Years ago he was blinded of her charm and now he could not remember where from he knows her.
But the funny thing is that he felt the connection again.
She understood right away that the idiot could not remember about her, but she was acting like a lady.
She somehow presented herself again with the same charm ... and then both disappeared.
Then 2 years later, he suddenly remembered her while driving and he sent her a smile ... and she answeared.
They started to chat again and even if she refused to go out to a coffee they’ve been talking for hours.
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Talking and nothing more.
Her answears were ... “no” and “never”.
She did not wanted anymore beautiful words, in fact a new beatiful illusion cause life had offered her many illusions as that ... including from him.
But she still believed that beautiful moments of today are the real memories of tomorrow.
And she had such a beautiful tatoo with this quote that represented her philosophy so well.
You see ... it’s nice to see again people from past, that represented in one moment beautiful memories ... someone that touched our souls. Can you reconnect with that person again?! As friends ... maybe yes.
As lovers as the lady from the story says ... “NEVER”.
But it’s kind of a lesson from the Universe ... telling you through people from past ... that your life was beautiful ... and maybe it can still be.
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When a woman says ... “NO” or “NEVER”
... is that an “YES”?!
... meeting her again, after such a long time.
It’s quite difficult to convince a determined woman to do something you want to do, especially if she already said “no”. But what if she said ... “never”?!
Is there any chance as the answear to become ... “yes”.
Imagine you were togheter many, many years ago ... and one day you have the chance to talk with her again .... you invite her politely
15 times to go out to a coffee ... and she says only “no” ... or “never”. But you still feel her soul ... even after so, so many years ... and in the end ... the final answear is “yes”.
And you meet her ... and you feel again that joy ... you had so long time ago.
So ... my question is ... how we would we know that the “no” is actually a “yes” ... or at least a “maybe”?!
Does it worth taking the risks of asking 15 times the same question?! Well ... if you like her ... i believe you could be inventive and ask her in 15 different ways.
There are lots of tips and tricks to succeed into a love story ... but it usually works only when the connection between the 2 souls exists. Without a real connection ... is almost useless to wait for an “yes”. Women like to play around ... but only if they like you ... otherwise ...
the “NO” is very clear.
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“Sending the love letter to nowhere ... as she blocked me everywhere”
I have a dear friend that is in love with a very idiot girl.
She blocks him all the time when he refuses to do the things in the way she wants.
She is very beautiful, but obsessed of controlling the love story in a silly way.
And every time my friend tells me that she blocked him again ... i laugh of him.
In fact i wanted to tell him so, so many times that i hope that this is the last time that she blocks him ... and that she will never unblock him ... but he would not like to hear that.
So ... i am still polite ... as he is a dear friend, but lately i started to wonder if she is the idiot or he is the one?! ... and i still don’t have the answear.
The funny thing is that he considers her as being his muse ... but never understood why.
You see ... all the people we meet in life .... we have kind of a karmic
role to play togheter.
Till the role is not completed ... that person is not disappearing. ... and a person that blocks you all the time ... wants as you to disappear ... but still ... the end did not came yet.
We can’t come with a stronger power to fight with the role played by karma in our lives.
And there is no way in how we can eliminate from our lives the persons that have a karmic role ... but we could meditate and understand what is the message karma has for us.
The moment when you understand what karma has to say ... other chapters of life will appear for you ... and other persons also.
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As my mentor used to say ... you can leave any story you want to, but also there are factors in life that keep us in stories... like your child, family, age, work or negative aspects.
But there is a time for start and also for the end.
Just don’t rush anything.
Let everything come by itself ... and if she blocked you everywhere ...
send her the love letter to nowhere, cause she will receive it.
... and understand that should be silly to underestimate the power of karmic roles!
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“Let’s sing!
Let’s dance! ... and forget
about your silly rules.
I won’t stay for long anyway”
After an age we start to act in a strange way.
First as children ... we dislike rules.
Then we learn them and start to follow everything adults tell us about.
Later on, as teenagers we start again breaking the rules ... and we feel great about that.
And for a while .... everything is amazing ... but just for a while ...
cause then if we want to follow a normal life, we need to remember and respect the script of the dogmatic way of living in communities. Is it something wrong about that?!
Hell no ... but the funny thing is that i didn’t see anyone with a dogmatic thinking and behavior ... that could tell me .. that is happy. In my opinion .... dogmatism will never bring happiness to us.
Dogmatism is kind of a camouflage communism ... that tells us about all kinds of rules ... that in fact restricts your liberty and your real way of being.
But you know what communism did not succeeded to restrict?!
.... the love stories.
I mean, all those idiots made lots of ugly things into the society ... and the society itself was changed a lot, but somehow i believe they missed the subject with the love stories. But you know why?!
Cause a love story does not have rules?!
I mean ... you can read 1 million books about love, but in the real
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case scenario, if your soul is afraid to open for real ... you will fail.
All theories have no value when it comes about love.
But is there any trick for that?!
Well ... maybe you should tell her:
“Let’s sing
Let’s dance ... and forget about your silly rules.
I won’t stay for long anyway”
... and enjoy the story.
It’s singing about your souls and letting your emotions dance togheter
... and nothing more.
Yes ... it’s about daring to feel alive.
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The wife, the muse or the mentor?!
Which one is better?!
Well ... you never thought about the 3 in 1 solution.
I have a wife ... and she is the perfect wife, but probably not for me. I have a muse ... and she is ... or at least she was the perfect muse, at the perfect time.
And i have also a mentor, which is an amazing person.
She answers to me at any spiritual question i have in such a fantastic way.
But i wonder myself, why do i need to follow 3 different paths, instead of dealing only with one person ... that could be wife, muse and mentor?!
Kind of a 3 in 1 lady, that could make my life an amazing one. So ... why do we marry the wrong partner?!
What we do later on ... when we understand that we already have a family ... with kids etc etc and we are in the wrong marriage?!
What if the partner just became the worst enemy you ever had in this life?!
Well ... Dalai Lama used to say that the best teachers that life offers you ... are your enemies.
It’s hard to understand the paradox, but things are the way they are and if you don’t have the power to understand that, at least you should try to understand the karmic role of the partner.
And the concept of the dreamed best partner ... it does not exists in fact.
It’s just an illusory concept.
The only real partner ... is the one you have today, if you have that
person into your life.
So ... what can you do?!
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Well ... i believe everything has to do with the art of choosing ... at the right time ... the partner that can represent love, friendship and understanding.
If you are lucky enough and see in only one person, everything you expected ... you should not miss that person ... especially if she can be wife, muse, but also mentor in the same time.
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The fire you have inside of you …
“Fall in love with a man
Who can handle your fire
Unafraid to feel its warmth
Delve into burning desire.
Fall in love with a man
Who wouldn't tame your fire
But one who would let
You glow more, and admire.”
(Shahara Pereira)
The only real meaning of the love stories is to let us know that there is a fire inside of us.
That fire makes us feel amazing.
In fact we feel alive.
But the partner must know how to handle the fire ... otherwise the magic will disappear little by little.
The right partner will not be the one that will follow a dogmatic behavior, with lots of rules of to do or not to do ... but one that will admire the fire you have inside of you ... and play the role of a person that inspires you to be the way you always wanted to be.
Falling in love ... with a man who can handle those energies ... is the
path to happiness.
The fire will scare him.
He will even want to leave the story and not because of you, but the fact that he will not know how to handle everything.
The fire will attract him ... but the fire will make him be confusing.
But if you see that he is admiring you ... he is on the right path.
... give him a chance!
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The life is not about waiting
.... it’s about enjoying it.
Is life about waiting to be happy?!
Or just about being happy today?!
Can we “build” our happiness?!
Well ... a guy i know, an unknown philosopher that i should name ...
the new Kant of our era ... sent me this messages ...
“i think that sometimes we make choices, sometimes karma make the choices for us but when you feel uncomfortable for years in a relationship, what are you waiting for?
To get old and start living in the way you want?
In my opinion the "Waiting" in such cases is like a fatal disease. The more we wait, the more will be hard to come back...
Most of us are "poor minds" to make a hard choices with our lives. It's hard but necessary to say "it's enough! i want to live in my own way! no wife/husband. I have myself and I will find someone else if i really want that..."
Why do you like to stay in a mental misery all our life?
"Poor" people fail because on one common behavior: Their Whole Life is About Waiting.”
But how can you get rid of such a life?!
Who is the one that can help you get rid of the life you have today?! And if life is not about waiting ... how can we find the path to happiness?!
Well ... i believe we can read books about that ... then write ... which in fact is the process of defining our thoughts or ... find the help of someone.
That someone can be a mentor ... that usually is a very wise person ... or a dear friend that can act as a muse ... to inspire us …
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just to follow another path in life.
And sometimes any other path ... is much better as the actual one. But maybe you only need some guidance to understand that you can enjoy your life ... starting today.
Is like having near you a person that will help you fake it ... till the day ... you’ll make it.
So ... find a mentor ... or a muse!
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The definition of your ex, an old ex
and... a war criminal.
What is the difference between your ex, another old ex and a war criminal?!
Well ... so many, many people would say that almost no difference. If you start to define your old ex, then you suddenly have the chance to meet another old ex ... you would understand that those 2 guys are almost twin brothers.
They are just the same in all the details ... but the funny thing is that if you continue defining any one of them ... someone that would not understand very clearly the story ... would believe that you are speaking about a war criminal.
But how can we compare a war criminal with an ex?!
Are those guy ... the ex, the old ex ... so bad that they deserve to be defined in the same way you could define a war criminal?! Well ...
But you know ... if you think about Hitler, for example ... he is defined today as the worst character from the human history ... but there was a moment when Hitler was adored by the german people.
They loved him ... a lot, but no one speaks so much about those details anymore.
The same with any ex ... if you get back in time and remember those beautiful moments spent togheter ... then you compare him with the way you define everything today ... it almost makes no sense.
But sometimes ... our whole system of thinking makes no sense ... no logic at all ... and life continue.
And one day you will understand that the problem is not in the outside world, but inside of you.
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Your ex is not such a bad guy as an war criminal.
Any other ex ... the same.
Change the way you see all the events from your life ... think a little bit more of you ... as a soul .... and dare to redefine your whole life ...
cause maybe all those people from your past, at one time time they inspired you very good vibes.
