The best case scenario for a love story is to feel that you are loved and your partner also feel your love.
That means the connection between the 2 of you is huge and there is no need of anything else.
Of course ... a love poem or a beautiful trip to Hawaii will help, just as a confirmation, but you already know everything you need to know. Love is present all the time in the story.
But one day you start to wonder if the story is real.
What if everything is just a beautiful illusion?!
Who is the one that can give you the answear?
Most probably only the partner, but with simple beautiful words written in an essay or a love poem, but with real facts.
And you start asking for that and that and that ... a non ending list with silly desires.
You even have the idea of wanting the moon from the sky, but what for?! In a real honest love story, the connection between the 2 partners is always present.
Just believing into the connection is enough, cause the souls will have all the answears, without the need of confirmations.
Maybe the expression “bringing the moon from the sky” is just a metaphor, a figure of speech that, for rhetorical effect, directly refers to one thing by mentioning another ... but the no ending list with demanding for confirmations will finally take you to the position when whatever should happen ... you cannot believe in magic anymore.
Great love stories don’t need confirmations. What for you ask for the moon from the sky?!
Adrian G Dumitru
72
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
You need NOTHING to understand your story, to see it is real, but just let your soul free ... the heart opened and enjoy the love feelings. No proof.
No NOTHING.
Just love.
Adrian G Dumitru
73
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
The huge desire for her
And he said, whispering in his head, but speaking in the same time with her:
“I just want to see you again.
I want to gently touch you again.
I need to love you for hours.
I want to feel you again ... to see that you are real!” And he opens his eyes and sees her.
The perfect illusion ... the one that conquered his mind, his soul ... his everything ... his whole being.
He cannot breath anyone. The air without the smell of her love has no value.
There is no reason to continue breathing it.
He infinitely wants her and she knows that.
But the illusion is hidden deep, deep inside his lost soul.
He is looking everywhere for her, but he just forget she was in there all the time. All he needs to do is just whisper her the password ... “I LOVE YOU!” ... and the beautiful illusion will appear again on the scene of his life. He becomes one with the huge desire for her.
And if he keeps asking himself if she is the love essay, the muse ... or a spirit that he can touch, enjoy and feel for real.
Yeesss ... love is NOTHING but a beautiful illusion, but how should be life without those illusions?!
Let your soul act wildly ... do whatever wants to do.
Let it dream of love.
Let it smell the love.
Let it enjoy the love even if you are sure if the love story is real or not.
There us NOTHING to do, but experience it.
Adrian G Dumitru
74
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
Just ... love each other
Any relationship or even real love story comes with lots of problems, that somehow ruin the beauty of love.
And instead of focusing on the magic between them, they get lost on the way of regular daily things.
Time is passing and what years ago was a beautiful relationship, today is just a boring way of spending life togheter.
A dear friend of mine, realising this, left home, telling her husband she will never come back.
They had no connection anymore.
Somehow, they came to a point where she felt that between them was NOTHING. She saw this by almost a year, but only after falling in love of another married man, she understood that she is not on the right path on her life.
Everything was fast ... falling in love, leaving home and moving somewhere else.
She was in a huge hurry, feeling that is already too late.
But too late for what?!
Maybe for her lost soul ....
Did she left home for another man?!
I think the answear is NO. People just get out from long relationship, because
they cannot live in there anymore.
Is like there is no air for the soul.
A parallel relationship helps a lot, so that you have the courage to do it, because millions of people from all around the world are living a whole life in toxic relationships and die unhappy.
The solution?! There is no magic solution.
First of all, being in this situation, you just need to find yourself.
Between the husband and her lover, my lady friend should choose herself.
Not even bother to divorce for a while and all she needs is a sabbatical year, so that she realise what is wrong with her, why the connection with her husband was lost, even if it was a magical connection years ago.
In life, there is NOTHING to choose but yourself, even if it is about love stories. Finding yourself, being comfortable into the relationship you are involved... can probably be the only target you could have and in the end you will see that everything you need to do is ... just love each other.
Adrian G Dumitru
75
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
Beautiful words ... no promises
... but an amazing love story
Empty souls are hunting for love stories.
They dream it, they hope and pray for it to happen ... just that the emptiness inside of them to disappear.
They are experts in using beautiful words, they tell fantastic stories about a future togheter ... but it all sounds as a story, not as a promise ... and in the end the beautiful illusion of being in love becomes an amazing love story.
Knowing the power of words, even speaking about the bible with Proverbs 16:24 “Kind words are like honey–sweet to the soul and healthy for the body.”, the empty souls are continuing the path of playing around on and on, just as a warrior is playing with a sword spell.
But is not about a classical war, but an invisible one, and the main objective is just to steal the soul.
There is no promises ... as it is not necessary cause the magic is in there.
And then ... everything becomes and amazing love story.
But, truth be told, an empty soul, that hungry spirit looking for eternal love, will never bring something real, but only an illusion.
It will be a story ... just like the ones from books or movies ... but not from the real world.
When the end is coming, seeing them so naive ... you can’t even blame them for anything ... cause they never made a promise.
They gave you NOTHING ... but you actually had everything living an illusory amazing love story.
Adrian G Dumitru
76
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
And the pirate said:
“I will take everything and give nothing back! ... even her soul!”
There is a huge difference between a pickpocket and a pirate.
The first one does what he does as a way of living ... just like a job.
The pirate, just love to steal ... but he will actually steal everything and give nothing back.
Being in love with a old pickpocket and then with a pirate ... you start to ask yourself what is in fact love about and why the Universe gives you those tests. You thought that you had passed all the exams that life can give to you ... cause the pickpocket is a real, real jerk ... but only till the day you meet the pirate. He has his charm and steals your mind ... your soul ... your everything. And just give you NOTHING in return.
He loves to steal and will just ruin you ... but you will live a wonderful love story, most probably, the love story of your life.
In the end, you will ask yourself, why you had to meet those 2 guys.
First one, the silly pickpocket is the one that tricked you for years, hoping you will never see what is really going on ... but the second one, the pirate, smiling while stealing your soul ... did it with love and passion.
The pirate ruins you, but let you remember amazing memories you had togheter. And when you feel that there is NOTHING left for you ... that is the moment when you realise you actually had everything.
The pirate will whisper that he loves you ... and the infinite will be again part of your life.
Taking everything and give nothing back than beautiful words .. that is the pirate. But the whole story was NOTHING else ... but your choice!
Adrian G Dumitru
77
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
TIME
Waste it while you still can.
We believe that we have plenty of time.
For everything.
Even for love stories.
But today we are 20 and without realising we become 33 ... and then 37 ... later 42 ... and one day 50 years old.
And we still feel young ... and we think is not too late.
It’s a silly optimism that actually ruins our chances to do what we should do with our lives.
Cause, in fact, time is limited.
We spend our lives, too busy to do unimportant things ... instead of doing everything at the right time.
But the question is ... what is the right time for love ... so that you can really enjoy it?!
At 20 we are overwhelmed by emotions.
At 30 we still believe that real happiness can appear for us, but are not sure when it will happen.
At 40 we finally dare to open our hearts and we wonder if it is ok or not. At 50 we realise it is too late and after so, so many chances we missed the essential, which was just to enjoy the right story when the Universe sent that magic person into our lives.
Spending time with the love stories, looks like wasting it ... but in fact is one of the most important things that we should do in life.
I am pretty sure that love exists even when you are 60 or 70 ... or even 80, but maybe at that age you only talk about love for spirituality, life itself and serenity maybe.
So ... let the need for love stories be present into your soul and waste your time while you still can.
NOTHING is more important as love.
Adrian G Dumitru
78
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
Who invented this virus called LOVE?
Love is sometimes appears like a virus.
It has many, many specific symptoms, that clearly shows that you are in love.
But where from appeared this virus?!
Who invented it and why?
Well ... to laugh a little bit ... it says that the russians invented love so that they can have sex for free.
Just to avoid the marriage and everything that has to do with that, russians came with this brilliant idea ... of just enjoying “creme de la creme” how the french are saying.
But enough with jokes ... especially russian jokes.
Is it anything for free in this world?!
I think no ... and whatever looks as free ... actually costs a lot ... even if it is about love stories.
We believe that we just need to get from the story, whatever we want ... being just selfish.
And this is what means “for free” ... just asking, without caring or giving something in return.
This is when everything starts to ruin, cause real love is more about giving than asking in return.
And love becomes a virus.
In real love stories .... i mean great ... beautiful ... love stories, everything comes
by itself.
You don’t ask for anything, the partner does not ask either ... but everything is perfect and things are arranged by themselves.
When you see love in the same way as you see a business and even worst, let your selfishness controls you and just ask and ask for more and more from the partner ... that is not love.
Real love is giving your soul for the one you love.
In real love stories there is no selfishness, no vanity, no interest ... just NOTHING but love.
And being happy is just a result.
Let everything be a beautiful story and not something that looks like a virus!
Adrian G Dumitru
79
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
The art of breaking up one million times.
Statistic shows that ... we will meet again.
There is no way in how you can stop a real love story.
You can try anything in the world and any kind of determination will fail. There will be many moments when you will ask why is happening in the way in happens, or see everything going to nowhere ... and breaking up will appear as the best solution.
But when you deal with infinite love ... things will just happen in the way it must happen.
You always forget ... that everything happens for a reason ... and you close the door, but love knocks at the window ... you open the window and you see the sun of your soul.
The art of breaking up on million times is a silly game that we play to enjoy even more the love story.
Is like ... “Just leave! ... but not so far away, cause from one moment to another ... i will probably miss you again ... and i will want you to be back!” Breaking up so many times will just mean that you will actually never break up. Because you are soul mates.
It’s kind of a spiritual marriage between the 2 of you and nobody can destroy that ... not even the time.
In the end you will see that everything is just statistics ... and the probability of being again togheter is huge.
To understand your story, you will need to define what is love about and why is useless to live our lives without that feeling inside our hearts.
Just smile when you break up again, and remember about this concept ... the art of breaking up one million times, but never really break up.
Being mad today and feel that the end had come ... means NOTHING.
There is a statistic behind all those thoughts ... that shows something else.
Adrian G Dumitru
80
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
Do we have any plans?!
Or just enjoy the love story?
But what if it’s only about love and sex?
When it comes to any important issue from our life, people are just starting to think to all kinds of scenarios for the future.
They analyze any posible detail, but never think that we sometimes meet people just to enjoy life.
