Why should they inspire bad vibes today ... when they are not part of your life anymore?!
Defining them is such a bad way ... is at least not ok and also useless ... cause all the time in life ... real memories must be the good ones, not the bad ones.
Just think about it ... and the real answer will come to you!
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Good vibes ... bad vibes.
Same jerk ... same crazy lady.
Everything in life is yin and yang.
In Ancient Chinese philosophy, yin and yang is a concept of dualism, describing how seemingly opposite or contrary forces may actually be complementary, interconnected, and interdependent in the natural world, and how they may give rise to each other as they interrelate to one another.
But ... the problem is that not everybody knows that ... and we actually see everything translated as good or bad vibes.
Or see him ... as the love story of your life ... and then as a jerk.
And her ... as the most amazing woman from the world and then ...
just as a crazy lady.
Quite ... a strange balance of emotions.
But what is the real definition of that partner?!
Well .. according to the ancient chinese philosophy, both definitions are part of the same person, because we all have a beautiful side, but also a dark side.
And when we really love someone, we accept both personalities ... just as they appear in the real life ... but we should pay attention only to the beautiful side of that person ... and ignore the bad side.
In the real life it happens that i have a dear colleague that i work with everyday.
She is much younger as me.
I drive her crazy everyday and she drives me crazy also ... one million times a day, but every time ... when one of us becomes “crazy”, or “jerk” ... the other one is ignoring that side and is laughing.
It’s a trick we use ... so that we can work togheter ... and not kill each other ... daily.
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And the funny thing is that it works.
Well ... you see ... the same trick could be applied in any kind of relationship .. ignore the dark side and adore the beautiful side.
Pay attention to all the good vibes the partner is inspiring you ... and every time bad vibes appear ... just let them know that you prefer the good ones.
And i believe is also important as we should inspire good vibes to all the people from our lives ... and especially the partner.
The concept of “jerk”, “idiot”, “crazy” etc etc are only illusory concepts
... if we can stay in a positive thinking.
So ... adore ... and ignore ... but always enjoy the love story.
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The experiment ... enjoying
life with different muses.
Good vibes can come from everywhere.
Well ... i will tell you the truth.
As any writer ... i had a muse and even an amazing one.
But she ... resigned, cause she had enough of being just a muse. And instead of being upset cause the muse left the story ... i decided to replace her with a new experiment ... enjoying life with different muses.
When i was a teenager i was an introvert with limited social skills, but because i had to deal with thousands of people over the years, i changed a lot.
An old friend defined me yesterday as an extrovert ... and i realized that she is right.
Well ... she also defined me as a nice jerk, but this is another story. So ... as a writer ... without a muse, you are as a businessman without money and i had been in business for more than 20 years ... and i know what that means.
I was thinking ... what is the muse?!
Why i try to get the inspiration from her all the time?!
Why am i so limited?!
So ... the experiment itself can be also named ... trying to understand the art of connecting with all the persons you know.
And to tell you the truth ... it’s an amazing experiment, cause they are so, so many people that like to socialize ... and also connect with you, if you just follow a spiritual path with them.
I discovered this way that what i thought is an addiction for a special person, that i called a muse ... is actually an addiction of interacting with other souls ... and discover the life itself ... but also enjoy it.
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On my path through life i understand today that i don’t need anyone ... cause i will meet all kinds of people anyway ... and everything is a story between me and the whole world. And if one day you receive a message as this one ...
“Please forget about me. I don't even want to see you for what you did last time.
It was all a game for you and I'm glad I saw that. Look elsewhere for what you are missing. I am no longer available for your games!
I also regret now that I discovered you as you are!” ... just smile and continue your life.
It might look like you are on the path to nowhere .... but at the end of
the road you will discover yourself.
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A love story - the best therapy for the soul
Many, many years ago ... a young guy met with a young girl.
She was already is a relationship with someone else at that time, but he ignored that and seduced her, cause her relationship was a long distance one.
And he was also in a relationship, but he ignored that also.
The guy was very good playing around with beautiful words and seducing her was so easy, cause she was only a young naive girl. But the funny thing was that he felt in love with her also and she became his muse that inspired him good vibes all the time.
Yes ... she was young, naive, extremely beautiful and intelligent. She felt in love with him and the love story was a real nice one, but only till the day his partner found out.
He decided to continue life with his old girlfriend, but later on he regretted a lot, cause he had absolutely no connection with her. The guy was a jerk that never believed in morality, but his main philosophy about people and especially relationships was that connection is everything.
Many years later he met with her again.
After 15 years she was even more beautiful than when was when she was 20.
She was the perfect woman.
Extremely beautiful, very intelligent, an independent woman and she could be described as amazing.
He could not believe that such a beautiful lady is single, but soon later, he understood everything.
... her soul was broken, but in very, very little pieces.
She liked that they met again, but after all those 15 years she was totally changed.
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She was not believing in people anymore and she even started to criticize him after only few hours, telling him that he is a jerk, that is using women to get his energy from them, that ... that ... that.
She even believed that Tinder will go to bankruptcy is he will ever create an account in there, cause all women will have perfect match only with him, listening to his magical lies. And he was only smiling to her, saying nothing.
He understood that in fact she was not criticizing him ... but all those guys from her past that broke her soul into pieces. And he was one of her ex.
The lady needed therapy indeed, but not classical therapy at a doctor, but a therapy for her soul.
She needed a new love story ... a real one.
An amazing love story that could make her forget about her past and start to believe in people again.
He wanted to tell her this secret for healing her soul, but after so much criticizing he was even afraid that she will kill him ... just hearing this.
Yes ... life changes us.
We lose our values, our trust ... our everything.
But the soul ... never dies, and maybe the only real therapy for the soul ... is a love story.
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Karmic soulmate
“You are only playing around with my soul” What is the meaning of a love story?!
What if the love story appears too late and you are already married ... and it’s too late to play around just as a teenagers does?!
How do you see in that point ... the meaning of the love story?! There are so many quotes telling us that life is about enjoying the present moment, but we just ignore that.
And we don’t really pay so much attention at what the Universe has to say, cause all the people that appear in our lives ... appears for a reason.
We can talk about Karmic Relationship, Karmic Soulmate, Karmic Partners, but it will take too much time to define everything.
The main idea is that there is a moment in life when you will need to meet your karmic soulmate and you will need to understand the message behind the message.
What we thought it needs to happen in a certain dogmatic way ... in the real life ... it just happens into the love story.
The path is not a path as all the other paths ... and it really looks as a pathless path ... but it’s just a spiritual way of redefining your life. The karmic soulmate will reveal this spiritual path ... and guide you in discover ... yourself.
And wherever you are in the timeline of your life ... you will need to meditate and think what is behind everything is going on.
Cause not all the relationships need to be in a certain way ... that society taught us it should be.
So ... you will need to understand that there will be moments when you will need only to enjoy the love story ... and nothing more.
No purpose ... no real one ... just live with the pleasure of being near
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that karmic soulmate.
And if the partner will say ... “you are just playing around with my soul” ... it just means can’t understand ... yet ... that everything is love ... only love.
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The muse that changed my life
During our lifetime we will meet all kinds of people, but not all of them touch our souls.
Some ... we will dislike ... some ... we will adore ... but all of them have importance.
They learn us about what love or hate is about.
But one day ... a special person will appear.
And we start a new chapter of life, a very beautiful one ... the love story ... the love story of our life.
And the funny thing is that she will teach you in the same time what love and hate is, cause there will be moments when you will love her, but also hate her.
You will adore her, but also block her everywhere ... when the things will not go in the way you want them to do.
But everything is going only ... where it needs to go.
We are the actors from the stage, but someone else wrote the whole script.
We only act ... in a good or a bad way.
And when we do it with joy ... the love story is an amazing one.
We connect to the partner and to the Universe.
The loved one ... becomes the muse ... of good vibes.
And a muse ... can change your life ... redefine you completely ... in a way you never thought it can really happen.
The love story itself becomes the gate to the whole Universe.
Just be opened ... and ready to act in the way you should act.
That means ... only open your soul.
Nothing more.
The muse is your guide ... to understand the infinite.
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Ho’oponopono
Ho?oponopono is a Hawaiian practice of reconciliation and forgiveness. The Hawaiian word translates into English simply as correction, with the synonyms manage or supervise, and the antonym careless.
It’s a quite simple practice that you can use for all the relationships ...
for the ones that like you, but also the ones that hates you.
Especially for the last ones ... it can create miracles.
All you need to do as a meditation is ...
“I love you.
I am sorry.
Please forgive me.
Thank you!”
But what if someone special ... the loved one ... loves and hates you in the same time?!
Well ... if you look at dear friends from your life and analyze their love stories, you will see that they don’t have perfect relationships either. They love the partners ... but also hate them from time to time.
Pay attention to their stories and will see this pattern at all of them. But why?!
Because we want things to happen in a certain way ... and in many cases ... a silly way.
We love to dominate instead of just enjoying the love story.
A new friend of mine, a very simple guy from the country side, explained me few days ago, without knowing that i write about love ...
that the truth is that women love to dominate when they are in a relationship and love to be dominated when they are in a love story. Most probably ... a woman would say the same about the men.
But what if ... i just wonder ... we would only focus on harmony?! Forget about the past and think about the Ho’oponopono practice and
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just apply it all the time when things don’t go right.
And do it with the wife, the mistress ... the woman from the other
street that you always liked, but you did not had the courage to speak
with her.
Just say ...
“I love you.
I am sorry.
Please forgive me.
Thank you!”
... and focus only on ... love.
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I just want
... la creme de la creme
... what’s wrong with that?!
Let’s say ... you love the cars ... what should be the car you would
love to have?!
An ugly one?!
No ... i don’t think so.
Let’s imagine you are businessman ... and if you tell me that you are not dreaming at a target of one million dollars ... it means you are not a real businessman.
So ... what should we expert from us ... when we believe in love stories?!
Is it right to think ... at the ... creme de la creme?!
Well ... i believe so ... and in my opinion that means a perfect love story.
But perfect love stories can’t be in a normal environment ... but one that is right for stories.
We live in a world .. with all kinds of energies and the energies of others influences us ... same as our energies influence the others.
