... and tried to understand what actually happened before it started ... during the war ... but also after it finished.
I was watching interviews with people that were kids at that time.
Jewish people from Germany, Poland or Hungary ... that were sent to Auschwitz, but also people from Republic of Moldavia that were sent in gulags in the far away Siberia.
They all were simple citizens ... and i did not understood why so many children ... had to pass those life tests at that early age.
Both nazy and communist forces were creating kind of a karmic story ... very difficult to be accepted.
But it happened ... and is part of the human history.
It says that after that horrible story ... many, many people went on depression ... or lost their minds.
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I continued studying the phenomenon ... but i was watching the facts from the karmic point of view ... trying to analyze and define those times.
The story itself could not be redefined ... but the message of that history lesson could be.
You see ... those people lost everything they had ... except their souls.
They lost their houses, families, friends ... all it meant life. And suddenly my mind came in the present moment ... and analyzing and defining the contemporary human being ...
seeing that has everything ever wanted ... but still lives in depression ... and many people are losing their minds. Comparing to what happened 70 years ago ... the karma itself becomes a little bit abstract.
In those times people lost all they had to realize that the nazi and communist forces can take everything from them, but couldn’t take their souls.
Nowadays the Universe gave everything to the human being of our times.
And is funny how karma is playing around with our minds ... cause we are feeling that we actually have nothing at all. And that ... nothing ... means that we feel that we lost our souls.
It’s ridiculous ... but still ... we are not ready yet to redefine the script of our own lives.
In fact ... we are not ready to change our values ... which is basically a story mainly based on materialism. And we can’t see the abstract message.
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We can’t understand it ... and we are too ignorants for that. The story of the modern society continues with or without understanding those messages the Universe sends to us ... but until when?!
How is going to finish this story?!
Well ... quite difficult to define the abstract ... but ... let’s hope that the moment of awakening will appear before we all lose our minds.
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I have 2 lives.
One ... runs on the dogmatism that
society taught me about.
The other one ... belongs to me.
Of course ... i have the option of totally forget about
society ... and become a monk in a monastery ... or go on an island with not so many people in there ... and enjoy solitude.
.... but i am not ready yet for that scenario and on the other
hand i still love people and society.
There are many things that i like.
... and many that i totally dislike.
I somehow live between 2 world ... and i started to prefer more and more being alone ... me and myself.
I actually have built kind of a lair where ... being alone with my soul ... we stay and analyze life ... and try to define all its aspects.
We have all sorts of theories ... but the only problem is that we can’t mix those 2 lives and redefine them as only one life. Look ... i can be myself only and only when i am just in the presence of my soul ... otherwise the energies came from the
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others ... on the scene of life .... influence me so much, that i
lose myself.
I can’t act on my timeline ... as my soul tells me to act.
I can only act how dogmatism taught me over the years ...
being a part of society.
But look ... i have moments when i lose my temper and i become wild.
In those short moments ... i say all what i think ... and i have the guts to be myself.
Then i calm down ... and i remember about the rules.
I also remember about the slogan:
“My life ... my rules” ... but unfortunately there’s not enough gut in myself to live as only one entity.
I want it ... but i end all the time as 2 totally different personalities.
And i know that life is short ... and i don’t have an eternity
available to redefine myself as the best version i could be
during this life time.
... but.
So ... i continue life in the same style.
2 lives ... and a story of life having 2 different versions ...
about the one i am ... and about the one i could be.
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“Studying the illusion of life ... i discovered that i actually live an illusory life.
... but it’s probably the best version of it ... and i am too blind to see it.”
( an unknown contemporary philosopher)
A philosopher i know by a long time ... discovers one day his wife on instagram.
The photos from the profile were amazing.
She had thousands of followers and tens of thousands of
likes and comments.
Everyone liked her.
... i actually could say that everyone ... loved her.
My friend calls me and keeps me an hour on the phone ...
telling me the story.
Not so long time ago we talked for hours ... analyzing and defining the concept of illusion ... and in fact the illusion of life.
Like 2 idiots ... we thought that the concept could be totally redefined.
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Now ... he was so mad seeing his wife on social media ...
with so many fans and appreciations.
The real problem was that ... looking on the internet and seeing a totally different version of his wife ... he could not believe it.
He was looking at her and he was seeing ... the cleaning lady ... the one who was doing the cooking ... and the real truth was that in fact he was living at home with Cinderella. ... but she had 2 totally different version of herself.
One was ... Cinderella ... and the other one ... an amazing beautiful lady ... that he never saw before ... even if they were spending a lifetime together.
Analyzing and defining her ... he was always explaining me that he can’t get rid of this ugly lady because he does’t know how to take care of his house ... and now he was amazed that so many men liked her.
They all saw a different version of herself ... her ... amazing side.
We were so silly talking for years about the illusion of life ...
and now we discover that he was living a fabulous illusion.
I could not believe it either.
I knew the lady ... and i could not understand how the same lady ... had so different versions of herself.
But ... i had in my mind the version my friend told me about her ... and i could not redefine that imagine.
... in the end ... i could just say seeing this story that i believe that the story with Cinderella was indeed ... a real one.
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Truth be told ... we don’t need a castle to have a great life.
Sometimes a lair is more than enough
Being involved in renting business ... and wanting to grow the business more and more ... i was analyzing a lot the business.
Instead of building big houses, i discovered a trick ... that helped me ... and that was building houses of the size of an apartament.
I could ask the same price for renting as for an apartment in the city, but my costs for building the house was half of the price of an apartment.
There were people laughing of what i was building ....
considering them tiny houses ... but i was glad because of the fact that they could not see the opportunity of such a business.
The funny thing was that i thought that my clients will be young people that are starting their lives as adults and also as couples ... but i could not even guess the real typology of
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my following customers.
One lady came to me on the first of January, hoping than she will leave her husband forever and she will be happy with the colleague from work that she loved so much.
A guy came with a lady ... that certainly was not his wife and paid me the rent for 3 months in advance .. explaining me that he wants a trial period to live in there with what he named ... the love of his life.
But one day appeared a very wealthy guy that wanted to rent .... what he called ... a lair.
He was married, 2 kids ... but wanted to have also a place for him and his mistress.
They were by 5 years together ... and i really believe that between them it was real love.
I didn’t know the guy very little, but i knew his family. They owned important companies from our area, had very expensive cars ... and his house was looking like a real castle.
But it was really funny looking at a guy that ... owned a castle and was everyday at my complex, spending time with his mistress is a small house of 45 sqm.
Analyzing and defining my business ... i realized that people
indeed were looking for lairs.
The guy was right.
In the real world ... he was that man from the motivational pictures about success.
Good looking, wealthy, with expensive cars, always wearing a gold watch ... and living in a luxurious mansion.
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The symbol of success.
But his secret ... was the lair that i rented to him.
He was super charging his batteries near an amazing lady ....
that adored him.
I was smiling ... understanding all that.
I thought many times about how i could redefine the business ... but never thought that i will be making money from renting lairs for people that need for shorter or longer terms a place where their energies will be redefined.
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To become a king you need someone in your life to make you feel as a king and also ... whisper you all the time that you can achieve that special status.
There is a nice saying that behind every successful man, there is always an amazing lady .... and i believe it is true.
But i still wonder what is the real secret behind that saying?! When i say ... become a king ... i’m having in my mind the concept of quantum jump ... or becoming a champion ... and actually the jump from an ordinary person to a special status.
Someone i know told me long time ago ... his interesting theory about the fact that the right lady ... simple by making you feel special ... succeeds in time to make the switch in your personalities.
Is actually related with the theory of affirmations.
Affirm something everyday, like a mantra .... and one day
after you’ll start to believe in that something ... it will
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become real.
But you see ... having an amazing soul near you ... can make you feel that you can make the jump much, much sooner than you thought.
Yes ... you might believe it is an strange idea ... but the people around us can give us hope ... or negative feelings. The right partner will make you feel special ... a champion ...
a prince .... or even a king.
The wrong person can make you feel and actually become ...
a nobody.
Simple by whispering beautiful words ... that person will reveal your positive side and totally redefine your life. Might sound as a nonsense ... but it’s not.
We all need to hear amazing words, encouragements ... and feel the hope and the support of the loved person.
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And the big question is ... can we
rewrite the software that we installed on our brains during childhood?!
All the ones that are studying personal growth ... know what mental software really is, but what we can’t understand so clear is how we installed that software on our brains.
We strongly believe that the collection of thoughts that we pay so much attention to ... is ours, but we can’t really see the fact that is all related to what others told us ... showed us ... or simple influenced us ... simple by being on the scene of our lives.
And in this equation ... lots of things are totally related with our childhood, with what we saw at home ... at parents, brothers or sisters, grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, neighbors from those times, teachers from school, colleagues etc etc.
We interacted with them a lot ... and it was a first time presentation for every idea ... or every concept related with life.
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And hearing it ... not really knowing so much about the world we live in ... whatever it was the subject about ... we believed it.
We took it for granted ... not questioning if it is true or not. It was actually the meeting with the dogmatism and even thought that dogmatism is the right thing to accept for the benefit of our growing.
But later on ... after many, many years ... being adults and living a moment of awakening ... we saw that it was a huge mistake ... believing that is was true all what we heard at the people around us.
We installed on our brains ... what is actually called a malicious software ... but it was already late. We made tons of mistakes.
Mistakes after mistakes and many of us ruined our lives ...
not even realizing what we are doing.
Then one day ... we started step by step to study personal growth .... but the big question i have ... after analyzing and
defining my case for years .... can werewrite another
software on our brains so that we redefine for real our lives?!
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“It was all looking like a funeral day ... but there was no funeral”
Someone sent me an email ... defining to myself how he feels that his life is looking like.
He was reading my theory ... which i consider quite simple ...
