But i use to walk a lot, sometimes in the city center, and i see lots of beautiful ladies in there.
In fact i see so many ... that i wonder myself ... how the hell can a free man make the selection?!
What should be the real criteria for that?!
I also have a theory ... and my friend is always laughing of me hearing it ... that if it is to meet her ... you can even meet her at the supermarket, while buying eggs and mineral water.
Of course you already understood that me and my friend are not teenagers anymore ... but we still dream like the guys of 16 ... at the perfect fairy tale with the most amazing woman from the universe. ... both of us!
Is it natural?!
I believe so ... and is our fundamental right to dream about anything we actually want.
On the other hand the truth about how you can actually meet the
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perfect partener ... is somehow in the middle.
We sometimes need special circumstances, but if is to happen ... it will happen anyway ... anywhere.
It is in our powers to influences some of the circumstances ... of the curent reality ... but life is so strange ... so difficult to be understood that ... without the agreement of the Universe ... certain paths will come only at a certain time ... or maybe will just never come.
We should probably keep in mind just the concept of the perfect partner ... repeat it as a mantra from time to time ... or even pray for it.
The law of attraction is available even for love stories ... not only for money or other silly desires ... so ... ask ... believe ... receive.
And yes ... the meeting can happen even at the supermarket ... but forget to mention that you need to be a lucky guy for that!
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Influencing reality ... just by expecting great things to happen
The truth about the truth is that we don’t really understand the power of our minds.
... but first, let me tell u great story for better understanding this theory.
It looks like there were 2 young businessmen.
They were pioneers of the Internet and somehow without actually knowing so much about business, founded a new company together. They started to have clients, but somehow things were not so great as they expected.
But one day ... another young guy, who actually was a client of the company ... became partner with them.
They were 3 now and expected as because of the infusion of financial capital, the company to have a quantum jump. And this is actually what happened.
Started to have hundreds and then thousands of new contracts and it all became a huge financial success.
They had 4-5 times more employees and were expecting to grow more and more.
But, not really understanding what happened that the company changed so much, the 2 partners that founded it, started to daily chat about the fact that the 3rd partner was doing ... nothing.
He was actually buying to the employees from his own money ... the greatest pizza from the city, was making jokes with them, was the dj of the company, cause they were listening music in there all the time etc etc.
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But ... he was not doing anything for the company, in a regular
way ... as talking to the clients, taking care of the projects ... and so on.
One of the other 2 partners was dealing with hundreds of small clients and the other one was dealing with important clients.
They had lots of things to do ... from the morning to the night ... and was quite frustrating to see their new partener ... not helping them with anything at all.
But the new guy ... was actually a person that was meditating a lot, knew about the law of attraction and how it can be used in a company for bringing huge amounts of money ... actually knew everything about bringing abundance ... by the power of his mind. The other 2 guys were blinds.
They never paid attention at how the company was before this guy came to them ... and how it became after he entered as a partner in a company.
Later on ... they split the company in 2 parts and the expert in the law of attraction followed another path.
Only years later ... one of the 2 founders of the company understood the power of that influence from the 3rd guy ... just by using the power of meditation.
He was influencing reality ... just by expecting great things to happen.
It all looked like he was doing nothing ... but for a huge success ...
working was not enough.
The 2 founders worked a lot before he came into the company and worked a lot after he left ... but that tremendous success never came again to them.
Maybe it was just a coincidence ... but i think we should try meditation ... at least as an experiment.
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The huge power of internet.
Is it a positive or a negative
influence over our lives?!
Well ... don’t know what to say.
I’ve been involved even from the beginning in the internet business. The influence that the Internet has had in our lives is really wide, it has managed to insert itself in every space where each person develops, from sharing a moment with a friend, with a partner, with the family, with the workgroup, sending photos via instant messaging to ordering a pizza or buying a phone.
Weather good or bad ... the Internet can influence lives.
Things evolved so much, that when we say internet, we actually think about our mobile phones.
But i wonder myself why a guy as Steve Jobs, which could be named as one of the fathers of smart phones ... why he did not let his kids use those phones?!
Well ... i believe because they somehow get our full attention and makes us be absent from the real life.
All around, where you should look ... you see everybody totally connect with the mobile phone.
Is actually an extension of the body ... and almost can’t survive without it.
Recently i’ve been in a short vacation.
I prepared everything 3 days before leaving, so that when i am away no one to disturb me with urgent issues.
I actually arranged everything except one thing ... to pay my phone bill.
I arrived in vacation ... i slept ... then woke up... i was drinking my
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coffee and instead of enjoying the nature around ... i opened the
internet ... but surprise.
It was not working.
They cut it, because i forgot to pay them the bill.
The Universe was arranging things in a beautiful way ...so that i can stay in my short vacation to totally relax ... with no internet. But i was ... mad.
How the hell could that happen?!
I realize in the next second that even if i don’t smoke, don’t drink alcohol, don’t use drugs ... i still have a huge addiction and i can’t survive without being connected to the internet. It became something similar with the air.
We can survive for one or 2 days without eating ... but waking up with no internet around ... should be like hell. Have we arrived in a strange era?!
Is it dangerous having this strong connection between technology and the human being?!
Well ... too many questions.
For the moment ... i just laugh of myself.
I thought i was mastering all my behaviors, that i have no addiction at all, that i am on a path when i understand but also influence the life only in the way i wanted ... but ...
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Just keep the right balance between
influencing and being influenced
We are so influenced by the world around us ... but also influence it if we are connected with the present moment.
And i keep wondering myself if this art of influence and being influenced is not one of the main lessons of life.
But we are not paying attentions to the details and having a mix of ignorance and arrogance ... we just ignore what is going on. And guess what?!
The path of life, that we follow ... the one that we believe ... is a path decided by us ... just change its direction depending of the meaning and the intensity of that influence.
Truth be told ... being influenced is good sometimes.
We need that ... but we just need to see and analyze properly the values of that influence.
The probability of not being the right influence always exists and we should not ignore this detail.
Also ... influencing the world around us ... with positive or negative energies depends a lot by the frequency where we are at that moment.
And we should keep in mind that the world needs the positive influence ... cause it is enough of negative interactions all around. What i want to say ... is that we need to somehow filter all the time ...
the way we influence, but also the one of being influenced.
We need to use our conscience all the time, and be aware at this non ending process.
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A life of a kid playing football, loving this sport and believing he can be a great football player ... can be influenced in a totally negative way by his friends laughing of his dream.
The dream itself can be dissolved little by little or even in a second. The right partner in life, can help an individual to keep his optimism in all the difficult moments.
... or lose his positive energy.
We want it or not, the influence exists ... in and out of us.
Learning the art of influence is a ... must.
But also keeping the right balance for this process ... is extremely important.
We need to keep our inner spirit alive ... probably through solitude ...
so that we always have the best inner guidance.
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The perfect scene.
The best actors.
But is this the trick of
getting the real connection?
We were at the restaurant ... very close by the table where an nteresting guy and his beautiful partner, a real lady ... i should say, were enjoying the beauty of being tother.
A bottle of wine, 2 glasses, a cake ... fabulous music ... the perfect scene for seducing her.
We were discussing philosophical issues, mainly how the reality is actually influenced by different factors.
... i mean ... influenced in a positive way, so that the atmosphere to be fantastic.
We were drinking our coffees and suddenly looked to each other ...
cause we understood that the guy next to us ... knew much more about influencing reality as we knew.
The fabulous wine ... that tasty cake ... the music that was actually talking about ... love ... were all generating an energetic field ... the perfect environment for ... a perfect date. I knew very well the theory.
A younger friend of us ... told me long time ago ... “If you want to seduce her, just go to a beautiful restaurant ... spend money without being afraid that you will not succeed to seduce her ... and then she will be yours”.
It was a great ... trick ... and it really work, because i was watching the smart guy and that beautiful lady.
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They were not a couple ... you could see that, but they were feeling great together.
He was a guru of influencing reality ... and me and my friend could not believe than even that we studied so much the subject ... we actually never implement those tricks. Then the waiter came.
275 dollars ... a bottle of wine and a cake.
You find it expensive, isn’t it?!
Well ... i thought so too ... but i was then comparing to how much money people are paying to the therapist ... just to get rid of unhappiness ... not for feeling great ... just to somehow remove depression.
The couple left the restaurant.
My friend, the one i was with, starts to tell me about his date from last week.
He was in the same park, where the restaurant was ... but he was walking with the lady he was dating with ... and then they stayed on the bench for about 3 hours, talking and enjoying the view of the lake.
Guess what happened?!
Well ... i am laughing of him, cause he knew the trick of spending 275 dollars on a bottle of wine and a cake ... but he preferred to ... the old way of connecting to a lady.
My friend failed. He tried the natural way ... and failed.
I would even define him as a loser when it comes about acting on the stage in a love story.
But ... then a moment of awakening appears for a second.
So ... after the restaurant, the guy that was next to us ... seduced the lady.
My friend, staying and admiring the lake, while trying to connect to the soul of that beautiful lady ... failed.
But the question is ... what happens with the guy from the restaurant ... after the magic of that perfect scene, induced by the few intelligent artificial elements ... disappears?!
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Well .... i start to believe that real relationships should be based on
natural circumstances.
In the beginning is important to find the connection, not by inducing it
... just by finding if it exists or not.
You don’t need the perfect scene to be happy.
You don’t need to be an actor to influence reality in a way that will generate the script of a hollywoodian movie. Just be real.
Let everything come by itself.
See first if there is a connection between the 2 of you and then ... the perfect elements of the scene from the love story will appear by themselves.
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Well ... i just don’t like my life.
What the hell can i do?!
Would you give me some tips & tricks?!
It happens i have a dear friend that was in jail for a year, in a prison close to Paris.
He told me the whole story.
First week, in the basement from the Police of Paris ... was horrible. But ... after this week ... he was transferred for a year to another prison ... where life was ... fantastic.
I was listening to him and could not believe it.
Actually he was from a very wealthy family from France and things were arranged as even if he will stay in there for one year ... to be treated as a prince.
He could order to eat anything he ever wanted.
