Adrian Gabriel Dumitru / Arij Emaan
18
LOVING
... but not understanding where the path goes
Now They are
surprised at me ....
I have many dreams ...
But never they come true …
#arijemaan
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru / Arij Emaan
19
LOVING
... but not understanding where the path goes
In a real love story ... time does not exists.
When you can see the effects of time
between the connection of 2 souls
... well ... that is not a great connection.
In Asia, there are many families that stay separated, even for years. The wife stays at home and the husband is coming back from the place where he works maybe once or twice a year for a short time. They somehow learnt the art of living separately ... and many of them keep being a family till the end of their lives.
In the western world ... being separated by distance for a certain time ... well ... that just cuts the connection.
Being away ... is a test ... that many of us just fail.
But why?!
Why the connection just disappears?!
Well ... it might be ... just because in fact it was only an artificial connection ... and nothing more.
But it happens ... i also know ... that people that have great connection, somehow for a nonsense reason to brake up ... starts a new path in life ... get marry with someone else, have kinds ... even look like a great family together ... but in fact will always be with the heart connected to the soul mate from the past. The connection remains active for the whole life.
Even if looks like ... everything ended long time ago and that they
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru / Arij Emaan
20
LOVING
... but not understanding where the path goes
don’t have anything to do with each other ... just an accidental meeting for example ... will suddenly reactivate all those strong feeling, that where so, so deep hidden. The path?!
The escape from this labyrinth?!
Well ... i believe the 2 souls mate decided in the end to keep the paths they are following ... the family, taking care of the children ... actually following dharma.
But what is this path?
In common parlance, dharma means "right way of living" and "path of rightness".
But ... in a parallel world ... on a silent mode ... they also allow to the heart to ... sing the song of a non ending love story. For the real soul mates, there is no time at all.
The connection itself will always be there.
No one will be able to cut it.
Not even the wife / the husband ... the children ... the influence of parents or friends etc etc.
So ... maybe the acceptance of parallel universes ... that never have any interference ... that should be the path ... the soul mates never thought about.
#adriangdumitru
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru / Arij Emaan
21
LOVING
... but not understanding where the path goes
Love is always deep ...
Non demanding ....
Patient ...
And kind ...
But some time it like as.....
Jealous ...
Boastful ...
Conflicted ....
Rude ...
And selfish ...
#arijemaan
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru / Arij Emaan
22
LOVING
... but not understanding where the path goes
We somehow become the
... slaves ... of our emotions
Have you ever wondered why sometimes ... something beautiful ... just ruins our lives?!
Well ... a dear friend of mine from Nepal, just wrote me few days ago, telling me about his sentimental drama.
His wife left him, while he was away at work in another country.
He is today ... somehow ruined emotionally.
I wanted to make him laugh and tell him that i would consider myself lucky if my wife would leave with another man. I was actually not joking.
I am still young and i believe i can still redefine my life.
In a complete way.
Today i just dream of another life ... but i would actually do nothing for real to change my life in a great way with the person next to me ... or with someone else.
I was still thinking of my friend, of what i could tell him to make him forget about his unhappiness and i could not find a verbal medicine that could heal his soul right away. The wife left.
The soul ... being totally damaged ... there is nothing else to say.
But my friend, same as me ... is still young.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru / Arij Emaan
23
LOVING
... but not understanding where the path goes
He can still redefine his life, same as i tried to explain in my joke. But the problem is that instead of seeing the new opportunity of starting a new life from scratch ... my friend ... became, as all of us in many occasions ... the slave of his emotions.
The sock was so powerful ... that once entering in the cage with negative emotions ... it becomes too difficult to get out and just say ... “It’s enough! I believe that i deserve something better from this life”.
We never think at other paths ... or options.
We still see ourselves prisoners ... near a person that is not loving us for real, that is not respectful to us and that in fact is not wanting continue life together.
Is so simple and we are so ... blinds.
And we let the soul cry for many hours in a row.
Hours become days, days become weeks ... and weeks become months.
We are paralyzed ... in a relationship that does not exists anymore and we see no way out of the labyrinth.
We can’t understand why the Universe is doing something as that to us ... and we keep wondering why?! ... why?! ... why?!
But the end of something is always the beginning of something else. Even a kingdom changes his king and the queen ... and life always goes on ... so ... why should we live in such a mental blockage and believe the end of a relationship, even if it’s about a marriage ... is the end of the world?!
#adriangdumitru
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru / Arij Emaan
24
LOVING
... but not understanding where the path goes
We are all complex beings Sometimes when someone occupies our heart
We make excuses And ignore the flaws of the man in front of us By doing so, we try
to comfort ourselves
And dream of spending the rest of our life with them
#arijemaan
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru / Arij Emaan
25
LOVING
... but not understanding where the path goes
Prisoner in a chat room ... but
believing that something magical will change the unwanted reality
She was seeing ... a hope.
He was not expecting anything ... anymore.
A friend of him, defined his behavior of letting himself be used by the circumstances ... as his infinite desire of having her ... no matter if he likes or not the elements that define the real ... reality.
The chat room ... was the place where they first meet and they continued to stay in there for years.
There were times ... but only few ... when the chat room was exchanged with the hotel room ... but still ... that was not the reality they were looking for.
The moment itself was ... magical.
But why they were trapped all the time in a room?!
.... only the 2 of them.
What was the message?!
Why they could not leave the room and start a real life together?! Why everything was dissolved...in such a way ... when they tried to take everything in the real universe?!
Well ... i suppose they forgot about the fact that they asked to the Universe for the perfect love story.
Actually they asked ... a fairy tale, forgetting that the fairy tale cannot be part of the real life.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru / Arij Emaan
26
LOVING
... but not understanding where the path goes
They somehow dreamed for the perfect case scenario ... a beautiful
unbelievable love story.
And they got it.
But it was funny ... cause they were trapped either in this chat room ... either in the hotel room.
She was attached of the chat room, but she sometimes loved the hotel room also.
For him ... the connection itself was ... everything.
After analyzing and defining one million times what is really going on ... the philosophical fight was abandoned.
Not understanding the meaning of the path they were walking together ... it was remaining only one thing to do ... enjoy the story. Well ... they could do this from the early beginning ... but they considered they should have lots of plans. All of them were ruined.
But everything was just a test ... to reveal the greatness of their love.
#adriangdumitru
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru / Arij Emaan
27
LOVING
... but not understanding where the path goes
In life ...
Some people are like that ...
Whatever yeu do for them ...
They are always be there ...
To disappoint you ...
They don't care ...
They never have to change ...
#arijemaan
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru / Arij Emaan
28
LOVING
... but not understanding where the path goes
Impossible to be together, but also impossible to disconnect one from another
They tried everything ... and they failed.
At the end ... they tried everything just to brake the connection between them ... and they failed again. It was totally illogical.
Being together ... was forbidden.
Getting out from this labyrinth was ... impossible.
Once ... meeting again ... that amazing person ... the soul mate from a previous life ... everything changes.
But they could not really understand the path that they were following.
They could not see ... the direction.
The Universe was laughing of them ... cause it became impossible to be together, but also impossible braking the connection between the 2 of them.
Just meeting their eyes ... it was a catastrophe ... an amazing one.
They were trapped in the prison of the non ending love story.
Not even betrayal could stop them.
They were ... soul mates ... but the formula of being a couple ... could
not be found.
Were discussing.
Were arguing.
... hundreds of times.
In the end ... they just ... abandoned the fight.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru / Arij Emaan
29
LOVING
... but not understanding where the path goes
Not seeing a path ... or maybe in fact ... not seeing a path that goes in a the direction they know about ... they abandoned the fight. Somehow ... they understood the abstract concept of their love story. They needed to redefine everything ... and accept lots of things. From wanting to be together for an eternity ... they decided ... just cause their souls could not live separately ... to be friends and sex mates.
They don’t even had the gut to ask themselves if this would be possible ... but all the other paths were somehow ... blocked. Maybe, the whole message from the Universe was simple ... just enjoy the love story ... nothing more.
The love story itself becomes a parallel universe ... where you can see happiness all the time.
Maybe love is about ... letting the heart fly, dance with another heart ... and not about analyzing, defining or ... planning. It’s just about enjoying.
#adriangdumitru
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru / Arij Emaan
30
LOVING
... but not understanding where the path goes
All she needs is love ...
She is self-made artist ...
She develops an
attitude of gratitude ...
She is clueless ...
She is a quiet rebel ...
#arijemaan
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru / Arij Emaan
31
LOVING
... but not understanding where the path goes
“We cannot eliminate borders, but we can define them as irrelevant”
In a time when the conflict between India and Pakistan ... was in a very difficult position on both sides ... especially for the ordinary people, a wise politician ... trying to calm down the situation from Kashmir ... was saying this amazing quote ... that could be applied even for love stories.
You see sometimes ... things just change over night.
A love story ... that was looking as possible and even an amazing one, goes in a position ... where the borders block all the channels. You could even say ... it’s all gone ... except the love itself.
The love story ... is just a ruin, comparing with what used to be in the past.
Everything ... all the details ... are totally changed.
You can see borders in any direction you would look.
Maybe a last scenario should be ... love her ... love him ... but just on silent mode.
Not all paths go the way we want but that’s something we deal with in life.
Maybe there’s another plan.
... and i wonder what could be the plan in fact?!
What exactly means ... accepting the borders ... but make them irrelevant?!
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru / Arij Emaan
32
LOVING
... but not understanding where the path goes
Maybe ignore the fact that the person we love ... is far, far away from us?!
Or even ... ignore the fact that we are in love with a person that is married ... with someone else?!
Ignore the fact ... that we are even ... “sharing” that person with someone else ... just because this is how things are ... and we cannot change them ... at least for the moment?! But life is beautiful.
If we have the gut to not get lost into details ... could be amazing. Just thinking at those things ... those limits that separates you from the loved person ... it will ruin you emotionally.
Ignoring ... letting everything be irrelevant ... except the love itself, might look like a path we never thought about ... but in the end ... is a way of surviving.
I believe that love should never be compromised ... but ... probably ... not being a real path for your destiny ... everything is stoped by the walls of the borders.
But you know ... even being stopped ... could be irrelevant ... #adriangdumitru
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru / Arij Emaan
33
LOVING
... but not understanding where the path goes
Despite our stubbornness ...
We don't get many things ...
Life is so weird ...
It doesn't give us
anything when
We ask ...
#ariajemaan
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru / Arij Emaan
34
LOVING
... but not understanding where the path goes
The family ... is everything.
The mistress ... well
... that’s another story.
The story with the need of a mistress that could totally redefine the life of a man that wants more from life ... is just an old trick.
But same as a woman can make you ... the king of the world ... the same way ... she can ruin you overnight. And especially in an emotional way.
