When life itself is boring ... we need something to give us life even for a short time.
You think that people investing thousands of dollars in their cars for racing ... are doing this because they don’t have what to do with money?! I don’t think so.
The racing itself may take 30 seconds or one minute, but they prepare for days or weeks and spend a fortune for that.
But the beauty of those seconds makes them feel alive, even if the probability of having an accident is huge and they could even die. It is the same with some ... love stories.
People don’t go to the kafeteria to eat a cake, cause they are hungry and want to eat .... otherwise they would go to the restaurant ... but they only want to taste
Adrian G Dumitru
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PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
something delicious ... even if has poisson inside.
I think is NOTHING wrong to taste in fact ... the beauty of life.
Most probably we have so much poisson inside of us ... that NOTHING will happen
if we taste a little bit of more “poisson”.
Just DARE to feel alive!
Adrian G Dumitru
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PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
The CURSE of being in love.
You are not completely in the story ... but not completely out of the story
Have you ever wondered what is really going on when you are in such situation?!
I mean ... in the end it all looks like a real curse.
But what is it about?!
Is it a curse or a lesson?
Why you stay for a while in the story, then you are sent away from the story ... as in the end to be recalled ... and this is like a circle ... happening on and on and on.
It’s like the chaos it running the show but still you are the main character from the script.
Your mind tells you ... get out of the way, but your heart is telling you that you should enjoy it.
And this is exactly what you do ... get out of the story, then come back and enjoy the story.
And everything becomes a habbit.
But why?!
Because you live in 2 totally different worlds.
In one, the love story is real.
In the other one, the story is seen just as an illusion.
The same story ... different way of seeing it ... but seen by the same 2 persons. One day you decide to stop this chaos of jumping all day long between the real world and the fantasy.
And we even think it stoped forever.
But we love the chaos, we like playing around with situations and words ... telling “i love you” and then “i hate you!” .
And then we see that what we thought it’s a curse, it’s only a game for adults, that forgot to grow up.
2 people acting as kids of 12 years old, asking for something and then changing their minds.
And they even love this game, cause they know it will never end and it’s fun.
Adrian G Dumitru
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PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
“I will block you.
I will dissapear ... but i will just reapear again, cause i fact i love you.
I only have moments when you drive me crazy and i hate you ... but bottom line ... i probably can say that i love you.
And statistically ... we will restart again, because we just act as the wheater. Today is raining, tomorrow is snowing or maybe it is a shiny day again.”
So ... the real conclusion is that is too much to call it a “curse” ... and if we dare to tell the truth everything is NOTHING that a game. We should just stop ... and only enjoy the love story.
Cause love can heal our souls.
Adrian G Dumitru
54
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
Don’t cry!
Call down ... and just do NOTHING.
Everything happens for a reason.
You will understand later!
Being in a love story, there are many times when situations makes us really
unhappy and we even start crying.
And we cry and cry and cry.
But is useless, as long as we accept things in the way they are and we don’t even think of a real plan for a change.
But you know, there is also another scenario .. a strange one ...and this is ... just do NOTHING ... but wait.
If you believe into the Universe and its laws and powers and really, really want a certain path for the love story, things will happen by magic, even if you just do NOTHING.
When real magic can appear, you can jump from situation A to situation B ... just overnight.
A is where you are today and B is where you dream to be tomorrow.
So, instead of crying, maybe you should pray or meditate and expect good things to happen.
Crying is cleaning your soul.
Praying or meditating is helping you embrace the things that you dream in your life.
Yesss ... today things happen into a way difficult to understand, but they are happening like this for a reason, that we cannot see why, but will certainly understand later into the future.
But as long as you still believe ... you will not need to cry, cause the love story will reappear the way you always dreamed for it.
Adrian G Dumitru
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PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
When A is married with B, loves C but C is married also ... with D, but loves A
... a complicated story.
But what is doing E into the story,
if A and C are saying they have infinite love togheter?!
... a story about micro cheating.
Micro cheating is a modern way of testing new paths for a posible new love stories.
You could be really ok where you are today, but maybe you think you deserve even better options in life.
It’s like having a Mercedes AMG and dream for a Bentley ... which logically makes
sense, but you know ... when it comes about souls, we should not deal situations
just as we deal about cars.
Human beings are not cars.
It happens that you see on street an old couple and you look at the love from their eyes.
They are old now, they are not dressed well, it’s not about sex anymore, but they still have that magic look on their face.
Imagine one of them thinking today for a better version of the partener.
Just thinking of it, can be defined as micro cheating.
And i think if you are into a real love story, just thinking of another story ... just tasting a little bit ... makes the actual story be an illusion.
When it comes about life and love, it’s not like you go to taste different wine assortments.
Having this idea that you will only taste and actually don’t mix the energies ... is a wrong script.
Micro cheating is part of us and starts with thinking, smiling, chatting ... telling that is NOTHING but a simple talk, but in the end just ruins the beauty of what we have.
The difference between a relationship and a real love story, one with infinite love, is that in the script of last one, you will never find elements of micro cheating.
Adrian G Dumitru
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PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
If you have the power to define the truth about your relationship, dare to make the difference between simple and great love stories.
If you see micro cheating in there is just a relationship and if you see only that lovely person in front of your eyes, that is the real great story, the one that you read in books, or saw in movies.
Play around as long as you want in life, do micro cheating and also cheating if you
are not sure that you are in the right relationship, but don’t lie yourself that you
are into a fantastic love story, but in the same time, think of other scenarios also.
Real love or NOTHING.
Dare to choose!
Adrian G Dumitru
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PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
The droll guy and the guy used by karma.
One is cleaning dirty clothes and
one is cleaning dirty souls.
Once upon a time, in a small town, a place where everything was posible to happen, there were 2 silly guys, that just loved having love affairs, even if they were both married by a very long time.
One guy was making money cleaning dirty clothes and the other, was playing around all day long, making no money, writing love essays about his private life ... trying to tell the world how you can heal your soul with the power of infinite love.
Everything was ok for years and even if they could not stand each other, there was no problem between them.
But one day, the 2 beautiful ladies that loved the first guy ... they actually adored him ... not knowing how to win the war between the 2 of them, started, in the same time, a love story with the second one, just to make the first one jealous. All of them, except the writer ... did understood what is really going on, cause everything was a mess.
The writer started to see everything and just enjoyed both stories.
He realised he is used, but not by the 2 ladies, but by the Universe.
His meaning in life was not cleaning dirty clothes, but cleaning dirty souls. There was NOTHING to do, but enjoy being on the scene of life and just act as a great actor ... or at least to try.
The story continued for months and no one except the writer could realise what the story was about and why is happening.
But everything you see in life ... just happen for a reason, one that most of the time, you cannot understand in the present moment, but later into the future, after living the story and also the pain that comes with the story.
Yesss ... we are sometimes used by the Universe, to play the role of karma, so that we show to others the way they lived their life, but also understand for us, till is not too late, that we need to clean our dirty souls.
And we look inside of us and see lots of dust and mud, but we do not dare to start the process of becoming better souls.
Adrian G Dumitru
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PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
This is when ... life becomes a joke ... and instead of living a movie about the beauty of life, we just live a silly cartoon episode on and on and on, till we understand what is the message in fact.
Whoever you are today, the droll guy that is playing around with the life of different ladies or the guy used by karma, that is just enjoying the show, open your eyes and see what the Universe is trying to tell you. There is NOTHING else to do.
Adrian G Dumitru
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PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
He was so idiot that he went to the
Police Station to tell them that another guy has stolen the heart of his wife. ... a real story about karma
In all ex communist countries everything is posible when it comes about love, money and sex.
I mean if you dislike someone and the guy has a business, with the right amount, at the right person, you can just close his business.
And if the guy has no business is no problem, cause you can arrange something at the police to close directly that person.
The funny thing is that one day, a married guy who had lots of love affairs, especially with married women, realises that he started to have a huge problem. Someone met his wife and had stolen her heart. He could just not believe it.
And even worst.
The karma was knocking at his door, cause he finds out that the guy had stolen his mistress too.
He starts loosing his mind.
There was nobody that ever saw his wife, or his mistress with this mysterious guy, but deep inside him, he knew the 2 stories were real. He could not sleep in the night.
He went to a therapist also, but still the problem was obsessing him.
He closes his love affair with his mistress and started to focus on his wife, so that he wins her back, but it was too late, cause he actually lost her years ago, when he cheated on her with so many ladies.
He goes to a priest also to ask for an advice, but he then realise religion is not for him ... cause in the end he is just a jerk.
Then one day, he remembers that many years ago, he had been a thief and he thinks that he can go to the Police Station, tell his story in there about the guy that had stolen the heart of his wife and offering to pay as much money as necessary if they solve the case.
The chief of police, smiled, accepted the offer, but laughed behind his back, cause he knew that it was only a karma issue.
Adrian G Dumitru
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PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
They just don’t solve problems generated by karma in the Police Station, but at least the chief made some money just by talking with a guy that indeed had lost his minds.
And the husband continues with so, so many other silly things, controlling his wife all the time, calling her, installing a gps on her car, looking if she stays online on whatsapp, facebook etc .. but he never realise that the whole story is about love, not about controll.
His wife just needed love and he offered her a luxury life, thinking that this is enough, but kept her like in a prison.
The chief of police, tried to explain him that actually his wife offered her heart to the guy and the guy had not stolen the heart of his wife, but he was speaking with the walls.
And the Universe is laughing of us, of our thoughts and obsessions, cause in the end karma is teaching us all those difficult lessons till we get the message.
The Universe ... laughing of the mad husband ... made the mysterious guy just disappear one day.
And sends another guy to replace him.
Just a different name, but same charm as the first one.
The wife was very beautiful and many men admired her ... but not her husband and not in the way she wanted, with infinite love. Don’t play around with karma.
When it will come to knock on your door, there will be NOTHING you can do about it, but only to pay the price of all you have done into the past ... and understand the lesson.
Of course ... if you are not idiot ... and have the power to understand those repetitive lessons.
Adrian G Dumitru
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PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
A present from the Universe. The beautiful lie ... was NOTHING but an unaccepted truth.
