We see it ... but we dont want to close that chapter.
We are too stubborns for that.
We dont understand that life has many chapters and lessons to teach us. Coming back into time ... remember high school?!
... most probably it means beautiful memories, but that is a closed chapter of your life.
You dont regret those moments ... caused time passed and you enjoyed other beautiful stories also.
You were unhappy at the end of high school, but college came after with beautiful times.
Then one day the concept of fairy tale appears in your life ... and you have into your mind the illusion that it will never end.
And ... this chapter is also closed ... it hurts a lot .... but you need to go on.
We dont understand the meaning of some people from our life .... but some are
for a reason and some just for a season.
Trust the Universe ... it knows better as you do.
You can define all those chapters, understand the message behind the stories and continue living your life with joy.
The end is just the beginning of something else.
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Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
BEAUTIFUL COLORS
No matter what age you have, maybe you should paint your life into beautiful colors.
Reality can be seen as black and white, but we have so, so many beautiful colors that we dont use to add a little bit of life to our dailly moments.
Enjoying to walk on a street into the old city, drinking a coffee with the person you love, watching a love movie with a happy end ... whatever you do ... just add some colors to what you see.
Most of the time we see reality as something that we dont like ... but redefining the scene into a beautiful way .... which might look like repainting the painting ... but only with beautiful colors.
You can decide to live your life just as it is ... and also be the painter that never paints.
You know to paint ... but you dont paint?!
Have any ideas of how many books with the title “HAPPINESS” appears anually? In the 80’s we had only few ... they were best sellers ... now thousands of books with this title anually ... and everybody is reading about happiness, but probably only few know to redefine their life and live it as a happy one.
Seeing the scene of our life as a painting ... defining and redefining how things are and how you would love to see them ... might be interesting.
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AIR OF THE SOUL
Life does not have a manual.
Well ... there have been written millions of books about this illusory concept, which we call life and even if so many people will tell you what to do with your destiny ... in fact, you are the only one that can define your path.
We have so many moments when we feel the emotion of being lost, and are never brave enough to be honest with us ... and only follow our hearts in everything we do.
We go through life feeling all the time the absence of the air we need for our soul ... and we do nothing about it ... cause we just ignore that the soul exists. The game of defining and redefining life is quit simple. Different rules for all of us.
Different aspects in timeline.
But when you live moments of emptiness ... that is the absense of air for your soul.
How can the air of your soul can be defined?!
For one can be riding a horse, for one racing cars ... traveling into the mountains ... or a love story.
Whatever it is ... just do it if it empowers you.
Is ridiculous that we pay so much attention to what we eat for example.
It says that for being healthy we need to be aware all the time at: the air we breath, the food we eat and the water we drink. But we are so silly to define ourselves as our bodies.
What about our souls ... how do you feed your soul?!
Do you ever think of that?! Do you have the courange to do it?!
Life is beautiful if your soul is happy ... as your soul to be happy ... define for yourself the meaning of “air of the soul”.
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THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
WRITING YOUR THOUGHTS
It is so difficult to define our thoughts.
Today we say something ... tomorrow we want the opposite.
Writing down your thoughts will help you understand the one you ve been yesterday and define why that person was metamorphosed so quicklly into a totally different person.
We need to follow the road that our destiny sends us on ... and just walk though life.
Writing down your ideas, your feelings, even if they are so different from one day to another ... will let you connect better with your soul.
Today is a rainy day ... tomorrow is hot ... but we need to learn the art of feeling the joy that the sun is sending to us and also to dance into the rain. Every moment and every feeling has its beauty.
Keep the journal of your soul ... but dont read it to many people.
Only few wants to see you happy.
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Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
IT’S LIKE A TEST DRIVE
Jumping from the love story to the real life ... well ... short story ... it’s difficult ...
there is no brigde over this huge gap.
Like in any story that involves magic ... weird things are happening but the end is always a happy one.
You will need all the time to pass different tests ... and there will be lots of
moments when you will have no idea what to do.
The ones that sell cars ... came up with this lovelly trick, called test drive.
You fall in love with the car .... you are invited to go for a ride ... and then you
realise the connection you have with the car ... the fact that it defines you ... and
you want it ... and you want it right now.
You will need to pay the price ... and then the car is yours.
Quite simple.
In the love story it’s somehow similar, but also a little bit more difficult ... cause you cannot pay with money this kind of subject.
You will need to pay a diffent price ... to pass different tests ... so that you realise that love is everything and any price you ve been asked to pay ... you will do it ... if your soul says yes.
So ... jump into the magic car ... follow the road of your feelings... and love will come into the real life.
Defining the love stories makes you understand that life is beautiful.
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THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
SENDING A NEW MESSAGE
We live in a world where you can see philosophers everywhere.
Anyone is an expert in defining from sports to political issues ... but only few knows to define and redefine the own life.
And when i say redefine ... i mean changing completlly the script of the life.
For changing life ... first you need to analize everything very well and right after send a new message to the world about you. Its not you anymore ... its the new YOU.
Should be interesting for you to read the story of complete change from KGB to FBS.
Its being taking years ... change the top members, bring new people into the organization, change completlly the philosophy ... but also changing few names ... jumping from KGB to FSB.
And remember ... those guys were experts ... and they knew very well what they were doing.
What chance do we have to make quatuum jumps ... be a totally different person into the eyes of the others.
For example, you are a constructor .. you build small houses and then one day you change the presentation of your company, saying that you are an expert in building sky scrappers.
That is a huge jumb, in most of the cases even illusory ... but maybe there are stories with people that did that.
You could be the kind of person that cheated the other partner for tens of times ... and now says is changed ... can that be seen as a honest message?! Sending a new message into the world, about who you are or who intend to be in the near future is a difficult task ... not imposible ... but difficult to complete.
A new life can be defined by a huge need of change ... so if you think is important
... send corectlly the new message to all the ones around you.
And if they dont listen to you ... let them walk out of your life.
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THE ART OF DEFINING LIFE
Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
DEFINED BY YOUR PROBLEMS
We live in a world defined by 3 major problems with the following issues: weight, money and relationships.
If you would ask anyone you know about their problems, most probably they have one of these 3 difficulties.
We cannot control the world we live in, but on the other hand letting the problems to define your life is not an ideal way to live.
Deciding just to pass the exams of life, being stronger than the problem itself should be a better idea.
You can read long lists with statistics about what is happening all around the world.
Someone in New York is having weight problems, someone in London relationship problems and someone in Pretoria ... problems with the money ... but speak even with the President of your country and you ll be amazed of how many problems he has.
What about a child in the second grade, disliking his class mates ... cause he is not so good in school as them?!
Marriage problems?! Should i give you the statistics?!
The percentage is huge ... but life goes on... and what you will never understand is that most of our problems are just following the process of evaporation through time.
All those things makes our life sucks.
Instead of focusing on them ... maybe we should just define a perfect script scenario of getting out of those situations. Focusing on what you dislike is silly.
Any problem has a solution ... just meditate on it ... define it very well ... and
then apply the solution.
... and SMILE.
You dont have the best weight you would like to have?!
Just think of walking more and foget about eating.
Have money problems?
I had heard hundreds of stories about the lack of money at different persons ...
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but no one ever told me that at least is reading any book of how they could become rich.
Relationship problems?! ... maybe you should learn how you should treat people with love and respect ... one day they will understand that there are not so many people into the world practing this philosophy.
Meaning of life is not to solve problems but to enjoy the life itself .... and you will
never be able to do that if you see difficulties everywhere.
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PLAYING WITH COLORS
100% the powers of the colors is influencing our souls.
A guy owning a pub, having the school of art behind his back, explained me the art of creating a pub ... where you have the freedom of mixing into a decor ... a piano with a ladle without any problem at all.
The same ... we can redefine a boring place full of white with red, blue, green
etc ... a little bit of every color?!
What the place will become?!
An ambient full of joy.
What if we try to redefine our lives using this idea?!
The days of our lives need the whole spectrum of colors.
We need black ... for expressing seriosity.
Pink ... for fun.
Blue for hope.
Yellow for the smile showing like a sun.
We should decide to not have a boring life anymore.
Try to repaint your life ... use joyful colors, that can bring positive energy into your universe!
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Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
RUNNING THROUGH LIFE
We run all the time, always in hurry ... probably never completing all the things we need to do.
The to do list is always open to add new and new issues on it.
Time is passing and the only way we should define our life is as like a chaotic one. Running through life with the illusion we are busy ... doing in fact unimportant things for the real meaning of our destiny.
Have you ever thought what are the most important things you should do?! How much time you spend for that and how much time you spend doing things you dislike doing?!
Do you believe that the chaotic way of living will take you in the position you would like to be?!
We pretent that we work for our dreams ... and we will always come with lots of excuses ... but we are just running through life with no sense at all. What and who can stop us?!
How can we follow the right path we should follow?
Lots of questions, but maybe for each of us is a different answear.
Sometimes the Universe just stops us in a dramatic way ... and sometimes we receive the same and the same lesson on and on .... hoping that the awakening will come.
Dont run to ... nowhere ... just stop for a moment ... and decide to follow your dreams and destiny.
Life is too short to spoil it.
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Personal development through a collection of writings teaching you how to ask questions about your lost way in life
THE FEELING OF SHAME REVEALS
THE ABSENCE OF COURAGE
Why you dont have the courage to be who you want to be in life?!
I mean, you can be a teenager reading books trying to understand the meaning of life instead of going to parties ... you can prefer go into the mountains and connect with the nature instead of going to night clubs ... you have the right to do and be whoever you want to be ... and never keep in mind the real values of the community you live into.
Some people express themselves through dance .... or maybe writing .... or
painting.
You can define your best talent... and let it run your life .... no matter how the
people from your life are seeing that.
The feeling of shame, that you are not aligned at the standards of society ... is just expressing the absense of courage from your soul.
