And one more question ... why social media is whispering us ... that beautiful love stories are influenced in such a way by luxury vacations, expensive cars ... and everything is related to money?!
Can money influence in a positive way the connection we have with the partner?! Well ... maybe ... but only in an illusory way.
But i still believe that everything comes from inside of us ... and not from the outside world.
Seeing the exterior in a beautiful way ... helps and creates a beautiful vibe ... but still the great connection between the partners ... should not be influenced so much by the outer world.
Truth be told, social media is influencing us a lot and as long as we will pay attention to it, it will represent a standard of living ... even in a love story. Money were important 100 years ago also, and the same ... 1000 years ago ...
but today what money and social media can do is to make everything look in a great way ... even if that is not the real truth.
There are indeed persons, women but also men, that can connect much easier to the new partner when they see the abundance of money ... but that is only a fake connection.
The power of our real intentions will always influence the dynamic of the story ...
in a positive or a negative way ... cause the intentions are positive ...but also negative.
So ... maybe there is no real amazing “prototype” of love story, and money can’t influence for real the greatness of a connection between 2 souls ... but you can still scroll down and see what’s new over the internet.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
85
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
Jumping from “I love you!”
... to “I hate you!”
Well ... there are in fact 3 stages.
The last one is “I really don’t care about you, anymore!”.
But how’s that you now say “i love you!” .... and then you say the opposite.
It almost makes no sense.
In the morning you feel that is the love of your life ... in the afternoon you hate that person, just like should be the worst enemy you ever had ... and in the night you think that maybe it all was just a misunderstanding ... and that you should let your love story go on.
If you would keep a diary of all that is going on ... but by hours ... you would be amazed of the jump to so contradictory feelings.
One thing is clear ... everything is very intense and there are many moments when you feel that you just lose your mind.
There is nothing that can stop you to make this continuously jump from love to hate ... and again from hate to love.
But one day ... you start asking yourself why are you doing this?!
Why you just can’t stop?!
Well ... it’s all an obsession and you will never accept that your personalities are stronger than the beautiful connection between the 2 of you. Egos are winning the fights most of the time.
The connection always takes you to a state of union ... but soon after the ego is telling you again that your personality is more important and should control the show.
The vanity ... the selfishness ... the ego itself is making in fact this silly jump from love to hate ... and the chemistry makes then the jump from hate to love ... till one day, when you will get tired and say that this is enough.
But still you can’t say ... “I really don’t care about you, anymore!” ... cause it fact you love that person a lot.
It’s the war between love and vanity, that never ends in a nice way.
It will actually ruin you emotionally ... and instead of making you happy ... will show you only what unhappiness means.
The silly jump to contradictory emotions ... is just a result of the desire of
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… the pathless path that goes to your soul
domination ... which should not be part of your love story.
And maybe instead of domination we should think what the union between 2 souls really means.
But we prefer to run in circle ... instead of going on a path to harmony.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
87
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
“I have a question for you ...
What do you give in return for love?!”
I was drinking a coffee in a beautiful coffeeshop ... and i was pretty close from another table, where a charming lady was talking with a gentleman ... that was not agreeing her so much.
They were speaking loud, especially her, and i could not focus in writing what i had in my mind.
But, almost being forced to listen, i stopped myself ... and i was paying attention to them.
In fact the dialogue was interesting, cause it was about love.
“I know what i want today ... and it’s not her or my wife. I am looking for the perfect love story, in a parallel universe, that has nothing to do with reality.” “Good luck ... my friend.
Who is going to accept you as a married man, looking for the perfect love story?! I think is a little bit annoying what you say.
What do you think you can offer in return ... so that a beautiful soul to accept you in such a story?!” ... she replied.
The gentleman was smiling ... “My dear .. i can offer her the infinite.
I know how to connect to a woman.
I know how to enter inside her soul ... to make her feel alive ... and totally redefined.
Isn’t that enough?”
“Well ... Jim... you don’t know so much of how a woman is thinking and what we actually want.
How can you attract her, being married ... explaining that you going to offer her the infinite?!
Don’t you think you are over reacting and also ... you are too abstract?! A woman ... wants real facts.
And truth be told ... there is nothing you can really offer to her.”
“Well ... Carla ... one of us is living on Mars ... but don’t know if me or you”. Then ... i started to ignore them, cause the lady started to offend the gentleman with all she was saying.
He was looking like a dreamer, but i think he knew what love is about.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
88
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
When someone is asking you, what you give in return for love ... offering the infinite back ... i think this is the perfect answear. Real love means perfect connection.
Perfection means the infinite.
Infinite is everything ... togheter you are the infinite.
I believe that when you have to explain what you give in return, you should just leave the story ... cause that is not a love story ... but just a story.
Is useless to spent your life is such a relationship ... cause in fact life could be very beautiful.
... and that is the moment when you should understand that is the perfect time to follow another path.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
89
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
And one day you realise you are only ... an obsession.
The non sense need of having what we cannot have.
At one time in life, we all have different obsessions.
We could feel obsessed of getting something ... or someone.
But .... what if you are the one that becomes the obsession of someone else?!
How can you handle that?!
Will that make you feel wanted or hunted?!
Well ... could even be a mix of being wanted and hunted in the same time ... but i believe the obsession is just the non sense of wanting what we cannot have. Could not be what you thought is kind of infinite love, manifested in a strange way ... but only the fact that ... cannot have you for real.
And the illusion of that person ... could become your own illusion ... if you don’t know how to manage the situation.
Being desired by a beautiful lady is an amazing feeling ... but hunted ... waiting for you to make different mistakes ... so that you will continue to stay in a trap of the illusory love story ... will not end in a beautiful way.
Being the obsession ... being so wanted ... but feeling in fact that you are only a desire and not seen as a soul.
On the path of the obsession, especially in a love story ... we forget that nothing should be forced.
We should let everything flow ... and come by itself.
The obsession is only the fear that we will never get that something ... that we want so much ... but we should not let ourselves be the target of any obsession ... of anybody ... cause the love obsession is not the love for your soul ... but only the illusory attraction for a story that looks imposible to become real.
Enjoy the feeling of being wanted ... but don’t let yourself hunted.
And don’t even bother to pay attention to such a story, cause that illusory love will resist only as long as you will be ... imposible.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
90
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
“What is mine is only mine!!
Do i ask too much?!”
Why are we so obsessed by possessivity?!
Should the disease of “mine” ... should be cured before entering into a love story?!
Or maybe possessivity is just part of any relationship and it’s something natural to want as the partner to belong only to you.
Probably we should ask why people are cheating even if it looks like they have everything togheter, in the couple.
... and also think why possessivity is even stronger in the relationships ... where cheating is usually happening.
Well ... possessivity is defined as the quality of being possessive ... on things, but also on persons .... especially in a love story.
Let’s say it’s acceptable to feel possessive on things ... but how can we even dare to think that we can possess another person?!
... cause this is what really means possessivity in a love story.
And probably the opposite of that should be to think as a swinger?!
Yes ... maybe it will even help to chat with a swinger, just to understand what is behind the philosophy of such a strange liberty.
Overreacting ... will never be a good scenario ... but understanding the limits will let you find a path of mixing liberty and possesivity in a moral ... but also a positive way.
Cheating is happening only because the partner that does it ... just feels is not getting everything from the relationship.
Possessivity will never stop cheating ... but most probably if you will pay attention to the signs that you will get from your intuition ... you will know if it is the case to fix things, or ... just leave the story.
Telling about the person that you love so much ... “is mine” ... sounds good ...
sometimes ... but not always.
Just think about it!
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
91
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
The pleasure of spending time togheter.
How do you know it’s about ... “chemistry”?!
“Instantly they found themselves ensnarled in a never-ending conversation of
delicious words flowing out their lips
Its sweet melody
silenced their heartbeats.
Sparkling eyes incessantly battled
to beat the spoken words
Their eyes danced an amorous tango
Locked in an enchanting spell
Ignited a million sparks between
two consenting souls
They traversed glorious gardens
discovered together
on that very irresistible evening
of moonlit splendour”
(Shahara Pereira)
How do you really know that the new episode from your life ... that looks like the beginning of a love story ... has a little bit of “chemistry” also?!
You see ... chemistry is that science that is mixing different substances ... to get other substances ... as far as i remember, but i was was not so good with that subject, at that time.
Today ... when it comes about relationships i believe ... only in chemistry.
I think is even useless to start a new story if chemistry is not in there.
You can like that person ... and also you could be admired also ... but without the connection between the 2 souls ... you are just losing your time.
As my dear friend Sahara was saying ... “Their eyes danced an amorous tango”.
If this is what you feel ... being with the person that you are in love with ... everything coming by itself in everything you do togheter ... from talking to even making love ... then you are on the right path ... to a beautiful love story.
The fact that you are enjoying every moment spent togheter ... that is a good sign ... which means ... chemistry is there.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
92
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
Dare to choose only great love stories ... the ones that can give you amazing feelings.
Life is too short to waste it ... with things that don’t have anything to do with magic.
Following the path of “chemistry” you will never fail ... no matter how strange your decision will look like.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
93
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
Diamond Heart
“No, you can't break my heart
I have vowed to myself, that
I'd never be heart broken.
And I have solemnly kept
This promise to myself.
If my stance angers you,
You could try.
But I still warn you.
If you try to break me.
Hit a rock
You'll only break your fist,
But not the rock.”
(Shahara Pereira)
Love is amazing ... except only one little thing .. it can break your heart.
In small ... little pieces.
But one day, you decide to become strong as a diamond ... and not let anyone
else to break you again.
You totally change.
... the way you act.
... the way you accept to let your feelings control you.
And if someone is going to be broken, is not going to be you, but the other side. You love that person ... but you prefer as him / her to be the hurt one and it’s all cause ...
“And I have solemnly kept
This promise to myself.”
Yes ... being in love is risky and you prefer to act in the love story ... in a safe mode.
But will this still allow you to feel everything at that infinite intensity?!
What if this story ... will be the lucky one ... in the way you always dreamed ... but you actually miss the chance to enjoy it ... cause you are too afraid that you will end up again with the broken heart?!
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
94
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
So ... what is the right path to follow?!
A safe one ... with not many risks as the heart to be hurt again ... or the path ...
where you risk everything, including your soul ... just to be happy?!
Well ... whatever you decide ... just remember that we should dare to feel alive.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
95
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
Soulmates, twin flames or
just partners for a life time?
What are you actually looking for?!
Can money influence in a positive way the connection we have with the partner?! Well ... maybe ... but only in an illusory way.
But i still believe that everything comes from inside of us ... and not from the outside world.
Seeing the exterior in a beautiful way ... helps and creates a beautiful vibe ... but still the great connection between the partners ... should not be influenced so much by the outer world.
Truth be told, social media is influencing us a lot and as long as we will pay attention to it, it will represent a standard of living ... even in a love story. Money were important 100 years ago also, and the same ... 1000 years ago ...
but today what money and social media can do is to make everything look in a great way ... even if that is not the real truth.
There are indeed persons, women but also men, that can connect much easier to the new partner when they see the abundance of money ... but that is only a fake connection.
The power of our real intentions will always influence the dynamic of the story ...
in a positive or a negative way ... cause the intentions are positive ...but also negative.
So ... maybe there is no real amazing “prototype” of love story, and money can’t influence for real the greatness of a connection between 2 souls ... but you can still scroll down and see what’s new over the internet.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
85
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
Jumping from “I love you!”
... to “I hate you!”
Well ... there are in fact 3 stages.
The last one is “I really don’t care about you, anymore!”.
But how’s that you now say “i love you!” .... and then you say the opposite.
It almost makes no sense.
In the morning you feel that is the love of your life ... in the afternoon you hate that person, just like should be the worst enemy you ever had ... and in the night you think that maybe it all was just a misunderstanding ... and that you should let your love story go on.
If you would keep a diary of all that is going on ... but by hours ... you would be amazed of the jump to so contradictory feelings.
One thing is clear ... everything is very intense and there are many moments when you feel that you just lose your mind.
There is nothing that can stop you to make this continuously jump from love to hate ... and again from hate to love.
But one day ... you start asking yourself why are you doing this?!
Why you just can’t stop?!
Well ... it’s all an obsession and you will never accept that your personalities are stronger than the beautiful connection between the 2 of you. Egos are winning the fights most of the time.
The connection always takes you to a state of union ... but soon after the ego is telling you again that your personality is more important and should control the show.
The vanity ... the selfishness ... the ego itself is making in fact this silly jump from love to hate ... and the chemistry makes then the jump from hate to love ... till one day, when you will get tired and say that this is enough.
But still you can’t say ... “I really don’t care about you, anymore!” ... cause it fact you love that person a lot.
It’s the war between love and vanity, that never ends in a nice way.
It will actually ruin you emotionally ... and instead of making you happy ... will show you only what unhappiness means.
The silly jump to contradictory emotions ... is just a result of the desire of
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
86
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
domination ... which should not be part of your love story.
And maybe instead of domination we should think what the union between 2 souls really means.
But we prefer to run in circle ... instead of going on a path to harmony.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
87
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
“I have a question for you ...
What do you give in return for love?!”
I was drinking a coffee in a beautiful coffeeshop ... and i was pretty close from another table, where a charming lady was talking with a gentleman ... that was not agreeing her so much.
They were speaking loud, especially her, and i could not focus in writing what i had in my mind.
But, almost being forced to listen, i stopped myself ... and i was paying attention to them.
In fact the dialogue was interesting, cause it was about love.
“I know what i want today ... and it’s not her or my wife. I am looking for the perfect love story, in a parallel universe, that has nothing to do with reality.” “Good luck ... my friend.
Who is going to accept you as a married man, looking for the perfect love story?! I think is a little bit annoying what you say.
What do you think you can offer in return ... so that a beautiful soul to accept you in such a story?!” ... she replied.
The gentleman was smiling ... “My dear .. i can offer her the infinite.
I know how to connect to a woman.
I know how to enter inside her soul ... to make her feel alive ... and totally redefined.
Isn’t that enough?”
“Well ... Jim... you don’t know so much of how a woman is thinking and what we actually want.
How can you attract her, being married ... explaining that you going to offer her the infinite?!
Don’t you think you are over reacting and also ... you are too abstract?! A woman ... wants real facts.
And truth be told ... there is nothing you can really offer to her.”
“Well ... Carla ... one of us is living on Mars ... but don’t know if me or you”. Then ... i started to ignore them, cause the lady started to offend the gentleman with all she was saying.
He was looking like a dreamer, but i think he knew what love is about.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
88
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
When someone is asking you, what you give in return for love ... offering the infinite back ... i think this is the perfect answear. Real love means perfect connection.
Perfection means the infinite.
Infinite is everything ... togheter you are the infinite.
I believe that when you have to explain what you give in return, you should just leave the story ... cause that is not a love story ... but just a story.
Is useless to spent your life is such a relationship ... cause in fact life could be very beautiful.
... and that is the moment when you should understand that is the perfect time to follow another path.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
89
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
And one day you realise you are only ... an obsession.
The non sense need of having what we cannot have.
At one time in life, we all have different obsessions.
We could feel obsessed of getting something ... or someone.
But .... what if you are the one that becomes the obsession of someone else?!
How can you handle that?!
Will that make you feel wanted or hunted?!
Well ... could even be a mix of being wanted and hunted in the same time ... but i believe the obsession is just the non sense of wanting what we cannot have. Could not be what you thought is kind of infinite love, manifested in a strange way ... but only the fact that ... cannot have you for real.
And the illusion of that person ... could become your own illusion ... if you don’t know how to manage the situation.
Being desired by a beautiful lady is an amazing feeling ... but hunted ... waiting for you to make different mistakes ... so that you will continue to stay in a trap of the illusory love story ... will not end in a beautiful way.
Being the obsession ... being so wanted ... but feeling in fact that you are only a desire and not seen as a soul.
On the path of the obsession, especially in a love story ... we forget that nothing should be forced.
We should let everything flow ... and come by itself.
The obsession is only the fear that we will never get that something ... that we want so much ... but we should not let ourselves be the target of any obsession ... of anybody ... cause the love obsession is not the love for your soul ... but only the illusory attraction for a story that looks imposible to become real.
Enjoy the feeling of being wanted ... but don’t let yourself hunted.
And don’t even bother to pay attention to such a story, cause that illusory love will resist only as long as you will be ... imposible.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
90
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
“What is mine is only mine!!
Do i ask too much?!”
Why are we so obsessed by possessivity?!
Should the disease of “mine” ... should be cured before entering into a love story?!
Or maybe possessivity is just part of any relationship and it’s something natural to want as the partner to belong only to you.
Probably we should ask why people are cheating even if it looks like they have everything togheter, in the couple.
... and also think why possessivity is even stronger in the relationships ... where cheating is usually happening.
Well ... possessivity is defined as the quality of being possessive ... on things, but also on persons .... especially in a love story.
Let’s say it’s acceptable to feel possessive on things ... but how can we even dare to think that we can possess another person?!
... cause this is what really means possessivity in a love story.
And probably the opposite of that should be to think as a swinger?!
Yes ... maybe it will even help to chat with a swinger, just to understand what is behind the philosophy of such a strange liberty.
Overreacting ... will never be a good scenario ... but understanding the limits will let you find a path of mixing liberty and possesivity in a moral ... but also a positive way.
Cheating is happening only because the partner that does it ... just feels is not getting everything from the relationship.
Possessivity will never stop cheating ... but most probably if you will pay attention to the signs that you will get from your intuition ... you will know if it is the case to fix things, or ... just leave the story.
Telling about the person that you love so much ... “is mine” ... sounds good ...
sometimes ... but not always.
Just think about it!
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
91
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
The pleasure of spending time togheter.
How do you know it’s about ... “chemistry”?!
“Instantly they found themselves ensnarled in a never-ending conversation of
delicious words flowing out their lips
Its sweet melody
silenced their heartbeats.
Sparkling eyes incessantly battled
to beat the spoken words
Their eyes danced an amorous tango
Locked in an enchanting spell
Ignited a million sparks between
two consenting souls
They traversed glorious gardens
discovered together
on that very irresistible evening
of moonlit splendour”
(Shahara Pereira)
How do you really know that the new episode from your life ... that looks like the beginning of a love story ... has a little bit of “chemistry” also?!
You see ... chemistry is that science that is mixing different substances ... to get other substances ... as far as i remember, but i was was not so good with that subject, at that time.
Today ... when it comes about relationships i believe ... only in chemistry.
I think is even useless to start a new story if chemistry is not in there.
You can like that person ... and also you could be admired also ... but without the connection between the 2 souls ... you are just losing your time.
As my dear friend Sahara was saying ... “Their eyes danced an amorous tango”.
If this is what you feel ... being with the person that you are in love with ... everything coming by itself in everything you do togheter ... from talking to even making love ... then you are on the right path ... to a beautiful love story.
The fact that you are enjoying every moment spent togheter ... that is a good sign ... which means ... chemistry is there.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
92
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
Dare to choose only great love stories ... the ones that can give you amazing feelings.
Life is too short to waste it ... with things that don’t have anything to do with magic.
Following the path of “chemistry” you will never fail ... no matter how strange your decision will look like.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
93
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
Diamond Heart
“No, you can't break my heart
I have vowed to myself, that
I'd never be heart broken.
And I have solemnly kept
This promise to myself.
If my stance angers you,
You could try.
But I still warn you.
If you try to break me.
Hit a rock
You'll only break your fist,
But not the rock.”
(Shahara Pereira)
Love is amazing ... except only one little thing .. it can break your heart.
In small ... little pieces.
But one day, you decide to become strong as a diamond ... and not let anyone
else to break you again.
You totally change.
... the way you act.
... the way you accept to let your feelings control you.
And if someone is going to be broken, is not going to be you, but the other side. You love that person ... but you prefer as him / her to be the hurt one and it’s all cause ...
“And I have solemnly kept
This promise to myself.”
Yes ... being in love is risky and you prefer to act in the love story ... in a safe mode.
But will this still allow you to feel everything at that infinite intensity?!
What if this story ... will be the lucky one ... in the way you always dreamed ... but you actually miss the chance to enjoy it ... cause you are too afraid that you will end up again with the broken heart?!
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
94
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
So ... what is the right path to follow?!
A safe one ... with not many risks as the heart to be hurt again ... or the path ...
where you risk everything, including your soul ... just to be happy?!
Well ... whatever you decide ... just remember that we should dare to feel alive.
Adrian G Dumitru
Arij Emaan
95
LOVE
… the pathless path that goes to your soul
Soulmates, twin flames or
just partners for a life time?
What are you actually looking for?!
