PHILOSOPHY OF LOVE
Defining the undefined
PHILOSOPHY OF LOVE
Defining the undefined
Adrian G Dumitru
Adrian G Dumitru
1
PHILOSOPHY OF LOVE
Defining the undefined
ADRIAN G DUMITRU
PHILOSOPHY OF LOVE
Defining the undefined
Year: 2021
Author: Adrian G Dumitru
Adrian G Dumitru
2
PHILOSOPHY OF LOVE
Defining the undefined
IF YOU FIND SOMEONE YOU LOVE IN YOUR LIFE, THEN HANG ON TO THAT LOVE.
Princess Diana
Adrian G Dumitru
3
PHILOSOPHY OF LOVE
Defining the undefined
His love
Her fantasy
... understanding what love is about
As a man, but also as a woman, we try to define the undefined from a love story. Dreaming about love and being in love ... the path from the fantasy to the love story itself ... is just a matter of luck ... or maybe where you find yourself, on the timeline of your own life.
Maybe is the perfect time for you to explore what love is about, or maybe other things are important at the moment ... and the love story can only be a future “project”.
Exploring what love is about ... in our minds, as a fantasy ... or in the real life, as a real love story ... is depending only and only if we are ready or not.
But what is the difference between fantasy and reality, when even the Bible is saying that everything we see is just an illusion?
Well ... i believe that the fantasy is only the begining of defining what we want ...
and the love story is the “experiment” itself.
Is it too much to name a love story ... an “experiment”?!
Well ... exploring ... as a fantasy or as reality is letting your soul understand what love is about.
And ... sometimes is even a life lesson.
The moment when you jump into the fairy tale ... the real fantasy ... and you understand the meaning of love ... the fact that love is about giving and not about receiving ... that is the moment when you also understand what life is about.
Accepting your partner, just as he / she is ... just as accepting all the people from our lives is the moment of awakening.
And also you should know that this path is leading you to point when your
thinking will be totally redefined.
Life itself ... is about love.
Seeing what love is about ... is understanding the meaning of life.
If the “love chapter” started for you ... even if it’s just a fantasy or reality ... you should be happy.
The awakening will come to you!
Adrian G Dumitru
4
PHILOSOPHY OF LOVE
Defining the undefined
Watch her,
Admire her,
Love her actions,
And she will let you see her beautiful side
A woman can offer you her soul ... if you know how to enter into her heart. But she will let you stay connected to her heart only in some special conditions ...that are so simple to accomplish ... that us ... the men ... we are just too idiots to see.
A woman feels the need to watch her, to admire her ... to love everything she does and everything is related to her.
She feels the need to love her for what you see outside, but also all what you see inside of her.
But the funny thing is that when you are in love, you only see the beautiful side.
You are blinded by her beauty.
Later on ... you will also start to see things that you will not like ... or even dislike ... but everything you see is related to her.
Same person ... different personalities ... and you even start to believe that there is one person you deal with in the love story ... and another person in the real life ... but it’s ok ... you can still believe in your partner.
Even if we can’t be in love forever, try always to see only her beautiful side.
Talk to her only about that.
Ignore any sign of negativity ... just as it should not exists.
It says that we all have bad demons inside of the soul ... that makes us act as evil persons, but it all depends who we deal with.
Hitler, was probably one of the worst character from our history, but he was acting totally different in the love story he had with Eva Braun. Why?!
Cause she just knew to make him act in a beautiful way with her ... even if everything else related to his life ... meant an evil personality. This is just an extreme example, but you got the message.
Truth be told we do not know to act as positive persons ... or at least not all the time ... and many times we will just look like evil persons.
But the right partner ... that comes at the right time, telling us all the time about the beautiful side from us ... will just help to hide the demons from our souls.
Adrian G Dumitru
5
PHILOSOPHY OF LOVE
Defining the undefined
So ... my dear naive friend ... if you ever plan to be happy with the woman you love ... watch her all the time, admire her, love everything is related to her ... and she will only show you her beautiful side. Just try the experiment ... and you will see it!
Enjoy the love story!
Adrian G Dumitru
6
PHILOSOPHY OF LOVE
Defining the undefined
Love is not for everybody.
We are not designed to live alone ... but still we can’t be with anybody.
We need a special ... connection ... but also be all the time on the same frequency.
I wonder if there is any manual that we should read when we start being in a love story?!
If we should know what the rules are, how we should act, how to speak ... how to love ... but all looks like a science difficult to understand ... especially for the ones that never experienced love.
And believe me ... there are only few people that experienced real love ... because real love means connection with the soul that is destined to you. How you find that person?!
Well ... there is nothing to do about that.
At the time, the right person just appears in your life.
Only seeing the look of that person ... you will understand everything ... without being needed to say a word.
But you know ... the Universe is sometimes laughing of us ... and maybe sends the right person ... before we are ready to meet real love in our lives ... just to test us a little bit.
And we start wondering if love is something for everybody or only chosen people can experience it.
We certainly are not designed by God to live alone ... even if we see how spiritual people live without being in a relationship ... just as monks do for example.
We have the need of being with someone and we usually accept to be in a relationship with anyone that is willing to do this with us ... without seeing the meaning of the connection.
And if real connection exists is also important to stay on the same frequency with that person ... all the time.
If you like that person, if you care about being togheter ... you will pay attention to all those details.
So i think is too much saying that love is not for everybody and i know you can argue with me saying that maybe only 5 %, or maximum 10%, of all the couples you know are happy togheter
... but only few are willing to stay connected all the time.
Adrian G Dumitru
7
PHILOSOPHY OF LOVE
Defining the undefined
Indeed ... we should decide not to be with anyone that just appears on the timeline of life, but care a lot if connection exists and if you see if this is done in a natural way ... all the time.
Stay connected ... and you will be in a non ending love story!
Adrian G Dumitru
8
PHILOSOPHY OF LOVE
Defining the undefined
The love spell ... and how to destroy a beautiful love story that was actually a fairy tale
Once upon a time, there was a mother that loved a lot her daughter.
She was kind of super protective parent and was looking all the time as her daughter to be safe, but also happy.
The girl grew up and then she met an interesting boy.
Her mother liked him.
He was smart, good looking and seemed like a boy that is going to be successful. But even if the daughter was very beautiful, the boy was looking for other girls also, and when she found out ... she just broke up with him.
Soon after ... as a revenge she gets married with a man, much older as her ... just to forget that good looking guy, that was not paying all his attention to her. The daughter was suffering by envy, vanity and jealousy ... but her mother ignored those things all the time.
For her ... she was her beautiful daughter and just adored her.
She wanted to see her happy.
Her mother taught her many, many years ago a love spell and she was repeating
this all the time for her daughter:
“Bring me the one i desire,
Bring me the love which i inspire,
Love and lover notice me,
Walk toward me,
So more it be!”
The spell was working years ago with her husband ... and she was hoping that it will work for her lovely daughter also.
But the funny thing is that even if the lady was about 60, she was not remembering that she was not so happy with her husband, not even after so many years of marriage.
The spell was not working so well for her, but she was hoping that will help her daughter.
But the naive girl failed in her first love story.
Then ... after she found her second love story ... somehow ... again ... because her mother was teaching her all the time how to dominate the man ... the marriage failed.
Adrian G Dumitru
9
PHILOSOPHY OF LOVE
Defining the undefined
Even if her husband loved her ... every time she was driving him crazy, he just started a love affair with another lady.
And one day ... the beautiful daughter loses her minds.
Desperate ... the mother started to repeat the love spell everyday ... almost like a prayer.
Daughter gets well and as a revenge ... this time stared a love affair with a mysterious man.
Everything was running perfect ... she falls in love ... and the love spell worked also ... cause the guy was falling in love with her also.
But instead of letting everything run by itself ... the mother was telling her all the time how to try to dominate the new guy ... and used other love spells as everything to be controlled in a specific way.
She believed that the wife must dominate the man ... and this was her main philosophy.
But the funny thing was that the guy, even if looked very naive, he knew a lot about spells.
He was just ignoring the 2 of them, even if he knew what they were doing ... and he just enjoyed the love story ... doing nothing else but enjoying.
Seeing that nothing works with him, they tried again all kinds of other tricks ...
but failed all the time.
The mother was desperate ... but the daughter was too much in love and could not close the story anymore with the guy.
It looked like the love spell was having a secondary effect on her also. She tried and tried and tried ... to brake up
with him ... but still ... every time she was coming back into his arms when he was calling her.
It was no need for the spell in this love story ... but as the mother was used to dominate and control everything ... she was insisting all the time with her silly spells that were only destroying the love story.
You see ... is good to believe in magic ... but trying to control the fairy tale is silly. We should enjoy things ... just as they are ... and look at the beauty of what the Univers offers us ... without trying to control anything at all.
Magic is beautiful ... but don’t abuse of it ... cause it will destroy everything.
Adrian G Dumitru
10
PHILOSOPHY OF LOVE
Defining the undefined
Not feeling “special” ... the reason why so many are leaving the love story
Have any idea why is so important as the partner not to cheat us?!
Or to do different things to prove us the love?! ... things that they usually do not do, but actually should make us feel we are important. All those show if we are special or not.
Special means they pay attention to us, care about us ... and that they don’t conceive life without our presence in the story. We are specials, all of us, but we do not feel it.
And we need to know that at least someone really cares about us.
We have this very well hidden desire of becoming gods, if not for the whole world, at least for one person.
Being in love, when real love is present on both sides, you have this wonderful feeling that you are so special and you feel great. You feel unique.
Maybe saying that you are a god is too much, but you feel at least the king / queen of the world.
Is that unique feeling you had years ago, when you were a kid and everything was magic.
At that time you had the power to believe that everything was posible and nothing could stop you becoming the king / queen. But later on ... you lost your faith.
It says that when Napoleon was only a little boy, he met a lady that told him that he will become the emperor ... and he believed her.
Years later, he became the emperor even if he was not from noble family.
He did not lose that innocence of the little boy.
Had the power to keep that naivety from his childhood.
But most of us, we cannot compare ourselves with Napoleon.
You see, Napoleon was great because he was feeling special ... that was his only secret.
A love story can bring to us this gift of being “special” and feel great about us, just like in the times when we were children.
Sometimes is not even love between you and the partner, but the fact that makes you feel great, unique, special ... make you love the story.
Adrian G Dumitru
11
PHILOSOPHY OF LOVE
Defining the undefined
It’s not a love story, but a story you love.
Or you could be lucky enough to be a real love story.
Whatever it is, as long as it is what it has to be and you feel “special”, “the one”, “the most wanted” ... you will feel great.
It’s all an illusion and we should call it, the beautiful illusion of being in love ...
but we just love it.
Adrian G Dumitru
12
PHILOSOPHY OF LOVE
Defining the undefined
Can negotiation be part of a love story?!
“I am sorry ... i don’t like your offer. I can’t accept it.” “Well my dear .... love is not a business. It never was and it will never be.”
Imagine a scenario.
You start a love story ... then to move togheter, you come with a very long list with things that you want to happen in a certain way: “i want breakfast with 3 eggs, at 7 am, i need coffee with only one piece of sugar, served at room temperature, never bother me in the morning with minor things etc etc bla bla bla.”
Defining the undefined
PHILOSOPHY OF LOVE
Defining the undefined
Adrian G Dumitru
Adrian G Dumitru
1
PHILOSOPHY OF LOVE
Defining the undefined
ADRIAN G DUMITRU
PHILOSOPHY OF LOVE
Defining the undefined
Year: 2021
Author: Adrian G Dumitru
Adrian G Dumitru
2
PHILOSOPHY OF LOVE
Defining the undefined
IF YOU FIND SOMEONE YOU LOVE IN YOUR LIFE, THEN HANG ON TO THAT LOVE.
Princess Diana
Adrian G Dumitru
3
PHILOSOPHY OF LOVE
Defining the undefined
His love
Her fantasy
... understanding what love is about
As a man, but also as a woman, we try to define the undefined from a love story. Dreaming about love and being in love ... the path from the fantasy to the love story itself ... is just a matter of luck ... or maybe where you find yourself, on the timeline of your own life.
Maybe is the perfect time for you to explore what love is about, or maybe other things are important at the moment ... and the love story can only be a future “project”.
Exploring what love is about ... in our minds, as a fantasy ... or in the real life, as a real love story ... is depending only and only if we are ready or not.
But what is the difference between fantasy and reality, when even the Bible is saying that everything we see is just an illusion?
Well ... i believe that the fantasy is only the begining of defining what we want ...
and the love story is the “experiment” itself.
Is it too much to name a love story ... an “experiment”?!
Well ... exploring ... as a fantasy or as reality is letting your soul understand what love is about.
And ... sometimes is even a life lesson.
The moment when you jump into the fairy tale ... the real fantasy ... and you understand the meaning of love ... the fact that love is about giving and not about receiving ... that is the moment when you also understand what life is about.
Accepting your partner, just as he / she is ... just as accepting all the people from our lives is the moment of awakening.
And also you should know that this path is leading you to point when your
thinking will be totally redefined.
Life itself ... is about love.
Seeing what love is about ... is understanding the meaning of life.
If the “love chapter” started for you ... even if it’s just a fantasy or reality ... you should be happy.
The awakening will come to you!
Adrian G Dumitru
4
PHILOSOPHY OF LOVE
Defining the undefined
Watch her,
Admire her,
Love her actions,
And she will let you see her beautiful side
A woman can offer you her soul ... if you know how to enter into her heart. But she will let you stay connected to her heart only in some special conditions ...that are so simple to accomplish ... that us ... the men ... we are just too idiots to see.
A woman feels the need to watch her, to admire her ... to love everything she does and everything is related to her.
She feels the need to love her for what you see outside, but also all what you see inside of her.
But the funny thing is that when you are in love, you only see the beautiful side.
You are blinded by her beauty.
Later on ... you will also start to see things that you will not like ... or even dislike ... but everything you see is related to her.
Same person ... different personalities ... and you even start to believe that there is one person you deal with in the love story ... and another person in the real life ... but it’s ok ... you can still believe in your partner.
Even if we can’t be in love forever, try always to see only her beautiful side.
Talk to her only about that.
Ignore any sign of negativity ... just as it should not exists.
It says that we all have bad demons inside of the soul ... that makes us act as evil persons, but it all depends who we deal with.
Hitler, was probably one of the worst character from our history, but he was acting totally different in the love story he had with Eva Braun. Why?!
Cause she just knew to make him act in a beautiful way with her ... even if everything else related to his life ... meant an evil personality. This is just an extreme example, but you got the message.
Truth be told we do not know to act as positive persons ... or at least not all the time ... and many times we will just look like evil persons.
But the right partner ... that comes at the right time, telling us all the time about the beautiful side from us ... will just help to hide the demons from our souls.
Adrian G Dumitru
5
PHILOSOPHY OF LOVE
Defining the undefined
So ... my dear naive friend ... if you ever plan to be happy with the woman you love ... watch her all the time, admire her, love everything is related to her ... and she will only show you her beautiful side. Just try the experiment ... and you will see it!
Enjoy the love story!
Adrian G Dumitru
6
PHILOSOPHY OF LOVE
Defining the undefined
Love is not for everybody.
We are not designed to live alone ... but still we can’t be with anybody.
We need a special ... connection ... but also be all the time on the same frequency.
I wonder if there is any manual that we should read when we start being in a love story?!
If we should know what the rules are, how we should act, how to speak ... how to love ... but all looks like a science difficult to understand ... especially for the ones that never experienced love.
And believe me ... there are only few people that experienced real love ... because real love means connection with the soul that is destined to you. How you find that person?!
Well ... there is nothing to do about that.
At the time, the right person just appears in your life.
Only seeing the look of that person ... you will understand everything ... without being needed to say a word.
But you know ... the Universe is sometimes laughing of us ... and maybe sends the right person ... before we are ready to meet real love in our lives ... just to test us a little bit.
And we start wondering if love is something for everybody or only chosen people can experience it.
We certainly are not designed by God to live alone ... even if we see how spiritual people live without being in a relationship ... just as monks do for example.
We have the need of being with someone and we usually accept to be in a relationship with anyone that is willing to do this with us ... without seeing the meaning of the connection.
And if real connection exists is also important to stay on the same frequency with that person ... all the time.
If you like that person, if you care about being togheter ... you will pay attention to all those details.
So i think is too much saying that love is not for everybody and i know you can argue with me saying that maybe only 5 %, or maximum 10%, of all the couples you know are happy togheter
... but only few are willing to stay connected all the time.
Adrian G Dumitru
7
PHILOSOPHY OF LOVE
Defining the undefined
Indeed ... we should decide not to be with anyone that just appears on the timeline of life, but care a lot if connection exists and if you see if this is done in a natural way ... all the time.
Stay connected ... and you will be in a non ending love story!
Adrian G Dumitru
8
PHILOSOPHY OF LOVE
Defining the undefined
The love spell ... and how to destroy a beautiful love story that was actually a fairy tale
Once upon a time, there was a mother that loved a lot her daughter.
She was kind of super protective parent and was looking all the time as her daughter to be safe, but also happy.
The girl grew up and then she met an interesting boy.
Her mother liked him.
He was smart, good looking and seemed like a boy that is going to be successful. But even if the daughter was very beautiful, the boy was looking for other girls also, and when she found out ... she just broke up with him.
Soon after ... as a revenge she gets married with a man, much older as her ... just to forget that good looking guy, that was not paying all his attention to her. The daughter was suffering by envy, vanity and jealousy ... but her mother ignored those things all the time.
For her ... she was her beautiful daughter and just adored her.
She wanted to see her happy.
Her mother taught her many, many years ago a love spell and she was repeating
this all the time for her daughter:
“Bring me the one i desire,
Bring me the love which i inspire,
Love and lover notice me,
Walk toward me,
So more it be!”
The spell was working years ago with her husband ... and she was hoping that it will work for her lovely daughter also.
But the funny thing is that even if the lady was about 60, she was not remembering that she was not so happy with her husband, not even after so many years of marriage.
The spell was not working so well for her, but she was hoping that will help her daughter.
But the naive girl failed in her first love story.
Then ... after she found her second love story ... somehow ... again ... because her mother was teaching her all the time how to dominate the man ... the marriage failed.
Adrian G Dumitru
9
PHILOSOPHY OF LOVE
Defining the undefined
Even if her husband loved her ... every time she was driving him crazy, he just started a love affair with another lady.
And one day ... the beautiful daughter loses her minds.
Desperate ... the mother started to repeat the love spell everyday ... almost like a prayer.
Daughter gets well and as a revenge ... this time stared a love affair with a mysterious man.
Everything was running perfect ... she falls in love ... and the love spell worked also ... cause the guy was falling in love with her also.
But instead of letting everything run by itself ... the mother was telling her all the time how to try to dominate the new guy ... and used other love spells as everything to be controlled in a specific way.
She believed that the wife must dominate the man ... and this was her main philosophy.
But the funny thing was that the guy, even if looked very naive, he knew a lot about spells.
He was just ignoring the 2 of them, even if he knew what they were doing ... and he just enjoyed the love story ... doing nothing else but enjoying.
Seeing that nothing works with him, they tried again all kinds of other tricks ...
but failed all the time.
The mother was desperate ... but the daughter was too much in love and could not close the story anymore with the guy.
It looked like the love spell was having a secondary effect on her also. She tried and tried and tried ... to brake up
with him ... but still ... every time she was coming back into his arms when he was calling her.
It was no need for the spell in this love story ... but as the mother was used to dominate and control everything ... she was insisting all the time with her silly spells that were only destroying the love story.
You see ... is good to believe in magic ... but trying to control the fairy tale is silly. We should enjoy things ... just as they are ... and look at the beauty of what the Univers offers us ... without trying to control anything at all.
Magic is beautiful ... but don’t abuse of it ... cause it will destroy everything.
Adrian G Dumitru
10
PHILOSOPHY OF LOVE
Defining the undefined
Not feeling “special” ... the reason why so many are leaving the love story
Have any idea why is so important as the partner not to cheat us?!
Or to do different things to prove us the love?! ... things that they usually do not do, but actually should make us feel we are important. All those show if we are special or not.
Special means they pay attention to us, care about us ... and that they don’t conceive life without our presence in the story. We are specials, all of us, but we do not feel it.
And we need to know that at least someone really cares about us.
We have this very well hidden desire of becoming gods, if not for the whole world, at least for one person.
Being in love, when real love is present on both sides, you have this wonderful feeling that you are so special and you feel great. You feel unique.
Maybe saying that you are a god is too much, but you feel at least the king / queen of the world.
Is that unique feeling you had years ago, when you were a kid and everything was magic.
At that time you had the power to believe that everything was posible and nothing could stop you becoming the king / queen. But later on ... you lost your faith.
It says that when Napoleon was only a little boy, he met a lady that told him that he will become the emperor ... and he believed her.
Years later, he became the emperor even if he was not from noble family.
He did not lose that innocence of the little boy.
Had the power to keep that naivety from his childhood.
But most of us, we cannot compare ourselves with Napoleon.
You see, Napoleon was great because he was feeling special ... that was his only secret.
A love story can bring to us this gift of being “special” and feel great about us, just like in the times when we were children.
Sometimes is not even love between you and the partner, but the fact that makes you feel great, unique, special ... make you love the story.
Adrian G Dumitru
11
PHILOSOPHY OF LOVE
Defining the undefined
It’s not a love story, but a story you love.
Or you could be lucky enough to be a real love story.
Whatever it is, as long as it is what it has to be and you feel “special”, “the one”, “the most wanted” ... you will feel great.
It’s all an illusion and we should call it, the beautiful illusion of being in love ...
but we just love it.
Adrian G Dumitru
12
PHILOSOPHY OF LOVE
Defining the undefined
Can negotiation be part of a love story?!
“I am sorry ... i don’t like your offer. I can’t accept it.” “Well my dear .... love is not a business. It never was and it will never be.”
Imagine a scenario.
You start a love story ... then to move togheter, you come with a very long list with things that you want to happen in a certain way: “i want breakfast with 3 eggs, at 7 am, i need coffee with only one piece of sugar, served at room temperature, never bother me in the morning with minor things etc etc bla bla bla.”
