You might get a positive influence ... or a bad one.
Have you ever thought what is behind the concept of sex?!
I mean ... what is sex?! ... behind the pleasure and why the churches from all around the world are telling us that we should not practice it before the marriage and after we get married we should not do it with someone else except the chosen husband or wife.
Listening a priest, especially when you are a man and still young, even if you are married ... is boring and annoying ... i know.
As a philosopher ... i believe that to understand life we need to somehow experience good things, but also the ones that are defined negative ... as immoral or illegal ones.
That means ... i totally agree with everything life has to offer us.
I don’t believe in limits and anything that has dogmatic values ... but i am ready to listen absolutely any theory that has to do with the life itself.
This is the reason why i keep meditating on why all the religious people insisted so much that we should have sex ... only and only if we are married and just with the husband or wife.
Somehow i believe that sex can empower us in such a way ... that can recalibrate and give us a very beautiful and powerful energy, but also could give us bad vibes.
I know many people that used to be in not such a bad position, but after they started a beautiful relationship ... they somehow were
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empowered and totally changed into an amazing way.
But it happens that i also know people that were in an excellent position and after being involved in a new relationship ... that did not had the right chemistry ... and they ended being totally ruined. Everything looks like a strange balance between empowering ... and ruining us.
Kind of an ... energetic lottery ... but i still don’t believe that the secret of life is to be involved just in a unique relationship for the whole life.
In our search for happiness ... we fail many times.
We fall in love even from the kindergarten ... but we don’t have the luck to stay in that fairy tale for a life time, because us ... in the modern times ... we don’t stay in a village for a life time and don’t follow the same path forever ... so that does not mean we should not be allowed to try having everything a relationship means ... with other partners also ... including sex. Is it risky?!
Well ... life itself is risky ... but in the end it worth having the risks. Being dogmatic it’s quite ok for a while ... but experiencing life, looking for energies that will empower us ... i believe should be a better path even if it looks as a lottery.
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Don’t run away ... anymore!
Is useless!
Stop for a second and enjoy the music of life! The song is ... amazing!
We live in a world that is teaching us that the secret for a successful life is being multitasking.
We can be parents, partners in a company, dancers, football players, musicians, lovers etc etc.
And we need to remember all the time that whatever we do ... we need to be fantastic ... and doing one million things in the same time is ... just natural in the nowadays society.
But you see ... multitasking is actually an utopian concept.
We just can’t be in the same time an excellent parent, a fabulous husband, a very successful businessman etc etc.
We can play in an amazing way the role ... but not in the same time. The ability of jumping from one Universe to the other ... being able to change the frequency right away ... is actually the trick for a beautiful life.
For example ... we need to understand that the Universe from home is not the same with the Universe from work.
There are 2 different worlds ... defined by totally different energies. We must not mix them ... and also act a little bit different, depending of the role you are playing.
At work ... you could be a though boss, but it does not mean we should also play this role at home with our family.
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So ... somehow the secret is readapting right away at the world where you enter in ... and maybe stay more in the Universe where you feel better.
After an age, we should also ask ourselves if is really necessary to run away so, so much ... and if it is not the case to just ... stop ... and simple enjoy the music of life.
Just think about what you love most and arrange the things to stay more in that energetic field.
The song of life will sound ... amazing.
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Life is looking sometimes as a path.
Sometimes is longer ... sometimes is shorter, depending of the lessons we need to
follow during this lifetime.
Her grandma was not feeling well.
They thought that she is not going to live much longer from now.
She was really sad.
The husband, being busy all the time ... did not know the story ... so he was keep wondering what is going on, but finding out he replies: “... you see ... life can be longer or shorter.
We stay in here the amount of time that we need, but also that we are allowed.
She can just feel bad those days and few more days later she can be ok again”.
She looks at him ... and defined her husband as being insensitive and from sad ... she suddenly became mad on him. ... but he was right.
The wife was not accepting a philosophical and also a spiritual truth. Maybe she knew he was right ... but did not want to accept it in her case.
You see ... sometimes things happen in a way that we could be forced to leave the job we have, or leave our family ... because we need to work abroad, or leave our friends because we finished high school and we go to a university from another state etc etc. This is how life works.
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But sometimes we need to change the reality where we live ... but this is because we are inside of an energetic field that is not empowering us anymore.
We need a change ... and because in this Universe everything has a beginning, the story itself and an end ... the life goes to an end. And it all becomes a philosophical debate if we accept and embrace death ... as part of the process of being here.
Indeed we might see life as a path that takes us to a certain
destination, but even if death looks like the final destination ... but
the journey itself is the most important experience that we should
enjoy and understand in life.
We should not be mad ... or sad.
We should just connect with all the Universe has to offer us ... even if it look good or very bad.
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Having everything and not realizing it
... is almost a habit in the nowadays society
I once read a book about a guy that was quite wealthy, but he was not realizing it.
He discovers the concept of personal growth and goes to a session at a lady that was a life coach.
First thing she does, after finding out that he is a businessman ... takes her pen and tells to the guy: “Now ... give me the list with everything you possess! ... everything”
She writes down in her agenda all the details that he mentioned, opens her calculator ... thinks for 30 seconds without saying a word and then replies to the guy ... smiling:
“You see ... you have different possessions that worth about 2 million dollars and you came to me ... explaining the illusion that you feel you have ... nothing.
You actually lose your time, but also mine.
Considering that you have 2 million dollars ... not in cash, but still ... i will charge you 1.750 dollars for this session”. “Is this a joke?!”
“No ... it’s not a joke” ... the coach is losing her temper.
“Your present moment is a joke.
Your silly mind is a joke.
How the hell ... you came in this position of owning 2 million dollars, but you feel you have ... nothing?! Wake up!!
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Listen ... for this 1.750 dollars, that i will charge you, i’ll give you as a present my small calculator ... so that each time when you feel that you have nothing ... you calculate again and again and again the value of all your material goods”.
The coach knew what was the real problem of the guy, but she was pretending she is not understanding what is the isue ... waiting the perfect moment to connect with him from soul to soul.
The guy had lots of material goods, but was not feeling anything inside of his soul.
He had everything ... but not happiness.
He just spent too much time in an energetic field that was related only and only with the energies of money ...totally ignoring the others aspects of life.
He needed someone in his life to mentorship him that he already had all kinds of financial experiences and exploring the world of money needs to go to an end ... so that will have time for other life experiences.
His emotions and feelings that he actually has nothing in his life ...
were real.
Those material goods could not supply anymore the needs of his soul. He needed a change ... and he came to the best place ... at a life coach, but she could only guide him ... nothing more.
The guy had everything, was still young, in his power, rich enough ...
and could start the process of change right away.
So the question is ... having everything and not realizing it, like the guy with 2 millions in his pocket ... or having nothing and not realizing it, like a poor, but happy kid from an undeveloped country ... which is a better position?!
Today i believe is not so important what we have or we don’t have ...
but the fact that we master the art of connecting to the present moment and ... enjoy life.
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Sometimes, after a long journey ... running in an obsessive way to a certain direction ... we might need someone to guide us ... like a therapist, a life coach, a new life partner ... or some new friends ... to show us the real beauty of life.
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What is reason why is so important to start the day ... in a beautiful way?!
I had been wondering many times why is so important to prepare ourselves before we start the day.
I read about lots of personalities that start in the morning at 4-5 am ... listen relaxation music, practice meditation, read personal growth books, plan the new day and try to visualize the day as a positive scenario.
They actually try to connect to a positive energy field, that will somehow control reality from that day ... and let themselves be dominated by that energy ... and everything will be perfect cause they expect great things to happen.
But for many others ... waking up, starting a new day early in the morning ... is horrible.
Even if 1 million people from all around the world don’t wake up anymore ... and only thinking at that should let many of us meditate more about the luck we have that we woke up ... we don’t appreciate the beauty of being alive.
We should somehow find a way to connect at the present moment, at everything means our reality from the first moment when we open our eyes till the last moment before we go to sleep.
Starting the day with relaxation, connecting to beautiful vibes, thoughts and ideas ... we will place ourselves in a world of positivity. The day will start in a beautiful way ... and remaining on the same frequency ... will let the day continue on the same way.
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It’s somehow a trick of connecting and attracting beautiful things in our lives ... and staying connected to this energy field can be just ... a habit.
Just think about it ... and try it as an exercise.
You might be amazed of the results.
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Envy is a disease ... sometimes almost
impossible to be cured.
The nonsense of why they call them “monkeys” ... but on the other hand they dream to be in their position
We could have the perfect attributes from the world, like being intelligent, beautiful, having a beautiful vibe all the time etc etc. We could be defined even as ... the perfect human beings, but somehow a lifestyle defined by laziness ... will take us in the position of spoiling our potential.
In the beginning we see that life will offer us lots of opportunities ... but we miss so, so many of them, without even realizing that life is based on the concept of ... timing.
But we keep a positive attitude all the time and we believe new opportunities will always appear.
Time is passing and then we see around us, people that did not had such a beautiful potential as we have ... that succeeded things that looked impossible to get during this lifetime. We dislike seeing ... that.
And for the first time we see ... envy ... inside of us.
God, Allah, the Universe ... however you want to name the Supreme Intelligence ... was offering us everything and we failed, spoiling lots of chances to be in positions that friends of us, that don’t have our potential ... succeeded.
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We dislike looking at their stories of success ... which are in fact stories about an impossible success that became real.
If we should study a little bit in the world, we should see that in the country near us, there is a guy that is richer than the richest person from our country ... that a guy from Texas came with a better mathematical theory than a guy that won the Nobel prize last year etc etc.
