became?!
Someone that is not even ...dare to think of love.
For all the ones that are not believing anymore in fairy tales... i tell you only one
thing .... let your heart love again and ... miracles will appear in your life.
Adrian G Dumitru
16
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
You know ...in life not
everything happens as we plan
There is a very difficult question in phisolophy and that is witch one appeared first: religion or morality?!
Accordinglly to morality rules ... you are not allowed to have relationships with other partners, but in real life those things can happen.
Is this love ... a love in the mod?!... or just an accident?!
There is also another philosophy that in reality there is no bad or good ... but everything, in fact, happens for a reason.
Being in love with someone else, when in fact you are in another relationship ...
means you dont find yourself in there.
You need someone else to take you out of the toxic story you are in.
Being in love of someone else, when you are married, is not bad ... can heal your relationship or can take you out ... and make you be happy again.
We have ... as human beings ... the right to be happy ... so dont bother judging us anymore.
Adrian G Dumitru
17
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Our expectations hurt us most
We go on the timeline of our life, having goals and dreams .... expecting in the
optimistic points as life to act nice to us and seeing everything being distroyed in our faces ... when we deal with anxiety and depresion.
Every movement of each plannet.... of each star ... or any day from a life of the
unimportant person from the world ... has a purpose.
We are most of the times hurt only by our expections.
Take everything just as it is.
Everything has a reason why is happening ... so dont be upset ... smile ... and enjoy your life.
Expections are only the illutions of our Ego.
Dont fool yourself!
Adrian G Dumitru
18
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
The power and the story of a like
People are looking all the time for appreciation from other people.
What is happening is that when you start to be appreciated by people you dislike , or they dislike you, it starts a procces of reevaluation of the whole situation.
I had been involved in many situations over the years and had to deal with thousands of people.
Some of them became good friends of mine, but with some i started conflicts that we did not had the power to close.
In the last 6 months i understood that i need to reevalute all those relationships. Having those people on my facebook account, i honestlly liked some of their posts... not all of them ... just few likes ... and magic happened. I had accidentlly met them on street, or had
a phone call conversations with them ... and it was like i just spoke with good friends that i love to talk with.
It was really incredible ... i could not believe it ... it was like we applied a very strong medicine to cure our relationships.
But one day something strange happened.
A very nice lady that i had in my facebook list posted an insta story that i saw in facebook messanger.
It was a motivational post saying that nothing happens by accident ... and a gave like to the post.
For some unknown reason for me, her husband disliked me by many, many years ... and what i did in the last 6 months ... i just liked some of her posts... maybe one from 3 or 4.
One hour after i liked the insta story ... the lady wrote me in messanger, politely asking me why do i laugh.
Now if you give a like .... it means you like that post or you laugh at that post?!
Did not knew what to answear right away, but we started to chat ... and it was really inappropriate that i had a so long discussion with the wife of a guy thar hated me by years.
The Universe is playing games with us sometimes ... and i dont even know how
Adrian G Dumitru
19
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
we started a love story .... it was real magnetism between the 2 of us .... a love
story just lije in movies.
I will not mention the whole scene ... but at one point her husband and my wife found out ... and were amazed that everything started from a simple like.
What i want to say is that the like has a strong power nowadays... and you must be aware of how you use it, but also how you see the interpretation of it.
We live in a world where we go to fancy coffee shops and stay on our phones reading, liking and watching all the time who appreciate our posts ... instead of enjoying the coffee and like the real stories people tells us in the coffee shop. ... and the LIKES are running our lives drom shaddow.
Adrian G Dumitru
20
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Just one more time
An alcohic sees a bottle of beer or wine ... or scotch ... and says ... this is the last time.
A drug addicted person ... is living the same story ... again and again and again.
But is the love addiction exists?! Is it something real?!
Well ... yes.
What happens when you meet again that person that you loved a lot ... but somehow the Universe stopped your story?!
What happens when you say ... just one more time?!
Enjoying the love story is one of the most wonderfull thing you can do in this life.
Say NOT AGAIN ... HELL NO!
Just feel free to do whatever you want with your heart.
There will never be another you and maybe another chance ... so SAY YES!! Lots of people will define you ... just ignore them ... nobody has the right to tell you what to do with the things you feel in your soul.
Adrian G Dumitru
21
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
There are 2 kinds of unhappy married people:
the optimistics and the realistics
There are 2 kinds of unhappy married people:
the optimistics and the realistics.
Marriage is very beautiful in the begining.
So beautiful that we just forget that during the years we saw so many unhappy couples.
The optimistic persons, even if somehow, they lost control over situation, still believe in marriage. They ignore all the bad signs and just continue on and on. The realistic persons ... they realise they might have no escape ... but in the end their life belongs only to them and during the marriage they try to see the happiness, at least for a while, somewhere else also. This is how the love affairs start.
It is moral?! It might not be ok but ... everything happens just to get some air ...
at least for a while.
How can we define this?!
In the end we can also see some of those people ... as divorced people.
They are the brave ones ... and the ones that at least are not unhappy anymore. So defining marriage as a dogmatic way of living life should not be so wierd after all.
Dare to define where you are and if you have the power to rebuild your life, in a happy way, that should be fantastic ... no matter of the path you should follow.
Remember that life must be fullfilled with joy.
Adrian G Dumitru
22
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
We always want what we cant have
A very little child understands that with different signs to the parents can make them understand that wants this or that.
Goes to the park and always wants something that another kid has. Starts to speak ... and start saying “i want this ... i want that ...”
I saw a documentary with Michael Jackson going to an antique shop, seeing some paintings and saying to the guy from the shop ... “i want this, this ... and this ...
and this”. He was not in a good financial position anymore and his stuff was amazed of what he was doing. The prices of the paintings were between 300-600k dollars.
At our level, we do the same thing over and over again.
I want that car that my sister has, i want that trip to the Grand Canion, cause my cousin was there.
One day, we make a huge mistake.
It appears a confusion between things and people.
We start wanting a love with a person that dont belongs to someone else... a love that we cannot have in real life.
The script of our life becomes a movie script.
And we go to ... nowhere.
There is a wonderfull saying:
“Love that we cannot have is the one that last the longest, hurts the deepest and feels the strongest”.
LEARN TO DEFINE YOUR DESIRES!
Adrian G Dumitru
23
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
We are in love with imposible
things and situations
Life is easy ... we certainlly make it complicated.
We just love imposible things and situations.
There is no limit where we can decide to say is enough and stop.
The human mind is enjoying the game of more and ... more becomes NO LIMIT ... and here we are on the way to nowhere.
On this road we think we are on an important mission ... an impossible one.
The only 2 things in life that can make us stop are: A TRAGEDY or A LOVE STORY. In that point, our vision is changed completly but probably just the luckiest ones receive the chance of real love story.
Life should be enjoyed with everything it has to offer us. The joy of living should be part of our life scenario everyday ... but is not ... we really have a very big empty whole inside of us ... which only love can fullfill.
But what if try to understand better your life, define very clear where you are and where you want to be and the road to “that happy point” should be just a lovelly journey.
So ... start to forget complicated impossible things ... life is easy and too beautifull to be lived as a struggle.
Adrian G Dumitru
24
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Shoot another double
Your life is not looking as you wanted to look like?!
In psyhology there is a nice theory explaining that at the end of the day you should review the whole day, analyze what you dont like and rescript everything just as you wanted as things to happen.
Well ... theory is very easy to understand ... now lets practice!!
So lets beging ... you dislike being married?! ... taking care if the things and all the other things that familly needs?!
Have you ever thought of shooting another double?!
Imagine you are then movie director and also the scenarist of you life story ...
just for a second.... so ... how should you redefine everything?!
Everything you need to do is just to understand the concept of timeline... that there is a time to go to the kindergarten ... there is a time to going to schoool ...
a time for getting a job ... and the time of being a familist etc etc. Is it a difficult task?!
Well ... was school easy?! Would you go to school again?! ... Of course NOT.
But you still have a chance.
Life is beatiful and every moment from our life should make us feel happy.
So ... bottom line you ve got 2 choices: you shoot another double and try to be happy at home or start a love affair.
Meaning of life is to feel the joy of being alive.
Adrian G Dumitru
25
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
That magic look
One day, you just walk in hurry on the street and suddely your eyes fall on a strange person that looks like someone that you know from centuries.
Is a very strong feeling and you just cant stop looking into those eyes.
Many times we just continue our way .. and dont have the courage to stop ... and just say “hello ... where have you dissapered for so many centuries?!” We are not brave enough to follow our intuition.
But the Universe is sometimes playing with us and sometimes ...somehow those persons start to be part of our lifes.
Little by little ... a person as this one becomes ... your life.
We live is a silly world, that teaches us to stay with our foots on the ground and try to never think at irealistic things.
We lost that thinking from the time we had been children ... and probably lost the concept that magic sometimes really exists.
But for all the ones that feels that inside them is not living a dead soul ... next time when you meet that magic look ... at least send a big smile in return.
Try one more time to define what magic means.
Adrian G Dumitru
26
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Jealousy is just a silly game
I just read a nice quote saying that ... there is a huge difference between
someone that wants you and someone that stays in the way so that no one else
can have you.
And indeed is true.
So many people from all around the world, unhappy in their relationship, even if they understand that the connection between them is closed ... just continue everything because they feel that they would never stand to see someone else staying near the person that once upon a time they loved ... but dont love anymore today.
But this is only one face of the silly jealousy.
Some people love so much, that even thinking that someone else will speak with their love partner ... they would drive crazy.
Others ... that like to play around ... just use jealousy to get more attention on their side, because when the other partner is feeling the competition will do all the best to be in the grace of the loved one. How can you cure yourself of jealousy?!
Well ... first you need to understand that the expression “we belong to each other” is available only as long we have a connection togheter and real love is there.
Otherwise just staying in the way so that someone else to not have your partner is just silly.
Maybe instead of practicing jealousy you should just use that energy inside of you just to make your partner feel great near you.
.... and maybe instead of making your partner feel jealous, you should make your
partner what a great relationshiop you have togheter.
Jealousy is a silly game.
Being jealous or making your partner jealous is something that in the end will ruin even a beautiful relationship.
Adrian G Dumitru
27
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
It's not what it looks like
There is a nice movie with this name, which you can find on YouTube typing also ‘Samadhi 2”.
If you like philosophy, you will just love the movie.
Someone that is not even ...dare to think of love.
For all the ones that are not believing anymore in fairy tales... i tell you only one
thing .... let your heart love again and ... miracles will appear in your life.
Adrian G Dumitru
16
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
You know ...in life not
everything happens as we plan
There is a very difficult question in phisolophy and that is witch one appeared first: religion or morality?!
Accordinglly to morality rules ... you are not allowed to have relationships with other partners, but in real life those things can happen.
Is this love ... a love in the mod?!... or just an accident?!
There is also another philosophy that in reality there is no bad or good ... but everything, in fact, happens for a reason.
Being in love with someone else, when in fact you are in another relationship ...
means you dont find yourself in there.
You need someone else to take you out of the toxic story you are in.
Being in love of someone else, when you are married, is not bad ... can heal your relationship or can take you out ... and make you be happy again.
We have ... as human beings ... the right to be happy ... so dont bother judging us anymore.
Adrian G Dumitru
17
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Our expectations hurt us most
We go on the timeline of our life, having goals and dreams .... expecting in the
optimistic points as life to act nice to us and seeing everything being distroyed in our faces ... when we deal with anxiety and depresion.
Every movement of each plannet.... of each star ... or any day from a life of the
unimportant person from the world ... has a purpose.
We are most of the times hurt only by our expections.
Take everything just as it is.
Everything has a reason why is happening ... so dont be upset ... smile ... and enjoy your life.
Expections are only the illutions of our Ego.
Dont fool yourself!
Adrian G Dumitru
18
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
The power and the story of a like
People are looking all the time for appreciation from other people.
What is happening is that when you start to be appreciated by people you dislike , or they dislike you, it starts a procces of reevaluation of the whole situation.
I had been involved in many situations over the years and had to deal with thousands of people.
Some of them became good friends of mine, but with some i started conflicts that we did not had the power to close.
In the last 6 months i understood that i need to reevalute all those relationships. Having those people on my facebook account, i honestlly liked some of their posts... not all of them ... just few likes ... and magic happened. I had accidentlly met them on street, or had
a phone call conversations with them ... and it was like i just spoke with good friends that i love to talk with.
It was really incredible ... i could not believe it ... it was like we applied a very strong medicine to cure our relationships.
But one day something strange happened.
A very nice lady that i had in my facebook list posted an insta story that i saw in facebook messanger.
It was a motivational post saying that nothing happens by accident ... and a gave like to the post.
For some unknown reason for me, her husband disliked me by many, many years ... and what i did in the last 6 months ... i just liked some of her posts... maybe one from 3 or 4.
One hour after i liked the insta story ... the lady wrote me in messanger, politely asking me why do i laugh.
Now if you give a like .... it means you like that post or you laugh at that post?!
Did not knew what to answear right away, but we started to chat ... and it was really inappropriate that i had a so long discussion with the wife of a guy thar hated me by years.
The Universe is playing games with us sometimes ... and i dont even know how
Adrian G Dumitru
19
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
we started a love story .... it was real magnetism between the 2 of us .... a love
story just lije in movies.
I will not mention the whole scene ... but at one point her husband and my wife found out ... and were amazed that everything started from a simple like.
What i want to say is that the like has a strong power nowadays... and you must be aware of how you use it, but also how you see the interpretation of it.
We live in a world where we go to fancy coffee shops and stay on our phones reading, liking and watching all the time who appreciate our posts ... instead of enjoying the coffee and like the real stories people tells us in the coffee shop. ... and the LIKES are running our lives drom shaddow.
Adrian G Dumitru
20
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Just one more time
An alcohic sees a bottle of beer or wine ... or scotch ... and says ... this is the last time.
A drug addicted person ... is living the same story ... again and again and again.
But is the love addiction exists?! Is it something real?!
Well ... yes.
What happens when you meet again that person that you loved a lot ... but somehow the Universe stopped your story?!
What happens when you say ... just one more time?!
Enjoying the love story is one of the most wonderfull thing you can do in this life.
Say NOT AGAIN ... HELL NO!
Just feel free to do whatever you want with your heart.
There will never be another you and maybe another chance ... so SAY YES!! Lots of people will define you ... just ignore them ... nobody has the right to tell you what to do with the things you feel in your soul.
Adrian G Dumitru
21
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
There are 2 kinds of unhappy married people:
the optimistics and the realistics
There are 2 kinds of unhappy married people:
the optimistics and the realistics.
Marriage is very beautiful in the begining.
So beautiful that we just forget that during the years we saw so many unhappy couples.
The optimistic persons, even if somehow, they lost control over situation, still believe in marriage. They ignore all the bad signs and just continue on and on. The realistic persons ... they realise they might have no escape ... but in the end their life belongs only to them and during the marriage they try to see the happiness, at least for a while, somewhere else also. This is how the love affairs start.
It is moral?! It might not be ok but ... everything happens just to get some air ...
at least for a while.
How can we define this?!
In the end we can also see some of those people ... as divorced people.
They are the brave ones ... and the ones that at least are not unhappy anymore. So defining marriage as a dogmatic way of living life should not be so wierd after all.
Dare to define where you are and if you have the power to rebuild your life, in a happy way, that should be fantastic ... no matter of the path you should follow.
Remember that life must be fullfilled with joy.
Adrian G Dumitru
22
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
We always want what we cant have
A very little child understands that with different signs to the parents can make them understand that wants this or that.
Goes to the park and always wants something that another kid has. Starts to speak ... and start saying “i want this ... i want that ...”
I saw a documentary with Michael Jackson going to an antique shop, seeing some paintings and saying to the guy from the shop ... “i want this, this ... and this ...
and this”. He was not in a good financial position anymore and his stuff was amazed of what he was doing. The prices of the paintings were between 300-600k dollars.
At our level, we do the same thing over and over again.
I want that car that my sister has, i want that trip to the Grand Canion, cause my cousin was there.
One day, we make a huge mistake.
It appears a confusion between things and people.
We start wanting a love with a person that dont belongs to someone else... a love that we cannot have in real life.
The script of our life becomes a movie script.
And we go to ... nowhere.
There is a wonderfull saying:
“Love that we cannot have is the one that last the longest, hurts the deepest and feels the strongest”.
LEARN TO DEFINE YOUR DESIRES!
Adrian G Dumitru
23
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
We are in love with imposible
things and situations
Life is easy ... we certainlly make it complicated.
We just love imposible things and situations.
There is no limit where we can decide to say is enough and stop.
The human mind is enjoying the game of more and ... more becomes NO LIMIT ... and here we are on the way to nowhere.
On this road we think we are on an important mission ... an impossible one.
The only 2 things in life that can make us stop are: A TRAGEDY or A LOVE STORY. In that point, our vision is changed completly but probably just the luckiest ones receive the chance of real love story.
Life should be enjoyed with everything it has to offer us. The joy of living should be part of our life scenario everyday ... but is not ... we really have a very big empty whole inside of us ... which only love can fullfill.
But what if try to understand better your life, define very clear where you are and where you want to be and the road to “that happy point” should be just a lovelly journey.
So ... start to forget complicated impossible things ... life is easy and too beautifull to be lived as a struggle.
Adrian G Dumitru
24
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Shoot another double
Your life is not looking as you wanted to look like?!
In psyhology there is a nice theory explaining that at the end of the day you should review the whole day, analyze what you dont like and rescript everything just as you wanted as things to happen.
Well ... theory is very easy to understand ... now lets practice!!
So lets beging ... you dislike being married?! ... taking care if the things and all the other things that familly needs?!
Have you ever thought of shooting another double?!
Imagine you are then movie director and also the scenarist of you life story ...
just for a second.... so ... how should you redefine everything?!
Everything you need to do is just to understand the concept of timeline... that there is a time to go to the kindergarten ... there is a time to going to schoool ...
a time for getting a job ... and the time of being a familist etc etc. Is it a difficult task?!
Well ... was school easy?! Would you go to school again?! ... Of course NOT.
But you still have a chance.
Life is beatiful and every moment from our life should make us feel happy.
So ... bottom line you ve got 2 choices: you shoot another double and try to be happy at home or start a love affair.
Meaning of life is to feel the joy of being alive.
Adrian G Dumitru
25
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
That magic look
One day, you just walk in hurry on the street and suddely your eyes fall on a strange person that looks like someone that you know from centuries.
Is a very strong feeling and you just cant stop looking into those eyes.
Many times we just continue our way .. and dont have the courage to stop ... and just say “hello ... where have you dissapered for so many centuries?!” We are not brave enough to follow our intuition.
But the Universe is sometimes playing with us and sometimes ...somehow those persons start to be part of our lifes.
Little by little ... a person as this one becomes ... your life.
We live is a silly world, that teaches us to stay with our foots on the ground and try to never think at irealistic things.
We lost that thinking from the time we had been children ... and probably lost the concept that magic sometimes really exists.
But for all the ones that feels that inside them is not living a dead soul ... next time when you meet that magic look ... at least send a big smile in return.
Try one more time to define what magic means.
Adrian G Dumitru
26
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Jealousy is just a silly game
I just read a nice quote saying that ... there is a huge difference between
someone that wants you and someone that stays in the way so that no one else
can have you.
And indeed is true.
So many people from all around the world, unhappy in their relationship, even if they understand that the connection between them is closed ... just continue everything because they feel that they would never stand to see someone else staying near the person that once upon a time they loved ... but dont love anymore today.
But this is only one face of the silly jealousy.
Some people love so much, that even thinking that someone else will speak with their love partner ... they would drive crazy.
Others ... that like to play around ... just use jealousy to get more attention on their side, because when the other partner is feeling the competition will do all the best to be in the grace of the loved one. How can you cure yourself of jealousy?!
Well ... first you need to understand that the expression “we belong to each other” is available only as long we have a connection togheter and real love is there.
Otherwise just staying in the way so that someone else to not have your partner is just silly.
Maybe instead of practicing jealousy you should just use that energy inside of you just to make your partner feel great near you.
.... and maybe instead of making your partner feel jealous, you should make your
partner what a great relationshiop you have togheter.
Jealousy is a silly game.
Being jealous or making your partner jealous is something that in the end will ruin even a beautiful relationship.
Adrian G Dumitru
27
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
It's not what it looks like
There is a nice movie with this name, which you can find on YouTube typing also ‘Samadhi 2”.
If you like philosophy, you will just love the movie.
