And remember ... karma is NOTHING but the mirror of your soul and actions ... the reply you will see from the Universe after you play different roles on the stage of life.
Adrian G Dumitru
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PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
Shhhhh...
There are days when you should better say ... NOTHING
There are days when you are happy and joyful ... and you have the power to say beautiful things.
To all the people from your life and especially to the person from your love story.
But there are many days when you feel lost and even from starting the day ...
you see that everything is ruined.
All you can see and say ... is about the lack of positivity from the story of your life.
Even if the partner is telling you 10 things and 9 of them are positive issues, if only one is not sounding well to your mind and soul, you start seeing the end. And you will speak only about the negativity from what you have togheter. But is that a good way to act?
Does it help speaking about the negative things from your relationship, especially when 9 of 10 things are ok?!
Most probably is never a good time to speak about the minuses of the story and the truth is that the things are just the way they are, even if you say it or not. Hiding different things, complaining without knowing why you actually complain and why you have moments you are not completely satisfied ... is a way of continuing the pain from your life.
Yeesss ... there are many days when is better to day NOTHING just to keep the story safe, but in the end the silly things remains in there, unspoken ... and will silently ruin everything without even realising.
We live in a world with negative and positive elements, but probably at the end of life, you will see that there is no positive or negative.
What you see as a positive presence in your life, might look as toxic into the future.
And what it looks as negative, might be a positive thing into the future.
There are 2 ways of doing things.
If spiritually, you are on a very high level, you can just communicate with the person from your story, just smiling and loving that person.
Adrian G Dumitru
43
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
Will understand everything just by looking into your eyes ... and you will need to say NOTHING.
But if spirituality was not in your area of interest, communication is the key that can open the doors of the soul.
And just as you mention all the time the things you love, saying NOTHING about you don’t like ... just hiding them forever, will ruin everything you have togheter.
Adrian G Dumitru
44
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
The crystal ball
He went to ask the sorcerer with the crystal ball
if his love story is just an illusion
One day a guy went to a famous sorcerer, asking for his help.
He was obsessed with something and he wanted to find out the truth.
The sorcerer welcomed him in his house and they started to chat.
He believed that the guy wanted to find about the future of his life, but easily understood that he is not looking for that.
The obsession was if the lady that he was in love with was really loving him, or everything was only an illusion.
The sorcerer smiled, explaining that the life itself and everything we see is just an illusion.
And the guy replyed:
I know that. But there are many kinds of illusions and i want to find out if this is a beautiful illusion or is just an illusion
But what sense does it make?! An illusion is just an illusion.
There are boring illusions ... that means the normal daily boring life, ugly illusions when we have big problems in life and lovely illusions ... when we get exactly what we had asked to the Universe and we are not sure if is real or not ...
or i should say maybe ... a beautiful sweet illusion
And what exactly you want to find out?! asked the sorcerer.
Well ... i want to see what she thinks, what she speaks with other people ...
Ok ... let’s start with something. Tell me what you want me to show you into the crystal ball?
Well ... show me what she is speaking on facebook, instagram, whatsapp,
email .. everything.
The sorcerer smiled again and replies:
My friend ... i think this time i should pay you, cause you made me laugh for 30 minutes already. How do you think that the messages from social media will reflect if she loves you?!
I think ... we are what we think about and what we speak about
Indeed ... but you actually asked if she loves you and not what she thinks
Yes, replied the guy ... but i still want to see all her conversations from social media on the crystal ball
Adrian G Dumitru
45
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
My friend ... are you sure?!
Yes ... i am sure
But, what if you will somehow dislike what you see?! What will happen with the illusion. Will the beautiful illusion become and ugly illusion?
Listen ... replied the guy... i am not sleeping by month ... i want to find out the truth
There is no truth ... if she loves you, she loves you today and maybe she will not love you in the future... so my question is ... don’t you want to find out if she will love you in the future?
Nooo ... i just want to see ... to understand what is really going on
Friend ... if she loves you or not ... your intuition and the connection between your souls must tell you this. If you can’t feel it is useless to waste the crystal ball for asking it.
Maybe ... but even if i feel she loves me, i just can’t believe it
Real love stories are difficult to be defined or understood. Look in her eyes, not in the crystal ball ... and the answear will come to you.
The guy understood the message from the sorcerer and left.
Like an awakening ... he saw that in a real love story there is NOTHING to ask, define or analyze ... but only feel it.
Dare to trust your intuition!
Adrian G Dumitru
46
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
Loosing your minds is
part of the script
Real love can make you fly.
Real love can change you in ways you never thought that can be posible of happening in your life.
Real love can heal your soul.
But thinking just for a moment, that you can control the settings of your emotions and there will be no moments of chaos ... will be naive.
And you can consider being lucky if you will never feel that you can just loose your minds.
Real love means the connection between twin souls, 2 beings with the perfect chemistry.
And the infinite is coming on the timeline of your love story.
But too powerful ... even to feel it, but also to understand it.
The infinite is part of everything you have togheter.
Beautiful moments will fulfill your soul with joy, but only thinking that one day, you can loose that person ... that story ... imagining the end ... will make you loose your minds.
Accepting the facts just as they are, even that one day, you will be called ... crazy
.. is ok.
Deep inside ... probably you feel that you are crazy in love.
And the insanity becomes a mask of the obsession of being in love.
But there is NOTHING to worry about.
Just accept that real love can take you in the position of loosing your minds.
See it ... as part of the script.
At least the story will not be a boring one.
And don’t worry ... your partner will heal you ... with that infinite love you have togheter!
Adrian G Dumitru
47
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
What is this about?!
Watching and understanding NOTHING
Is very easy to get lost in life ... and in a love story is the same.
You looked happy togheter yesterday, but today you are not anymore. Can you answear why?!
What could change the status of being happy togheter ... as a beautiful couple that is in a great love story?!
Is there any answear to this question?!
You look deep inside yourself and undestand ... NOTHING but is there a need of understanding anything?
Why we need so many answears?!
Why we can’t live a love story only enjoying it?
And the overthinking is conquering our minds and souls ... and the result ... is a total mess.
The chaos runs the show.
And then we wonder where is the beauty of being in love.
But what we cannot see is that being lost, on the lovely way to nowhere, is just part of the script.
I think the duality appears in our lives, so that we remember we must appreciate more all what we have.
Loosing the control of the story, understanding NOTHING of what is going on ... but seeing later that the love is still there ... make you still be optimistic. Yeesss ... everything changes in life ... all things, situations and even us ... the human beings.
But it is so beautiful to see that no matter what ... the love remains at the same level or it is even stronger.
Understanding NOTHING, cause many things happens in life, but feeling everything, cause real love can make you feel the infinite ... is the key to a beautiful love story.
So ... don’t bother to understand anything, but to feel and enjoy your fairy tale!
Adrian G Dumitru
48
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
“Have you ever done anything for us?!” ... she asked. “Let me answear for you ... You’ve done NOTHING”. ...he replies
“I’ve done NOTHING ... but i loved you a lot. Isn’t that enough?!”
Jumping from where we are today, to where we want to be into the future, trying to redefine completely our love story, we come up with a very long list of things that we need to change so that the relationship will become a better version of what it is.
And changing the script looks like a good plan.
Discussing with the partner, the new way in how the story will continue to look like ...we see again the hope and maybe the joy of being togheter.
But inside of us we only have one simple plan ... jump from being unhappy to being happy ... and we end up only hoping we will not be unhappy anymore. All we see now is agreat love story that has the signs of emotional bankrupcy. Everything is ruined.
And we believe it had happened because we did NOTHING as things to be great again.
If i would ask what had to be done, you would have no answear, because everything happened was that you were blinded by love.
And the day you are blinded by the love from your soul, you spend your days only dreaming and enjoying the love story, but NOTHING else.
It all becomes an obsession, of staying into the love story and not loosing the love story.
Everything you do ...is just living and tasting the story you have togheter.
The past had gone and the future does not exists ... but only the present is real. And the present itself means the beauty of the great story you have togheter. This is why doing NOTHING can be also part of the script, especially if you only focus on living the joy of being a couple, in an unique chapter of your life.
I think that if is real love, and you love a lot your partner, most probably that is enough.
Adrian G Dumitru
49
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
Connection failed.
What is going on with the love story?!
Well ... we want that and that and that.
And things to happen in a certain way, otherwise we will start to complain to the Universe, saying we gave clear specifications ... but things started to be controlled by the chaos and not by the harmony of love.
We don’t understand what is really going on, but in the same time we forgot that instead of composing the long list with desires and expectations, not realising that we live in a world where everything has a beginning, the story itself and then the end ... that there is NOTHING else than the present moment ... we just missed the chance to enjoy the love story.
The story was in our hands, we played the role in the stage, but when fear appeared into the soul, the magic just disappeared.
And after the connection failed ... the story is not a story anymore.
We start to think a lot, what happened, why everything is lost, why we had everything and actually lost everything .. but can’t see that in a love story you need to use your heart to manage things, but not your mind.
When you have expectations, your brain thinks of scenarios from the real world or from the future ... but the whole meaning of love is just to make you feel alive and NOTHING else.
Just ... no plans, no expectations, no explanations ... no NOTHING ... but enjoy the beauty of what you have.
Because when you feel the joy inside of your soul ... that is the lovely present the Universe gave you ... and there is NOTHING else you need so that you to be happy.
Yeesss ... we look like computers and we have our main software, controlled by our brains ... but when it comes to love and expect as your brain to manage things, instead of letting your heart to do what it really wants to do ... the connection will fail.
Adrian G Dumitru
50
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
The delicious cake ... with poisson.
Looks great ... i’ll take one.
It’s ok! NOTHING bad will happen.
I will only taste it!
We live with the impression that we can control everything around us, even when it comes to love.
And there are stories, difficult to manage, but we like that person a lot ... and we just do it.
We say ... we will do it only one more time ... and that this is the last time. It’s like seeing a delicious cake, and we just love how it looks like and want to taste it one more time.
And even if we know that the relationship is toxic and it will not end ok, we will want to try it one more time.
So ... we actually know that something is going to hurt us, but the beauty of those moments, spent with that person ... let that huge desire of seeing again ... be present all the time.
The delicious cake has poison inside, but looks too great so that we don’t taste a little bit.
And this defines the need of illusions in our lives... or i should say the need of the beautiful illusion of being in love.
