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ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
The fairy tales can heal your soul
What are the fairy tales and what is their meaning in our lifes?
When you are a child you believe in Santa Claus, in cartoon characters, in lots of stories you hear at the kindergarten ... then time is passing and you disconnect from all those fairy tales.
You start to see the world throw the eyes of society and start believing those are just stories and you were only a naive person ... and that’s it. Why?!
Cause people with empty souls had been explaining you that this is not something real ... and you should just wake up.
But one day ... being alone ... just you with your soul ... start to think again of fairy tales.
And you keep asking ... what if i am lucky enough to be the only one in the world that the Universe allowed to live a fairy tale into a parallel universe?!
If you dare to confront the dogmatic philosophy ... your dreams might come true. A fairy tale can be a dream as Ghandi had ... to had the English Empire out of India ... without any violence of all ...or a person as Mother Teresa who founded the Missionaries of Charity and tryed to heal the world of pain ... a person as Steve Jobs that wanted and succeded to change the world throw technology.
But a fairy take can be also a love story ... lived at any age of your life, even if you are 17, 37 or 77 years old.
Ask you soul if still believes in those things, define the road to that story and then just enjoy it.
Fairy tales can heal our soul!
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A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
One piece of cake
… but only one
There is a saying that ... one day your life will be better than your dreams.
But you have so many, many dreams ... which one would you like it for real in the next moment?!
How can our dreams come true?!
How can we get in life all the things we want?!
If you would meet God, what would you ask him to do for you?
Probably if you are wise enough, you should ask joy and happiness for your soul ... not money, success or other illusory things.
I think in life ... we need to have a clear balance between what you want to do ...
and what you need to do to live your life.
You have weight problems, but you love eating cakes?
Well ... i think you can allow yourself to eat a piece of cheese cake from time to time.
But only ... one piece.
You like wine, but you know that you got drunk too many times?
Again ... you should learn to enjoy a glass of wine ... and that’s it ... but only one glass.
Focus on enjoying the taste of wine ... but not the quantity.
But what should we serve our soul with?!
What a mature person needs for feeling joy into the morning when is waking up? Most probably that is ... love.
Think about the piece of cheese cake ... the glass of wine ... but only one glass ...
and how you should define for you ... “a piece of love” ... but only “one piece”.
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A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Happiness can be defined in many, many ways
We have so complicated minds, that it takes years to fully undestand ... or maybe even a lifetime ... that true happiness can come from very, very simple things. We can read hundreds or even thousands of books and look for the secret ... and maybe one day, a pauper, at the corner of the street ... might tell you this secret ... just by looking at him.
A pauper .... is one person that probably lost everything a human being has, but
still if he wants to feel joy inside of him ... he will find a way for that.
The biggest virus from the world is the unhappiness. You find it everywhere ... and is very, very easy to take this virus ... even if you try to protect yourself. On the other hand happiness has indeed many, many ways in how it can be defined ... you just need to be a very open mind person. If you love fishing ... just do it.
You love traveling ... just do it ... dont need to travel with a private jet ... you ca take the train or go into the mountains, feel the nature and dont spend any money at all.
You want to feel real love inside your soul ... just allow your heart to fall in love ...
no matter of who you fall in love with.
Nowadays to do things you love to do is defined as a luxurious idea.
But maybe you should learn the lesson the pauper from the corner of the street is sending you.
Follow your heart ... allow it to be alive ... the heart thinks better than your brain.
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A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Parallel world love story
Love is defined, even by the greatest philosophers of the world as one of the main path we should follow in life.
We trend to think that the meaning of life is to make money, have a familly, have a big house with 2 cars garrage, a nice big bank account ... and many, many material things that will present us into the world as a successful person.
But we work so much to own those things, that in the end our soul can be defined as lost and empty.
Years are passing and you start to dont understand who you are anymore. You start reading personal development, which by the way ... is focusing again too much on success ... then psichology and philosophy ... but still you will not find all the answears to heal your soul.
There will be people redirecting you to the bible and religion ... but you need something to live for real, as you can change deep inside yourself. What should be this small piece that is missing from the puzzle?!
What medicine can you take so that you can feel joy inside yourself?!
Is there a magic pill for that?!
So many people are feeling so empty inside ... they are drinking alchohol, take
drunks, buy expensive cars, goes into expensive vacations all around the world,
do all kind of things that they believe it can bring them into another reality that
can make them be happy.
But ... they fail.
For healing your soul ... there is only one magic pill ... and that is love.
But ... now hearing this, you will start telling your story ... and the main idea is that you have a fixed life and things cant be changed.
Married ... with children ... prisoner for life into a familly where you are not happy and you will never be happy.
And as i wrote into the past, there ate 2 kinds of unhappy people: the ones that accept reality just as it is and the ones that dares to be happy at least into a parallel world.
So ... parallel world love story ... which can be translated as love affair, which exists in many, many cases ... might be the magic pill.
We will not talk about morality, cause healing our souls might be more important as anything else into the world.
You have the fundamental right to be allowed to feel joy inside of you.
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A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Coming with good or bad energies at home
It takes years to understand that you must not bring bad energies into your home.
A child having problems at school with the classmates will not come back very happy at home.
A person that works in a supermarket, dealing with hundreds of customers in one day, or even thousands, will be very low energy when is coming home etc.
What kind of interactions we have in our families after such a difficult day?! ... what is happening into the harmony of our homes?!
In most of the times we dont know how to manage our emotions, our interactions with other people and somehow we bring those bad influences at home ... which is really bad.
I dont remember any courses from school, teaching me this important lesson for life.
We learn so many formulas in mathematics, formulas that we will never use in life
... but such a simple theory of energies we are bringing into our homes is nowhere teached.
But here is one question: can we also bring good energies into our families?! I will tell you a story, about a close friend of mine from a faraway country.
She is a very beautiful lady, had a beautiful familly, a lovelly husband ... kids ...
and everything she could dream for.
But she was never happy at home ... always having fights with her husband.
From outside ... they looked like the perfect familly ...but from inside ...
everything was a mess.
One day she falled in love of another married man ... and they started a wonderfull love story.
The story itself is a very long one, and i will not mention it, cause it will take 3 days to write it, but most import is what she told me many times ... in that relationship she got something that made her be a totally different person. Since that relationship started everything at home was metamorphosised into pure harmony.
So ... how can we define my friend?!
Was it moral what she was doing?!
Difficult to define, but the effect itself it was the contrary effect the firts one we discussed into the begining.
So ... you can come with bad, but also with good energies at home ... but
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probably most important is to realise this theory and think all the time about it. The love story that you can't forget
We start understanding the concept of being in love ... maybe even into the kindergarten.
We understand from the early age of life, the power of a smile or that magic look that we just ... love.
Years are passing ... disappointments apper in our life ... and we start to change. We develop inside of us an autoprotective system that dont let us be in love for 100%.
We feel love ... but we dont allow ourself to love with the whole heart ... not anymore.
But ... surprise ... one day, without realising, we just loose the control of everything and we fall in love with that magic person.
If difficult to explain in words, but everything is over our powers of controlling the situation.
We have a strong mind, that makes us understand that is not ok ... but suddenly the heart takes control over our mind.
Staying alone ... with you ... drinking a coffee ...the image with the smile and that look appears again and again and again.
If you ask yourself what is the meaning of life, a clear definition ...will be very difficult to answear, but ... maybe one of the most important things in the world is to love ... so just allow your heart to follow that road ... to happiness or to nowhere.
Life is too beautiful and maybe too short to live it in a robotic way. Enjoy that magic smile of the person you re thinking all the time at!
Adrian G Dumitru
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A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Can't see the old love?!
We start with joy inside us and we end up asking ourself ... what am i doing in
this relationship?!
Why am i here?!
Love is a wonderfull feeling ... but somehow even realising we loose all those feelings and even worst ... instead of love we feel hate inside our soul. Life is strange ... is difficult to understand ... thats all.
Life is not hard ... as we use to say most of the time.
We go throw life, into different scenes or episodes and not being prepared ... we dont know how to ‘read’ those things... and in the end we change ... a lot. We are changed by life.
Today, i have one spirit ... tomorrow i am a completlly different person.
Maybe we go from good to bad or viceversa ... is really difficult to even analize and define the wind that sends us into so many directions.
But going throw life ... we change ... and we change a lot.
The partner we have ... has probably the same story or maybe a different one ...
and this is how after years we realise we dont know anymore the person near us.
This is why love is being evaporated.
And worst ... love had been replaced with hate.
We start fights ... we start looking for other partners or ... we just want a new life.
For the hygiene of our relationship we should define things very clearlly from time to time.
If things dont go in the direction we want ... just discuss more ... with calm ...
and maybe redefine everything.
Wherever you will go in life ... even if you are 20 ... 45 ... or 75 ... you have the fundamental right to be happy.
You just need to play the game of defining life.
Adrian G Dumitru
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ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Hollywood actress
or cashier into a petshop?!
The Universe in sometimes laughing at us.
Years ago, i met a very beautiful girl. She was only 21 at that time.
I had a just divorced friend and presented her to him, and they started seeing each other.
Everything went very well for a while.
But forget to mention to this gorgeous girl ... something very important for her. She was the kind of girl who wanted to succed in life ... she dreamed for modelling ... but somehow even if i wanted to, i forget to tell her that my friend was acting as a pauper, but he was actually a price.
He could be like the Holly Spirit ... and could transform any desire into reality right in the next moment.
Me and my friend arranged the things for her to start a modelling carrier. Its a long story to tell ... but things had been arranged to her as she could enter into the top modelling business imediatlly.
Then my friend arranged things as she to go to Milano, New York and London. He made also arrangement as she would meet Sylvester Stallone and then go in the near future to Hollywood.
A country girl, who came into the capital ... looking like a person who was almost making a quatuum jump right into the high class society.
But ... as the Universe is playing arround with all our silly desires and actions, one day my friend bought to the beautiful country girl a small dog.
Dog had a health problem and they went into a vererinary clinic, where they met a nice veterinary doctor.
She started in paralel a relationship with him and then left the story with my friend.
She said she wanted to be happy and ended up taking care of the pet shop as a cashier.
So my question is ... what is best to choose in life?!
A carrer of huge succes or to be happy?!
She was actually not believing in my friend, who could send her in a very short time to Hollywood .... and probably he saw a prince into the veterinary doctor and
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A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
a pauper into my rich friend.
I am laughting and i hope one day soon i will remet her and tell her the truth about what a huge oportunity she missed.
But maybe a cashier into a petshop could be much happier as a movies star in
