It sounded so ... so damm real ... and it made me feel alive in just few seconds.
Anna started to smile ... and i could not believe how beautiful she was.
For a moment ... i even had the illusory impression that she
connected to my soul.
But who knows?
I just realized in the end that ... the music is indeed a
gateway to great vibes.
Everything else ... is unimportant.
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Energetic fields are having huge
impact on our lives. Just pay attention to them.
I once wrote a book called ... “The art of playing around with the energies that surround us: Tips & Tricks for a beautiful life” ( http://bit.ly/3oYWSGP ) where i tried to explain the impact of energetic fields ... created in fact by the humans having inter connections.
Today i believe i understand better the concept ... cause i lived lots of other experiences ... and i had the chance to fuck my life few times more.
The fact is that ... i am actually aware at what an energetic fields is ... and its trend ... if it’s going into a positive or negative direction.
I can also say that i regret the fact that i was not connected to the right storied ... but i still try to find the best solution for myself.
After searching so many ideas for a life that could make me feel empowered by the energies of the outside world ... my search for tips and tricks took me in the position of focusing more on connecting to the nature, read different types of books that carry a positive message for life, try to explore more my inner world etc etc.
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The short story is quite simple ... like the title of my book ... and it means we need to start practicing the art of playing around with the energies that surround us.
But how can we manage situations when we can’t get rid of certain environments?!
... like family, a circle of friends from school, colleagues from work etc etc.
The energies of those people, but also the reactions of connecting together all those energies, no matter if they are positive or negative is influencing ourselves a lot.
And we can easily see the huge difference between a spiritual guru and an ordinary person.
The guru will not be influenced by the environment ... but the rest of us ... or at least many of us .... will be many times dominated by those energies.
So is there any escape so that we can start having beautiful lives ... without being influenced so much of those energetic fields where we live in?!
Well ... too many questions and also too many abstract answers .... but in life we can also find a trick that can save us.
From my experience ... the best is to understand that closing your eyes, connecting to the inner self and then ask for guidance for new paths to follow ... is probably best decision. The ugly connections ... and influences might be cut off ...
and you will be released for living new experiences ... and why not ... beautiful ones.
We should think deeper everyday ... analyze all the energies that surround us ... practice the self awareness and ask
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ourselves ... being extremely honest ... if that is the path of life we want for us ... or we deserve something much, much better.
Applying that trick you will be amazed of how the values and the impact of those energetic fields will be changed. Little by little ... your life will look different.
Don’t believe it?!
Well ... if you already have a beautiful life you can totally ignore me ... but if not ... at least you should try it as an experiment.
Just think about it!
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The best scenario happens
when you show mainly your ... beautiful side.
Before having the final decision for divorce ... a couple goes to the therapist.
They tell their story ... but the therapist started to laugh.
“What’s so funny?!” ... the lady asks.
“Well ... your case is so damm simple, that i don’t even know
if i will charge you.
But let’s start!
Please tell me why do you argue all the time?!” “Well ... because of the kids.
We just lost control over them and my husband is not doing anything about that, but we end arguing every time.” ... the lady replied.
Charlie was listening to the conversation ... and you could see him annoyed.
“Well ... sir ... you see ... kids are the way they are. We were also kids, but we don’t understand them anymore.
I just ask my kids all the time ... to show me their beautiful side.
I explained that we all have a beautiful and a dark side ... and it seems that they understood that ... or at least they do that in front of me.
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With my wife ... they just act in a randomly way ... and they show to her their both sides.
Basically ... i don’t have any problem at all with my kids, but my wife is getting crazy everyday ... and that’s the reason we argue so much ... and we will probably end up with a divorce.”
Now Clara became annoyed ... but the therapist continues: “I’m sorry to interfere ... mrs. Johnson ... but have you ever tried ... at least as an experiment of few days ... to show to your husband ... only your beautiful side?!”
“So ... we came in here with serious problems ... and you suggest us to make some experiments. I understand.
Isn’t your proposal a little bit naive?!”
“Well ... mrs Johnson ... imagine a world where all the humans would show only their beautiful side. But i am not telling you how to live your life.
I am just suggesting an experiment that you could do ... and i believe you’ll have nothing to lose. Your world ... is your family.
Make that world ... a beautiful one.” Clara smiled.
She suddenly realized that the therapist was right.
Did not knew how the future was going to look like, but at least ... she wanted to try that experiment. ... and maybe we should try it too.
Yes ... imagine how the world would look like then.
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My thinking ... a journey to 1000 directions
Not spending at least a little bit of time everyday on an introspection of that day ... is a silly decision.
But on the other hand ... thinking too much ... might be dangerous.
I do believe in a process that has 3 steps: analyze, define and then redefine everything ... in case that subject is not looking the way you want.
The problem with the mind is that when we start to use it ...
we realize we do not know how to control it.
So ... if we don’t use it ... is wrong and if we use it is ...
dangerous.
We are certainly in front of a nonsense ... and have no idea what we should do.
Well ... the scenarios are quite simple.
We don’t use the mind ... we are overwhelmed by emotions that we just don’t understand.
Using the mind ... combined with lot of contradictory emotions ... is making us jump right away on the territory of ... overthinking and kind of an emotional storm is overwhelming us.
So ... my idea of analyzing and defining might be wrong?! Well ... becoming ... same as i did ... my own therapist
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means to be in the same time the patient but also the therapist.
You can describe the emotions, listen to those thoughts that you have in mind ... and then be the therapist that is trying to redefine the whole scenario.
You just need to find a way in how you can metamorphose yourself right away from one character to another. Jump ... from being emotional to non emotional.
The tens, hundreds ... or even thousands of thoughts ...
should be seen just as simple ideas ... and nothing more.
Then the process that looks as an over thinking process ...
will become a simple process and nothing more.
You can play around will all the ideas ... and you’ll love doing it, not feeling overwhelmed.
You’ll see 1000 directions which you can follow ... but they will look just as ideas ... or suggestions. Nothing more.
You can then ... close your eyes ... connect to the inner self and ask your emotions ... what is the best path to follow?! Redefining means ... just choose another path.
Feeling a negative emotion ... means the answer is ... no ...
and the opposite ... a positive emotion will tell you that you
are on the good path of life.
Will it be easy to do it?!
Hell no ... but we have the duty ... in front of us ... at least to try such a process.
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Your vibe attracts ... your tribe
“My life is a disaster”
“I hate that person. He destroyed my life.”
“They just ruin me emotionally ... and i just can’t stand it.” I could write a book of 1000 pages ... about all those complains ... that i also used many, many times.
But years ago .... i had kind of awakening when i went to a
client ... a plastic surgery doctor ... and she was in the middle of a huge conflict with a lady that was certainly ... crazy.
Police came to the clinic ... and i had to wait for 2 hours to start my meeting with the doctor.
When the episode ended ... the doctor started to talk to me:
“I am really sorry for all you had seen.
I apologized for ... everything.”
“Please don’t worry. In life ... weird things are happening all
the time.” ... i replied to her.
“You see ... i attracted her.
She wanted to have a breast implant, that could not be realized.
But it’s not her fault.
Everything ... happened ... because of me.
I realized a long time ago ... that we somehow attract all those people from our lives ... and should be silly to define
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her responsible for what happened.”
That lady, the plastic surgery doctor ... gave me a great lesson.
I had in my life all kinds of people that i was defining
crazy ... starting with my mother and wife ... and ending up with my clients ... all of them. I could not believe it.
The doctor ... was so damm ... right.
And since then ... all the time when i meet the wrong persons on the timeline of my life ... in the next second ... i just ask myself ... “What’s wrong with me?! Why did i attracted such a person?! What is the message .... behind the message?!”
But ... i am writing and i am smiling ... cause i meet crazy people all the time ... even few that were patients in mental health hospitals.
... or maybe it’s my turn ... going for a while in such a place ... to understand why i lose my minds all the time.
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It always seems that something is ... missing
I was involved in the last 15 years ... in building houses and i recently realized few common patterns of the workers from the construction fields.
No matter how many materials i was bringing them ... there was always something missing.
You could bring them the whole deposit of materials .... but
something was stopping them all the time.
A piece of floor tile.
An electric wire.
A certain type of paint.
Etc. Etc
They were just driving me crazy ... hearing them ... “ we can’t complete that, because we miss that .... or that ... or that.”
Something was somehow stopping them .... and i was losing
my mind because of that.
But that was only till the day ... when i saw that i was having the same habit as them.
I was reading lots of books about happiness and study the methods of getting that into my life ... but a small detail was ruining everything all the time.
I started to analyze myself more and more.
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I was closing my eyes and thought about how my life looked like few days ago .... few weeks ago ... few months ago .... but also few years ago ... and i’ve been shocked.
I said to myself ... “Damm it! I judged all those years my workers that i was working with on the houses i was building .... but i am much stupid ... as they are.
At least they never read any book in their lives .... and they
have an excuse.
I was reading a lot.
I studied the subject a lot ... and all i was doing was that i was practicing ... the nonsense.”
It took me a lots of courage to tell to myself that all i was doing was ... wrong ... and it was so damm simple to end this story of being stopped to be happy ... just because of some silly little things.
I was letting myself being dominated of very small details ...
instead of seeing the whole picture of my life.
Everyday ... i was analyzing and defining everything was happening .... and while closing my eyes i was asking
myself ... “If i would live again that episode ... how would i redefine it?!”
And i had all kinds of scenarios into my mind ... until i said “Stop! Just stop! Is enough! I simple need to act on the scene of life .... and try to improve my way of acting more
and more ... until i will become a better self.” So .... am i happy today?!
After reading so many books about happiness ... did i really understood the concept?!
Well ... to tell you the truth ... no.
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But ... i am still trying ... and hope that one day i will learn the art of ... enjoying life.
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In the end ... we see a spectrum
of different types of the self
... but we just can’t recognize the real one
Many times in life we feel something, but we think something totally different.
And is funny cause when we open our mouths ... we start saying something that has nothing to do with what we feel or think.
Later ... seeing us acting on the stage of life ... one more time ... we see a totally different version of ourselves. So ... who is the real self?!
Which one can be defined as the one that represent you?!
The one that feels, thinks, speaks ... or acts?!
Why such a difference between those selfs?!
Why we see this spectrum?!
Why can’t it be only ... one self?!
