Accepting volatility as part of the way life is ... represents a key that will make you guide yourself to the real absolute symbols that we can have in life.
Then ... that influence that you are looking for .... that positive vibe
that you need for a happy life .... will be inside of you.
The whole meaning of this trend that shows us that everything around exists now, but in the next second can become just a small chapter from the history of our lives ... is revealing a message from the Universe and that is ... don’t look for the absolute in the outside world, but in the inner world.
Just let the volatility be a new trend and ignore all the illusions life can send to your life ... but don’t forget to be connected with the soul all the time.
That is the gateway ....
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Touching the horizon line ... just a silly illusion that we taste everyday
Maybe i should start my essay saying that i have a disease impossible to be cured.
It’s call ... the need of touching the horizon line.
I’ve contacted it since i started my first business, but things got complicated when i entered into the real estate and i began to build houses.
For me ... it’s a real pleasure to built.
Before even starting ... i actually visualize the trees from the garden
and all the pieces of furniture.
The you see the foundation.
The first floor.
The second one.
The third one.
The roof ...and i see the shape of the house.
Then i focus on all the other details, expecting to daily see quick changes.
I imagine finishing the house ... and its perfection.
And i even imagine myself happy ... just because i finish the project, but instead of losing my time to be happy at the end ... i just focus on your next project.
I want ... one more ... or maybe 10 ... 20 ... 100 new projects. It’s a feeling difficult to be described, but every time i finished something ... this is what i did next ... focus on the future ... but never think about relaxing and enjoying the present.
Today ... at least i am conscious about the disease ... i try to cure
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myself ... but can’t find any treatment at all.
I am on a pathless path ... having this silly illusion that i taste everyday ... but i am wondering myself ... until when?!
Maybe the cure is simple ... and i just need to stop ... relax ... and enjoy the life, but i can’t see this path.
Maybe is so simple ... and i’m so silly that i can’t understand that the need of touching the horizon line ... was influenced of the fact that i always wanted from life ... more than the life had offered me.
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When someone really wants to enter
into your energetic field ... will not bother to ask for your permission
More and more people start to understand what an energetic field really means.
They understood the concept but can not define it in a way so that ...
they can apply all the necessary rules and have the life that they want.
But what is an energetic field?!
Well ... it can be defined as reality, but actually is the background that defines reality with some invisible forces.
I read many spiritual but also scientist books ... but the concept has a too complex definition.
We have lots of thoughts regarding that ... lots of scenarios of how it should look like ... but the problem is that depending on the spiritual level where we are ... we are influenced more or less by all kinds of exterior factors.
And the funny thing is that if someone wants ... or maybe the Universe decides that ... to enter into our energetic field, will do it without bothering to ask for our permission.
But truth be told our lives are influenced by all kinds of factors ....
starting from weather, the silly politicians from the country where we live in ... to the people we accidentally meet on the streets. All those factors will influence us a lot.
And ... even practicing the solitude will not let us avoid all the exterior factors.
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A solution?!
Well ... maybe the first one should be to not try anymore to control reality and embrace everything happens in life.
Understand that above our thinking, there is a Divine Being ... called Universe, God, Allah etc etc ... and this absolute being knows better how the script of our lives should look like.
We need to create a mix from our desires and the uncontrollable influences that comes to us.
Will be kind of a strange cocktail of energies ... that defines and re defines the energetic fields on and on and on ... but maybe this is the beauty of life ... embracing ... the unexpected.
The meaning of all these?!
Well ... the meaning of life is to understand ... life ... and life itself is about energies of many kinds.
Even people that master the law of attraction understand in one point that mastering this powerful law is useless ... if you are not following the path that you are supposed to follow.
Somehow we need to accept the concept of destiny to understand the meaning and the power of those exterior influences that sometimes appears from nowhere and look like a nonsense.
Embracing reality ... just as it is ... represent the key for a beautiful life!
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Some people ... just act as ghosts
that influence our lives from time to time
There are people that appears in our lives .... and then just disappear
forever.
It is totally illogical ... but this is even a psychological effect defined as ghosting.
It’s ... the practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication.
It is usual the scenario for a love story ... with someone that appeared from nowhere ... but also leaves suddenly to ... nowhere. A beautiful ... perfect scenario ... ends in a way that can be declared as a ... non sense.
You will always remember that perfect being ... but will never understand the reasons why the story ended.
But sometimes the ghosting effect can be even more weird.
You can meet a person ... that somehow is usually sending you a message in a very powerful way ... but only from time to time. That person can appear ... then disappear ... then reappear again. It’s like a ghost that appears from time to time to influence our lives ... in a way difficult to be understood.
Could be a lover ... that creates you the illusion of the perfect love story ... or even a friend that gives us some advices ... but also a weird person as a neighbor that is driving you crazy from time to time
... does it, then is letting you believe he disappeared ... then reappears again ... and on and on and on.
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Well ... today i think these are just signs that the Universe is sending us from time to time ... to let us understand the meaning of different things from what we call ... reality.
We can name those persons ... ghosts ... but everything happens for a certain reason ... and we are too blinds to see it at the time it happens.
The ghosts ... should just ... remind us ... what we forget or help us see ... things that we don’t have the power to see.
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The feeling of unhappiness just sends you a strong message telling that we
need to start another chapter
and leave the actual reality.
Unhappiness is a friend ... not an enemy.
The great scientist Stephen Hawkins used to say that the black wholes are not so black and dangerous as we might think.
Actually the black wholes might be gateways to a different ...
universes.
And even being for a lifetime in a wheel chair ... he dares to compare unhappiness with the black wholes ... and explains in a beautiful way that no matter where you are in life ... you have a way out.
Even if you feel that you are trapped in what Hawkins named black wholes, which might look like a worse case scenario ... don’t worry cause this also has a way in and a way out.
But when unhappiness is present in our lives ... we become blinds. We believe we are so, so influenced in a negative way by it ... that in the end we just become blinds and can’t see anymore the path of joy. Comparing the unhappiness with a black whole, same as in Hawkins’s thoughts ... is a new perspective.
But a guy as Hawkins, that spent his life in a wheel chair ... found out that if he cannot have a regular life, he could focus all his time and energy into thinking.
And he found joy into that.
He studied the Universe as a scientist ... and saw it in the end as a philosopher.
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But us ... all the other ones that are not forced to spend the whole life in a wheel chair ... we can’t find the gateway from the actual universe to another one ... which actually means switch reality with another reality ... an ugly one with a joyful one.
Defining the unhappiness as a friend ... a friend that is actually strongly whispering you something ... is a little bit too abstract. But the unhappiness tells you that you are not in the right place or you are not seeing the actual reality from the right perspective. Jumping from unhappiness to happiness can be done in a second ...
but only if you see the signs ... and have the power to listen and
accept your strongest emotions.
So ... ?!
Well ... we should only keep our eyes opened ... pay attentions to everything around ... define reality and find a way of redefining it all the time.
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The balance of emotions disappears
only when we succeed to
connect to the inner self
I see more and more people around me that after an age ... not more than 30 ... they start to practice the solitude.
It’s kind of a way of auto protection to all the influences that comes from the energies of the people from our lives.
They start to be afraid of every exchange of energy and actually find a way to get rid of what other people think about the reality they live in.
After lots of years of doing that, after seeing inside of me a weird balance of emotions ... i tried also to disconnect myself from the outside world.
I understood the power of all the exterior influences, but i also realized the Universe is laughing of me and somehow i am in the position of interacting with people ... anywhere i should go.
I almost closed my main business where i had to interact with many people, all day long ... but still lots of people appears from anywhere in my life.
Somehow ... the message is clear ... i need to deal with all those interactions and energies ... and the only chance i have is to learn the art of connecting to people in a beautiful way.
During the time, it happens many, many times as all those interactions to make me have the silly dance of contradictory emotions ... but today i believe that if we connect with good intentions all the people we interact with ... most probably the
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interaction will be a positive ... with a positive influence.
But i still also meet people that don’t have a good influence over my life ... and every time it happens i know i am not in a good energetic position ... as a soul.
I just know ... that positive attracts positivity and negative attracts negativity ... and i need to totally change the path of life that i am following.
I stop ... asking myself what i am doing wrong ... but all the time i see that all i need to do is to connect to my inner soul.
Nothing more ... nothing less!
And the balance of emotions ... disappears right away!
The connection with the inner self ... gives the protection for a beautiful life ... no matter of the influences that come from the outside world.
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The arrogance ... a contemporary art
that can be seen everywhere around
More i interact with people around me .. more i see lots of people acting in an arrogant way.
Is almost like a virus and i am glad i somehow succeeded to not contact it.
But what is really ... the arrogance?!
The definition of arrogancy is the state of acting superior or self important in an offensive manner. A student who constantly taunts others for being less intelligent than herself is an example of someone displaying arrogancy.
Exaggerating or disposed to exaggerate one's own worth or importance often by an overbearing manner an arrogant official ... showing an offensive attitude of superiority ... proceeding from or characterized by arrogance an arrogant reply.
And i look at all those definitions and i am wondering myself why we can’t keep the right balance in a conversation ... or in fact in all the relations we have.
Why we actually need to be arrogant?!
But why so, so many people?!
What influenced them in such a way that they need to practice this silly ... “art”.
Well ... today i believe that not being connected with the inner self, to feel the presence of the infinite in our souls ... we somehow try to replace the huge need of absolute values and we declare ourselves the absolute from the outside world.
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The next second ... we see superiority in the way we act with the others.
Yes ... is just a silly game we practice so often that we don’t even realize that we do it.
And instead of connecting to the other souls around we declare them inferiors to us and we actually totally disconnect from all around us. We continue acting as this ... being under a negative influence ...
disconnected from our souls ... and we end up being disconnected from the inner world ... but also from the outside world.
