I heard that there are people that have a divorce party with all their friends. First time i heard that ... i laugh, then i understood that saying “Good bye!” with an opened heart is very important, so that you really close that story and be ready for the next story.
Letting the silence begin in your soul and enjoying the show of perfect harmony in your heart is the way you need to prepare yourself for a new chapter from your life.
When you feel that is time to say “Good bye!” ... just smile ... and embrace what happens at that time ... cause everything happens for a reason.
Adrian G Dumitru
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PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
Sit on the Castle roof and Enjoy the show
The meaning of life is to understand that we are the infinite.
We do not see the infinite, but we know that it exists.
But just knowing is not enough ... feeling it is everything.
The mind, with all our thoughts, is playing around with us .. and we start reading books, watch documentary movies ... meditates ... and one day we even believe that had understood what the infinite is.
And the Universe is laughing seeing all those thoughts we have.
We cannot see that discovering what life is about we need to forget about the illusion of the self.
Need to delete from our minds and souls the dreams, the desires, the anger ...
and everything has to do with what is defined as ... us.
Will we do this process just as a monk ... staying and meditating about the
infinite?
NEVER
And this is the moment the Universe is starting to give us some very difficult lessons.
To remove from your mental structure the illusion of the self, you need to get the idea that the meaning of the illusion is to see that the desillusion is only a life lesson ... so that you start the process of awakening. Love is a way in how you can understand the infinite.
Your soul will be fulfilled with very strong emotions, but the Ego will also generate lots of expectation.
In a love story 1+1 is not equal 2.
NEVER. Cause love is not math.
Living the chapter of the love story, having moments when you feel and enjoy the infinite ... is a real interesting time.
But the Ego wants more and more. And comes with all kinds of expectations ...
and in the end that will hurt a lot.
Real love ... the infinite love ... is the story where you just love and enjoy what you have togheter ... but ask NOTHING in return.
Adrian G Dumitru
14
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
Just love ... and if you have chemistry, real connection .... the infinite love will
come to your soul ... you will feel it, even if you are not with that person near you.
Loving, without saying “You are mine!” is the beginning of seeing what the infinite is about.
But as long as in the story, the parters are saying:
“I want this”
“I dream this”
“I don’t want this”
“I have these expectations” etc etc etc
.... as long as you say “I” and don’t use the concept of “us” ... “we” ... the new
entity formed by the 2 persons being in the story ... and the egoism and vanity is still present between you ... it’s all an illusion.
And the end of any illusion ... when the truth is revealed ... is a desillusion ... that hurts a lot.
It will break you in millions of tiny pieces.
And it will take you a huge time to recover and meet yourself again. Why?!
Cause you was limited of seeing in the story just yourself ... you dreams, your desires ... and everything had to do ... only with you ... but did not saw what the couple means.
Togheter you formed the infinite.
And the storm is coming into your life.
It will be very difficult to watch it from the roof of your Castle ... and just enjoy the show only as a spectator in your own life.
That will be the moment when there will be NOTHING to do ... but understand
that the illusion was generated by you ... and the desillusion is just a lesson that
teaches a new way you should see life.
Dare to love without expectations!
This is the moment when you will feel the infinite!
Adrian G Dumitru
15
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
If you want a happy ending it’s all about where you stop telling the story
I never heard about a poet that wrote love poems ... and died happy.
I actually think that only the unhappiness mixed with the illusion of happiness, inspired all the poets, from the whole world and from all the times ... write all the great poems.
I mean ... can’t write something deep ... without having a huge desire inside of you.
Imposible love is the one that makes the poet, the writer, the painter, the sculptor
... and all the artists create great works.
And you cannot be an artist ... a great one ... without a muse in your life.
A simple relationship cannot satisfy an artist, that will just run away ... searching for an imposible love story.
It needs to be a great story, but also imposible.
The imposible makes the desire stronger and in those moments of madness ...
the art is revealed in different shapes, depending of the artist.
The artist can die happy only because of his great work, but not because of the love story itself.
But an artist sees the love in a much different way ... much deeper.
Read the biographies of different artists and you will see those magnificent love stories ... but imposible ones ...were stories that ruined their souls.
And in those moments, they wrote the greatest poems in the world ... the ones that we read even from school ... they painted the paintings we can see at Louvre Museum ... or wrote the script for a magnificent movie ... and the list of examples in huge.
But don’t think that any of them ... had the perfect relationship, with the perfect partner ... and everything was peaches and cream. The great love story was there ... part of their lives.
Part of the story was lived in the real life and part of the story was lived in their souls.
Adrian G Dumitru
16
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
In the end is just as Luke Edison said “If you want a happy ending, it’s all about where you stop telling the story”.
The story itself ended ...mostly not ok in the real life ... but it remain a great story in their souls and just everything was metamorphosed into a great art work. We all have a talent at something and same as a great artist we should use the power generated by the love story ... as a fuel to become better us ... or maybe i should say ... us.
The love story is NOTHING than redescovering us.
Adrian G Dumitru
17
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
Being in a prison in Genoa, Italy, promising
God he will never steal again.
A real story about stolen hearts
A young handsome guy, the idol of many beautiful ladies, was in jail in Genoa,
Italy ... for being a thief.
He was very mad.
One day, he understood that only God could help him go out of the prison sooner, and started to pray.
And he prayed for many days in a row ... and then he continued for weeks.
One day, when he was praying God appeared and asked him:
“What can i do for you my son?!”
“God ... i beg you ... take me out of this prison and i promise you ... i will never steal in my life”
And God replies ... “Are you sure about this?!”
The handsome guy say “Yes God ... i promise you, i will never do that again... but just take me out”
God smiled to him and said “Ok my son. I will do this for you, but in case you will do it again, i will steal from you what you love most in life”. Soon after, the guy went out of jail.
He was so, so happy being free again.
He stoped stealing from other people and became an important businessman in his town.
Everything was ok cause he never stole since he left Genoa.
But there is a saying ... a thief is just a thief and will die as a thief.
Lots of ladies loved him, and he always was stealing there hearts, forgetting about the understanding he had with God.
God forgave him again and again for many, many years ... till one day when he sent a guy to steal the heart of his wife.
She was falling in love with that guy and could not forget him no matter what he was doing.
The love story continued for months and the guy was appearing and disappearing
again and again and again.
And was doing this for months.
Adrian G Dumitru
18
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
Situation became even worst ... his wife told him the truth ..that she is in love and can’t stop loving that guy.
But the guy ... was not stealing her for real ... he was only taking her for short times and then he was taking her back. He only wanted her heart and her soul.
... NOTHING else.
It was almost as a curse, till the ex prisoner from Genoa remembered his understanding with God, that he needed stop stealing.
But you know ... there are many ways to steal and many ways in how we can act stupid in life, pretending we are playing in the right way, but we cannot fool God. Respect the laws of the Universe and NOTHING bad will happen to you. Play around with the Universe ... and the reply will hurt you a lot.
Adrian G Dumitru
19
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
The illusion of being in love and the need
of lies so that we believe we are happy
In the book “Think and grow rich” that is considered as being the Bible of personal development, Napoleon Hills wrote a whole chapter about the importance of sex in the life of successful people.
You will be surprised about this connection between sex and success, but if you study the life of very successful people, you will see that they were involved in many sexual scandals.
Study Bill Clinton for example, but in the end you will understand why he asked his friends “What should i do with all those beautiful ladies that are coming into my arms?!”.
But this was a question Clinton asked in 1980 when his success started to appear.
Today, the question is asked not only by men, but also by women.
For a lady is very easy today to start a love affair.
Just having a public profile on social media, posting all the time beautiful photos with her ... men will understand from the frequency of her posts that she is or she is not available for a new relationship. The love stories are starting a new era.
The only rule is that the story is not anymore a story as Romeo and Juliet, but a story of infinite love ... lived for only a very short time.
The absolute partner, the one that was present in our lives for a life time ...
honest ... with real love and care for us is now very volatile.
It can last for a year ... but it can also be just a story for few months only.
We live times of the death of absolute symbols from our lives.
And maybe we should only accept God as an absolute value for us.
But we never think of God or the rules of the Universe.
We are unhappy and we would do anything to be happy ... but we fail again. We fail .. only because we look for the illusory love stories and don’t look for honest people.
We want someone to daily lie ourselves that infinitely loves us ... instead of a honest partner that is present on the timeline anytime ... in good times and bad times also.
Adrian G Dumitru
20
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
We just prefer a beautiful lie.
And we end up living ... NOTHING ... than a lie, because we need lies ... just to illusory think ... we are happy.
Dare to redefine your desires ... your whole life.
Try to look not for illusions ... no matter how beautiful they are ... but for honest people.
They are the only one that can really make you feel the beauty of life, even if you believe that reality near them is sometimes boring.
Adrian G Dumitru
21
PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
“I know what you’ve done last summer!” The moment when you need to accept that the love
story was only an illusion.
The Bible says that everything is an illusion.
All the religions says the same.
Philosophy also.
A priest will not speak about illusions, but when people are coming to them for help, the priest is defining the illusion without mentioning it, but only the way life should change in as a better reality.
A philosopher is telling everybody that everything we see is only an illusion and if you take the illusion as something real, not recognizing what it really is, in the end it will all become a desillusion.
But the difference between a real priest and a philosopher is that the first one refuses to taste the illusions of life, but the second one is tasting from all the illusions life can offer ... just to understand better what is all about.
But even the illusion that we can enjoy the illusion and believe we are stronger than it .... is only a lie.
Actually ... a philosopher even he is knows the truth about what is life about, still want to enjoy it.
It is the believe that ... we should give it a try and see if maybe ... this theory is wrong.
The priest has a dogmatic thinking.
He will accept the theory just as it is.
But the philosopher, studying and studying again ... just can’t accept the things as they were presented to him.
After reading thousands of books, he thinks he is smarter than all the other philosophers from the past.
And one day the Universe starts to laugh of his ideas.
A beautiful lady appears in the life of the silly philosopher.
He falls in love.
She falls in love.
They have an infinite connection togheter.
Adrian G Dumitru
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PHILOSOPHY OF NOTHING
Had everything, but I actually had nothing ...had nothing, but I actually had everything
He starts to believe in a new theory, that if it is infinite connection ... then is not an illusion, but an absolute value from their lives ... just as God is.
And the Universe is again laughing hearing this theory, but let the chapter of the love story goes on.
The story between the philosopher and the beautiful lady continues for months, till one day when he finds out that she cheated on him not once ... but twice ... with a friend of her and also with one of his friend.
