And she is right.
somehow believe that in the moment when you are still in the love story ...but you feel lost ... on the path that goes in no direction ... you should remember about you as a soul, or what you actually expect from life, but also from the love story.
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No matter what happens, you have the right to continue to be happy, no matter if
that person is or .. isn’t on your sight ... and keep shining like you always did.
It’s all about seeing the beauty of life!
And you should dare to follow that path ...
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Remembering anything had to do with that person
... was enough to make you feel nostalgic again
How can you continue your life, without caring at all about anything that was past, even you have lots of beautiful memories?!
How can you let your soul continue on the path of your destiny, without still being anchored into that story?!
After breaking up, nostalgia is the worst disease that you can see in your heart and it makes difficult to continue the life itself.
You see, no matter what it happens to you, how tragic life could be, you need to continue breathing, eating, drinking water, maybe still work, but also continue to care about what you want to offer to your soul. But nostalgia is so evil.
It keeps remembering you all the beautiful memories you had togheter and almost not care of the reason why the break up appeared.
You become the prisoner of a love story that does not exists anymore and even worst ... will never restart into the future.
Instead of letting your life to continue, to expect new people and new experiences in your life you prefer to remain into an illusory world created in the mind my the nostalgic thoughts.
A dear friend of mine is telling me all the time, by already 2 years, about her ended love story.
It all ended by such a long time ... but she is still loving him ... and can’t do anything to treat her nostalgia.
She is beautiful, young, rich, successful ... and could start a new love story right away ... and this time with a real prince ... but her soul is still anchored into that fairy tale.
But you know why?!
Cause that was the love story of her life.
And even after 2 years she can’t continue her life on another path.
She recently asked me how she changed in those 2 years, but everything i can see when looking at her is that she is more powerful and probably she could write today a best seller book telling about her love story.
But she accepted that before meeting that guy, she did not know what love was
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about, but today, after 2 years of living with him only in her soul she is happy that she found out what infinite love means. Truth be told, being nostalgic it’s a trap.
We should respect the past, be thankful to the Universe for the chance of letting us to have that experience but let the show continue.
We should not live in an illusory world from our mind ... but if you like illusions so much ... ask to the Universe for an illusion that happens in the real world.
Forget about nostalgia ... the meaning of life is to live it and enjoy all its moments.
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… the pathless path that goes to your soul
Loving unconditionally
“Loving me unconditionally!
The one I can share everything!
Someone who same mindsets!
As if we are one minded, souls!
Someone who afraid to lose me.
Someone who accepts me!
Love unconditionally!
The one who make me feel like his own queen!
Miles, distance doesn't matter for us!
Bcoz our hearts r well blended together
The best feeling in my life!
This is the love I longing for!
And I found him,
I'm not sure about
Soulmates
Is he my twinflames, any words accurate for it!” ()
What really means loving unconditionally?!
Are we able, as simple human beings to love in an unconditional way?! In theory ... maybe ... but in reality ... not so sure that this exists.
I read so many theories ... but i believe that unconditional love can be seen only at naive people.
At the ones that still believes in magic ... in fairy tales.
There are people that let the inner child act on the stage of their lives ... and fall in love in a naive way ... without asking anything in return ... or if they do expect something ... maybe is just a smile, a kiss ... or a hug.
Loving unconditionally is the perfect script for a love story ... but we lose ourselves in that perfect world ... cause we just remember of the infinite list with the expectations that we have.
Love poetry defines in such a beautiful way ... what is the mix of love with unconditionality ... but only as soul mates or twin flames ... you can actually
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understand through the deep feelings from your soul ... what this is all about. But when you feel that your hearts are well blended togheter ... you should dare to act again as a naive child that that is not afraid of experiencing the unconditional love.
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The secret of happiness
“A hug......
And she knew all the secrets of happiness.
She feel like lofty and uppish....
She shines .....
And attracts eveything....
Pure positive flow...
There is no stress....
No anxiety....
Here's i end and you begin”
(Arij Emaan)
Is there a real secret of happiness?!
How can an adult understand the rules he needs to follow so that one day he /
she can say that is happy?!
What life is about?!
It’s just a lesson or the opportunity to enjoy the fact that we are alive?!
But i wonder ... what is the meaning of love ... on the timeline of our lives?!
Why love comes sometimes too soon and sometimes too late?!
Well ... too many questions ... but only uncertain answears.
So ... what is the path we should follow?!
Is it a certain one that it is guaranteed you will get happiness if you just follow the rules?!
I honestly believe that love is illogical ... or at least too difficult to be understood. Sometimes you can have a partner that is offering you everything ... but still you do not feel happy togheter.
And you can meet someone that does not bother to do anything for you ... but only a hug can define for you right away ... what happiness really means. Somehow everything is abstract ... and it might be a different path for me and another one for you ... but in the end ... if the soul understands and feels the happiness ... i think this is the only important thing that matters.
Life ... but also the chapter called ... the love story ... should be defined ... but mostly ... enjoyed.
And we should see the beauty in everything the Universe is offering us.
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… the pathless path that goes to your soul
What is the most difficult thing in the world?!
To UNLOVE the one you love the most.
Just as Marylin Monroe said ... “i believe everything happens for a reason.” In the personal growth area there is a strange theory, difficult to accept, that there is no good or bad ... and everything that happens, even if it looks bad ... is something that will help you go in a positive direction into the near future.
And there are so, so many situations as that in life ... but we do not accept them
at that specific moment.
... because we just can’t.
I once heard a story about a beautiful lady that fell in love with a married man. She loved him a lot, even if she knew that she will never have him for real, cause he won’t leave his family for her.
He believed in the concept of family, but he also thought that he deserved to be loved, even if the woman that is loving him is not his wife.
He was married with a beautiful lady, but she was not loving him for real. They just had a beautiful family togheter and they just accepted things as they were.
The guy had lived lots of love affairs during his life time, but the new lady that
was in love with him was different.
She loved him in an infinite way.
Everything was looking like a story that was taking to nowhere, with no future at all, but they both enjoyed the fairy tale.
It was like a pathless path, but you see, sometimes in life things are not what looks like.
They continued the story for months, being a love story similar with the one you see in movies, but one day ... everything suddenly stoped.
A friend of her accidentally ruined everything was between them.
And because of a huge misunderstanding he believed she betrayed on him, the story went to the end.
She could not believe, but also could not accept that the guy had disappeared from her life.
He was the right person at the wrong time, but she always thought that they were soul mates and could not see life without him.
She was crying in the night, but also during the day and could not forget what his friend was doing to her, even if everything was done accidentally.
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She was suffering for months, having him in her mind all the time.
She even tried to love other men, tried all kinds of other relationships, but it was useless.
She could not stop to love him.
But one day she decided to accept that she can’t stop loving him, cause actually you can’t unlove the person you love the most.
Her spirit became free again even if her mind was still dreaming of him from time to time.
It’s difficult to accept the lessons the Universe gives to us, but the day when you accept that everything happens for a reason, that is the day when you will feel that you can continue your life without suffering.
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In love with the wrong person
... or married with the wrong one?
“Finally.....
She has been thrown clay.....
On her desires.....
On her wishes.....
On her past....
And more specially....
On the all fake relations....”
(Arij Eraam)
There is a nice story that i would like to share with you ... and of course it’s again a love story.
It’s about a young and beautiful lady.
She was married, with kids, she had a beautiful house, a fancy car, a perfect husband and she was a very successful business woman. She had everything except the fact that she was not happy.
She had the most beautiful smile you could see at a lady, but behind the smile, in her soul, she was extremely unhappy.
She had everything a lady of her age would dream to have, but she was feeling that she has nothing at all.
The huge success helped her to buy absolutely everything she wanted.
All desires were accomplished, except one ... she could not buy the happiness. Everybody was envying her for her success ... but no one could understand her unhappiness and in fact could not believe that she could even be unhappy.
But the ones from her life saw her nervous all the time and again thought she is just stressed with her businesses.
For all the negative behaviors, they had an explanation, but only till one day.
Suddenly she started to change.
She was not nervous anymore and she was smiling all the time.
But no one could understand what is going on and believed that somehow she just started to be a much positive person.
No one could guess what is really behind her new authentic smile.
She was in loved.
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One day she said herself that she had enough of being married with the perfect husband and having everything she ever wanted as long as she was so, so unhappy.
And she gave her the right to fall in love of another man than her husband.
Love changed her overnight.
She started to be a totally different person.
Knew that he is the wrong person, cause he was married also, but he was the one that started to cure her of unhappiness.
He was a mean person, but he made her extremely happy.
He was the love of her life.
This time she started to see that they don’t have anything togheter cause they could not be in the real life, but in fact they had everything.
They had the infinite and the moments of being togheter made her feel as the
queen of the world.
You see life is strange.
You could have everything you ever wanted, but in fact you could feel that you don’t have anything at all and you could have nothing, but you could feel that you have the infinite.
... but the only thing she could do was just to wonder ... was she in love with the wrong person, or married with the wrong one?!
We could judge this lady and define her in a disrespectful way ... but everything she did was just to forget about wishes, desires, all her past, but also hate everything means fake relationships
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You love ... in a small or a big way?!
“You know ...
He prefers her a small ...
He loves her a small ...
But she resists .... she refuses ...
She chooses big ...
She likes big ...
She thinks big ...
She loves big ...
He prefers her as small ...”
(Arij Emaan)
You want great things in your life?!
... or just things?!
The same answear will be in a love story.
You like small things ... maybe you will never know the meaning of intensity.
You think in a big way ... you will see great things in your life.
It is just a choice ... between mediocre and fantastic ... and the choice is in your hands.
But why a woman is much sensitive as a man?
Why she dreams everything in a big way?!
Why she dares to think about then infinite?! ... and meanwhile he wants just a story ... a “small” one.
The way a man and a woman defines love is quite different ... and maybe the woman will never succeed to make her lover understand why she refuses live the love story ... in a small way.
Yes ... it’s all about defining ... but also wanting the same things ... at the same intensity ... in the same time.
Synchronizing is everything ... as the couple to be a perfect one.
But a great love story ... means the meeting with the infinite ... and you can bet that this is her desire.
