Try to remember a moment of depressi on from years ago and you will understand that your life must not be runned by desires. This might be the key you are looking .
Adrian G Dumitru
13
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
THE EMOTIONAL FACTORY
When you live the day that gives you happiness, anger, joy, anxienty ... a cocktail of different feelings ... all caused by the same person ... it means you just met your real love.
It might sound as a disaster, the fact that you just became a factory of very powerfull emotions, but remember that the infinity is everything.
Definition of being in love means to have ALL your heart can feel.
The meaning of life is to feel the joy of living and sometimes the heart sees what is invisible to the eye ... so let your emotional factory do whatever wants.
Adrian G Dumitru
14
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
THE SOUL – A MIX OF SOMETHING GOOD,
SOMETHING BAD AND SOMETHING DIRTY
We accepted to belong to the society and be what the society is.
But we dont feel well.
To feel well, you need to clean your soul.
It is a long, long process, but in the end it might be the best thing that could ever happened to you.
How you clean your soul?!
Is simple. Just accept that the soul on the stange of life is a mix of something good, something bad and something dirty.
Try to observe you and after understanding your behavior in the real life just decide to become a better self.
It might take longer that you expect things to happen, but the reason we are here is because we must discover ourself and follow the evolution of the soul.
So observe yourself, accept yourself and decide which one is the version should
play on the timeline of your life.
Is just a choice.
Adrian G Dumitru
15
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
WHY WE LOOSE OUR MINDS?!
Most of the times, what we call reality, is not what we have in mind to see.
Life happens to us.... life does not happen for us.
We decide to use alchol, drogs, multiple sexual relationships, make more and more money, buy expensive things, etc etc ... just to forget that we are unhappy. But we end waking up, day by day, with the same ugly feelings. We dont feel the joy of living... and no joy at all.
The answear?!
There is a reason things are happening in the way they are happening and most of the time we dont understand clearlly what the Universe wants for us.
We need to redefine the way we see life, forget about controlling every minute and not loose our minds cause things are not happening the way we want them to happen.
If you dont know how lucky you are, make a list with all the things you have that money cant buy.
Then enjoy all those things.
Dont try to control life ... just enjoy it!
Adrian G Dumitru
16
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
WE … THE PEOPLE … BELONG TO
THE SOCIETY FOR 100%
We used to think that we live in a free world, but now more and more we need to follow certain rules that the government is asking us to follow.
We need to stay in our homes, wear face masks etc etc... things that we did not used to do and dont do them with pleasure anyway.
The government represents now the agent that makes all the rules in society, and we .... the people must follow everything, just as we reveive the instructions. So living in a society means following the rules for all of us.
But these were the rules 2000 years ago too ... so why we discuss about this subject?!
Yes indeed... but dont forget that in the end we are individual souls.
Whatever is happening in the actual situation we need to remember about us all the time ... cause even if the human being belongs to the society, our spirit belongs only to us.
In spirituality means never forget to come back to your soul ... stay there and dont loose yourself.
Adrian G Dumitru
17
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
WHY WE BLOCK OTHERS?!
It says that life is just just a mirror of our soul.
Sometimes we just have experiences that we dislike or meet people that we dont want to see anymore.
Everything you see is just a reflection ... and we would like ... simple to break the mirror.
But ? .... the mirror cant be braken.
Experiences are difficult to remove from the reality, but using the block button, all those persons that we dislike can .... just .... dissapear.
Dont be afraid ... is nothing wrong in this ... you ... as a human being ... have the right to delete any person you think is toxic for you.
Adrian G Dumitru
18
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
DO YOU STLL BELIEVE
IN FAIRY TALES?!
No ... most probably this is the answear for the most of us.
We had this strong ability to dream .... when we were kids ...and somehow,
without realising, we stop believing in fairy tales.
When we were teenagers ... the love ... let us still dream ... but again we lost this ability again.
Years are passing, one by one ...we become stronger .... but completlly forget to
dream and to love.
Sometimes the love and the dream ... becomes one entity ... but who we
became?!
Someone that is not even ...dare to think of love.
For all the ones that are not believing anymore in fairy tales... i tell you only one
thing .... let your heart love again and ... miracles will appear in your life.
Adrian G Dumitru
19
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
THE SILLY GAMES OF LIFE
We play silly on the timeline of our lives.
We dont have the gut to act moral ... to have a clean personality ... and most of the times we afraid not to win the silly things we dream for.
We have silly interests ... but we end up acting strange ... and not moral.
But is you ... so dont be ashame of you. Bad or good does not exists ... is just a different version of you on the timeline of becoming a better version.
To have a moral personality u must go throw different stanges ... and stage no 1 is to accept that dirty, silly games really exists and are part of begining to become a better you.
Play on the stage of life ... and act normal!!
Adrian G Dumitru
20
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
YOU KNOW … IN LIFE NOT
EVERYTHING HAPPENS AS WE PLAN
There is a very difficult question in phisolophy and that is witch one appeared first: religion or morality?!
Accordinglly to morality rules ... you are not allowed to have relationships with other partners, but in real life those things can happen.
Is this love ... a love in the mod?!... or just an accident?!
There is also another philosophy that in reality there is no bad or good ... but everything, in fact, happens for a reason.
Being in love with someone else, when in fact you are in another relationship ...
means you dont find yourself in there.
You need someone else to take you out of the toxic story you are in.
Being in love of someone else, when you are married, is not bad ... can heal your relationship or can take you out ... and make you be happy again.
We have ... as human beings ... the right to be happy ... so dont bother judging us anymore.
Adrian G Dumitru
21
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
DECIDE TO DREAM .. AND BE THE
BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF
I like a guy witch was a monk for 6 years and now he s a motivational speaker.
One of the best in the world.
One day ... i asked a close friend, who is friend of him ... hey ... how could i become as Jay Shetty?!
He replyed ... i dont know for sure ... but what i can tell u is that ... u could just decide to be u.
Being ourself means to be authentic.... means having the courage to be ... just
you.
This is why we all are diffent in this world ... but to come with different contribution and bring values that others cant bring.
Decide to dream ... to be the best version of yourself!
Adrian G Dumitru
22
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
OUR EXPECTATIONS HURT US MOST
We go on the timeline of our life, having goals and dreams .... expecting in the
optimistic points as life to act nice to us and seeing everything being distroyed in our faces ... when we deal with anxiety and depresion.
Every movement of each plannet.... of each star ... or any day from a life of the
unimportant person from the world ... has a purpose.
We are most of the times hurt only by our expections.
Take everything just as it is.
Everything has a reason why is happening ... so dont be upset ... smile ... and enjoy your life.
Expections are only the illutions of our Ego.
Dont fool yourself!
Adrian G Dumitru
23
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
OPENER OF DOORS
The Universe is showing new doors to us everyday.
Life is like a labirint. You will see the opened doors, but you need to choose witch path you take.
Sometimes it does not make sense the fact that we dont succed to go in the directions we want ... but need to understand that the Univers knows better the way.
Some beatiful paths cant be discovered without getting lost, and also old way of thinking will not show you new doors.
But take every situation just as it is and smile.
Life is beautiful only if you know to play, just as a child.
Be an opened mind and an opener of new doors!!
Adrian G Dumitru
24
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
THE POWER AND THE STORY OF A LIKE
People are looking all the time for appreciation from other people.
What is happening is that when you start to be appreciated by people you dislike , or they dislike you, it starts a procces of reevaluation of the whole situation.
I had been involved in many situations over the years and had to deal with thousands of people.
Some of them became good friends of mine, but with some i started conflicts that we did not had the power to close.
In the last 6 months i understood that i need to reevalute all those relationships. Having those people on my facebook account, i honestlly liked some of their posts... not all of them ... just few likes ... and magic happened. I had accidentlly met them on street, or had
a phone call conversations with them ... and it was like i just spoke with good friends that i love to talk with.
It was really incredible ... i could not believe it ... it was like we applied a very strong medicine to cure our relationships.
But one day something strange happened.
A very nice lady that i had in my facebook list posted an insta story that i saw in facebook messanger.
It was a motivational post saying that nothing happens by accident ... and a gave like to the post.
For some unknown reason for me, her husband disliked me by many, many years ... and what i did in the last 6 months ... i just liked some of her posts... maybe one from 3 or 4.
One hour after i liked the insta story ... the lady wrote me in messanger, politely asking me why do i laugh.
Now if you give a like .... it means you like that post or you laugh at that post?!
Did not knew what to answear right away, but we started to chat ... and it was really inappropriate that i had a so long discussion with the wife of a guy thar hated me by years.
Adrian G Dumitru
25
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
The Universe is playing games with us sometimes ... and i dont even know how we started a love story .... it was real magnetism between the 2 of us .... a love story just lije in movies.
I will not mention the whole scene ... but at one point her husband and my wife found out ... and were amazed that everything started from a simple like.
What i want to say is that the like has a strong power nowadays... and you must be aware of how you use it, but also how you see the interpretation of it.
We live in a world where we go to fancy coffee shops and stay on our phones reading, liking and watching all the time who appreciate our posts ... instead of enjoying the coffee and like the real stories people tells us in the coffee shop. ... and the LIKES are running our lives drom shaddow.
Adrian G Dumitru
26
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
JUST ONE MORE TIME
An alcohic sees a bottle of beer or wine ... or scotch ... and says ... this is the last time.
A drug addicted person ... is living the same story ... again and again and again.
But is the love addiction exists?! Is it something real?!
Well ... yes.
What happens when you meet again that person that you loved a lot ... but somehow the Universe stopped your story?!
What happens when you say ... just one more time?!
Enjoying the love story is one of the most wonderfull thing you can do in this life.
Say NOT AGAIN ... HELL NO!
Just feel free to do whatever you want with your heart.
Adrian G Dumitru
13
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
THE EMOTIONAL FACTORY
When you live the day that gives you happiness, anger, joy, anxienty ... a cocktail of different feelings ... all caused by the same person ... it means you just met your real love.
It might sound as a disaster, the fact that you just became a factory of very powerfull emotions, but remember that the infinity is everything.
Definition of being in love means to have ALL your heart can feel.
The meaning of life is to feel the joy of living and sometimes the heart sees what is invisible to the eye ... so let your emotional factory do whatever wants.
Adrian G Dumitru
14
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
THE SOUL – A MIX OF SOMETHING GOOD,
SOMETHING BAD AND SOMETHING DIRTY
We accepted to belong to the society and be what the society is.
But we dont feel well.
To feel well, you need to clean your soul.
It is a long, long process, but in the end it might be the best thing that could ever happened to you.
How you clean your soul?!
Is simple. Just accept that the soul on the stange of life is a mix of something good, something bad and something dirty.
Try to observe you and after understanding your behavior in the real life just decide to become a better self.
It might take longer that you expect things to happen, but the reason we are here is because we must discover ourself and follow the evolution of the soul.
So observe yourself, accept yourself and decide which one is the version should
play on the timeline of your life.
Is just a choice.
Adrian G Dumitru
15
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
WHY WE LOOSE OUR MINDS?!
Most of the times, what we call reality, is not what we have in mind to see.
Life happens to us.... life does not happen for us.
We decide to use alchol, drogs, multiple sexual relationships, make more and more money, buy expensive things, etc etc ... just to forget that we are unhappy. But we end waking up, day by day, with the same ugly feelings. We dont feel the joy of living... and no joy at all.
The answear?!
There is a reason things are happening in the way they are happening and most of the time we dont understand clearlly what the Universe wants for us.
We need to redefine the way we see life, forget about controlling every minute and not loose our minds cause things are not happening the way we want them to happen.
If you dont know how lucky you are, make a list with all the things you have that money cant buy.
Then enjoy all those things.
Dont try to control life ... just enjoy it!
Adrian G Dumitru
16
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
WE … THE PEOPLE … BELONG TO
THE SOCIETY FOR 100%
We used to think that we live in a free world, but now more and more we need to follow certain rules that the government is asking us to follow.
We need to stay in our homes, wear face masks etc etc... things that we did not used to do and dont do them with pleasure anyway.
The government represents now the agent that makes all the rules in society, and we .... the people must follow everything, just as we reveive the instructions. So living in a society means following the rules for all of us.
But these were the rules 2000 years ago too ... so why we discuss about this subject?!
Yes indeed... but dont forget that in the end we are individual souls.
Whatever is happening in the actual situation we need to remember about us all the time ... cause even if the human being belongs to the society, our spirit belongs only to us.
In spirituality means never forget to come back to your soul ... stay there and dont loose yourself.
Adrian G Dumitru
17
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
WHY WE BLOCK OTHERS?!
It says that life is just just a mirror of our soul.
Sometimes we just have experiences that we dislike or meet people that we dont want to see anymore.
Everything you see is just a reflection ... and we would like ... simple to break the mirror.
But ? .... the mirror cant be braken.
Experiences are difficult to remove from the reality, but using the block button, all those persons that we dislike can .... just .... dissapear.
Dont be afraid ... is nothing wrong in this ... you ... as a human being ... have the right to delete any person you think is toxic for you.
Adrian G Dumitru
18
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
DO YOU STLL BELIEVE
IN FAIRY TALES?!
No ... most probably this is the answear for the most of us.
We had this strong ability to dream .... when we were kids ...and somehow,
without realising, we stop believing in fairy tales.
When we were teenagers ... the love ... let us still dream ... but again we lost this ability again.
Years are passing, one by one ...we become stronger .... but completlly forget to
dream and to love.
Sometimes the love and the dream ... becomes one entity ... but who we
became?!
Someone that is not even ...dare to think of love.
For all the ones that are not believing anymore in fairy tales... i tell you only one
thing .... let your heart love again and ... miracles will appear in your life.
Adrian G Dumitru
19
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
THE SILLY GAMES OF LIFE
We play silly on the timeline of our lives.
We dont have the gut to act moral ... to have a clean personality ... and most of the times we afraid not to win the silly things we dream for.
We have silly interests ... but we end up acting strange ... and not moral.
But is you ... so dont be ashame of you. Bad or good does not exists ... is just a different version of you on the timeline of becoming a better version.
To have a moral personality u must go throw different stanges ... and stage no 1 is to accept that dirty, silly games really exists and are part of begining to become a better you.
Play on the stage of life ... and act normal!!
Adrian G Dumitru
20
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
YOU KNOW … IN LIFE NOT
EVERYTHING HAPPENS AS WE PLAN
There is a very difficult question in phisolophy and that is witch one appeared first: religion or morality?!
Accordinglly to morality rules ... you are not allowed to have relationships with other partners, but in real life those things can happen.
Is this love ... a love in the mod?!... or just an accident?!
There is also another philosophy that in reality there is no bad or good ... but everything, in fact, happens for a reason.
Being in love with someone else, when in fact you are in another relationship ...
means you dont find yourself in there.
You need someone else to take you out of the toxic story you are in.
Being in love of someone else, when you are married, is not bad ... can heal your relationship or can take you out ... and make you be happy again.
We have ... as human beings ... the right to be happy ... so dont bother judging us anymore.
Adrian G Dumitru
21
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
DECIDE TO DREAM .. AND BE THE
BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF
I like a guy witch was a monk for 6 years and now he s a motivational speaker.
One of the best in the world.
One day ... i asked a close friend, who is friend of him ... hey ... how could i become as Jay Shetty?!
He replyed ... i dont know for sure ... but what i can tell u is that ... u could just decide to be u.
Being ourself means to be authentic.... means having the courage to be ... just
you.
This is why we all are diffent in this world ... but to come with different contribution and bring values that others cant bring.
Decide to dream ... to be the best version of yourself!
Adrian G Dumitru
22
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
OUR EXPECTATIONS HURT US MOST
We go on the timeline of our life, having goals and dreams .... expecting in the
optimistic points as life to act nice to us and seeing everything being distroyed in our faces ... when we deal with anxiety and depresion.
Every movement of each plannet.... of each star ... or any day from a life of the
unimportant person from the world ... has a purpose.
We are most of the times hurt only by our expections.
Take everything just as it is.
Everything has a reason why is happening ... so dont be upset ... smile ... and enjoy your life.
Expections are only the illutions of our Ego.
Dont fool yourself!
Adrian G Dumitru
23
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
OPENER OF DOORS
The Universe is showing new doors to us everyday.
Life is like a labirint. You will see the opened doors, but you need to choose witch path you take.
Sometimes it does not make sense the fact that we dont succed to go in the directions we want ... but need to understand that the Univers knows better the way.
Some beatiful paths cant be discovered without getting lost, and also old way of thinking will not show you new doors.
But take every situation just as it is and smile.
Life is beautiful only if you know to play, just as a child.
Be an opened mind and an opener of new doors!!
Adrian G Dumitru
24
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
THE POWER AND THE STORY OF A LIKE
People are looking all the time for appreciation from other people.
What is happening is that when you start to be appreciated by people you dislike , or they dislike you, it starts a procces of reevaluation of the whole situation.
I had been involved in many situations over the years and had to deal with thousands of people.
Some of them became good friends of mine, but with some i started conflicts that we did not had the power to close.
In the last 6 months i understood that i need to reevalute all those relationships. Having those people on my facebook account, i honestlly liked some of their posts... not all of them ... just few likes ... and magic happened. I had accidentlly met them on street, or had
a phone call conversations with them ... and it was like i just spoke with good friends that i love to talk with.
It was really incredible ... i could not believe it ... it was like we applied a very strong medicine to cure our relationships.
But one day something strange happened.
A very nice lady that i had in my facebook list posted an insta story that i saw in facebook messanger.
It was a motivational post saying that nothing happens by accident ... and a gave like to the post.
For some unknown reason for me, her husband disliked me by many, many years ... and what i did in the last 6 months ... i just liked some of her posts... maybe one from 3 or 4.
One hour after i liked the insta story ... the lady wrote me in messanger, politely asking me why do i laugh.
Now if you give a like .... it means you like that post or you laugh at that post?!
Did not knew what to answear right away, but we started to chat ... and it was really inappropriate that i had a so long discussion with the wife of a guy thar hated me by years.
Adrian G Dumitru
25
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
The Universe is playing games with us sometimes ... and i dont even know how we started a love story .... it was real magnetism between the 2 of us .... a love story just lije in movies.
I will not mention the whole scene ... but at one point her husband and my wife found out ... and were amazed that everything started from a simple like.
What i want to say is that the like has a strong power nowadays... and you must be aware of how you use it, but also how you see the interpretation of it.
We live in a world where we go to fancy coffee shops and stay on our phones reading, liking and watching all the time who appreciate our posts ... instead of enjoying the coffee and like the real stories people tells us in the coffee shop. ... and the LIKES are running our lives drom shaddow.
Adrian G Dumitru
26
THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
JUST ONE MORE TIME
An alcohic sees a bottle of beer or wine ... or scotch ... and says ... this is the last time.
A drug addicted person ... is living the same story ... again and again and again.
But is the love addiction exists?! Is it something real?!
Well ... yes.
What happens when you meet again that person that you loved a lot ... but somehow the Universe stopped your story?!
What happens when you say ... just one more time?!
Enjoying the love story is one of the most wonderfull thing you can do in this life.
Say NOT AGAIN ... HELL NO!
Just feel free to do whatever you want with your heart.
