The guy is owning a software company … and is looking now for hiring a personal assistant that will increase productivity in his activities.
He wanted a beautiful lady, speaking foreign languages, very intelligent… and lots of other attributes. And lots of ladies came for the interview.
But Helena .. being asked how will she succeed to increase the productivity in the company …. smiled … and started to dance in front of Brian.
She not even bothered to say a … word to him.
And it was even too ridiculous to hear something … cause all the others interviewed ladies … said so, so many silly things … that he was not listening anymore … to anything.
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Once finished the dance …. the lady smiles and says … “Brian
for an amazing productivity in this boring software business … you need an amazing vibe here.
Dancing a little bit to your boys … might change their vibration.
I can do this daily.
….and tell them that i love being in their presence. Explain also … about the beauty of feeling alive.
I can teach them techniques… that you never heard about. I don’t need to know 7 foreign languages, but when a partner from Japan will come …. my smile will convince him to sign the contract … not even bothering to read it.
And when i will bring you the coffee in the morning … you will be served like a king.”
Brian calls me … and asks what he should do.
The lady was amazing … and all what they needed there was
the change of the vibe.
The atmosphere was now ….
Well … maybe just comparing with a funeral … you might understand what i am telling about … so i tell to Brian … “My God! She is gorgeous! I love her! Just fucking … hire her now.
She is the perfect trick that will increase the vibration of that damn place … where everybody is so boring… “ Brian started to laugh.
He could not believe that after reading so many books … about motivation, businesses etc … a beautiful lady like this one could come and redefine all his …. perspectives
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… my illusory search for a beautiful life
A sick mind can’t
bring … good vibes
The mental health is so damn important … but we realize it only when it is almost too late. And i wonder myself … why?!
But i also wonder why the hell no one bothered to tell us to keep the mind … beautiful … and control this process everyday.
It’s so important at least as … brushing our teeth everyday … So … why we do not care about this?!
Why …. we can’t see the importance of this process?!
And … what is the connection between a beautiful mind … and a good vibe?!
Well … i believe that we all know about the fact that when we are overwhelmed of negative thoughts … the vibe is fucked up … and when the mind has positive thoughts … everything is perfect and we feel great.
So … basically … that can be translated in the fact that a mind focused on positive and beautiful things will automatically bring … great vibes.
But what if we don’t really control our minds?!
What if the mind starts to be sick?!
And how can we recognize this sickness?!
Can we accept that as part of our lives?!
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Can we somehow cure it?!
Well … most probably we will never accept that the mind … is not in good shape … and almost never … that we lost control over it.
Or …. maybe just analyzing and defining the thoughts and
actions … we go in a position where we actually understand that we do not follow good paths.
Overwhelmed of all sorts of things … but also of obsessions
just remembering the concept of … vibe … and measuring it all the time … we realize how important is the mind in the process of becoming … happy.
One day … we finally understand that a sick mind can’t really bring …. beautiful things in our lives.
And that is the day … when the process of healing starts. We start analyzing why are not happy … and why we remain in that ugly world … designed by our own thoughts.
And again … the answer comes so … damn easy.
We simple … can’t control ourselves … and our minds.
The vibe itself is just a reflection that is whispering the truth about where we are … on the timeline of mind.
So … controlling the thoughts and emotions … going in fact into a state of auto control …. should be the best … for a better life.
Analyzing all the time the vibe … asking questions on and on and on …. going deeper and deeper … becomes … a must. But the whole process … is similar with the one of going to the gym.
If you forget about it … then you lose control again.
You continue the process daily … then everything becomes
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easier and easier.
And in fact life … becomes … beautiful.
Mental health might be excellent , good, bad … or even horrible …. but however it is … we must simple accept the truth … define the daily vibe … and always improve it.
Cause … vibes … never lie.
Being honest … no matter what is going on …. we can simple
decide to change direction.
And the new destination … is the one to … great vibes.
So … bottomline that is the reason why is so damn important to have a great mental health.
A sick mind … will never bring good vibes … but a beautiful one might come with the joy that we are always chasing for.
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… my illusory search for a beautiful life
Riding my bike …. the perfect
thing to do on Monday
A very wealthy guy just called me.
It was monday afternoon.
Most probably the whole planet was hating the day already.
Fucking … Monday.
Everybody … just disliked it.
But not John.
Relaxed … he was riding his bicycle… and was enjoying the day.
So … i’ve asked:
“How the hell can you do this on Monday?!
The whole plannet is stressed … disliking the fact that this is the most annoying day of the week?!” John started to laugh:
“But what is the difference between Sunday and Monday …
cause i just can’t see it?!
Yesterday i enjoyed Sunday.
Today … i simple enjoy … Monday.
Am riding my bike and talk on the phone. What is the difference between you and me?!
You do the same thing … but stay in a prison … that you hate for years … called … office.
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Sometimes you like it … but most of the time makes you feel like a prisoner.
I can run my businesses from the city, riding my bike, feel free … and actually giving you and to many other people like you … a different example.
We all love money … but why can’t we reinvent the concept of … the office?!
The office can be … on the beach.
Can be on the lake … fishing.
Can be on the beautiful coffee shop … in the city center. Actually …. the office can everywhere, as long as you have the mobile phone with you.”
“John .. still … it’s Monday.
And even worst …. you have an amazing vibe.
Hmm … can’t get the trick”
It was really annoying to understand this concept … but later on … closing the conversation with him … i understood that the trick was quite simple.
John was combining what he had to do …. talking on the
phone … with what he loved to do … riding his bike.
He simple did not cared anymore … that it was Monday.
Enjoying the day … was in the top of his to do list.
I had a longer list with the thing i had to do … but i never thought that i should enjoy the day … no matter what day it was.
So … maybe it’s the perfect time to reinvent myself. And … indeed is never … too late!
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The vibe … can totally change a person
Each time when a refugee was hosted to my place, i had to declare them to the authorities.
I took a photo of their id or passport and sent them to the chief of police from our commune.
But i could not stop myself to analyze the the photos from the documents … and compare to the way they were actually looking.
When Yuliya came she looked … totally different that the photo from her passport.
It might look like i am over reacting, but she was so stressed by the war from her country … than even if she was 30 … was looking like almost 45.
I was looking at her … and i could not believe the huge difference between the photo and her real look.
Then … obsessed as always of analyzing … i wondered myself … why this difference exists?!
What really happened with her that this huge difference appeared?!
Well … i certainly did not understood what a war means .. but …
Being extremely busy with other things, i could not meet her again for few days.
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Then i’ve been to visit them … and when i saw her …. I was
totally surprised … again.
And i asked myself … who the hell is this beautiful lady?! Yuliya was looking so … changed.
She started to be the same person … like the one from her documents.
Feeling relaxed, safe … she actually started to re become herself.
Yes …. truth be told … stress redefines people so much.
But also relaxation.
And in such a short time … everything suddenly changes.
I was glad seeing her … having a great vibe.
I was studying so much the impact of the vibe on a person … and Yuliya was the perfect example for me for understanding such a scenario.
I realized is useless to study what a war … means.
My new friend sent me all those messages … about the war … and the way a human being becomes totally redefined by that impact.
A fucked vibe … can make a soul … become a ruin … but once that person gets back the beautiful vibe … everything comes back to normal.
And maybe it’s time to understand that it’s extremely important to keep a great vibe all the time … no matter what is going on … on the stage of our lives.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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For keeping a great vibe all the time we should keep in mind that everything happens in our lives … is happening for a good reason … sometimes difficult to be understood … but still … in our own interest
I’ve been so stressed in the last few weeks about some legal aspects with my real estate investments.
Everything was happening cause i delayed some things … on and on and on.
And now i was paying the price for that.
My vibe … was totally fucked up.
People started to tell me … “What is going on with you?! You look so stressed.”
Hmm… it became all … so obvious.
And still … even if i disliked all what was going on …. I was
responsible of everything.
In the beginning… i was blaming the authorities… and everyone involved in the process of completing my papers for the houses i owned … but …
Well … damn it … it took me so much time to be honest with myself … and admit the real truth.
I was always delaying things … most probably suffering of procrastination… even if i did not admitted it.
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… my illusory search for a beautiful life
I was acting like a fat person that was eating on and on and on … blaming the stress for that.
Or … like so many others that were blaming the circumstances and the people from the timeline of their lives
for all the problems that are making their existence miserable.
But guess what?!
One day … i simple said … “Damn it! Stop it … idiot!” I was speaking with myself.
It was the first time … when i was real honest.
My vibe was fucked up …. because of the stress generated … of my procrastination.
And all the legal problems i was experiencing … even if i could not see that … were in my own interest.
Somehow … everything was pushing me to get rid of delaying things on and on and on.
Once the problems will be solved … the stress itself will most probably just disappear.
Will look like magic … and my good vibe will dominate again my life.
It was a life lesson which made me understand that it was all in my powers … but it was also proved that i need some pressure on me to … move my ass.
I was acting like an idiot for so many years in a row … and only not standing the fucked vibe anymore … i accepted that i need to change myself.
And the question now is … do we also need bad vibes?! Well … being so idiots … yessss
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The joy of offering joy … an amazing trick for beautiful vibes
I was on the streets … and i was amazed of seeing a guy with his piano … playing so beautiful.
I don’t know so many things about music … but i simple love it.
It gives me … joy.
And today … i saw few guys singing on the street ….
connecting people to beautiful vibes for few seconds … at least.
I stayed in the company of this weird guy a little bit longer … maybe not more than 2-3 minutes … and i just loved it.
In such a short time … he succeeded to induce me … a joy … so difficult to be defined.
I started to pay attention to my inner feelings …. and could
not understand how music … today with the help of this amazing street pianist …. could actually switch my vibe so easily.
And now the question is … why the hell should we pay a therapist to heal depression ….and follow a process for many
months in the row … or even years … if a guy like this one … is changing the vibration … so damn easily?
Well … difficult question … and not so many answers … but … I continued my walk … and i was still hearing that piano
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music in my head … while meditating … how easy it is to change the vibe and connect to beautiful energies. The pianist was so passionate of what he was doing.
He was living in his soul with the joy of offering the joy to the others … but how could i copy his model?!
I don’t know to play a piano … and most probably will never be able to do that during my life time … but maybe i could still find ways to offer to the people i interact with … the same joy i felt listening that great piano song.
And …. Indeed … i knew that joy comes from simple things …
but …
Well … maybe i should meditate more …
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In my search for beautiful vibes … unfortunately i’ve found … and also connected to lots of bad energies … But why?!
Paula wrote me today … asking to make her understand how the flux of energies between human beings works …
He wanted a beautiful lady, speaking foreign languages, very intelligent… and lots of other attributes. And lots of ladies came for the interview.
But Helena .. being asked how will she succeed to increase the productivity in the company …. smiled … and started to dance in front of Brian.
She not even bothered to say a … word to him.
And it was even too ridiculous to hear something … cause all the others interviewed ladies … said so, so many silly things … that he was not listening anymore … to anything.
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… my illusory search for a beautiful life
Once finished the dance …. the lady smiles and says … “Brian
for an amazing productivity in this boring software business … you need an amazing vibe here.
Dancing a little bit to your boys … might change their vibration.
I can do this daily.
….and tell them that i love being in their presence. Explain also … about the beauty of feeling alive.
I can teach them techniques… that you never heard about. I don’t need to know 7 foreign languages, but when a partner from Japan will come …. my smile will convince him to sign the contract … not even bothering to read it.
And when i will bring you the coffee in the morning … you will be served like a king.”
Brian calls me … and asks what he should do.
The lady was amazing … and all what they needed there was
the change of the vibe.
The atmosphere was now ….
Well … maybe just comparing with a funeral … you might understand what i am telling about … so i tell to Brian … “My God! She is gorgeous! I love her! Just fucking … hire her now.
She is the perfect trick that will increase the vibration of that damn place … where everybody is so boring… “ Brian started to laugh.
He could not believe that after reading so many books … about motivation, businesses etc … a beautiful lady like this one could come and redefine all his …. perspectives
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
125
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… my illusory search for a beautiful life
A sick mind can’t
bring … good vibes
The mental health is so damn important … but we realize it only when it is almost too late. And i wonder myself … why?!
But i also wonder why the hell no one bothered to tell us to keep the mind … beautiful … and control this process everyday.
It’s so important at least as … brushing our teeth everyday … So … why we do not care about this?!
Why …. we can’t see the importance of this process?!
And … what is the connection between a beautiful mind … and a good vibe?!
Well … i believe that we all know about the fact that when we are overwhelmed of negative thoughts … the vibe is fucked up … and when the mind has positive thoughts … everything is perfect and we feel great.
So … basically … that can be translated in the fact that a mind focused on positive and beautiful things will automatically bring … great vibes.
But what if we don’t really control our minds?!
What if the mind starts to be sick?!
And how can we recognize this sickness?!
Can we accept that as part of our lives?!
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
126
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… my illusory search for a beautiful life
Can we somehow cure it?!
Well … most probably we will never accept that the mind … is not in good shape … and almost never … that we lost control over it.
Or …. maybe just analyzing and defining the thoughts and
actions … we go in a position where we actually understand that we do not follow good paths.
Overwhelmed of all sorts of things … but also of obsessions
just remembering the concept of … vibe … and measuring it all the time … we realize how important is the mind in the process of becoming … happy.
One day … we finally understand that a sick mind can’t really bring …. beautiful things in our lives.
And that is the day … when the process of healing starts. We start analyzing why are not happy … and why we remain in that ugly world … designed by our own thoughts.
And again … the answer comes so … damn easy.
We simple … can’t control ourselves … and our minds.
The vibe itself is just a reflection that is whispering the truth about where we are … on the timeline of mind.
So … controlling the thoughts and emotions … going in fact into a state of auto control …. should be the best … for a better life.
Analyzing all the time the vibe … asking questions on and on and on …. going deeper and deeper … becomes … a must. But the whole process … is similar with the one of going to the gym.
If you forget about it … then you lose control again.
You continue the process daily … then everything becomes
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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… my illusory search for a beautiful life
easier and easier.
And in fact life … becomes … beautiful.
Mental health might be excellent , good, bad … or even horrible …. but however it is … we must simple accept the truth … define the daily vibe … and always improve it.
Cause … vibes … never lie.
Being honest … no matter what is going on …. we can simple
decide to change direction.
And the new destination … is the one to … great vibes.
So … bottomline that is the reason why is so damn important to have a great mental health.
A sick mind … will never bring good vibes … but a beautiful one might come with the joy that we are always chasing for.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
128
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… my illusory search for a beautiful life
Riding my bike …. the perfect
thing to do on Monday
A very wealthy guy just called me.
It was monday afternoon.
Most probably the whole planet was hating the day already.
Fucking … Monday.
Everybody … just disliked it.
But not John.
Relaxed … he was riding his bicycle… and was enjoying the day.
So … i’ve asked:
“How the hell can you do this on Monday?!
The whole plannet is stressed … disliking the fact that this is the most annoying day of the week?!” John started to laugh:
“But what is the difference between Sunday and Monday …
cause i just can’t see it?!
Yesterday i enjoyed Sunday.
Today … i simple enjoy … Monday.
Am riding my bike and talk on the phone. What is the difference between you and me?!
You do the same thing … but stay in a prison … that you hate for years … called … office.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
129
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… my illusory search for a beautiful life
Sometimes you like it … but most of the time makes you feel like a prisoner.
I can run my businesses from the city, riding my bike, feel free … and actually giving you and to many other people like you … a different example.
We all love money … but why can’t we reinvent the concept of … the office?!
The office can be … on the beach.
Can be on the lake … fishing.
Can be on the beautiful coffee shop … in the city center. Actually …. the office can everywhere, as long as you have the mobile phone with you.”
“John .. still … it’s Monday.
And even worst …. you have an amazing vibe.
Hmm … can’t get the trick”
It was really annoying to understand this concept … but later on … closing the conversation with him … i understood that the trick was quite simple.
John was combining what he had to do …. talking on the
phone … with what he loved to do … riding his bike.
He simple did not cared anymore … that it was Monday.
Enjoying the day … was in the top of his to do list.
I had a longer list with the thing i had to do … but i never thought that i should enjoy the day … no matter what day it was.
So … maybe it’s the perfect time to reinvent myself. And … indeed is never … too late!
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
130
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… my illusory search for a beautiful life
The vibe … can totally change a person
Each time when a refugee was hosted to my place, i had to declare them to the authorities.
I took a photo of their id or passport and sent them to the chief of police from our commune.
But i could not stop myself to analyze the the photos from the documents … and compare to the way they were actually looking.
When Yuliya came she looked … totally different that the photo from her passport.
It might look like i am over reacting, but she was so stressed by the war from her country … than even if she was 30 … was looking like almost 45.
I was looking at her … and i could not believe the huge difference between the photo and her real look.
Then … obsessed as always of analyzing … i wondered myself … why this difference exists?!
What really happened with her that this huge difference appeared?!
Well … i certainly did not understood what a war means .. but …
Being extremely busy with other things, i could not meet her again for few days.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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… my illusory search for a beautiful life
Then i’ve been to visit them … and when i saw her …. I was
totally surprised … again.
And i asked myself … who the hell is this beautiful lady?! Yuliya was looking so … changed.
She started to be the same person … like the one from her documents.
Feeling relaxed, safe … she actually started to re become herself.
Yes …. truth be told … stress redefines people so much.
But also relaxation.
And in such a short time … everything suddenly changes.
I was glad seeing her … having a great vibe.
I was studying so much the impact of the vibe on a person … and Yuliya was the perfect example for me for understanding such a scenario.
I realized is useless to study what a war … means.
My new friend sent me all those messages … about the war … and the way a human being becomes totally redefined by that impact.
A fucked vibe … can make a soul … become a ruin … but once that person gets back the beautiful vibe … everything comes back to normal.
And maybe it’s time to understand that it’s extremely important to keep a great vibe all the time … no matter what is going on … on the stage of our lives.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
132
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… my illusory search for a beautiful life
For keeping a great vibe all the time we should keep in mind that everything happens in our lives … is happening for a good reason … sometimes difficult to be understood … but still … in our own interest
I’ve been so stressed in the last few weeks about some legal aspects with my real estate investments.
Everything was happening cause i delayed some things … on and on and on.
And now i was paying the price for that.
My vibe … was totally fucked up.
People started to tell me … “What is going on with you?! You look so stressed.”
Hmm… it became all … so obvious.
And still … even if i disliked all what was going on …. I was
responsible of everything.
In the beginning… i was blaming the authorities… and everyone involved in the process of completing my papers for the houses i owned … but …
Well … damn it … it took me so much time to be honest with myself … and admit the real truth.
I was always delaying things … most probably suffering of procrastination… even if i did not admitted it.
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
133
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… my illusory search for a beautiful life
I was acting like a fat person that was eating on and on and on … blaming the stress for that.
Or … like so many others that were blaming the circumstances and the people from the timeline of their lives
for all the problems that are making their existence miserable.
But guess what?!
One day … i simple said … “Damn it! Stop it … idiot!” I was speaking with myself.
It was the first time … when i was real honest.
My vibe was fucked up …. because of the stress generated … of my procrastination.
And all the legal problems i was experiencing … even if i could not see that … were in my own interest.
Somehow … everything was pushing me to get rid of delaying things on and on and on.
Once the problems will be solved … the stress itself will most probably just disappear.
Will look like magic … and my good vibe will dominate again my life.
It was a life lesson which made me understand that it was all in my powers … but it was also proved that i need some pressure on me to … move my ass.
I was acting like an idiot for so many years in a row … and only not standing the fucked vibe anymore … i accepted that i need to change myself.
And the question now is … do we also need bad vibes?! Well … being so idiots … yessss
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
134
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… my illusory search for a beautiful life
The joy of offering joy … an amazing trick for beautiful vibes
I was on the streets … and i was amazed of seeing a guy with his piano … playing so beautiful.
I don’t know so many things about music … but i simple love it.
It gives me … joy.
And today … i saw few guys singing on the street ….
connecting people to beautiful vibes for few seconds … at least.
I stayed in the company of this weird guy a little bit longer … maybe not more than 2-3 minutes … and i just loved it.
In such a short time … he succeeded to induce me … a joy … so difficult to be defined.
I started to pay attention to my inner feelings …. and could
not understand how music … today with the help of this amazing street pianist …. could actually switch my vibe so easily.
And now the question is … why the hell should we pay a therapist to heal depression ….and follow a process for many
months in the row … or even years … if a guy like this one … is changing the vibration … so damn easily?
Well … difficult question … and not so many answers … but … I continued my walk … and i was still hearing that piano
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… my illusory search for a beautiful life
music in my head … while meditating … how easy it is to change the vibe and connect to beautiful energies. The pianist was so passionate of what he was doing.
He was living in his soul with the joy of offering the joy to the others … but how could i copy his model?!
I don’t know to play a piano … and most probably will never be able to do that during my life time … but maybe i could still find ways to offer to the people i interact with … the same joy i felt listening that great piano song.
And …. Indeed … i knew that joy comes from simple things …
but …
Well … maybe i should meditate more …
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
136
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… my illusory search for a beautiful life
In my search for beautiful vibes … unfortunately i’ve found … and also connected to lots of bad energies … But why?!
Paula wrote me today … asking to make her understand how the flux of energies between human beings works …
