For anybody ... there is someone better than him, but still ... we totally dislike the fact that some of our friends got the success we missed so many times.
But in the same time, as envy becomes bigger and bigger inside of us ... we totally ignore the laziness that defines us by such a long time. And then one day ... it’s so obvious that envy became for us a disease, impossible to be cured.
We dislike everyone around that has succeed.
We actually hate them ... calling them monkeys, stupids, idiots, losers etc etc.
But ... not even for a second ... we don’t realize we started life in an energetic field dominated by very powerful energies that could help us live the perfect case scenario for the life of a human being ... but we failed ... spoiling everything.
And the energy field where we stay ... totally chanced.
A stupid jump ... from the positive energies to ... the negative ones.
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Some people are acting just as thieves
... even if we don’t have enough proofs against them. But what if we should donate them
what they try to steal from us?!
A guy i know goes to a car service where i also use to take my cars. He calls me today, explaining that instead of paying 100 dollars as he agreed with the chief from there, the total invoice was in the end 4 times more.
His car was not worthing more than 500 dollars ... so it was a total non sense to pay 400 dollars to fix it, even if he needed it.
He was feeling that he’s been robbed ... and he was complaining to me for about half an hour.
I did not knew what to say to calm him, but a brilliant idea came to me ... so i told him:
“Listen to me .... call the guy and tell him that you decided to donate
the car to him ... with the only condition that he will have to pay the invoice of 400 dollars at the company where he was working”.
He said nothing ... for few seconds and then he suddenly laughs and replies to me:
“I can’t believe it!
Brilliant idea!! The car is a garbage anyway ... and if i donate this car to him, i will then enjoy the other car i have ... which by the way ... is an amazing car”.
Well ... you see there are lots of companies that tries to rob us ... but also lots of people that we deal with ... in the real life.
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Sometimes is annoying ... seeing how they try to fool you ... but what if instead of letting them introduce you in an energy field where you don’t feel so comfortable ... you simple give them what they want from you as a present ... or a simple donation ... no matter if that something is cheap or expensive?!
Do you think the intention of being robbed will be dissolved?!
Will that be enough for the person that tries to fool his clients?!
Will that person learn the lesson?!
... hell no ... most probably not, but for a second the feeling of being embarrassed will make him realize the negative values of the energy field behind a reality that he tries to dominate in such a ugly way.
Soon he will forget ... but the moment of feeling uncomfortable with his miserable actions will remain in his mind.
He will be annoyed ... till the day when he will realize that in life there are lots of ways of making money ... including the ones that do not involve robbing people.
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Money represent energies.
Be aware how you make those money
if you want to be happy or unhappy when you spend them
In the nowadays society ... money are very important. 100 years ago money were important also ... and probably 1000 years ago ... it was the same, but money were not so important as they are now.
Today ... we should sell our organs for a huge amount of money. Or we should even sell our closest friends ... in the same way as Judas sold Jesus 2000 years ago, but that is only cause we don’t really know what money are.
In trade for money we accept an unacceptable boss at the place where we work, or we accept to deal with people that we won’t even say “Hello!” ... if money were not part of our lives. So should we pay attention on how we make money?!
Well ... everything we interact with ... means energies ... and we accept or ignore them.
Once you accept a certain type of energy, even if you like it or not, you will be placed in a energy field dominated by those forces.
Years ago, a real estate investor, that did lots of compromises for the money used to build his empire, having lots of problems with his tenants... he wrote one day to one of his client this email:
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“Good morning!
This is definitely your style of doing business, and at our age we won’t change.
I honestly don't understand why we have to play this play every month, or even more punctually ... why should I be forced to play in this scene ?!
It's useless considering that now I rent almost as much as I take from you ... at 500 m away from the house where you are now, some cottages made according to the Soviet standards of the 60s for satellite countries.
If you imagine I have to be in the skit ... the sucker who comes and begs to be paid, month after month ... is fine. It is your right to have any vision you want.
We as humans have the right to any thoughts ... but respecting them is okay to do only conceptually.
We waste our time annoying each other ... you realize, right ?!
I run after you to pay, and you're annoyed that you have to pay me.
Month by month ... same situation.
It's useless to make money by annoying each other ... because we certainly won't enjoy them.
If you want, we go to the notary today and I donate to you the house ... so that we won't be forced to play this ugly play every month.”
The guy was realizing that everything is a non ending story.
He wanted as money to come to him on automatic pilot, but the energies of the money used to invest in real estate ... were not good energies.
He planted cactus seeds and was expecting to get apples ... which was a total non sense.
He could not enjoy the money that came to him ... cause the “seeds” he planted in his investment ... were not having a positive foundation.
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Management of conflicts ... a subject that we should study for our daily survival
What i see in our era is that everybody around is dominated by the weird energies of their egos.
With important personalities ... but also with simple people... you need to be aware at the way you interact with them, otherwise everything will be messed up.
You need to think twice before saying something ... and if you say it ... it’s also important to pay attention at the way you say it.
A simple word ... or saying it in a way that could be misunderstood might ruin a relationship that you have by a very long time. Just a simple mistake.
Only one time ... and the connection you had with that person becomes history.
And i keep wondering myself why?!
Why we let the ego destroy the relationships we have with the others ... but also why we should control us very well when we act on the stage of life and we are in the company of other people.
A dear friend told me today that i am ... conflictual ... and i smiled. I smiled cause i know he is somehow right but i also know that i deal with lots of people and the chances as ... no matter what happens i succeed to avoid the conflict ... is about 95%. The left 5% ... is for sure happening all the time.
I always tell to my friend the funny stories of different conflicts i have with the people i interact with ... and we even have the power to laugh defining what is going on.
On the other hand i sometimes discuss with another friend of mine, that owns 2 hotels.
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One is 2 stars and one 3 stars.
The conditions are not so good, even if one of the hotels is a new one ... and this is the reason why they weekly have negative comments.
But the hotelier is a wise guy.
Even if i started to believe the comments that i read about his hotel,
one day he told me:
“Listen to me!
We have few hundreds people that visit us weekly ... so 1 person from about 300 persons thinks and writes a negative comment about us. Is less than 1%.
We act pretty good ... as hotels.
You need to see the big picture with us and also understand that in a
world dominated by egos ... we don’t satisfy 1 person from 300,
which is quite good”
He was right.
I disagree with maybe a maximum of 5% of the people from my life and i am also having conflicts with them ... so i act worst as the people from a 2 stars hotel ... but still with 95 persons from 100, i have good relationships with.
I work with myself ... and even studied the management of conflicts, but i still see how i enter from time to time to a negative energy filed ... dominated by conflicts.
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Missing that something from the
past ... but only a second after ... you’re seeing that is making you sick cause you’re do it again
He was still thinking about her, but he could not define for clear if he was missing her or some of the moments he spent with her.
The problem was that every time he was missing her ... they got in contact ... meet again ... but something was wrong.
He was missing the past, but no matter what he was doing ... he could not bring again those feelings from past into the present.
He was still hoping that ... even if he failed it now ... the future will be different.
He had the desire for that special connection with her ... but everything was so weird cause something was giving him the sensation of making him sick ... every time they restarted their story. So ... a perfect love story ... that could not be revived anymore. Everything was so logical ... but not for this scenario with her.
He remembered that many, many years ago when he finished kindergarten ... he was unhappy, cause he was missing his colleagues and that environment.
With primary school ... the same.
And same with secondary school, high school, university ... but also his first company.
But he never had the chance to come back to the kindergarten, after finishing it ... and neither to primary school, secondary school etc etc. It was a special time for all of them, but he could not accept that their time of being together ... went to an end.
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He wanted one more time to feel those vibes of the energetic field that dominated their love story... but it was not possible anymore. In fact it was possible, but the sensation of making him sick ... was actually a clear sign that he must not come back in there anymore. The Universe ... was whispering him a clear message ... but he was not listening.
Sometimes ... we don’t accept reality, even if everything is so clear and we know it ... but maybe we need to see the same scene on and on and one ... to accept it’s time for something else in our lives.
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The aggressiveness of existential questions will easily reveal the truth behind the daily lies
If you’ll ever have the chance to be arrested, or kept by police for a while ... after the annoying times of being interrogated ... if you will have the power to see the positive side of the story, you will actually learn how to ask yourself in an aggressive way existential questions that you avoid by such a long time.
Ask yourself why you keep drinking if you already know that this is ruining your life.
Or why you still gambling online ... if you lost even the money for the rent of the curent month.
Or why you keep smoking weed ... if you already understood that
drugs are making you see anything, even simple things ... in an
amplified apocalyptic way.
Too many questions.
The list is so ... so .. so long and you avoid it by such a long time, hoping that somehow all those existential problems will dissolve in a magic way ... and disappear forever.
But all those questions reveals the truth behind the silly lies you are keep telling yourself ... by months or even by years. You keep yourself prisoner in an illusory word.
The energetic field that is controlling this reality is negative, but you still keep telling yourself ... that the change will start from tomorrow. Which tomorrow??
The one ... that you will do 10 or 20 years from now?!
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And i am wondering myself ... do we really have the gut to interrogate ourselves?!
And how do we react when we see in front of us the lies and the truth?!
Do we know to react?!
Do we start the change from the next moment?!
Well ... the chances are sometimes less than 1% to start the chance ... but it’s all a decision ... the one of stating a new life. It’s a balance between a beautiful path and the illusory trap of negativity where we stayed for such a long time ... that we even call that our home.
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Timing is also important for a good connection
A friend wrote me few days ago about how he missed about 10 times the chance of having a sexual relationship with a lady he knows by years .
They were friends and communication was amazing ... but only till one point.
All what they could be was somehow ... sex mates.
I know it sounds a little bit immoral, but the guy, being married, but having a bad relationship at home ... was in the need of something else to complete his life.
She was divorced, but still not ready to start for real a new relationship with someone else.
