Later on the things change.
As everything to be perfect again we need to have a script, written together ...
with what to say, what to do and how to act.
Otherwise ... small conflicts will appear, and many days in a row with the same situations ... will finally change the dynamic of the relationship.
Statistically we can say that being in love means 99% happiness ... and later on we just continue life togheter, seeing and accepting the fact that we are not happy all the time as we used to be.
Not so many realise that after the period of being in love ... they need to work a lot ... cause everything is just metamorphosed.
Don’t really understand why the things don’t work as they used to be ... and the answear is so simple.
Looks like nothing had changed, but everything is different, and no real explanation can be given.
But the truth is that after being in love, you wake up and can’t understand anymore what being in love really means.
In the past you just knew how to act, what to say, how to connect with the partner ... now you see only the real life and everything around ... but can’t see the magic anymore.
Now everything is just normal ... and boring.
Life without the beauty of real love and magic is not bringing happiness in our souls anymore.
And if we want as things to run in a beautiful way some of us act in a silly artificial way ... pretend to be happy, see the script at others ... do the same and
Adrian G Dumitru
99
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
still nothing happens.
Cause controlling what to say, what to do and how to act ... is an artificial methode of living togheter.
When people are in love ... they do nothing except the fact that they connect to the partener.
Souls being connected ... they just feel the joy of being togheter and become happy.
So forget about control ... just be you ... just connect.
There is NOTHING ELSE you need to do.
Adrian G Dumitru
100
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
The soul mate
We ask for love and we somehow get something similar, in most of the cases.
A date, can becomes soon a relationship.
A relationship might create the idea, even from the begining that is everything we need.
We see the positive side of the story, but we also start to see the imperfections ...
which we already know, maybe from other relationships that we had into the past.
And everything runs ok.
With good and bad things ... just like life is.
And is boring.
We asked for love and we just got a partner ... and we wonder why we are not happy.
We even look that we have the perfect life ... a beautiful home, beautiful kids ...
even a beautiful partner .... but deep inside we feel that we actually dont’t have
what we really, really want.
So .... we asked for love and we got the dogmatic path of living a relationship ...
with everything that means.
We did not thought to asked a soulmate.
Or i should say ... the soulmate.
That is a person ideally suited to another as a close friend and romantic partner.
Cause in a relationship with the soulmate of your life you live a love story.
And everything is perfect, even if ... yes ... even if you feel in love ... happy and then lost and unhappy ... and the happy again.
Is somehow part of the story, so that you always remember what happiness means, but happiness is the main definition of the love story.
Knowing to define ... daring to ask and the courage to act on the stage of your own life.
Adrian G Dumitru
101
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
Statistics shows that
we are unhappy ... but we could be
Yes, the truth about the modern society is that lots of people are unhappy. And most of them are people involved into relationships, even long time relationships.
You see ... people fall in love, start a relationship and end up being unhappy ...
which is weird.
It’s like starting a business and know that not after a long time, you will fail ...
and be bankrupt.
But you know, even small businessmen are studying what business is about, get involved a lot, make smaller or bigger business plans and try to apply all those things into the business they have.
But almost all the unhappy people, if you ask themselves to define why they are unhappy, or if they ever tryed to just redefine their relationship so that could be again a love story ... will give almost no answear, or if they answear they will explain to you for hours why the partner is not bringing the happiness inside their relationship.
Unhappy people don’t even read articles over internet about what is the unhappiness, or how to save a relationship. They just live the unhappiness.
Real love is about connecting the partner’s energies, and form a new entity called ... the couple.
That new energy is the one that brings the happiness, the unhappiness and everything else comes from there.
To be happy while being involved into a relationship, is like wanting to be in good physical condition all the time.
You will need to be aware of what you eat, what you drink, go to the gym and respect a clear schedule for that all the time.
And after few months you can easily see the results.
The same in a relationship.
You will need to care, love, smile, spend quality time togheter and even keep a statistics of what happens everyday ... defining if was bad, ok, good or excelent.
Adrian G Dumitru
102
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
Defining all the time, once a day what is happening and if you don’t like what you see just redefine ... is a simple first step.
Because being happy is a choice ... but most probably you need a plan for that ...
especially when you are into a relationship.
Dare to redefine everything as a love story.
Adrian G Dumitru
103
As everything to be perfect again we need to have a script, written together ...
with what to say, what to do and how to act.
Otherwise ... small conflicts will appear, and many days in a row with the same situations ... will finally change the dynamic of the relationship.
Statistically we can say that being in love means 99% happiness ... and later on we just continue life togheter, seeing and accepting the fact that we are not happy all the time as we used to be.
Not so many realise that after the period of being in love ... they need to work a lot ... cause everything is just metamorphosed.
Don’t really understand why the things don’t work as they used to be ... and the answear is so simple.
Looks like nothing had changed, but everything is different, and no real explanation can be given.
But the truth is that after being in love, you wake up and can’t understand anymore what being in love really means.
In the past you just knew how to act, what to say, how to connect with the partner ... now you see only the real life and everything around ... but can’t see the magic anymore.
Now everything is just normal ... and boring.
Life without the beauty of real love and magic is not bringing happiness in our souls anymore.
And if we want as things to run in a beautiful way some of us act in a silly artificial way ... pretend to be happy, see the script at others ... do the same and
Adrian G Dumitru
99
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
still nothing happens.
Cause controlling what to say, what to do and how to act ... is an artificial methode of living togheter.
When people are in love ... they do nothing except the fact that they connect to the partener.
Souls being connected ... they just feel the joy of being togheter and become happy.
So forget about control ... just be you ... just connect.
There is NOTHING ELSE you need to do.
Adrian G Dumitru
100
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
The soul mate
We ask for love and we somehow get something similar, in most of the cases.
A date, can becomes soon a relationship.
A relationship might create the idea, even from the begining that is everything we need.
We see the positive side of the story, but we also start to see the imperfections ...
which we already know, maybe from other relationships that we had into the past.
And everything runs ok.
With good and bad things ... just like life is.
And is boring.
We asked for love and we just got a partner ... and we wonder why we are not happy.
We even look that we have the perfect life ... a beautiful home, beautiful kids ...
even a beautiful partner .... but deep inside we feel that we actually dont’t have
what we really, really want.
So .... we asked for love and we got the dogmatic path of living a relationship ...
with everything that means.
We did not thought to asked a soulmate.
Or i should say ... the soulmate.
That is a person ideally suited to another as a close friend and romantic partner.
Cause in a relationship with the soulmate of your life you live a love story.
And everything is perfect, even if ... yes ... even if you feel in love ... happy and then lost and unhappy ... and the happy again.
Is somehow part of the story, so that you always remember what happiness means, but happiness is the main definition of the love story.
Knowing to define ... daring to ask and the courage to act on the stage of your own life.
Adrian G Dumitru
101
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
Statistics shows that
we are unhappy ... but we could be
Yes, the truth about the modern society is that lots of people are unhappy. And most of them are people involved into relationships, even long time relationships.
You see ... people fall in love, start a relationship and end up being unhappy ...
which is weird.
It’s like starting a business and know that not after a long time, you will fail ...
and be bankrupt.
But you know, even small businessmen are studying what business is about, get involved a lot, make smaller or bigger business plans and try to apply all those things into the business they have.
But almost all the unhappy people, if you ask themselves to define why they are unhappy, or if they ever tryed to just redefine their relationship so that could be again a love story ... will give almost no answear, or if they answear they will explain to you for hours why the partner is not bringing the happiness inside their relationship.
Unhappy people don’t even read articles over internet about what is the unhappiness, or how to save a relationship. They just live the unhappiness.
Real love is about connecting the partner’s energies, and form a new entity called ... the couple.
That new energy is the one that brings the happiness, the unhappiness and everything else comes from there.
To be happy while being involved into a relationship, is like wanting to be in good physical condition all the time.
You will need to be aware of what you eat, what you drink, go to the gym and respect a clear schedule for that all the time.
And after few months you can easily see the results.
The same in a relationship.
You will need to care, love, smile, spend quality time togheter and even keep a statistics of what happens everyday ... defining if was bad, ok, good or excelent.
Adrian G Dumitru
102
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
Defining all the time, once a day what is happening and if you don’t like what you see just redefine ... is a simple first step.
Because being happy is a choice ... but most probably you need a plan for that ...
especially when you are into a relationship.
Dare to redefine everything as a love story.
Adrian G Dumitru
103
