But later on ... when you feel that the infinite left you ... the password to your soul becomes “It is imposible to love you!”.
Is like we play around with words ... it’s posible ... it’s imposible ... it’s posible ...
it’s imposible.
To stop everything, to calm again your soul ... and feel the silence one more time in there ... you just need to believe in magic. The magic is part of our lives, but it’s invisible.
Only the soul can see it.
Don’t think so much ... just say and feel it ... “I love you!” ... and remove from your vocabulary the word “imposible”.
Dare to taste what looks like and imposible love story ... but also believe that one day it can be a story from the real life.
Adrian G Dumitru
90
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
I am only yours ... but i am still a child
Tough, sexy, with a perfect presence in any scenario of life ... but still a child.
Missing the teddy bear ... but looking all the time to conquer another lady.
And another one.
And then another one.
A real hunter of hearts ... but still a child.
What could miss so, so much to a man that he cannot stop doing that and just enjoy the beauty of a simple real life?!
I mean ... the love story from the real life ... the wife ... his wife.
Is it the wife the one that sends him away or he is just a hunter that loves to conquer beautiful ladies?!
You know why someone buys an expensive car?!
To give him a bigger value.
But why someone buy an yacht?!
Only few people have time to enjoy an yacht all the time.
But it brings even bigger value to the owner.
But why someone needs an air plain?!
Well ... the same with the ladies.
And the list is so, so long.
But in fact we only want the teddy bear.
That was the symbol of love ... of friendship ... of everything ... the one that will never hurt us.
And we look and look again, but never find what we are looking.
We are looking for NOTHING ... except real love ... being afraid to be be hurt ...
but hurting all the time.
The search is useless.
The day when you admit that you are still a child, you will be for 100% in the right love story.
And you will be happy.
Adrian G Dumitru
91
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
Kind of a fiddler ... of your own love story
To understand your love life, you need to define it and first of all ask yourself if the love story is a positive event into your life.
Analyze your life before and after you met that person ... trying to understand if you feel better, if statistically you became a better person that you used to be, if you changed your values into a better way, if you see life as magic and not as a collection of repetitive dirty things that are happening on and on. Life is beautiful and a real love story can make it appear as amazing.
Defining the story, has many, many ways.
You can even find the definition into a love song ... a poetry ... a book or a movie.
Or you can see yourself becoming a writer, a poet or a musician.
And yessss... i think music defines the best.
The words and the sounds of the song ... can be the total definition of all what you feel deep inside you.
You even dream to be a great musician, telling about the love from your heart ... and only look like a silly fiddler ... but in the end if love is real ... the message is not for the whole world, but only for the one that loves you.
No matter how is the way you try to define everything ... as long as you feel the story... but also a real connection on both sides .. you are on the right path. Don’t be ashamed of nothing ... smile, sing and dance on the music of love.
Adrian G Dumitru
92
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
Negotiation is useless into a love story
We love dominating the ones around us.
It makes us feel powerful.
But we do the same into a love story ... trying to dominate instead of choosing a path decided by the both of the partners.
And we see negotiation as a way in how we could actually get what we want. The real problem is that we want all the time, all kinds of silly unimportant things and we think that getting them will actually make us happy.
Is nothing wrong in getting in life simple or important things, or live the situations into a certain way ... but i think is not ok to define negotiation as a tool that can help the relationship itself.
Being in love, having a huge connection with the partner ... just living and enjoying the love story ... will make both partners understand what the other wants.
If he will know that you love flowers, he will always bring you flowers ... if she will know that you love being hugged and kissed, she will always do that to you.
Is useless even to say it ... cause will know everything that needs to be done. Negotiation, as a way of finding a better path into a love story .... will most
probably destroy everything ... cause there is NOTHING to negotiate when you are in love.
Love is everything.
If is real love ... you will get everything from that story just by staying togheter. Forget about negotiation, even if in life everything is a negotiation ... just dare to enjoy the story ... the way it is.
Adrian G Dumitru
93
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
The art of choosing
You have 2 paintings in front of your eyes and you need to choose one to buy and take it home.
But you are not an expert in paintings.
You never was one.
The 2 objects looks almost similar ... and it’s quite strange to understand what you really must choose.
And the same is happening in life.
Everything looks similar and when it comes about taking a decision ... it’s too hard ... cause we don’t really understand what we need to do ... we are not experts into life matters and don’t know how to analyze very small details that makes the difference.
But one day you will be just forced to buy one of the paintings or just leave the gallery.
Others customers are in there also ... and maybe they want to buy ... even the paintings you wanted to buy.
Understanding the fact that the process of taking decisions will not be a process that needs to take a life time is very important.
You need to base every decision you take on your own intuition, but also on the connection you have with that object ... that person or that situation.
But in the end nothing must force you to take the decision, even if the decision is an important one.
Probably the meaning of a painting is just to admire it ... and when you deal with 2 similar paintings ... you can admire one and then the other ... but just admire and don’t buy.
Don’t push yourself too hard ... don’t take anything too seriously ... and if you feel you need to do NOTHING ... then do it ... just do NOTHING. This is also a choice ... your own choice.
Adrian G Dumitru
94
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
The Obsession
It says that if it’s still in your mind, it is worth taking the risks.
But what an obsession means when it comes to relationships and love?!
And how do we deal with an obsession?!
Being in love ... staying into an imposible love story ... still wanting something that is quite clear that you will not have ... it’s an obsession.
You want to change the whole script ... then you forget everything ... do nothing for a while
... then do the opposite ... and just restart again and again.
You love, you are loved ... but everything is imposible to be a love story from the real world.
But the obsession is on both sides and is a huge obsession.
In the moment when you realise that you have everything, but you actually have nothing and on the other hand you have nothing, but you actually have everything ... the obsession becomes even stronger.
You wake up, having that repetitive thought into your mind ... you live the whole day thinking about the same ... then you asleep having the obsession in your dreams also.
When imposible love becomes an obsession ... there is no way you can end the story.
You even think about how you get out dead or alive, but just want to see the end.
But the end is not coming, cause the obsession is the one for the love itself.
The path?!
Maybe learn to take the risks.
Having nothing will not satisfy you ... not trying anything at all will let you be just a coward ... but not only if front of the your partner, but also in front of the obsession.
And the obsession will reappear again and again and again.
Be afraid of nothing! Just dare to have what you really, really want!
Adrian G Dumitru
95
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
Stuck with You
So, so many people spend life in a way that they most probably just dislike.
They just feel stucked.
We are defined as emotional and spiritual beings, but we forget about this definition.
But we go throw life ... having the idea about what makes us happy ... and doing nothing to change things so that we should be happy.
And the truth is that we will continue everything as long as we don’t realise how toxic is the life we have.
Then you just see that you are only stucked in your own mind ... and repetitive thoughts.
No one can force you to live the way you live.
It’s only your own decision.
Feeling stuck is just a feeling ... living the life in a beautiful way is a decision you need to assume, so that you feel differently.
But ... what if one day you feel stuck into a beautiful love story?! ... and you live 2 lives: one, the reality ... and the second one, an imposible love story.
You feel in love, happy, joyful ... but see that there is no way in how the love story can actually be part of the real life. What you do?!
What you choose?!
The imposible love story or the real life?!
Which one is more important?!
Feeling stuck is actually great and you can remain stuck for an eternity even if you cannot interconnect the 2 lives you have. Why?!
Cause the real life is the way it is and maybe you cannot change it, but you still have the right to dream, to feel alive, to be happy, to be in love ... to be in a love story ... even if it is a parallel world love story. Dare to remain stuck with that beautiful soul.
If you love enough, there is NOTHING that can stop you!
Adrian G Dumitru
96
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
A plant without water dies. The same with the soul ... maybe needs NOTHING except love.
We are looking for all kinds of things to complete our lives.
Some of them we just get quit easy, but for some ... we almost need to destroy
our lives to have them.
Utterly meaningless!
What do people gain from all their labors at which they toil under the sun?!
We had been treached to follow paths that brings us things or advantages .... but
nobody teached us to follow a path, that looks like a meaningless direction ... but that brings us in the end the connection with our own souls.
Yes ... same as a plat that needs water to survive, the same a human being needs love.
We know that everyday, no matter what ... we need to drink and to eat ... just to survive, but on the other hand, we never think of the daily need for love.
And is nothing more important as that, but we ignore that fact even if we know it. And then we see us sad ... with an ugly mood and face... and can’t see a way to get rid of that.
The moment, when a human beings understands that in life we only need simple things and love ... then everything change.
Redefining the values you have, the options we choose in life is probably number
one priority that we should have.
Life is an experience.
We need to live it but also enjoy it with pleasure.
And this is when the meaning of love stories have a clear symbolistic in our lives.
Adrian G Dumitru
97
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
Asking for everything
... giving nothing in return
We know to define what we want before we start a new relationship.
And we have a very long list with what we expect.
But the list is hidden deep inside our souls ... but part of it also into the mind. Some things are logical ... some are just emotionals and maybe some are spirituals.
We know what we want, have the idea of what a relationship means ... but it’s only half of the idea ... the other half of the idea we don’t really, really care about.
We are the first half of the idea, with that huge list of expectations and the other half of the idea is ... that beautiful smile that we fall in love with.
And we believe that the beautiful smile is so naive ... that will complete all our wishes and desires.
And the funny thing is that the smile wants the same thing as we want. We actually want love, but being so blinds, we define these long lists with expectations, without seeing that there is no need of those lists. Too selfish ... we just continue in the same way on and on.
The Universe sends in our life a beautiful soul and instead of enjoying the story and just realise that there is nothing to ask or to give ... but just connect and enjoy the story.
Or if you ask something ... ask yourself first if you already offered that to your partner.
If the answear is yes ... maybe the partner will see and understand what reply to give in return.
We focus too much on asking, defining ... and not enjoying the moment itself. We do so many things, that in the end we just miss the essential ... which is live the love story.
Please make an experiment ... try to think for just a day, about NOTHING but being happy with your love partner ... and live a great story everyday.
Adrian G Dumitru
98
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
Ideal love stories, have
a script ... an unwritten script.
And no matter how silly the script is ... everything is perfect.
But you know why?!
Because when we are in love, we live a love story and we see as perfect everything around us.
We have no real list with what to say, what to do and how to act ... we just do
it ... and everything is perfect.
