Indeed, volatility makes everything have the image of something that in the end ... will always disappoint us ... but actually volatility let us explore new paths.
It is the one that helps us understand that the partner that used to be long time ago ... the soul mate ... the absolute symbol ... is not anymore what used to be and we have the right to change our lives. Volatility is in all of us and same as we are disappointed ... in the same way we also disappoint the others.
We want absolute symbols ... but we also are absolute symbols for different people from our lives ... as friends, relatives, the life partner, our children etc etc.
But in fact, we live in a volatile world ... where the only absolute that we can clearly see is ... the volatility.
And we forget that inside of us ... there is the soul ... and the soul is actually the gateway to the supreme absolute.
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Long journeys redefines values, standards, philosophy and the way of being
The schools change us.
Changing the environment from home to the environment from school ... and even if we can’t really understand what is going on ... we start to be influenced a lot of everything around.
Then comes high school and for some ... the university.
Again ... the influence is usually becoming more and more powerful.
And then we start life ... with other different types of exams. Today i spoke with a student, from a far away country, that was stressed because of the exams that she has this week ... and i was replying that actually i have exams everyday ... by such a long time, exams given by the Universe.
For a moment, even if she is a brilliant philosopher ... she did not understood what i was saying.
But ... i am in a kind of a very long journey ... that redefines my way of being.
When i look back in my past ... i see some important periods like ... school, high school, university, my first company, the second company, entering into the real estate business and few more that totally changed my values, standards and ... even my philosophy. All those periods of my life helped me be the one that i am today.
I am not saying i am in a good or bad position, but all those events ...
even if i saw them as positive or negative, at that time ... made me understand the meaning of life, but also the meaning of my life.
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Today i feel myself much opened on everything ... even to immoral or illegal things.
Might sound weird ... but knowing that everything is just a reflection of my soul, i wonder myself what is really going on, why is that happening .... what is the message behind the message?!
I still feel a little bit afraid of long journeys, cause there are many exams to pass, so that journey to go to the end, but maybe the only meaning of life is to ... understand the life itself.
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“I have the right to change my mind”
Few days ago i’ve been signing a contract with a lady that was about 60 years old.
We were talking for more than 2 hours and ended up the conversation at 11 pm, friday evening.
No one would lose so much time to stay chatting for such an unimportant contract, but i love socializing.
The next day everything was ok, but after another day she called me ... saying with a normal voice ... that she changed her mind. I had replied with a question ... “What if i would have changed my mind?!”
So after signing a contract, after only 2 days she changed her mind ...
and when she saw that i became a little bit annoyed by her attitude ...
she calmly said ... “Why are you nervous?! I have the right, as a human being, to change my mind”.
Suddenly i was changing ... and became a little bit less nervous, cause i realized i can use the quote in my philosophical essays ... so she actually help me understood, something very simple that i haven’t thought about ... and that is the right to change our minds. And we have the right to ... divorce.
The right ... to change the job.
The right to change ... the friends.
And on and on and on ... same as we have the right to resign a contract.
The funny thing is that if i would have changed my mind ... that crazy old lady would have called me to court ... but she had the right to
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change her mind cause she was a lady ... and i had the duty to prove that i am a gentleman and forgive her.
Yes .. sometimes we need to see the funny part of anything that looks bad in our lives ... but the balance between certain things always existed in us ... in many, many occasions.
Today i feel sorry that i never had in mind this brilliant quote ... “I have the right to change my mind!”.
If i would get bak in time ... i would intensively use that for many, many occasions to all the situations that had a negative impact on me.
I felt many times that i should change the path ... but never thought that i have this fundamental right to change my mind.
So ... i changed my mind and allowed myself not be mad on the lady that resigned the contract.
I would not call her to court, asking her money for the fact that she changed her mind without a reason ... cause she already gave me something more important in return ... made me realize how much i lost till now, but also that i will act better on the stage of my life, just by knowing i have the right to change my mind anytime i want.
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The reason why some of our friends become enemies ... and some of our enemies become friends
Yes ... indeed is weird why some people that are friends becomes enemies, but also people that are enemies are becoming friends. You see, entering in the same scene of the daily reality ... which actually means in the same energetic field dominated by 2 individual energies and sometimes even more, those 2 persons start to like or dislike what they see in the connection that they have together.
But when i say “they like” ... is actually what they feel regarding the connection they have with the other person.
And sometimes is just a balance between good days and bad days ...
enjoying and disliking the relationship.
This is actually how we should describe many couples from anywhere in the world.
Rich countries, poor countries ... simple people that work in factories or intellectuals that read or even write many books, they all have in common the joy of living in beautiful connections with the people around ... or the opposite ... fucking their vibe with people that used to like a lot in the past.
The connection between the individuals becomes more a ... reaction, that can be a good or a bad one.
This is also the reason why we use to say that we have ... chemistry. But the reaction between 2 persons is also defined as mixing 2 vibes that can be alike or totally different.
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Today they could be on the same frequency ... but the day after tomorrow ... everything could be a totally different scenario. And it all happens cause ... as human beings we have a strange balance between positive and negative energies ... and when we meet with other people we forget that in any connection we should show them our beautiful side.
Friends ... the people that we enjoy being with ... in one point, losing the control on their energies, switch the vibe of the relationship from a positive to a negative one ... but there are also enemies that comes to an awakening state when they realize that losing their energies on hating each other is useless.
Wise people ... even being enemies ... they find a way to close a non
sense conflict, generated only by the fact that one day, long time
ago ... they just had a bad day, being dominated by negative energies ... that did not let them act in a proper way with the people around. But truth be told ... we don’t have so many days ... of being wise persons.
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Sometimes life is controlled by invisible forces ... difficult to be understood
I was few times in front of people that i knew by such a long time, but something weird happened ... cause it looked like they lost their minds for a short period of time ... in a negative, but also a positive way.
People, that would not help ... not even their brother or sister, helped me with things that i would never thought they will do it.
... but also people that used to be very friendly to me just blocked my way to certain paths that i wanted so, so much.
It was almost impossible to understand what is going on ... cause none of them are usually acting in the way they acted in those situations.
Fist time i thought is just a simple coincidence, then i saw that everything was repeated on and on and on.
And there were few times, when i wanted somehow to change my destiny completely and i had so, so many people that appeared from nowhere and told me ... “No! This is a huge mistake!”.
People that did not know each other came to me and sent a very powerful message.
The only thing i had to do was to meditate why whose people are sending those signals ... or why i was stopped to follow certain paths for my life even if i wanted them so, so much?
Or why everyone is helping me in certain directions?!
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The statistical datas of all those stories ... made me believe that life, in some key points, is run also by very powerful unseen forces ... difficult to be understood.
Is like we receive some guidance ... but we need to see and understand the signs sent by those invisible energies.
This is why, in the moments when we are in what we should name ...
a balance, not knowing what to decide between 2 or more options ...
is very important to meditate over the signs you recognize on the scene of life.
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Accused that is not watching the news
... the silliest accusation from the modern history
I am not watching the news, by such a long time ... and i am extremely happy i could do it.
Years ago i spent thousands of hours in front of the tv, or on my computer and phone ... watching the latest news.
One day i realized i live in a silly world where all my thoughts and emotions are influenced a lot by the what was studying on the news. Then ... i just stoped doing it.
I became totally disconnected from everything.
What was funny ... was that i thought was so important after a day of profoundly analyzing a subject ... was irrelevant one or two weeks later.
Today i don’t know anymore anything at all about politics ... and not even what is going on my community. But you know what?!
Even if i don’t care about the events from the outside world, i analyze everything around me, but everything means ... what is actually behind reality, what are those generated energetic fields that influence our lives from shadow and why we can’t see the message behind the message.
For example ... we pollute the environment, but people from my area pollute the environment from here not from South Africa or India ... or whatever other place.
But is not that we pollute ... but we actually destroy the world we live
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in.
Someone accused me recently that i sleep with my eyes opened, not knowing and realizing the impact of the fact that the city hall from my zone decided to give permission to a company that will deposit and process the garbage in our commune.
He was somehow right ... but the mayor already made the arrangements.
Why this happened?!
Quite simple ... we chose the wrong mayor ... so we are also responsible for what the mayor did.
But again ... i will remain totally disconnected from the news, even of this is actually something important for my community.
I just know that we attracted what we deserve ... and in our case ...
we attracted ... garbage.
So?!
We cannot change the environment where we live ... and its energetic field ... if we just watch the news.
No ... we will not do it, cause it does not work like this.
We need to change the inner world of our souls and then the outside world will be changed.
I’ve been accused many times that i don’t know what is going on around me .... but i was actually studying this all the time.
I was focus ... on the connections and reactions of energies and why they generate such a reality.
When the garbage was appearing near us ... we should only ask ourselves what is really going on in our minds and souls ... that we created such a reality.
Maybe the ones that are speaking about the law of attraction ... will also talk about those facts and not only about money, success, expensive cars and vacations, luxury homes etc etc. We like it or not ... the reality is generated by us.
We start with an idea, then a collection of thoughts and then ... reality just appears in front of our eyes, in a beautiful or a negative way. “It’s quite easy! It’s all about signing a paper”
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“The woman is a beautiful melody when the man is a good musician”
It happens i know a guy, close to 65 ... that works at a company which is selling construction materials.
I go to them daily, and he is the one that carries what i buy to my car. I speak with him like he is about my age, even if he is close to the age of my parents.
Knowing him by a long time, i’ve asked him why he is not retiring ... and i’ve been amazed when he told me that would be boring to stay at home.
