And even seeing all this happening, living this experience in the real life ... you still think and talk about plans.
But what if you should think that the best plan ... is that should be no plan.
Or if there is a plan ... the only one is to enjoy the story ... letting everything flow by itself.
In all hollywoodian movies about love stories ... the characters are not talking about plans ... or if they do it, they only focus on discussing about the joyfulness of being one near another.
And the truth is that you can have the best plans in the world, but it all depends about what the destiny has to say ... and the meaning of that love story in your
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
13
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
life.
So ... i should tell you that instead of being a theoretician ... making all kinds of
plans for a beautiful future ... maybe the only important thing is just to live the
present moment, enjoy it ... and continue to expect as the future to look in the
same way.
No plans.
No worries.
No expectations.
You know why?!
I believe that the Universe, through what we call destiny ... which is in fact a path that goes in a certain direction ... is waiting to see if we enjoy the story or stress and worry about it.
The path itself ... will be only a result of our thoughts and actions.
Think and focus on real facts ... but only related with the present moment. This is why even if it sounds as a paradox, when you are in a love story ... the best plan you could have is just have no plans at all ... and live the present moment ... the beauty of being togheter.
Or maybe the only plan that the Universe has for you is to be happy. ... just think about it!
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
14
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
In love of the most unexpected person ...
So in love of the most unexpected person ... and maybe also ... the worst one ...
but the control was lost anyway.
The reason why Freddie Mercury said that ... “Love is for me a russian roulette” Is love a lottery?!
Wonder myself if it should be called ... a russian roulette, as Mercury said.
For him ... in the end ... unfortunately the love stories were indeed as that, cause he died of aids.
He was a great artist, and as any artist he loved ... sex and love stories.
He also used to say “i want my cake ... to enjoy it ... what’s wrong with that ...” But maybe everything is too much ... kills us and we should pay attention to have the right proportion in everything the life offers to us.
You know, it says that the meaning of life is to live different lessons so that the Universe will let us see what life is really about.
But what if the meaning of the actual life is to understand what love is about. What if this is the main lesson?!
And laughing of us, the Universe let us fall in love of the most unexpected persons that we could think of.
Maybe is the worst case scenario ... but we loose control anyway ... so should make no sense to analyze so much.
It’s a tasty cake ... we enjoy it ... but has poisson inside ... or at least this is what we think after a while.
But why love makes us happy ... and also hurts you so much?!
Well ... truth be told, most of the times we cannot choose the people we fall in love with.
And it could happen as that person to be the greatest partener ... or the best teacher we could have for a love story.
But whoever that partner is ... remember that a love story is called in such a beautiful way ... cause it should be something beautiful.
Dare to enjoy the story ... and if it’s really a russian roulette ... it just means you’ll learn everything about love.
Be happy ... you will not miss anything.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
15
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
8 Major Twin Flame Stages
Stage One – Yearning for “The One” ...
Stage Two – Glimpsing “The One” ...
Stage Three – Falling in Love. ...
Stage Four – The Fairy-Tale Relationship. ...
Stage Five – Outer Turmoil and Inner Purging. ...
Stage Six – The Runner and Chaser. ...
Stage Seven – Surrender and Dissolution. ...
Stage Eight – Oneness.
(P.S.)
Have you ever thought about meeting your soul mate or twin flame?!
Is that the key of entering into that magic world of the perfect love story?!
What is a soul mate?!
What is a twin flame?!
Well ... we all know that if we thought about love during this life time ... but don’t worry ... even if you don’t know it ... at the right time you will feel ... what is this about.
In fact, you won’t even need any explanations at all ... cause the connection you will have with that person ... will whisper you everything.
In the beginning we are yearning for “the one” ... then we are glimpsing ... and the love story just starts.
My dear friend who wrote the 8 stages for the twin flames, explains in a very simple way the whole process ... but be aware that at the stage seven, you will need to ... Surrender and Dissolution ... so that at the stage eight to be in the position of ... Oneness.
But what is the stage of oneness?!
Are you ready for this stage?
You see ... oneness is the quality of being one, singleness, uniqueness, sameness, identity ... unity of thought, feeling, belief, aim ... agreement, concord, a strong feeling of closeness or affinity, total union.
And the real question is ... are you ready to forget about the elements of your personality ... the ones that defined you till now so much?!
Are you ready of becoming only “us” ... and forget about your our selfishness ...
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
16
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
about your personality and your ego?!
The whole secret of the perfect love story, the one that you see at soul mates or twin flames ... is the desire as 2 souls to be metamorphosed into only one ... which is the couple.
If “us” is more important as “me” ... you are on a path of a beautiful love story ...
and you can expect as great things to happen to you.
If not ... it just means you are not ready yet and other chapters are waiting for you.
But whatever it is ... just enjoy the present moment ... and see everything as an experience of life.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
17
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
Simple rules into a love story
“She didn't need much ...
Just wanted ...
Sincerity ....
Connection ...
Attention ...
And affection ...”
(Arij Emaan)
There is no perfect love story ... but there are love stories that look perfect. And actually looking perfect are based on the the fact that the story has many moments of harmony, joyfulness and happiness.
There is the connection, the perfect chemistry, but the whole dynamic of the relationships goes on a positive path.
There are different moments when things go wrong, but just for a short time ...
cause they both understood that if they want to go on the same path ... they
need to think about arranging things so that so that everything should be perfect.
They actually want the same thing ... to be happy togheter ... and they pay the
price for that.
What is this price?
What are the rules to follow?!
Well ... there is not so much ... as you might think ... and probably everything comes by itself.
She, but also he, needs sincerity, connection, attention and affection. Is it too much?!
There is no need of anything else.
No expensive presents, luxury vacations, no fancy cars ... no nothing.
A love story is always related with the soul.
And always, if the soul gets what wanted so much ... which in fact are very simple things ... the 2 of them are happy togheter.
We don’t need a perfect relationship ... but a real one, based on real values. The vibe that you have being togheter will always be barometer of your love story.
Always have in mind what she / he thinks and cares ... and the happiness will be always in your life. Cause simple things make the difference.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
18
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
Have you seen her lately?
“Her words are refined, her thoughts are sophisticated, her mannerisms are graceful, her style is elegant, her demeanour is serene, her expressions are eloquent, her poise is regal, her ambience is magical, her character is impeccable, her beauty is timeless.
She is my dear, a fine lady".
(Shahara Pereira)
Do you believe in redefining yourselves?!
Do you think the human being has the ability of defining where is in the present moment and where wants to be in the future ... but also has the power of changing everything?
Or you believe that the past, with everything that means, is totally defining us ... and there is no way out ... for showing our greatness?!
But why a difficult disease, as cancer for example, redefines everything a person believes about life?!
Why breaking up from a person you are deeply in love ... just ruins your soul ... and you see yourself in the position of reposition yourself on the timeline of your own life?!
Why can’t we do it without being forced by anything at all?!
Why can’t we just be the person you want to be ... that perfect version?! Today i think ... everything happens because we don’t believe in ourselves.
The meaning of the love story is to show ... mainly to us ... the beautiful side of our soul.
We never thought we could be as that ... but the love story redefines you in 2 ways ... one way by connecting to the story and the other way, which is much difficult to us, is ... through the disconnecting proces.
Life after ... the love story hurts a lot ... but after a while ... you will see a totally different person.
The change happenes.
The redefining process took that person in the position of seeing the greatness
from the soul.
Does it worth it?!
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
19
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
It was such a pain ... yes, indeed, but ... as my dear friend Shahara Pereira says .... today she is a “fine lady” ... with everything that means.
Not only a beautiful smile or a beautiful body ... but also ... a beautiful soul. Whatever happens in life ... being in the love story, or being taken out of the story ... it is the right thing to happen ... the perfect path to follow ... and it happens for your best interest ... to discover everything means your beautiful side.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
20
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
Have faith …
Have faith that everything unfolds according to the Divine plan that the Universe has for your life.
So many times in life you need to choose ... and sometimes you need to decide if you will continue the same boring life, that is never making you feel being alive ...
or forget about about everything and start a totally new life ... that probably will make you great again.
But you don’t know what to do ... which path to follow ...
You should feel the faith that anything you will choose that is the plan the Universe has for you.
And still ... you are so undecided.
One day it happens that you are in a relationship, everything is normal, except the fact that you are not happy ... and you suddenly meet someone else that totally redefines all you thoughts about life.
And you also feel happy ... just seeing that person make you feel great.
You dreamed of following a path with such a person ... but you are afraid ...
cause what you have today is real.
Is never bringing you a good vibe ... but it’s a real story .... one that you can
count on it.
You compare the 2 paths ... but you don’t admit that what you have in the real world is a pathless path that will never take you to a state of happiness. And you stop ... you refuse to choose anything at all.
You prefer to live between 2 worlds.
One is real ... but never brings you joy ... and one looks like an illusory one ...
but you always enjoy being in there.
So ... how do we choose the right path in life?!
Well ... it all looks like a lottery ... but if you believe in the Universe and understand that the Divine plan for you ... whatever it is ... is the perfect one ...
no matter what path you chose, you will see at the end of the journey ... the beautiful side of your soul.
The meaning of all the experiences, no matter if we chose that, or that ... or that ... is to make us see the beauty of life ... and to become joyful souls.
The story itself ... it’s a story about yourself ... and maybe this is the reason why some people are believing that the perfect love story can be only with yourself.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
21
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
Randomly in love
Randomly ... loving you
The dance of our emotions
“And randomly i love you
And i write it on my diary everyday ...”
(Arij Emaan)
We oscillate all the time when it comes about our feelings, even if it is about great love stories.
Today we love a lot ... tomorrow ... we are not so sure anymore.
Yes .. we could even say ... that we love randomly.
And you know why?!
Because in fact there are moments when we believe in the love story and moments ... when we just don’t see ourselves in there.
Maybe the feeling of love still exists ... but we can’t see it anymore.
Love itself is lost ... then we look again in our hearts and we find it again.
It’s kind of a silly dance of emotions.
“I love you” ... “i don’t care about you”.
And how we do express that?!
Well ... today we do everything for the partner ... and maybe 2 days after we just show through our actions that we don’t care anymore about anything means ... “us”.
I now believe, after practicing for years this dance of emotions, that if this is happening ... if you always oscillate between saying “i love you!” ... to “i hate you!”. ... that is most probably an illusory love story.
If you love someone ... you can’t love that person randomly.
You will never love your parents randomly ... or your brother or sister .... or your
kid.
It’s a different kind of love ... but still ... love.
Real love means perfect connections ... but when you connect and disconnect all the time ... still believing that he / she is the love story of your life ... you are just naive.
Love means ... the meeting with the infinite.
If you feel it just randomly ... maybe it’s time to redefine everything means your love life.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
22
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
Just remembering …
“I dont have feelings for him anymore but I still can remember my feelings
But what if you should think that the best plan ... is that should be no plan.
Or if there is a plan ... the only one is to enjoy the story ... letting everything flow by itself.
In all hollywoodian movies about love stories ... the characters are not talking about plans ... or if they do it, they only focus on discussing about the joyfulness of being one near another.
And the truth is that you can have the best plans in the world, but it all depends about what the destiny has to say ... and the meaning of that love story in your
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
13
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
life.
So ... i should tell you that instead of being a theoretician ... making all kinds of
plans for a beautiful future ... maybe the only important thing is just to live the
present moment, enjoy it ... and continue to expect as the future to look in the
same way.
No plans.
No worries.
No expectations.
You know why?!
I believe that the Universe, through what we call destiny ... which is in fact a path that goes in a certain direction ... is waiting to see if we enjoy the story or stress and worry about it.
The path itself ... will be only a result of our thoughts and actions.
Think and focus on real facts ... but only related with the present moment. This is why even if it sounds as a paradox, when you are in a love story ... the best plan you could have is just have no plans at all ... and live the present moment ... the beauty of being togheter.
Or maybe the only plan that the Universe has for you is to be happy. ... just think about it!
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
14
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
In love of the most unexpected person ...
So in love of the most unexpected person ... and maybe also ... the worst one ...
but the control was lost anyway.
The reason why Freddie Mercury said that ... “Love is for me a russian roulette” Is love a lottery?!
Wonder myself if it should be called ... a russian roulette, as Mercury said.
For him ... in the end ... unfortunately the love stories were indeed as that, cause he died of aids.
He was a great artist, and as any artist he loved ... sex and love stories.
He also used to say “i want my cake ... to enjoy it ... what’s wrong with that ...” But maybe everything is too much ... kills us and we should pay attention to have the right proportion in everything the life offers to us.
You know, it says that the meaning of life is to live different lessons so that the Universe will let us see what life is really about.
But what if the meaning of the actual life is to understand what love is about. What if this is the main lesson?!
And laughing of us, the Universe let us fall in love of the most unexpected persons that we could think of.
Maybe is the worst case scenario ... but we loose control anyway ... so should make no sense to analyze so much.
It’s a tasty cake ... we enjoy it ... but has poisson inside ... or at least this is what we think after a while.
But why love makes us happy ... and also hurts you so much?!
Well ... truth be told, most of the times we cannot choose the people we fall in love with.
And it could happen as that person to be the greatest partener ... or the best teacher we could have for a love story.
But whoever that partner is ... remember that a love story is called in such a beautiful way ... cause it should be something beautiful.
Dare to enjoy the story ... and if it’s really a russian roulette ... it just means you’ll learn everything about love.
Be happy ... you will not miss anything.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
15
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
8 Major Twin Flame Stages
Stage One – Yearning for “The One” ...
Stage Two – Glimpsing “The One” ...
Stage Three – Falling in Love. ...
Stage Four – The Fairy-Tale Relationship. ...
Stage Five – Outer Turmoil and Inner Purging. ...
Stage Six – The Runner and Chaser. ...
Stage Seven – Surrender and Dissolution. ...
Stage Eight – Oneness.
(P.S.)
Have you ever thought about meeting your soul mate or twin flame?!
Is that the key of entering into that magic world of the perfect love story?!
What is a soul mate?!
What is a twin flame?!
Well ... we all know that if we thought about love during this life time ... but don’t worry ... even if you don’t know it ... at the right time you will feel ... what is this about.
In fact, you won’t even need any explanations at all ... cause the connection you will have with that person ... will whisper you everything.
In the beginning we are yearning for “the one” ... then we are glimpsing ... and the love story just starts.
My dear friend who wrote the 8 stages for the twin flames, explains in a very simple way the whole process ... but be aware that at the stage seven, you will need to ... Surrender and Dissolution ... so that at the stage eight to be in the position of ... Oneness.
But what is the stage of oneness?!
Are you ready for this stage?
You see ... oneness is the quality of being one, singleness, uniqueness, sameness, identity ... unity of thought, feeling, belief, aim ... agreement, concord, a strong feeling of closeness or affinity, total union.
And the real question is ... are you ready to forget about the elements of your personality ... the ones that defined you till now so much?!
Are you ready of becoming only “us” ... and forget about your our selfishness ...
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
16
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
about your personality and your ego?!
The whole secret of the perfect love story, the one that you see at soul mates or twin flames ... is the desire as 2 souls to be metamorphosed into only one ... which is the couple.
If “us” is more important as “me” ... you are on a path of a beautiful love story ...
and you can expect as great things to happen to you.
If not ... it just means you are not ready yet and other chapters are waiting for you.
But whatever it is ... just enjoy the present moment ... and see everything as an experience of life.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
17
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
Simple rules into a love story
“She didn't need much ...
Just wanted ...
Sincerity ....
Connection ...
Attention ...
And affection ...”
(Arij Emaan)
There is no perfect love story ... but there are love stories that look perfect. And actually looking perfect are based on the the fact that the story has many moments of harmony, joyfulness and happiness.
There is the connection, the perfect chemistry, but the whole dynamic of the relationships goes on a positive path.
There are different moments when things go wrong, but just for a short time ...
cause they both understood that if they want to go on the same path ... they
need to think about arranging things so that so that everything should be perfect.
They actually want the same thing ... to be happy togheter ... and they pay the
price for that.
What is this price?
What are the rules to follow?!
Well ... there is not so much ... as you might think ... and probably everything comes by itself.
She, but also he, needs sincerity, connection, attention and affection. Is it too much?!
There is no need of anything else.
No expensive presents, luxury vacations, no fancy cars ... no nothing.
A love story is always related with the soul.
And always, if the soul gets what wanted so much ... which in fact are very simple things ... the 2 of them are happy togheter.
We don’t need a perfect relationship ... but a real one, based on real values. The vibe that you have being togheter will always be barometer of your love story.
Always have in mind what she / he thinks and cares ... and the happiness will be always in your life. Cause simple things make the difference.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
18
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
Have you seen her lately?
“Her words are refined, her thoughts are sophisticated, her mannerisms are graceful, her style is elegant, her demeanour is serene, her expressions are eloquent, her poise is regal, her ambience is magical, her character is impeccable, her beauty is timeless.
She is my dear, a fine lady".
(Shahara Pereira)
Do you believe in redefining yourselves?!
Do you think the human being has the ability of defining where is in the present moment and where wants to be in the future ... but also has the power of changing everything?
Or you believe that the past, with everything that means, is totally defining us ... and there is no way out ... for showing our greatness?!
But why a difficult disease, as cancer for example, redefines everything a person believes about life?!
Why breaking up from a person you are deeply in love ... just ruins your soul ... and you see yourself in the position of reposition yourself on the timeline of your own life?!
Why can’t we do it without being forced by anything at all?!
Why can’t we just be the person you want to be ... that perfect version?! Today i think ... everything happens because we don’t believe in ourselves.
The meaning of the love story is to show ... mainly to us ... the beautiful side of our soul.
We never thought we could be as that ... but the love story redefines you in 2 ways ... one way by connecting to the story and the other way, which is much difficult to us, is ... through the disconnecting proces.
Life after ... the love story hurts a lot ... but after a while ... you will see a totally different person.
The change happenes.
The redefining process took that person in the position of seeing the greatness
from the soul.
Does it worth it?!
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
19
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
It was such a pain ... yes, indeed, but ... as my dear friend Shahara Pereira says .... today she is a “fine lady” ... with everything that means.
Not only a beautiful smile or a beautiful body ... but also ... a beautiful soul. Whatever happens in life ... being in the love story, or being taken out of the story ... it is the right thing to happen ... the perfect path to follow ... and it happens for your best interest ... to discover everything means your beautiful side.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
20
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
Have faith …
Have faith that everything unfolds according to the Divine plan that the Universe has for your life.
So many times in life you need to choose ... and sometimes you need to decide if you will continue the same boring life, that is never making you feel being alive ...
or forget about about everything and start a totally new life ... that probably will make you great again.
But you don’t know what to do ... which path to follow ...
You should feel the faith that anything you will choose that is the plan the Universe has for you.
And still ... you are so undecided.
One day it happens that you are in a relationship, everything is normal, except the fact that you are not happy ... and you suddenly meet someone else that totally redefines all you thoughts about life.
And you also feel happy ... just seeing that person make you feel great.
You dreamed of following a path with such a person ... but you are afraid ...
cause what you have today is real.
Is never bringing you a good vibe ... but it’s a real story .... one that you can
count on it.
You compare the 2 paths ... but you don’t admit that what you have in the real world is a pathless path that will never take you to a state of happiness. And you stop ... you refuse to choose anything at all.
You prefer to live between 2 worlds.
One is real ... but never brings you joy ... and one looks like an illusory one ...
but you always enjoy being in there.
So ... how do we choose the right path in life?!
Well ... it all looks like a lottery ... but if you believe in the Universe and understand that the Divine plan for you ... whatever it is ... is the perfect one ...
no matter what path you chose, you will see at the end of the journey ... the beautiful side of your soul.
The meaning of all the experiences, no matter if we chose that, or that ... or that ... is to make us see the beauty of life ... and to become joyful souls.
The story itself ... it’s a story about yourself ... and maybe this is the reason why some people are believing that the perfect love story can be only with yourself.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
21
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
Randomly in love
Randomly ... loving you
The dance of our emotions
“And randomly i love you
And i write it on my diary everyday ...”
(Arij Emaan)
We oscillate all the time when it comes about our feelings, even if it is about great love stories.
Today we love a lot ... tomorrow ... we are not so sure anymore.
Yes .. we could even say ... that we love randomly.
And you know why?!
Because in fact there are moments when we believe in the love story and moments ... when we just don’t see ourselves in there.
Maybe the feeling of love still exists ... but we can’t see it anymore.
Love itself is lost ... then we look again in our hearts and we find it again.
It’s kind of a silly dance of emotions.
“I love you” ... “i don’t care about you”.
And how we do express that?!
Well ... today we do everything for the partner ... and maybe 2 days after we just show through our actions that we don’t care anymore about anything means ... “us”.
I now believe, after practicing for years this dance of emotions, that if this is happening ... if you always oscillate between saying “i love you!” ... to “i hate you!”. ... that is most probably an illusory love story.
If you love someone ... you can’t love that person randomly.
You will never love your parents randomly ... or your brother or sister .... or your
kid.
It’s a different kind of love ... but still ... love.
Real love means perfect connections ... but when you connect and disconnect all the time ... still believing that he / she is the love story of your life ... you are just naive.
Love means ... the meeting with the infinite.
If you feel it just randomly ... maybe it’s time to redefine everything means your love life.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
22
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
Just remembering …
“I dont have feelings for him anymore but I still can remember my feelings
