Both persons looks like not being so different ... but the life they could offer to us ... should be totally different and that depends only by what we choose. The only real thing you need to see is that you should trust into your destiny. Having faith ... is the key.
And whatever you choose ... do it with love, good intentions ... and believe that the best life you can have is the one the Universe is offering you.
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Sex is everywhere
Chemistry isn’t
How do you know is real?!
In life is quite important to understand the art of defining ... and try to define in a clear way everything means your life.
But most of the times, what we call reality ... is actually how we see it.
It does not mean that the simple fact that we perceive everything in a certain way ... is actually the truth.
And you see, in a love story ... the first thing that it will happen is that you will become blind.
All you will see will be very beautiful .. and will be quite easy to misunderstand
what is really going on in fact.
It could be perfect sex.
Or you could just be real good friends.
But what “chemistry” means?!
The biggest mistake that you could do is confusing the perfect sex, or being best friends ... means you are soul mates.
How do you find out what is really going on between the 2 of you?! Well ... there is a trick you will find out.
The love story, same as life, will have many ups and down.
But the day when you going to realise that no matter what is going on between the 2 of you .... and that not even betrayal or cheating ... can break you up ... means something strange is going on.
For normal relations ... there will be lots of rules for what you are allowed to do or not to do.
Defining is good .... but doing it in a classical way ... and also with people that
don’t know what chemistry means, even if there are close friends or family members ... is going to be useless.
Great love stories have different rules, being first of all defined by ... the perfect connection between the partners.
Today, even if you are a man or a woman, you can find sex everywhere, but for real chemistry ... you need a little help from the Universe.
And when you find that person ... you will need to pay more attention to the story
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itself.
A real relationship will always be defined by the difficult times ... and not so much as you would want ... of the good moments.
When you going to see that nothing can actually break the connection ... that is a great love story ... with what you can name ... a soul mate.
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The parallel path
Living in 2 different worlds
Why are people using different kinds of drugs?!
What is the whole meaning of doing that?!
Well ... when reality is not what we want ... we try to substitute everything with a parallel universe ... where reality is totally different than the one we live in. Being in love ... could be such a parallel world ... but also should be defined as an addiction.
It’s like you decide to have a new project ... and that is going on a journey ... on the path to the happiness.
You start to believe that you have the right to recreate your life ... and for a while
... you really do it ... but then you see that everything is just a parallel path.
And 2 parallel lines meet only at the infinite.
Infinite ... means eternity ... but we are not eternal ... so the parallel universe is not becoming part of the reality.
But the truth is that we need addictions.
Is like we have a headache ... we take a pill ... and the headache is gone.
Can a love story be defined in such a way?!
I think we are too ... cruel.
Or maybe ... we should not be judged so much of the others when we actually decide to have addictions ... of any kind.
Is our lives .... and our rules ... our thoughts and our decisions.
If reality is not what we expect from life ... any addiction is good for a while.
And love stories ... could save us ... and also hurt us.
But they hurt only because we can’t take that beautiful story into the real world.
... and i wonder myself why we want that?! ... especially if everything is just perfect.
Why we can’t accept that a love story can be perfect, just in a parallel universe ...
in a world created by us ... for us?!
You have the answear ... just ask yourself.
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“I see her in such different ways ...”
I recently discovered on social media a very talented artist, named Estefania Castro ... and you can find her, if you like, searching for @artbae.
I don’t know so much about paintings, but i just loved what i saw at her.
What i found amazing at one of her paintings, representing a beautiful lady, was that the face was painted in multiple colors.
The effect was just great ... the woman from the portrait had life ... and was exactly my philosophy about how i see a beautiful feminine soul.
And ... when you are really in love ... you see her in such different ways, but i believe ... you just find her ... fantastic.
The magic is there ... and the way you define her ... in fact defines also the story you have togheter.
We are looking for beautiful symbols in our lives ... and meeting that person actually paints your life in an unique way ... that lets you know how happiness looks like.
It says that the life is the way it is, it always was like that ... and it will never change ... but when you find someone that bring beautiful colors in your life ... you can name yourself lucky.
Is not easy to meet these kind of persons, but it probably just happens ...
So ... how should you paint today your partener?!
What colors would you use?!
But ... how would look the painting with the 2 of you?!
And i should also ask ... what should be the colors that would define you in the best way?!
You see ... we need symbols ... beautiful symbols ... to guide us through life.
And being in love is an art ... that helps us see everything ... in a magic way.
All of us ... could be artists.
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“Don’t care how much you love me, but if you fuck my vibe ... you can forget about me”
Have you ever thought how do you measure the vibe of your relationship?! Do you think it is important to keep a diary of how you feel being near your partner ... so that you have a statistic of all is going on?!
What is more important ... to love you a lot ... or to give you a great vibe all the time?!
I believe all details are important ... but probably the most important thing of all ... is as always to feel great.
And a great love story ... will make you feel like that.
But this is actually the best case scenario ... she loves you, but also gives you a fantastic vibe.
In the real world, usually it happens that ... she loves you ... but is not giving you the right vibe all the time.
She is doing that often, but not always. Can you honestly do anything about that?!
... or just accept everything just as it is ... and continue the love story, being satisfied that she loves you in an unique way?!
Why a great love story ... can’t be great all the time?!
Why can’t it be on automatic pilot?
But the pragmatical question still remains ... she loves you, but does not give you a great vibe all the time ... what you do then?! Does the connection works only randomly?!
What is really happening?!
Well ... a great love story ... should be always great ... but if you will just miss the connection to that person from time to time... the great vibe will not always be there.
So, my dear friend ... stay connected ... and she will never ruin your vibe!
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Not understanding the real philosophy
“Yes... you are right ... she is crazy.
In fact ... all women are crazy.
And ... all men are jerks.”
Men do not understand how women are thinking.
And women do not understand how men are thinking.
Maybe we were not so interested about what philosophy and psychology really means ... and now we pay the price for that.
And when you don’t understand what the other side wants you call them crazy ...
jerks etc etc.
Why is so important as you to understand how she or he thinks?!
Can’t you just enjoy the love story ... without bother so much about those details?!
Well ... i think that everything is important when you speak about a relationship.
You cannot be happy with her ... if you can’t understand what she really wants.
Or you can think you are happy, but only for a while ... if she is not.
But i actually doubt about such a scenario anyway ... cause women tells the things right away in a very clear way.
Basically understanding each other ...is the key ... to happiness.
We don’t even understand our own thoughts and the truth is that we don’t even care so much of what the other side has to say. We just dislike the fact that is not agreeing with us.
Life in couple should be fantastic ... if we would understand its rules and its philosophy.
But maybe is easier to say “you’re crazy!” .. or “you’re a jerk”.
And you will end up ... paying the price.
What it was a beautiful love story, that made you feel great ... is now ruining you emotionally.
Defining and understanding what is behind the love story ... will help you a lot to find the answears about what the path of a love really means.
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You’re lucky if you found a person who never
gets tired of understanding your non sense attitude
... or that person is lucky cause you still
remained in the story?!
What is the meaning of a non sense attitude?!
Why someone should accept such a person in a love story?! ... or in any kind of relation?!
What is the sense of the non sense?!
Well, maybe it’s all about accepting a reality that you don’t agree with ... just as it is, but on the other hand you don’t even bother to take so seriously.
Someone could love you or pretend that loves you, but you actually know the truth behind the story.
In fact, you know that everything ... the whole story is not what it looks like.
You are acting like a spectator of your own life, without doing anything ....
reacting in no way.
Your non sense attitude is difficult to be understood,but you don’t care about how you are seen by the others, cause in fact you know the real truth.
Being in a love story, that has other reasons behind the story, that is actually only an illusion, not a real love story ... but still staying in there is actually the real nonsense.
You accept that the Universe, each time wants to teach you a lesson is laughing of you and is presenting a beautiful path, that looks like one that can take you to the supreme happiness, but in fact is just a pathless path.
I remember a story about a guy who was in love with a married woman.
He had a friend that used to be priest in the past ... but he adored the women and became in the end a businessman and resigned as a priest.
The old gentleman knew a lot about religion but also about ladies and his younger friend drive him crazy telling him for months about his illusory love story with the married lady.
One day, feeling really annoyed tells to the young guy: “Listen, you love her ...
it’s ok. But, listen to me, love her as a hooker, not as the love of your life, because what she did to his husband, will do to you too!”.
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The guy was really disappointed hearing this, but on the other hand, he just knew that his older friend was in fact a very wise guy.
So, my question is ...should you be named lucky, cause someone else is accepting your non sense attitude ... or that person should be called lucky ... cause you are still staying in the story, even if you know that the whole story is a big, big lie?
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“Her angel eyes saw the good
... in many devils”
It says that we all have inside of us ... good and bad daemons and it’s all a decision of what you want to show to the world.
Is like we have little bosses that tells us all the time what to do.
And you can be a good person... or a bad one.
The meaning of your actions is the definition of how you want to present yourself to the people from your life.
But i wonder myself ... why is that .... persons that are not having a nice
character at all ... totally change when they start being in love?!
What is making that person be so redefined?!
Wayne Dyer used to say ... “change the way you look at things and the things you look at change.”
So ... my question is ... do you think that the person is changing because is seen only in a beautiful way by the partner ... or this is the whole meaning of a love story?!
... to change us ... and show to the world our beautiful side.
I believe that the effect itself appears to let us know that we can control all the
bad daemons, the ones we always forget that exist ... but in fact, in many cases,
control our lives.
Love stories exist.
They can appear at any age ... but it’s important as love to exists on both sides ... and the other person to be the “angel that sees the good ... from the devil”.
Just knowing we are seen as that ... encourage us ... to act differently ... and be totally redefined.
The magic presence of that person, on the timeline of our own life ... makes us take the jump ... the quatuum jump.
You see ... the whole meaning is that people can change ... but only if real love exists in their lives.
... cause love is everything.
Just think about it ... and maybe try it.
Love stories are great adventures!
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The path to an amazing “prototype” of love story
... a fancy car and a coffee to Monte Carlo?!
What social media is whispering us ....
What is the best case scenario for a love story?!
What are the rules that the 2 partners need to follow so that the script to be a great one?!
Are money important into a love story?!
