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THE BEAUTIFUL ILLUSION OF BEING IN LOVE
A philosophical view over love stories
MEETING AGAIN
… THE LOVE STORY … ITSELF
I ve met her today again.
It s being a cocktail between infinite love and the real life.
She told me she is real, even if i thought she is just an illusion.
I touched her ... and she told me that i am so cold ... cause is winter outside. So the question of defining was: did i meet her ... my love or an just an illusion?! Well, i think i am cheating on her, cause i see the illusion, but sometimes i see her also.
But i love both of them ... she ... the illusion ... but also the illusion itself. And again a question of defining the undefined: what is the illusion itself if i actually love her so much?!
Well... my dear ... she is the infinity.
I love her cause she makes me happy.
But i also love her cause she drives me crazy.
From those 2 points there is an infinity ... but bottom line ... i love her ... i mean the illusion.
The illusion is always a ... she ... i am sure you know this.
We just love being in love.
Cause we love the love itself.
So ... i loved seeing her, touching her, smelling her parfume ... being with her.
She is the supreme illusion.
She is the ... LOVE.
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THE BEAUTIFUL ILLUSION OF BEING IN LOVE
A philosophical view over love stories
COMPROMISES AND THE LOVE STORIES
It s quit easy to fall in love ... without even realising ... but sometimes too difficult to stay into the love story.
I have 2 friends that they are really in love by one year and a half.
They broke up about 30 times, sometimes once a week.
They even did not spoke with each other for weeks and one time for 3 months. But every time they see each other, something happens and they restart the love story again.
After a while, they even spoke seriously about how to brake up for real and made an agreement so that the end to be final.
In one point, both of them realised that what they have is called a love addiction and will be too complicated to said “good bye, forever!” to each other .... and
they raised the bar again so that the compromise to be huge and they will not come back to each other.
Restarting their last relationship ( both of them were married before) with everything that suposed .... actually cheating each other ... they thought that this is going to be the end.
But even this huge betrayal was not enough.
They had again few fights, but everything ends all the time as a love story with a happy end.
And after the happy end a new fight is coming, which in the end is very difficult to understand.
This is what is called an abstract love story and even if facts show something quite difficult to understand ... their love story is real, infinite and with no ending at all.
When you see that even strange facts are not stopping you ... or all kinds of compromises and nothing at all can say to you ... that is enough ... lets just stop ... well ... you have a problem.
You are actually fighting with the Universe, cause most probably that person was sent to you by a divine being.
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THE BEAUTIFUL ILLUSION OF BEING IN LOVE
A philosophical view over love stories
THE BEAUTIFUL SMILE I
DAILY MEET ON INSTAGRAM
It happens that everyday i meet a beautiful smile on instagram.
And i am asking myself what do i like at that smile and how could i define her ...
but i cant really find an answear.
But i like watching her.
She sends me a good vibe.
I know her by a while ... sometimes we speak, sometimes we are silent for many days in a row ... but i cant stop admire her and still dont know why.
There are people in life that we have very good connection with ... not understanding why.
Just seeing the smile ... i somehow feel her vibe ... so i was feeling her smile all the time.
I gave her a heart to her posts and then i am asking myself ... what she will think?!
And then i smiled.
It s all about a smile .... but defining her beautiful mask she is wearing, i see that
it s about an adorable .... soul ... and this is what i love.
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THE BEAUTIFUL ILLUSION OF BEING IN LOVE
A philosophical view over love stories
LOVE IS ….
Love is about the present moment.
Dont bother to look into the future.
We spend too much time thinking, instead of acting accordinglly to what our soul tells us to do.
And the result is not what we expect to have.
We feel the love inside, but somehow is useless cause we dont know to express that through our actions.
Maybe the absense of experience ... when it comes to real love, might be the real explanation for the silly way we act.
And we look a lot into the future, instead of enjoying the love into the present moment.
You need to understand love, to define it ... to define what makes you happy, why makes you happy and what is the path you need to follow so that you can have a wonderful life.
Life itself is not do long.
We should live for 100-150 years at least, but what for?! ... if in all the decisions we take, we actually dont show to the Universe that we want to be happy.
We look into the future, saying that everything will happen in there ... and even having a beautiful life is not something for the present moment, but for 50-100 years from now ... but remember ... not today.
Yes ... life doesn’t have a manual with clear instructions to follow, but the main idea is ... just dont forget to cherish the moment, especially when you are in love.
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THE BEAUTIFUL ILLUSION OF BEING IN LOVE
A philosophical view over love stories
FROM READING TO WRITING … LEARNING TO
DEFINE YOUR THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS
So many people, from all around the world, are reading things that have to do with personal development, in different forms ... some are reading books, some are reading blogs and some only quotes.
You will be amazed, but i met persons that only read quotes and made me the impression that they know everything about the whole story with personal growth.
And you know why?!
Cause they just have a strong ability to understand everything just from one line and implement it in their life right away.
But i also met persons that read thousands of books and everything i saw looking at them, was that their life just sucks.
Why?! ... just because they dont know how to implement those life principle into the real life.
Sometimes reading is not enough and writing should help a lot.
There is for example a theory, in the philosophy of success, that says is extremely important as you write your goals, if your goals are really important to you ... and read them all the time.
So ... the short story .. read ... write ... and read again.
Writing is a way of connecting to our thoughts and feelings and is actually a way of defining us, understanding who we really and where we are in life. Reading will help develop yourself a lot.
Will learn about the world you are living in ... but writing will help you learn about who you really are.
Just dare ... just one time ... to write your story ... the story of your soul.
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THE BEAUTIFUL ILLUSION OF BEING IN LOVE
A philosophical view over love stories
LET'S REMEMBER THAT
SOMETIMES INTO THE FUTURE
Many of us, have a life that we dont really care so much about.
In many cases, we even have everything we ever dreamed for years ago ... but still, feeling empty inside, we start to dont care about anything at all that is around us.
You remember about the law of attraction?!
Well ... we want as the Universe to care about what we really want deep inside us.
And the problem is that in one point, we dont care about anything at all ... even disliking our lives.
In the begining, the Universe says ... nothing.
But we continue this for years and years.
Then, one day, something we said that we totally dislike or dont care at all ...
boom ... just disappear from our lives. Wow ... what we do in the next moment?!
Well, we just start complaining or even start talking about a real drama.
If you read and understood about the Laws of the Universe, you should pay more attention to your thoughts and feelings.
Feeling for example, that one person can stay in your life forever, even if you act really silly with that person, not showing real care ... not even at the probability that one day that person can dissapear from your life ... can be defined as acting stupid on the stage of your life.
Most probably ... at least you should remember that sometimes into the future and realise that the feelings of not caring, disliking etc etc ... influences our lives a lot.
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THE BEAUTIFUL ILLUSION OF BEING IN LOVE
A philosophical view over love stories
NEVER SAY NEVER
… AND OTHERS BLA, BLA, BLA
So many times in life we say ... NEVER.
I will never do this ... i will never say this ... i will never come back etc etc ... and so, so many examples, but in the end we forget about what we said, we reevaluate and do it again.
In the love story, probably is the case when we use this expression most of the times, forgeting about the saying “Never say never!”.
Yes, sometimes, feeling that we dont go in the right direction, that we lost control over our love feelings, we want to say stop ... i will never want to see her
again ... i will never, ever come back in her arms... i will never write him again and many, many others bla, bla, bla.
We are so determined that ... we only see the word NEVER in front our our eyes. Then we wake up from this state ... and realise that without that person, that drived us crazy so many times, our lives should be empty.
“Never” was so strong ... so powerful defining our attitude and then few hours later ... worst case scenario, few days later ... we totally forget we said “never”. We actually realise that love is stronger than our determination. Going to a pathless path into a love story, might be an illusion.
The simple fact that we love so much, and so many times we forget about “never ever” ... defines the case itself as a path to our soul.
The meaning of life might not be that we go to the left or to the right, doing that or that with a clear direction, but to find our lost souls.
The person that makes you alive is the perfect one ... and deserves everything from you, cause feeling alive is the first sign that you found your soul. So ... never say never ... into a real love story.
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THE BEAUTIFUL ILLUSION OF BEING IN LOVE
A philosophical view over love stories
IS LOVE A MYTH?!
So many times in life we say ... NEVER.
I will never do this ... i will never say this ... i will never come back etc etc ... and so, so many examples, but in the end we forget about what we said, we reevaluate and do it again.
In the love story, probably is the case when we use this expression most of the times, forgeting about the saying “Never say never!”.
Yes, sometimes, feeling that we dont go in the right direction, that we lost control over our love feelings, we want to say stop ... i will never want to see her
again ... i will never, ever come back in her arms... i will never write him again and many, many others bla, bla, bla.
We are so determined that ... we only see the word NEVER in front our our eyes. Then we wake up from this state ... and realise that without that person, that drived us crazy so many times, our lives should be empty.
“Never” was so strong ... so powerful defining our attitude and then few hours later ... worst case scenario, few days later ... we totally forget we said “never”. We actually realise that love is stronger than our determination. Going to a pathless path into a love story, might be an illusion.
The simple fact that we love so much, and so many times we forget about “never ever” ... defines the case itself as a path to our soul.
The meaning of life might not be that we go to the left or to the right, doing that or that with a clear direction, but to find our lost souls.
The person that makes you alive is the perfect one ... and deserves everything from you, cause feeling alive is the first sign that you found your soul. So ... never say never ... into a real love story.
Adrian G Dumitru
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THE BEAUTIFUL ILLUSION OF BEING IN LOVE
A philosophical view over love stories
ILLUSORY OR REAL LOVE STORY?!
There are lots of books published every year, with all kinds of theories, but not so many expressing the concept of abstract love.
I would define this as a reflection of our thoughts into the real life.
We call it abstract, cause have nothing to do with the normal dogmatic way of seeing the love stories.
Real love, that perfect scenario with the perfect partner, can be seen at any age, depending of the luck our karma allows us to have.
But we want it so much, that the Universe allows us this meeting, with only one obstacle, which in many cases makes the love story imposible.
Thinking in a positive way, we redefine the imposible story as an abstract one. Being a reflection of our dreams, the story itself is a perfect one, except the fact that you cannot enjoy the story into the real word, creating the image of an illusion.
Imposible love stories are present all over the world.
After posting a long time in social media, i received messages from people from all the continents telling me about them.
The word “love” being present near the word “imposible”, creates this strange, illusory and abstract way of seeing the magic of love.
I think we can talk about the interconnection between the illusion and reality. I used a lot the term illusion, cause we all look for perfect scenarios, especially when it comes to love, but the truth is that perfection is far, far away of reality. So ... lets admit it... we can interconnect illusions with the real world ... just through imposible love stories.
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