Everything around us can inspire our lives.
To get in life a great success ... you need to have a good vibe all the time and be ready for great things.
Negativity must never be present in your daily life and someone special for you must give you that belief ... that you can conquer the world. And a mature man ... dreams for an amazing woman.
One ... with an an excellent vibe.
One ... that can make you feel the king of the world.
During the years i met so many men that look to me ... just ordinary persons. They had nothing special and nothing could announce that they will be of great success.
I was amazed and very happy to hear their great stories of success.
And i studied success for a long time and could not understand what is behind that big change ... and how an ordinary man became so successful in such a short time.
It was almost like a story about quantum jump.
Later ... i saw the common pattern.
And one day ... it even happened to me.
I understood that behind any powerful mature man there is an amazing lady
...which is very difficult to be found.
Yes ... this is the truth behind what you see as an amazing jump from ordinary to extraordinary.
But ... don’t ask those guys.
Don’t bother!
They will only tell you a bla bla bla story ... about how hard it was to achieve that massive success ... and will not even mention ... that great lady who stays near them.
It says ... that everything you see in life ... it’s not what it looks like ... and this is the real story behind the amazing success of a mature man. Just keep it in mind ... and the big change will appear!
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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Dare to change the world even
if you are ... nobody
During the time i had different problems with the authorities and had to fight with
them so that i can solve those problems.
And not only once.
It was kind of a war ... David and Goliath.
And ... i won.
I was dealing with ordinary people that had an army behind their back.
Their ego was looking like Himalaya and looked like nothing could stop them to beat me.
I was trying to change the world ... from the position of being ... nobody.
A guy, from the military services even asked me ... “Do you expect me to be empathic with you?!”
Of course he did not had this ability ... cause he only loved the advantages of being in that public position ... and did not care about anyone ... except him. I hated his question for about 2-3 seconds and then i realized that i don’t even need his support.
I invested a lot of energy to fight against those people ... that did not had the power to be empathic with the people that they had to help. But i had the power to fight and win all the battles with them.
In the end ... after everything became only a strange episode of my life ... i realized that part of that energy that helped me to fight with those people ... was a negative energy.
I was disliking and hating them.
Then i thought about Mahatma Gandhi and how he fought at that time with the British Empire.
He only used the power of his words.
He did not used violence ... not even in his messages to all the people involved into the revolution.
In the British Parliament when he was speaking in front of the most important authorities from London ... he was getting their applauds.
He was their enemy and India was a very important colony for them ... but still ...
he got the applauds.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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Today if i analyze my attitude i am not totally happy about the way i tried to change the public system when i had problems with them.
I would love to improve this attitude and act in the style that Gandhi used to act.
But i still have this message ... dare to change the world even if you are ...
nobody.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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Kind of a Midas touch but with negative emotions?! ... it’s not the right change
The most famous King Midas is popularly remembered in Greek mythology for his ability to turn everything he touched into gold. This came to be called the golden touch, or the Midas touch.
You see, everything you do in life ... providing services for other people, building something... just everything you do in your daily life ... you place energy in there. And you can do your daily activities with pleasure ... and you will place good energies in there ... or you can do everything, not being happy cause you spend your time doing that ... and you will place all your negative energies into that something.
The legend with the King Midas is a very nice one ... and we should see the message behind the legend.
What the legend name “gold” ... could be translated as ... amazing things, that we could do ... just in everything we daily do.
I have a dear friend that every time he is involved in a new business ... that business becomes very successful right away. He has that midas touch for businesses.
But we could all have this ... what is called the golden touch.
Is only a decision as ... in everything we do ... to get involved with an open heart and with positive emotions, cause amazing things can come only when we decide to place positive energies in all we plan to do.
We all have a positive and a negative side ... but choosing to show our beautiful side to the world ... is the best decision.
The powers of the king Midas ... that golden touch ... we can have it too!
Just think about it!
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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Step out of your comfort zone,
it can be exhilarating
I think there are 3 ways of making big change.
One is start from your dream, make a plan and start the process of a progressive change.
Is like you live with your parents and you want a place of yours.
You just take a job, then after few months you go to the bank and get a loan for an apartment.
The change will appear in few months, but the price will be paid in many, many years.
But your dream became true and you will pay the price later ... so the change appeared.
The second way of getting the change ... is usually happens in the brutal way ... like a disease, a car accident, etc etc ... a very important lesson that you have to understand ... because you delayed the process of a progressive change.
You will be forced by the Universe to make the change ... and understand important lessons.
The 3rd one ... is the change that can be done by adopting an addiction for risky things.
At least from time to time.
Let’s assume you are a builder ... and you build 3 houses a year ... but what if you change the plan and start building 10 houses.
With the money you have for 3 houses, you just start 10 and you complete them when the buyers give you the money.
I know is risky cause you could not find the buyers at the right time, but stepping out of your comfort zone, it can be exhilarating.
You could have the chance of becoming a great builder ... just by odopting a risky attitude.
Whatever you do in life, you will need to accept one of the 3 ways in how the change appears ... the progressive ... risky of brutal style. The concept of change needs to be part of our daily life.
Just keep in mind that avoiding the change is not an option ... so at least enjoy it!
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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Sometimes the Universe is sending us signs for the need of a
big change ... just open your eyes
A REAL STORY
In the real world, i am not a writer ... and in fact only few people know that i
write ... but i build and rent houses.
Recently had a fire at one of my houses.
Had all kinds of problems with the properties, but no one with the fire.
The police came right away.
And firefighters came only few minutes after.
But something strange happened.
Everything was only a small fire ... but even if 20 firefighters were in there ... it looked like they became blinds ... and did not started the water for 5-7 minutes. The fire started to become bigger.
I was screaming at them to start the water and looked like they were not hearing me.
The house was in a complex with 15 houses and if they were delaying too much the whole complex could burn out.
And i was too involved coordinating everything ... till the girl that lived on the house, came to me and showed me on her phone that a heart appeared on the roof.
I suddenly realized that everything was a sign from the Universe and the house will not burn completely.
Few weeks ago i took the decision to stop writing about love, after 2 years ... and 9 published books with love essays.
I even decided to close my heart and forget about the meaning of love for my life.
And then the Universe sent this strange sign.
Had to be unhappy because of the fire... but i was not.
I understood the message behind the message ...
I had damages for the house, but nothing important ... there were things that i could repair in few days.
But what i could not repair so easily ... were the problems from my heart.
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I was thinking a lot at the heart done by the fire on the roof ... and realized that Universe forces me to focus my attention at the problems of my soul.
It was the time for awaking ... but only the future will show what i understood from this lesson and if i really understand the concept of ... the message behind the message ... cause everything we see in life is not what it looks like.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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What if we apply the principle ...
“I am not looking ... i just find”?!
What if you let everything come by itself ... and never force as your life to follow a certain path?!
What if in the need of a big change, that should totally redefine you ... you find a new path that you never thought about it?!
Picasso used to say when he talked about inspiration that ... “I am not looking ...
i just find”.
What if you should do the same way as Picasso?!
Today i wonder myself what is the connection between intuition and change ...
and if we need to induce the change or wait for the intuition to tell us what change we should do.
It says that the intuition is the connection with the Universe ... and probably this is the best way ... but how can we be sure of what we choose in life?!
... and especially for important decisions. How the intuition sends us the messages?!
Are certain rules to understand what is really going on?!
Intuition ... is actually the vibe we have when we are in front of that situation.
If we have a beautiful feeling inside and feel the silence of the soul ... the answer is ... YES.
If we feel anxiety ... anger ... or any other negative emotion ... the answer is ...
NO.
Believing in the signs sent by the vibe you feel is the key to important decisions. And this way ... when you will have in mind the concept of change ... not even bother to look ... but only open your eyes to observe what you found .... might be the real path.
Always remember ... vibes never lie!
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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“Find the light in everything”
(Annelies Wetzelaer)
You see ... is very important how we react to what is happening to us in life.
No matter what change appears ... we should embrace it.
The change itself is not coming from a certain person or situation ... but from the Universe.
After reading thousands of books ... and many of them about spirituality, even if i hadn’t read it in any book about that ... i realized that all the time when someone is speaking to me in a disrespectful way ... something is wrong with me, not with that person ... and i just need to do something to recharge my energies.
The person in front me ... speaking that way ... is not the problem ... but i am the problem.
And every time when i was in such a situation and i had the power to smile ...
everything ended in a beautiful way.
One day ... in the Easter day, an employe that worked for me many, many years ago ... wrote me an email that he will call me to court soon for a very, very silly reason.
I tried to smile to him ... saying that is the Easter Day and that i wish him all the best to him and his family ... but he was still mad and continued to send me emails one after another.
Something really bad happened to me recently to that date ... and i replied politely that i don’t want to spend my Easter this way ... arguing with him, cause i am sad anyway because what happened to me ... only few days ago.
And he started to be happy, hearing that bad thing happened ... and stoped.
To make sure he will not start again ... i even replied that i am glad ... i made him happy with the news i gave him.
You see ... what we call a bad thing that is happening ... is a sign for a change. It could be a very annoying discussion with someone ... that will tell you 100 times that will call you to the court ... or a terrible car accident ... or whatever it is ... is just a sign that the Universe wants to tell you something.
Your reaction to what might seen as a bad luck is very, very important. Whatever the message is, no matter if you understand it or not at that moment, you need to keep in mind that you should see the light in everything.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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The Universe will only whisper to you the message ... but is your choice to see the message ... or pretend you don’t see it.
The Universe loves us ... and even if the change that comes over you looks like something very bad that will overwhelm you ... you need to calm down ... and find the message behind the message.
And ... see a light in everything appears in your life .. is a very wise decision.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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