The question is why we dont know to play all in ... for our lifes?!
Just like in poker.
If i would try to define this ... i would say that we are not brave enough ... and if scenario 1 is not working at least scenario 2 will work ... scenario 2 being a silly one ... something a little bit much better as nothing.
In life there is nothing to loose ... except our souls ... and we know it, but again we are too silly to apply those principles.
Guys ... life is too short for a mediocre scenario ... just be brave enough to play as a hero on the stage of your times.
Adrian G Dumitru
102
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
SHOOT ANOTHER DOUBLE
Your life is not looking as you wanted to look like?!
In psyhology there is a nice theory explaining that at the end of the day you should review the whole day, analyze what you dont like and rescript everything just as you wanted as things to happen.
Well ... theory is very easy to understand ... now lets practice!!
So lets beging ... you dislike being married?! ... taking care if the things and all
the other things that familly needs?!
Have you ever thought of shooting another double?!
Imagine you are then movie director and also the scenarist of you life story ...
just for a second.... so ... how should you redefine everything?!
Everything you need to do is just to understand the concept of timeline... that
there is a time to go to the kindergarten ... there is a time to going to schoool ...
a time for getting a job ... and the time of being a familist etc etc.
Is it a difficult task?! Well ... was school easy?! Would you go to school again?! ...
Of course NOT.
But you still have a chance.
Life is beatiful and every moment from our life should make us feel happy.
So ... bottom line you ve got 2 choices: you shoot another double and try to be happy at home or start a love affair.
Meaning of life is to feel the joy of being alive.
Adrian G Dumitru
103
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
WE ARE IN LOVE WITH IMPOSSIBLE
THINGS AND SITUATIONS
Life is easy ... we certainlly make it complicated.
We just love imposible things and situations.
There is no limit where we can decide to say is enough and stop.
The human mind is enjoying the game of more and ... more becomes NO LIMIT ... and here we are on the way to nowhere.
On this road we think we are on an important mission ... an impossible one.
The only 2 things in life that can make us stop are: A TRAGEDY or A LOVE STORY. In that point, our vision is changed completly but probably just the luckiest ones receive the chance of real love story.
Life should be enjoyed with everything it has to offer us. The joy of living should be part of our life scenario everyday ... but is not ... we really have a very big empty whole inside of us ... which only love can fullfill.
But what if try to understand better your life, define very clear where you are and where you want to be and the road to “that happy point” should be just a lovelly journey.
So ... start to forget complicated impossible things ... life is easy and too beautifull to be lived as a struggle.
Adrian G Dumitru
104
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
THINK AS A SURFER
We spend our lifes in a dogmatic way most of the time.
We go to school, then we get a job, then we get marry and then we stay inside a prison and forget that there are so many ways in how we can find doors that will open new worlds for us ... where we can feel free spirits again. We ve been learned to be defined by others.
The rules of the society ... are the ones that runs everything happens in our lifes. Time is passing ... sometimes strange things are happening and we still apply the dogmatic way of thinking.
If you learn the art of redefining yourself ... which means you just connect directlly your soul to The Universe and use your intuition to do only what your soul tells you to do ... you will be in a much better position.
A surfer is not trying to master the wave, but to as John Kabat says “You cant stop the waves, but you can learn to suft”.
Learning the laws of the Universe and living with joy any moment from your life ... is the right path to continue life.
Think as a surfer!
Adrian G Dumitru
105
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
LIFE DEFINED AS A CAGE
Time is passing, but we still feel trapped in a cage.
The cage has so many form ... sometime can be even a palace ... but still ... a cage is a cage.
We are living as a bird ... in a cage.
Too ugly and powerfull this term.
One day ... someone comes and opens the door.
For a short time we become free again, but then we come back to the cage and close the door again.
We feel safe in there, but outside we can fly and feel the joy of being alive. Somehow we need to define what is more important ... to be safe or to be free and happy.
Ther is a saying ... “A ship in harbor is safe but that’s not what ships are built for” The same ... a soul must decide not to live in a cage.
If you are brave enough... just fly with the person that opened the door of the cage ... and never get back.
Is just a choice .... but the problem is that ... THE PRISON IS YOU.
Adrian G Dumitru
106
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
THE END
How do you cure yourself when an inevitable end is coming?!
You keep the good memories, see everything as a life experience and start a new chapter.
It is quite complicated to understand and accept that a love story can have an end.
Seeing it just as a life experience is quite unacceptable.
But the whole meaning of life is to have experiences.
We weren’t born to have a carrier, make money eyc etc, but to gather experiences and understand life through those lessons.
Of course it will be difficult to end the love story, but if end had come it means that is not the path you need to follow in life.
You need to let everything come by itself and see that other lesssons are waiting for you.
I know is painfull, but you need to see that your happiness must not be dependent of the presence of a specific person in your life.
You are an individual and a soul. ... and the infinite is inside of you.
Sometimes, a love story is coming into your life just to cure your broken soul and make you realise that happiness is not a fantasy and can come to you too.
I am not saying that in the end you need to add some make up to the love story, so that it looks fabulous in your mind and soul .... but keeping the good memories and let the life go on ... might be a good path to follow.
Define the end as a new begining, but dont let the end define you.
Adrian G Dumitru
107
Just like in poker.
If i would try to define this ... i would say that we are not brave enough ... and if scenario 1 is not working at least scenario 2 will work ... scenario 2 being a silly one ... something a little bit much better as nothing.
In life there is nothing to loose ... except our souls ... and we know it, but again we are too silly to apply those principles.
Guys ... life is too short for a mediocre scenario ... just be brave enough to play as a hero on the stage of your times.
Adrian G Dumitru
102
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
SHOOT ANOTHER DOUBLE
Your life is not looking as you wanted to look like?!
In psyhology there is a nice theory explaining that at the end of the day you should review the whole day, analyze what you dont like and rescript everything just as you wanted as things to happen.
Well ... theory is very easy to understand ... now lets practice!!
So lets beging ... you dislike being married?! ... taking care if the things and all
the other things that familly needs?!
Have you ever thought of shooting another double?!
Imagine you are then movie director and also the scenarist of you life story ...
just for a second.... so ... how should you redefine everything?!
Everything you need to do is just to understand the concept of timeline... that
there is a time to go to the kindergarten ... there is a time to going to schoool ...
a time for getting a job ... and the time of being a familist etc etc.
Is it a difficult task?! Well ... was school easy?! Would you go to school again?! ...
Of course NOT.
But you still have a chance.
Life is beatiful and every moment from our life should make us feel happy.
So ... bottom line you ve got 2 choices: you shoot another double and try to be happy at home or start a love affair.
Meaning of life is to feel the joy of being alive.
Adrian G Dumitru
103
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
WE ARE IN LOVE WITH IMPOSSIBLE
THINGS AND SITUATIONS
Life is easy ... we certainlly make it complicated.
We just love imposible things and situations.
There is no limit where we can decide to say is enough and stop.
The human mind is enjoying the game of more and ... more becomes NO LIMIT ... and here we are on the way to nowhere.
On this road we think we are on an important mission ... an impossible one.
The only 2 things in life that can make us stop are: A TRAGEDY or A LOVE STORY. In that point, our vision is changed completly but probably just the luckiest ones receive the chance of real love story.
Life should be enjoyed with everything it has to offer us. The joy of living should be part of our life scenario everyday ... but is not ... we really have a very big empty whole inside of us ... which only love can fullfill.
But what if try to understand better your life, define very clear where you are and where you want to be and the road to “that happy point” should be just a lovelly journey.
So ... start to forget complicated impossible things ... life is easy and too beautifull to be lived as a struggle.
Adrian G Dumitru
104
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
THINK AS A SURFER
We spend our lifes in a dogmatic way most of the time.
We go to school, then we get a job, then we get marry and then we stay inside a prison and forget that there are so many ways in how we can find doors that will open new worlds for us ... where we can feel free spirits again. We ve been learned to be defined by others.
The rules of the society ... are the ones that runs everything happens in our lifes. Time is passing ... sometimes strange things are happening and we still apply the dogmatic way of thinking.
If you learn the art of redefining yourself ... which means you just connect directlly your soul to The Universe and use your intuition to do only what your soul tells you to do ... you will be in a much better position.
A surfer is not trying to master the wave, but to as John Kabat says “You cant stop the waves, but you can learn to suft”.
Learning the laws of the Universe and living with joy any moment from your life ... is the right path to continue life.
Think as a surfer!
Adrian G Dumitru
105
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
LIFE DEFINED AS A CAGE
Time is passing, but we still feel trapped in a cage.
The cage has so many form ... sometime can be even a palace ... but still ... a cage is a cage.
We are living as a bird ... in a cage.
Too ugly and powerfull this term.
One day ... someone comes and opens the door.
For a short time we become free again, but then we come back to the cage and close the door again.
We feel safe in there, but outside we can fly and feel the joy of being alive. Somehow we need to define what is more important ... to be safe or to be free and happy.
Ther is a saying ... “A ship in harbor is safe but that’s not what ships are built for” The same ... a soul must decide not to live in a cage.
If you are brave enough... just fly with the person that opened the door of the cage ... and never get back.
Is just a choice .... but the problem is that ... THE PRISON IS YOU.
Adrian G Dumitru
106
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
THE END
How do you cure yourself when an inevitable end is coming?!
You keep the good memories, see everything as a life experience and start a new chapter.
It is quite complicated to understand and accept that a love story can have an end.
Seeing it just as a life experience is quite unacceptable.
But the whole meaning of life is to have experiences.
We weren’t born to have a carrier, make money eyc etc, but to gather experiences and understand life through those lessons.
Of course it will be difficult to end the love story, but if end had come it means that is not the path you need to follow in life.
You need to let everything come by itself and see that other lesssons are waiting for you.
I know is painfull, but you need to see that your happiness must not be dependent of the presence of a specific person in your life.
You are an individual and a soul. ... and the infinite is inside of you.
Sometimes, a love story is coming into your life just to cure your broken soul and make you realise that happiness is not a fantasy and can come to you too.
I am not saying that in the end you need to add some make up to the love story, so that it looks fabulous in your mind and soul .... but keeping the good memories and let the life go on ... might be a good path to follow.
Define the end as a new begining, but dont let the end define you.
Adrian G Dumitru
107
