The discussion was a total nonsense ... the history of how he became rich ... and it was not going anywhere.
At one point, i understood that the Universe brought the guy to me to better understand the philosophy behind the nonsense ... but the moment i took his money for the rent ... i decided to stop his speech. Being at his home ... at the lake ... i started my speech and
said ...”You see the house over there ... at the corner of the lake... i live there. I own it by 20 years. In fact i own 30 houses.
I used to be a drug dealer and all the money i made ... i invested into real estate.”
The guy was watching me and could not believe what i was saying. When i came to his house i came with an old ugly car ... but he saw i own a residential complex ... so this time my speech became a nonsense to him.
I was smiling inside of me ... seeing the dynamic of the discussion. But i have a question for you?!
You think the possessions will make you a rich person?!
How someone becomes really rich?!
With money, with different other kind of possessions ... or by the beautiful vibe that has everyday?!
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Today ... i see in everything we believe we own ... an illusion and i believe that the human being can’t be defined by things. My vibe is ... my actual currency.
When i see someone that explains me how rich is ... i laugh inside of me ... and say in my mind ... “how poor this person is ... i can’t believe it”.
How we feel ... as souls should be more important as ... how we believe money defines us.
We don’t really own things ... but use those things ... somehow have the control of them and nothing more.
And every time i meet a poor or a rich person ( according by the standards of the society) ... i better understand the nonsense why poor can mean rich and rich can mean poor.
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Karmic characters ... are the ones that
destroy everything you have ... for letting you see the path of a new life
I believe everyone knows today what karma is ... but unfortunately they don’t really understand the meaning of it.
And there are persons that respect the laws of Universe just because they are afraid of karma.
Indeed for every action there is an equal reaction ... but the day when you understand that you also need to follow other paths in life ... means you’ve got the message.
For me ... everything happened ... in a way that looked like a negative one ... was always the start for something positive ... but something really great.
You see ... should be a non sense to believe that karma is something bad ... something to be afraid of.
Karma carries all the time a message and in many case it speaks to you trough the words or the actions and experience you have with other people ... that we could name karmic characters.
Even if in the beginning they look like positive persons ... and later on we see them as real enemies ... those people that makes us understand what karma is ... they are actually teachers that makes us follow another path in life.
They might look like they destroy everything we name life for us ... but in the end ... they only help us end a toxic chapter ... for starting a much interesting life.
You see ... life ... for some of us, especially when we dream for something else ... something great ...in one point, it needs to start.
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And karmic things just happens.
Is like death.
You can have no doubt that one day ... it will happen, but you need to know how to react.
And you need to die and be reborn for a totally different life.
Karmic persons ... appears as great friends first and then ... later on, because we suffer so much with the new generated situations, that are related to them ... we just don’t like them anymore.
But .... later on ... those people, seen in the beginning as friends,
then as enemies ... to see them as people that guide us to the life we
dared to dream for.
The change has a price.
And a big change ... has a big price.
Karmic persons will stay in your life till the moment when you are ready for this big change.
Later on ... without even noticing, they will just disappear ... in some cases ... forever.
But you will always remember them as the persons that changed your life.
You will miss them ... but life goes on.
Accept the karmic characters in your life.
Embrace their presence.
They will only guide you ... not destroy you.
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Yes ... we need people in our lives ... friends or enemies ... to teach us what life is about.
On my path of studying the nonsense, i thought a lot at the quote ...
“Some people are in our lives for a reason ... and some for a season”.
You see ... sometimes we need someone to guide us.
In school we learn to read and write, then we learn from our teachers geography, chemistry, biology etc etc and all kinds of other useless things.
But we start life and we don’t have any teacher for making us understand what life is about.
When i’ve been in school, maybe the 7th grade, i’ve seen a movies with a young guy, that was fallen in love with a beautiful girl of his age.
He wanted to start his sexual life with her, but non of the 2 knew what this really was about.
But the guy meets a lady, who was about 15 years older that him ...
and she teaches him what sex is.
The movie itself is a mix of sequences between real love and sex. It’s was expressing a truth that for making love with the one that you consider is the love of your life ... you need to know what sex is about.
But how to know what sex is about, if neither you or the partner ...
had sex before.
You need a teacher for that.
So ... the nonsense is quite clear.
Being in love is not enough.
You need to also know how to really act.
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And i wonder myself if it makes sense to have a mistress when you are married by 15 years ... and you don’t know anymore what passion is about.
Is the mistress a nonsense?! ... or she is a teacher that for a while makes you remember the pleasure of passion ... the art of living happy near a lady ...
And in the end you discover that the amazing lady from your life can be also your wife.
Does the guy from the movie i told you about ... does he acted in a nonsense way learning the art of having sex ... with another lady ... when in fact he is in love with that amazing girl?!
Well ... i believe that we will always see the story from 2 different angles ... and one it will look like a nonsense, but behind that ... if we have the power to admit it, we will find the real answers.
Yes ... some people are in our lives for a reason and some for a season ... but at the school of life ... we will always need teachers for that.
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The pleasure and the art of eating ... an addiction, an attribute of wealth or a nonsense?!
Over the weekend, i’ve visited the house of a guy that used to be for 25 years, the king of the country i live in.
The house was looking great ... even if it was from 400 years ago ... the garden also ... but i was a little bit amazed of what the touristic guide told us ... when it came to foods.
It looks like when the guy met his friends from that time ... of course, only rich guys as him ... they were serving 60 types of different foods. They use to start at 12 am and ended everything at 10 am ... the second day.
The guide was giving us all kinds of other informations, but i could not believe that at a party they could actually serve 60 types of foods.
It looks like everyone from that time who was rich ... was also fat. Being fat was first of all a symbol of wealth, but the funny thing was that they were not living more than 60 years old, because of that. When i’ve been in high school ... i’ve met an old lady, that came from the royal family and was serving 3 types of food ... explaining me that the poor people serve only 1 or maximum 2 types of foods.
So 400 years ago, to show the wealth you own ... at the meetings you had with friends you had to serve tens of types of foods.
20 years ago ... the standard was minimum 3 types ... plus desert. Today ... i eat only 2 times a day ... and i prefer to not mix ... not even 2 types of foods.
But ... i still see lots of fat people all around.
So ... what is behind eating?!
A pleasure?! An addiction?! An attribute of wealth?!
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... or a nonsense?!
I am laughing when i remember that hundreds of years ago, the rich people were eating 60 types of foods in less than 24 hours ... and that being fat was considered an attribute of wealth.
Society changed a little bit ... but still many people see in eating ...
the pleasure of being alive.
I even heard the expression ...” If i don’t eat everything i want ... what do i live for?!” ... and i understand that the nonsense is the main attribute of the human being.
And i continue laughing ... of the king and his friends.
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Why should we bother to celebrate different events from our lives?!
Is that a nonsense ... or the need of beautiful things in our actual reality?!
I wonder who invented the concept of celebrating.
Today is my birthday, but i never liked to celebrate that.
But maybe people are celebrating only things that brings them beautiful memories.
Connecting to different beautiful moments from the past ... becomes a way of bringing greatness into the present moment.
But in my case ... i remember when i was 13, it was my birthday and i went to the cinema ... without telling my mother.
At that time it was no mobile phone, so i could not let her know where i was.
When i came back ... she acted in a bad way .. cause she was desperate of not finding me.
Today am 43 ... so 30 years later ... after 30 occasions of celebration my birthday ... i still dislike to celebrate the day.
I remember how that day was ... that it does not bring me good memories ... and i don’t even bother to tell people about what day it is.
But i have also other close friends, men and women that don’t like to celebrate their birthday also ... cause ... maybe they had similiar stories with my story.
And i also have friends that have big parties, with tens of people invited ... with great preparations ... with musicians ... and can’t really understand why they do it.
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Probably ... they always had parties like that, even as kids and makes them feel, one day a year ... important persons.
It happens i also know people that celebrate the fact that 2 years from now they broke up with the love of their life, or 7 years ago the mother died, or 3 years ago they were arrested for 3 days for fraud ... but they succeed to get our of jail.
And also people that celebrate that 5 years ago met with the wife ...
which they consider the love story of their life.
We somehow connect to the past ... and celebrate beautiful, but also not so beautiful events ... that somehow changed our lives. Sometimes ... the memories still control us ... and we want to feel an important person in the lives of others ... at least for one day from 365 ... or we celebrate other beautiful or bad moments from the past ... paying them a huge attention ... is a way of giving value to our lives.
Might look like a nonsense ... but probably the human being needs ... to have a meaning ... and the illusion that what their lives are important ... and if this is missing from the actual reality ... we just reconnect to the past.
And for a day ... we ignore the present moment ... forgetting that we see no meaning on the actual timeline.
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One of the main lessons in life ... is that nothing and nobody should be allowed to fuck your vibe ... not even you
We have lots of reasons why we lose the good energy of vibration that we could have.
During the years i met persons that explained me the fact that they worked a lot at the energy they have during the day. It was actually just a mask and nothing more.
Kind of an artificial vibe ... that was only created the illusion that they were ok.
A total nonsense.
But the truth is that the only way in how we can have a great vibe all the time is ... by accepting anything is happening around us.
When we are relaxed ... not obsessed by the fact that things ... or the people ... should act in a specific way ... everything comes by itself. But the Ego wants as the reality to look in a certain way ... and if you have the power to analyze later ... you will laugh by yourself.
And then you go back to the victim stage ... cause you start to not
like what is going on.
Things go out of control.
People are acting strange ... even treat you in a miserable way.
Real life ... the way you see it ... looks like a crazy one and everything is against you.
But life is the way it is ... and everything happens for a reason. Sometimes ... behind everything you see ... there is a lesson and nothing ... or nobody should be allowed to destroy your vibe.
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And truth be told ... nothing and no one is destroying your vibe ... as you might believe ... but only your thoughts ... with nonsense scenarios about the present reality.
The difference between the present moment and the way we thought it should look like is ... what we should name ... our expectations and i am sure you heard many times the expression ... “our expectations hurts us most”.
At the moment of awakening we see that nothing and nobody can
fuck our vibes ... but we do it.
The nonsense is seen.
We just destroy our energies, just because we cannot understand the difference between natural and artificial.
Natural ... is the way everything goes by itself ... in the real world. Artificial .... means trying to control things and situations ... and
usually ends up with the unhappiness cause not everything is happening in the way we desire to happen. The nonsense ... is always a paradox.
Just let everything come by itself ... and let your vibe in peace.
