THE VIBE AMPLIFIER
… my illusory search for a beautiful life
THE VIBE AMPLIFIER
my illusory search for a beautiful life
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
1
THE VIBE AMPLIFIER
… my illusory search for a beautiful life
THE VIBE AMPLIFIER
... my illusory search for a beautiful life
Year: 2022
Author: Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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THE VIBE AMPLIFIER
… my illusory search for a beautiful life
“Be such a beautiful soul that people crave your vibes”
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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THE VIBE AMPLIFIER
… my illusory search for a beautiful life
To all the people that fucked my vibe over the time … till the moment when they made me realize that my vibe must be control just by myself … and I should never let anyone dominate it.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
4
THE VIBE AMPLIFIER
… my illusory search for a beautiful life
INTRODUCTION
Together with my friends Paul and Brian, talking about the philosophy of life and the paths that we should follow ...
trying to find ideas for a beautiful reality ... we came to the conclusion that the human being needs kind of a vibe amplifier that should be around all the time.
The 3 of us are now over 40 and even if many wrote me asking if Paul and Brian really exist or they are just my imaginary friends ... i smile each time when i read that question, understanding that the 2 of them are somehow my reflection ... of my thoughts, actions, desires and everything defines me.
Paul is the one that came first with the weird idea of the ... vibe amplifier and even if me and Brian laughed of him when we heard his theory .... later on we saw that we are actually
looking for the same thing .... in different other forms.
Paul was practicing a form of a modern art ... admiring beautiful ladies and thought all his life that the right woman, carrying an amazing vibe when she is with you ... can make you have the greatest vibe that you could carry inside of your soul during this life time.
I was believing in my businesses.
More money i was making, more happier i was.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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THE VIBE AMPLIFIER
… my illusory search for a beautiful life
Well ... until i realized that it was just an illusory path ... and the meaning of life, or at least of my life is not to make money.
Brian was somewhere between me and Paul.
He wanted money, ladies and everything could make him be happy ... even if he also realized the illusory meaning of it. But ... he always wanted ... the best.
In fact we discussed a lot about the illusion of life and this chase for volatile reasons that would make us have an amazing vibe ... and we came up all the time with lots of weird ideas.
This is how we started to analyze ... define and redefine the paths that we should follow in life so that life itself should become a beautiful journey.
In the book “The vibe ... amplifier” we gonna talk about different ways of becoming ... happy, but also ways of keeping that happiness inside of your inner soul.
So …. what if ... Paul’s theory with the vibe amplifier is true?!
What if ... connected to the present moment ... but also
being helped by something, or someone ... the beautiful vibe
will be amplified and amazing beautiful feelings will
overwhelm our souls?!
What if this really works?!
Should we pay attention to this theory?!
Well ... if you are already a happy person ... you can ignore us.
But ... maybe if your reality is not the way you wanted ... and you dreamed so much about it ... you can come and join us on this journey of finding the real path of a ... beautiful
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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THE VIBE AMPLIFIER
… my illusory search for a beautiful life
life.
There will be many times when everything might look like a nonsense ... but we’ve always considered that part of life. We will try to do our best to find that path ... the real one and we’ll ask you from the early beginning to forgive us if from time to time we will also guide you to what we love to define as ... pathless paths.
But you see ... life is a journey and we should not think so much as we do it ... at the final destination ... but enjoy the journey itself!
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
7
THE VIBE AMPLIFIER
… my illusory search for a beautiful life
It’s a new day
There is nothing to
do than ... enjoy it
We always start the day ... having lots of plans and many, many times is really overwhelming seeing that long list, impossible of being completed in only one day. But we keep doing it.
The same scenarios repeated on and on and on.
Over the years saw lots of people ... with lots of plans in their minds ... but no one ever said to me that the only plan of the day ... is to do ... just nothing. Well ... Paul is keep repeating me that.
His only plan for the day is just do nothing, relax ... and enjoy life.
And i laugh remembering that 2-3 years ago i was in my office, having one million things to do ... and just speaking with him, hearing his plans ... i somehow became annoyed of that.
I was feeding myself with the chaos came from the huge list i had to do, with the interactions of the customers and all the problems we had together .... and all kinds of other non sense things.
My company was kind of a vibe amplifier for myself ... and i was in love with the ... chaos generated by everything it was going on.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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THE VIBE AMPLIFIER
… my illusory search for a beautiful life
And indeed i was in total contradiction with Paul, explaining him all the time that i loved to be on the stage of life ... and that i will be able to enjoy peace ... when i will die. But till then ... i will just enjoy the chaos.
Well ... with the passing of time, things changed a little bit ... and i started in the beginning to ask myself why Paul is looking all the time for inner peace and i was in love with ... the chaos?!
Why he wants to do .... nothing ... and i plan one million
things to do in a day?!
Why we are searching for such contradictory things?! ... and still we were friends ... so we were somehow on the same frequency.
In 2-3 years i changed a little bit.
Near the list with things to do, i was always writing a list with
... things to not do.
Then i started to realize ... little by little ... that i was running by myself.
I was trying to get all my energy from the outer world ... and i totally ignored the universe from inside of me.
The chaos was kind of a drug, that made me forget of ... the inner self ... and allowed me to totally forget it.
But that until i started to see ... that everything i was doing ... was useless.
I started to accept that i was on the wrong path of life and i need to do ... a change.
Little by little ... that process started and i started to write down my thoughts.
I started to ask myself who i really was and why i run away
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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THE VIBE AMPLIFIER
… my illusory search for a beautiful life
of ... myself.
I actually started to do ... nothing ... and that was many, many times the whole plan for the day.
I wanted to understand the tips and tricks for enjoying life ...
and i just knew that everything was related with doing ....
nothing.
That was the starting point.
After telling to Paul many, many years in a row that doing nothing is ... just silly .... now i started to change my mind ... little by little.
But all i was doing .... was to accept who i was, connect to
myself ... and search for a better life ... on totally different paths than the ones that i was following till now.
In fact ... i accepted that doing businesses and being interested only and only about the money ... is wrong.
That can not be the meaning of life .... and i needed to think
of different forms of living it.
Writing my thoughts ... helped me a lot.
I understood ... who that inner self was.
I accepted it.
And we started to even .... become friends.
Little by little i started to enjoy life.
But was a different form of ... joy ... not like the one generated by the chaos ... that i used to like so, so much. My new main plan of the day was ... to do nothing ... and i laugh ... not believing that i started to copy Paul in such a way.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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THE VIBE AMPLIFIER
… my illusory search for a beautiful life
You are allowed to compare your life with other’s people lives
.... but only if you know to
do it with the negative examples
and also the positive ones
We use to compare ourselves a lot with the others.
And we do that so, so ... often.
But i ask myself why we use to compare ourselves just with the ones that we somehow admire ... or maybe envy and want to become the same as they are. That’s ok ... and even helps a lot.
The only real problem is that we do that much too often ... and we choose overwhelming examples most of the times. I believe is quite motivational to analyze the billionaires of the world and study the secret of their success, but on the other hand might create a big pressure on you seeing all those examples and still reminding all the time that you are a simple ... businessman.
The gap between you and them ... is just ... huge and there will be moments when that will be kind of a motivational fuel for yourself, but also times when, not being on a positive vibration ... that might amplify your negative vibration.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
11
THE VIBE AMPLIFIER
… my illusory search for a beautiful life
But what i am amazed is that we never compare ourselves with the ones that are in bad position ... in the present moment.
I used to have lots of friends involved in business .... but in
20 years i never saw ... not even one ... compare himself in the bad times with people that had experienced bankruptcy and lost everything they had.
Or ... if they did it ... the result was to induce themselves a fear ... that would damage their businesses more than they could imagine.
But let’s say you are an ordinary person and you simple want a better life.
Your best friend from school already got married, has a beautiful house, an amazing car and looks like ... she has the perfect life ... the one that you also want for yourself.
And it’s annoying to see that the days are passing and there is ... no real change in your life.
Start to be ... really disappointed, but on the other hand you totally forget that you had in fact 2 best friends in school and the other one is now divorced, single mother with 2 little kids, an ordinary job that is not allowing her to earn enough money for a better life ... and last time you met her you felt a negative vibe all the time.
And ... coming back to you ... you realize you have a stable relationship, a house where you live ok ... with no mortgage on it, an ok job ... but still you are not living that ... perfect scenario.
You see … when you compare yourself with those people you use to know so well ... you simple don’t have the ability to
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
12
THE VIBE AMPLIFIER
… my illusory search for a beautiful life
compare yourself with your both friends.
Create this analyze with what you define as the perfect case scenario, but also with the worst case example.
You are somewhere in the middle ... but you can’t see that the Universe protected you ... not sending you in a difficult life story.
It’s a simple example ... and many of us made this mistake one million times ... looking at the dark side of life and ignore it, but also looking at the positive side and simple ... admire that example ... and in the same time can’t see the whole picture.
The balance between what you name positive and negative example is not providing you ... the right vibe.
Seeing someone that has all what you desire for yourself ...
can actually give you the hope that everything is possible ... and even if you are so far of the example you look at ... you still have a chance to reach there.
And when you see the worst case scenarios ... you can understand that you are not in a bad situation .... however
your reality might look like ... and you could simple smile and continue your life, having the hope in your soul, that you’ll have the chance to get from life whatever you desire.
So ... what i want to say is that you need to compare yourself all the time with both examples ... the negative and the positive ones ... to understand your real position on the timeline of this journey that we name life.
Seeing the positive side all the time ... comparing our lives with the one of the others might be a vibe amplifier.
But you must also keep in mind to not make the mistake of
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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THE VIBE AMPLIFIER
… my illusory search for a beautiful life
seeing the negative side of the story ... cause this might really cause having negative amplified emotions.
It all becomes ... your own decision .... and following the
right steps of the process can help you a lot ... but also damage you a lot.
So ... just pay attention and follow positivity ... all the time
but don’t allow the huge gap between them and you to … disappoint you.
Simple … keep the right balance … whoever you compare yourself with.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
14
THE VIBE AMPLIFIER
… my illusory search for a beautiful life
Good connections .... give
us the perfect vibe
Brian is a very tricky guy.
He always does unexpected things.
But ... actually he is in a non ending desire of searching for new experiences.
I looked many times at him .... how he was taking a good
energy .... from socializing with other souls.
He simple knows to ... connect with other souls and that mix of energy generated by the connections ... makes him feel great.
I could not do what he does ... and i even find it weird
...cause he is actually a great example for all the ones that
don’t know how to enjoy life.
Yesterday he called me.
He was in Sofia, visiting the city.
Suddenly he sees a girl of about 25 with lots of luggages ...
trying to find someone to help her get a taxi to the airport.
She was Sofia ... from Sofia, a beautiful bulgarian lady ...
that was on the way to Paris,
where some friends were expecting her.
Brian likes her from the first second ... and just asks her ...
“Want me to help you with the luggages?!” Sofia smiles.
… my illusory search for a beautiful life
THE VIBE AMPLIFIER
my illusory search for a beautiful life
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
1
THE VIBE AMPLIFIER
… my illusory search for a beautiful life
THE VIBE AMPLIFIER
... my illusory search for a beautiful life
Year: 2022
Author: Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
2
THE VIBE AMPLIFIER
… my illusory search for a beautiful life
“Be such a beautiful soul that people crave your vibes”
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
3
THE VIBE AMPLIFIER
… my illusory search for a beautiful life
To all the people that fucked my vibe over the time … till the moment when they made me realize that my vibe must be control just by myself … and I should never let anyone dominate it.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
4
THE VIBE AMPLIFIER
… my illusory search for a beautiful life
INTRODUCTION
Together with my friends Paul and Brian, talking about the philosophy of life and the paths that we should follow ...
trying to find ideas for a beautiful reality ... we came to the conclusion that the human being needs kind of a vibe amplifier that should be around all the time.
The 3 of us are now over 40 and even if many wrote me asking if Paul and Brian really exist or they are just my imaginary friends ... i smile each time when i read that question, understanding that the 2 of them are somehow my reflection ... of my thoughts, actions, desires and everything defines me.
Paul is the one that came first with the weird idea of the ... vibe amplifier and even if me and Brian laughed of him when we heard his theory .... later on we saw that we are actually
looking for the same thing .... in different other forms.
Paul was practicing a form of a modern art ... admiring beautiful ladies and thought all his life that the right woman, carrying an amazing vibe when she is with you ... can make you have the greatest vibe that you could carry inside of your soul during this life time.
I was believing in my businesses.
More money i was making, more happier i was.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
5
THE VIBE AMPLIFIER
… my illusory search for a beautiful life
Well ... until i realized that it was just an illusory path ... and the meaning of life, or at least of my life is not to make money.
Brian was somewhere between me and Paul.
He wanted money, ladies and everything could make him be happy ... even if he also realized the illusory meaning of it. But ... he always wanted ... the best.
In fact we discussed a lot about the illusion of life and this chase for volatile reasons that would make us have an amazing vibe ... and we came up all the time with lots of weird ideas.
This is how we started to analyze ... define and redefine the paths that we should follow in life so that life itself should become a beautiful journey.
In the book “The vibe ... amplifier” we gonna talk about different ways of becoming ... happy, but also ways of keeping that happiness inside of your inner soul.
So …. what if ... Paul’s theory with the vibe amplifier is true?!
What if ... connected to the present moment ... but also
being helped by something, or someone ... the beautiful vibe
will be amplified and amazing beautiful feelings will
overwhelm our souls?!
What if this really works?!
Should we pay attention to this theory?!
Well ... if you are already a happy person ... you can ignore us.
But ... maybe if your reality is not the way you wanted ... and you dreamed so much about it ... you can come and join us on this journey of finding the real path of a ... beautiful
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
6
THE VIBE AMPLIFIER
… my illusory search for a beautiful life
life.
There will be many times when everything might look like a nonsense ... but we’ve always considered that part of life. We will try to do our best to find that path ... the real one and we’ll ask you from the early beginning to forgive us if from time to time we will also guide you to what we love to define as ... pathless paths.
But you see ... life is a journey and we should not think so much as we do it ... at the final destination ... but enjoy the journey itself!
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
7
THE VIBE AMPLIFIER
… my illusory search for a beautiful life
It’s a new day
There is nothing to
do than ... enjoy it
We always start the day ... having lots of plans and many, many times is really overwhelming seeing that long list, impossible of being completed in only one day. But we keep doing it.
The same scenarios repeated on and on and on.
Over the years saw lots of people ... with lots of plans in their minds ... but no one ever said to me that the only plan of the day ... is to do ... just nothing. Well ... Paul is keep repeating me that.
His only plan for the day is just do nothing, relax ... and enjoy life.
And i laugh remembering that 2-3 years ago i was in my office, having one million things to do ... and just speaking with him, hearing his plans ... i somehow became annoyed of that.
I was feeding myself with the chaos came from the huge list i had to do, with the interactions of the customers and all the problems we had together .... and all kinds of other non sense things.
My company was kind of a vibe amplifier for myself ... and i was in love with the ... chaos generated by everything it was going on.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
8
THE VIBE AMPLIFIER
… my illusory search for a beautiful life
And indeed i was in total contradiction with Paul, explaining him all the time that i loved to be on the stage of life ... and that i will be able to enjoy peace ... when i will die. But till then ... i will just enjoy the chaos.
Well ... with the passing of time, things changed a little bit ... and i started in the beginning to ask myself why Paul is looking all the time for inner peace and i was in love with ... the chaos?!
Why he wants to do .... nothing ... and i plan one million
things to do in a day?!
Why we are searching for such contradictory things?! ... and still we were friends ... so we were somehow on the same frequency.
In 2-3 years i changed a little bit.
Near the list with things to do, i was always writing a list with
... things to not do.
Then i started to realize ... little by little ... that i was running by myself.
I was trying to get all my energy from the outer world ... and i totally ignored the universe from inside of me.
The chaos was kind of a drug, that made me forget of ... the inner self ... and allowed me to totally forget it.
But that until i started to see ... that everything i was doing ... was useless.
I started to accept that i was on the wrong path of life and i need to do ... a change.
Little by little ... that process started and i started to write down my thoughts.
I started to ask myself who i really was and why i run away
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
9
THE VIBE AMPLIFIER
… my illusory search for a beautiful life
of ... myself.
I actually started to do ... nothing ... and that was many, many times the whole plan for the day.
I wanted to understand the tips and tricks for enjoying life ...
and i just knew that everything was related with doing ....
nothing.
That was the starting point.
After telling to Paul many, many years in a row that doing nothing is ... just silly .... now i started to change my mind ... little by little.
But all i was doing .... was to accept who i was, connect to
myself ... and search for a better life ... on totally different paths than the ones that i was following till now.
In fact ... i accepted that doing businesses and being interested only and only about the money ... is wrong.
That can not be the meaning of life .... and i needed to think
of different forms of living it.
Writing my thoughts ... helped me a lot.
I understood ... who that inner self was.
I accepted it.
And we started to even .... become friends.
Little by little i started to enjoy life.
But was a different form of ... joy ... not like the one generated by the chaos ... that i used to like so, so much. My new main plan of the day was ... to do nothing ... and i laugh ... not believing that i started to copy Paul in such a way.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
10
THE VIBE AMPLIFIER
… my illusory search for a beautiful life
You are allowed to compare your life with other’s people lives
.... but only if you know to
do it with the negative examples
and also the positive ones
We use to compare ourselves a lot with the others.
And we do that so, so ... often.
But i ask myself why we use to compare ourselves just with the ones that we somehow admire ... or maybe envy and want to become the same as they are. That’s ok ... and even helps a lot.
The only real problem is that we do that much too often ... and we choose overwhelming examples most of the times. I believe is quite motivational to analyze the billionaires of the world and study the secret of their success, but on the other hand might create a big pressure on you seeing all those examples and still reminding all the time that you are a simple ... businessman.
The gap between you and them ... is just ... huge and there will be moments when that will be kind of a motivational fuel for yourself, but also times when, not being on a positive vibration ... that might amplify your negative vibration.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
11
THE VIBE AMPLIFIER
… my illusory search for a beautiful life
But what i am amazed is that we never compare ourselves with the ones that are in bad position ... in the present moment.
I used to have lots of friends involved in business .... but in
20 years i never saw ... not even one ... compare himself in the bad times with people that had experienced bankruptcy and lost everything they had.
Or ... if they did it ... the result was to induce themselves a fear ... that would damage their businesses more than they could imagine.
But let’s say you are an ordinary person and you simple want a better life.
Your best friend from school already got married, has a beautiful house, an amazing car and looks like ... she has the perfect life ... the one that you also want for yourself.
And it’s annoying to see that the days are passing and there is ... no real change in your life.
Start to be ... really disappointed, but on the other hand you totally forget that you had in fact 2 best friends in school and the other one is now divorced, single mother with 2 little kids, an ordinary job that is not allowing her to earn enough money for a better life ... and last time you met her you felt a negative vibe all the time.
And ... coming back to you ... you realize you have a stable relationship, a house where you live ok ... with no mortgage on it, an ok job ... but still you are not living that ... perfect scenario.
You see … when you compare yourself with those people you use to know so well ... you simple don’t have the ability to
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
12
THE VIBE AMPLIFIER
… my illusory search for a beautiful life
compare yourself with your both friends.
Create this analyze with what you define as the perfect case scenario, but also with the worst case example.
You are somewhere in the middle ... but you can’t see that the Universe protected you ... not sending you in a difficult life story.
It’s a simple example ... and many of us made this mistake one million times ... looking at the dark side of life and ignore it, but also looking at the positive side and simple ... admire that example ... and in the same time can’t see the whole picture.
The balance between what you name positive and negative example is not providing you ... the right vibe.
Seeing someone that has all what you desire for yourself ...
can actually give you the hope that everything is possible ... and even if you are so far of the example you look at ... you still have a chance to reach there.
And when you see the worst case scenarios ... you can understand that you are not in a bad situation .... however
your reality might look like ... and you could simple smile and continue your life, having the hope in your soul, that you’ll have the chance to get from life whatever you desire.
So ... what i want to say is that you need to compare yourself all the time with both examples ... the negative and the positive ones ... to understand your real position on the timeline of this journey that we name life.
Seeing the positive side all the time ... comparing our lives with the one of the others might be a vibe amplifier.
But you must also keep in mind to not make the mistake of
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
13
THE VIBE AMPLIFIER
… my illusory search for a beautiful life
seeing the negative side of the story ... cause this might really cause having negative amplified emotions.
It all becomes ... your own decision .... and following the
right steps of the process can help you a lot ... but also damage you a lot.
So ... just pay attention and follow positivity ... all the time
but don’t allow the huge gap between them and you to … disappoint you.
Simple … keep the right balance … whoever you compare yourself with.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
14
THE VIBE AMPLIFIER
… my illusory search for a beautiful life
Good connections .... give
us the perfect vibe
Brian is a very tricky guy.
He always does unexpected things.
But ... actually he is in a non ending desire of searching for new experiences.
I looked many times at him .... how he was taking a good
energy .... from socializing with other souls.
He simple knows to ... connect with other souls and that mix of energy generated by the connections ... makes him feel great.
I could not do what he does ... and i even find it weird
...cause he is actually a great example for all the ones that
don’t know how to enjoy life.
Yesterday he called me.
He was in Sofia, visiting the city.
Suddenly he sees a girl of about 25 with lots of luggages ...
trying to find someone to help her get a taxi to the airport.
She was Sofia ... from Sofia, a beautiful bulgarian lady ...
that was on the way to Paris,
where some friends were expecting her.
Brian likes her from the first second ... and just asks her ...
“Want me to help you with the luggages?!” Sofia smiles.
