'S NO LOVE IT'S KARMIC
philosophical essays
Just let the karma … do the whole job. Revenge is not a positive … option.
I’ve wrote in the last time more and more about karma … and seeing that … John, a guy living in a village from the south of London wrote me his funny story …. somehow
laughing of himself that even if he read all my essays and understood them … he could not see the concept applied in the real life.
John is a real example of the ones that know the theory, but when it comes about applying it into the real world … they don’t really know how to act on the stage of reality.
You see … John lives in a village for a quite life, but still … he is involved into lots of businesses.
This is the reason why he needs to deal from time to time with the authorities … and that annoys him … a lot.
For example at one of the institution … there is a guy that really hates him by a long, long time.
Somehow this guy was right … cause long time ago John went out with the mistress of that director.
He could not forget him for that … even if today he had a new mistress.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
63
IF IT'S NO LOVE IT'S KARMIC
philosophical essays
So …. every time John had to solve something there, the
response was also delayed and it was … no.
And that happened on and on and on.
John started to be so frustrated by that … even contacted a lawyer to call the director into the court … for abuse against him.
He wanted a revenge … and he wanted that .. now. It’s funny cause John always commented on my posts regarding karma, looking like someone that knows pretty well about the concept … but when it came about his real life
he could not understand that revenge is not a positive option.
I’ve talked with him many times … explaining that he must let his frustration, anger … and hate … disappear.
He wrote me back one day saying … “i know i should let everything go … but i simple can’t.
This guy created me so many, many problems …. how the hell could i forgive him?!”
I reply … “Listen John! You are not a God. You are not even a … judge.
You simple need to disconnect yourself from this story. Can’t let those negative emotions overwhelm you. And can’t do that … forever.
Let the guy do against you whatever he wants to do … cause at the right time you will hear the karmic song on the scene of life.”
Few weeks later John writes me back.
“Listen Gabriel! I realized i need to forgive that guy for what he did against me.
And guess what?!
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
64
IF IT'S NO LOVE IT'S KARMIC
philosophical essays
A friend of mine … who is kind of a Don Juan showed me the picture of a lady that he started with … a new love affair. I could not believe it.
It was the wife of that director.
My friend revenged me … without even knowing it … and i
can’t stop myself laughing.
Life is indeed funny.”
You see … John was right …. but could see that only after he
practiced forgiveness for real.
The so called revenge … if it really needs to happen into a karmic mode … it will just happen … but only at the right time … when the Infinite Intelligence will decide that. So … forget about the silly concept of revenge.
Just let karma do its job … when it will be the right moment. Then … you probably have the right to smile, or even to laugh … but always remember you are not a judge.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
65
IF IT'S NO LOVE IT'S KARMIC
philosophical essays
Sometimes all you need to do is ….
nothing but wait.
Simple watch how the Universe is …
rearranging things.
Not so long time ago … i got so, so annoyed with a situation that i could not solve …. no matter what i was doing … that i
ended up asking myself why the hell things are happening this way.
It was a total … total nonsense.
But still … i could not get that thing.
One day i realized it became an obsession.
I was waking up with that idea in my mind and in the night before going to bed i was thinking of the same thing. Somehow i was realizing that i am losing my time … no matter what i should do.
One day … a friend came to me and said … “Listen to me … you should simple let everything … go. Ignore the story … disconnect from it and at the right time … you will get what you need to get from life.”
And it’s not that i agreed with him, but i realized it’s all useless.
For the first time in my life i was accepting the karmic factors that were influencing my destiny … so, so much.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
66
IF IT'S NO LOVE IT'S KARMIC
philosophical essays
I hated the situation, but … i was probably in front of what should be called … the illusion of life.
But why i accepted the concept …. just by force?!
Why i could not readapt myself from the scene 4, 5, 6?! Why i’ve wanted as the same episode to be repeated on and on and on?!
Paul was laughing on me.
I could hear him … “hahahaha. We talk about the illusion of life by so, so many years … and you are so dominated by it. But why?!
You can’t let the illusion to ruin your life.
Just stop it … “
So … Paul was sending me the same message … as the other friend.
I had to embrace the karmic factors from my life.
Stop my stupidity … that continued by such a long, long time. So … seeing myself incapable of doing anything at all … i was following a new path … the one of … non action.
I realized that only the Universe knows why the things are happening in the way that were happening.
Embracing reality … no matter what is going on …. Is not just
a wise decision … but a must.
And again i ask myself … why i waited so much to take that decision?!
I came in a point of totally ridiculousnesses so that i could accept to surrender myself …. instead of hearing at the karmic song.
I thought i understood life … but … maybe the lesson with the karmic factors was too complicated to understand it without seeing so much opposition on the timeline of my life.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
67
IF IT'S NO LOVE IT'S KARMIC
philosophical essays
My obsession became so irrelevant when … my attention went in another direction. And i was laughing understanding how idiot i’ve been.
Recently i had again an obsession.
In fact … during my lifetime i had lots of obsessions, but … this one …
Well …. It simple ruined me emotionally thinking and thinking
again and again …
But one day i was waking up and realized that i have to stop this silly situation.
I had to get rid of it.
But how?!
… cause it dominated me by such a long, long time.
Then i was remembering about a trick i was using with my friend Paul.
During our philosophical debates about lots of things that involves life itself … the moment when we realized we are following a contradictory path …. we ended up the discussion
by sending to each other pictures or movies with beautiful ladies.
And suddenly… the discussion ended.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
68
IF IT'S NO LOVE IT'S KARMIC
philosophical essays
We both loved admiring those amazing souls …. and our
philosophical debate became so, so irrelevant.
But you see …. an obsession is …. an obsession … and the
rules of getting rid of it are the same.
The obsession also might be … karmic.
Might also look as a nonsense … but every time it looks stronger … we should simple smile, ignore it and try to focus our attention on something totally different.
Sounds weird what i am saying … but solving karmic problems … can be done just by using some tricks and with great wisdom.
The illusion itself … which is actually the obsession … is being dissolved … in that moment.
We change the frequency where we activate and seeing a new reality … we totally forget about all those obsessive thoughts we had for such a long, long time.
A little bit later …. we smile looking back into the past …
understanding how silly we’ve been letting ourselves be dominated by the obsession.
But we are happy cause we got rid of it.
nothing else matters. The trick … worked.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
69
IF IT'S NO LOVE IT'S KARMIC
philosophical essays
How you react
… it’s actually an art
Have you ever wondered why we react so ugly in many, many situations?!
Why we dislike so much that reality is not the way it should be … or how we would love to be?!
I believe that even if i am not 870 years old, i probably had till now on million episodes when i reacted as an … idiot.
I was annoyed … angry … totally disliking facts that … i could not even control and actually should make absolutely no sense to bother doing that.
Today … i would define those moments … karmic moments. You see … i somehow realized that for many, many years did not even knew what karma is.
Now i would say that… first of all it’s a … lesson.
Those repetitive ugly reactions of mine … were probably just …. life lessons, but i could not see that.
And i was reacting on and on and on … as an idiot …. not
finding any cure for that behavior.
But that only till one day … when i said … it’s enough.
I can’t lose my temper forever.
I just can’t continue as that for the rest of my life.
I actually understood that … reacting … is an art … and i need to learn it.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
70
IF IT'S NO LOVE IT'S KARMIC
philosophical essays
It was all a simple decision … cause the Universe was laughing behind my back …. sending me in all sorts of
circumstances … that had to do with such a large spectrum of weird people.
So … instead of being annoyed …. angry … frustrated …. I
started to keep my calmness and sometimes even … smile. I understood it was all … a karmic test repeated on and on and on … and i was too idiot to pass the test.
But i was lucky … cause i took the decision of learning this
abstract act of … reacting.
Life improved … a lot.
It’s not that i live the perfect case scenario …. but … at least i
am not seeing the nightmare present everyday. So … just think about … the art of reacting. Might help you … a lot!
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
71
IF IT'S NO LOVE IT'S KARMIC
philosophical essays
Calmness is sometimes … the key
Someone i follow in social media … a great therapist … is always writing about … calmness and to tell you the truth … i found it weird all his posts … for a long, long time.
His message was so damn simple and repeated on and on and on, but i was not realizing that he was actually talking to … everybody.
He wanted to be … heard …
But silly as always … i was actually asking myself why the hell he keeps saying only that.
I mean … a guy as him could write about lots of scientifically stuff … and he was telling us just about … calmness. Certainly …. I was missing the point.
Then one day … when being in a karmic situation …. the
answer finally came to me.
I was hating what was going on … on the scene of my life ….
and all i wanted was as time to stop … and be overwhelmed at least for a short j … by calmness.
So … i asked to the Universe … this weird concept called … calmness … which by the way i’ve found so boring by such a long time.
