ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
ABSTRACT
LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Adrian G Dumitru
Adrian G Dumitru
1
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
ADRIAN DUMITRU
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Year: 2020
Author: Adrian Dumitru
Adrian G Dumitru
2
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
THE TRUTH ABOUT LIFE IS THAT
… IT'S ALL ABOUT LOVE
You succed hiding your emotions till one day when a lovelly person disturbs you so much and then you really understand that the whole meaning of life is just to see love in everything. You will continue hiding what you feel, just by defining the scene in an abstrat way.
And this is how you let love come to your soul … under the mask of the abstract love.
Is real love, maybe infinite … but you call it abstract.
And you succed hiding the truth, which is just lying yourself again and again.
Adrian G Dumitru
3
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Introduction
There are lots of books published every year, with all kinds of theories, but not so many expressing the concept of abstract love.
I would define this a reflection of our thoughts into the real life.
We call it abstract, cause have nothing to do with the normal dogmatic way of seeing the love stories.
Real love, that perfect scenario with the perfect partner, can be seen at any age, depending of the luck our karma allows us to have.
But we want it so much, that the Universe allows us this meeting, with only one obstacle which in many cases makes the love story imposible.
Thinking in a positive way, we redefine the imposible story as an abstract one. Being a reflection of our dreams, the story itself is a perfect one, except the fact that you cannot enjoy the story into the real word, creating the image of an illusion.
Imposible love stories are present all over the world.
After posting a long time in social media, i received messages from people from all the continents telling me about them.
The word “love” being present near the word “imposible”, creates this strange, illusory and abstract way of seeing the magic of love.
The book is a collection of essays, my thoughts about the interconnection between the illusion and reality.
I used a lot the term illusion, cause we all look for perfect scenarios, especially when it comes to love, but the truth is that perfection is far, far away of reality. We can interconnect illusions with the real world ... just through imposible love stories.
In the end, the book is a personal development writing, that allows us to understand the magic of love but also a method that teaches how to enjoy life even if we dislike the word “imposible”.
Adrian G Dumitru
4
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Abstract love
Is very difficult to define the concept of abstract love.
Living with infinite love in the heart, but never understand how to show it ... that should be the real definition.
But we dont understand that is not necesary to express it ... real love can be felt without the presence of any word at all.
Even if we have this huge need of seeing things ... some of the them can be seen only by the soul... which sends back that infinite feeling ... called love.
Being abstract is strange ... from the dogmatic way of seeing life ... but just let the soul express everthing.
Adrian G Dumitru
5
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
An indiscriminate hunger
for appreciation or affection
Why we post our lifes on social media?!
Why we look who liked or photos?!
Why we care so much obout other what people think of us?!
Art of defining life in the contemporary society should start with those 3 silly questions.
Seneca was a nice guy who lived about 2000 years ago.
If you read his thoughts, and dont know who he was ... and read especially his ideas about the mouth of the world, you might think that he is probably a professor of philosophy speaking about our society from 21st century.
So our value is defined by the mouth of the world?! It was the same 2000 years ago?!
George Soros has an interesting theory about the values on the stock markets. He says that the values are defined by what people think that other people think. So ... we dont speak about real values, but by prices influenced of the opinions of people involved in buying - selling process.
This is why if a group of people start to sell, they all start to sell and the values goes down and vice versa.
Letting other people define your real value in the “stock market” of social media ... in the end proves to be a silly thing.
Nobody can define your value better than you and nobody has the right to underevaluate your actual position.
Adrian G Dumitru
6
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Touching the horizon line
is our main obsessive desire
If you ask a good business man about money and when he will stop this desire of more and more money is like if you should ask an alcoholic why he does not stop when he thinks he drunk enough.
The desire of more is part of our mental dna.
Lots of people, men and women, from all over the world, are using tinder and other apps to date ... but not just to find a soul mate but to date with as many new partners as posible.
More of them become sex addicted.
Using alcohol or drugs ... is usually ending up not just tasting ... but being addicted for life.
We usually find something we like to do and become the slaves of our pleasures.
The desire of more and more is like wanting to touch the horizon line.
You will never be able to feed enough these silly desires.
If you have the power to see this in your life and define very clear the addiction to something, step by step you can heal yourself.
Drinking is not something bad. Drinking a lot might ruin your life.
Tasting drugs in clubs just to have fun and enjoy the evening might not be the worst thing you ever did.
The problem is that in many case you loose control of the situation and “the more and more” is controling you.
This is when the addiction start to define you in silly way.
And truth be told, the horozin line cannot be touch.
In life you have the liberty to taste everything you want, but dont loose the control on yourself.
Life is beautiful as long as the moments you live define you.
If is not something you like to see ... JUST STOP.
Adrian G Dumitru
7
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
The emotional factory
When you live the day that gives you happiness, anger, joy, anxienty ... a cocktail of different feelings ... all caused by the same person ... it means you just met your real love.
It might sound as a disaster, the fact that you just became a factory of very powerfull emotions, but remember that the infinity is everything.
Definition of being in love means to have ALL your heart can feel.
The meaning of life is to feel the joy of living and sometimes the heart sees what is invisible to the eye ... so let your emotional factory do whatever wants.
Adrian G Dumitru
8
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
The love story
The love story appears for a reason or just for a season?!
It might happen to fall in love without realising.... in a time when you did not
even thought that this could happen.
The love story comes on the time line of your life and most probably it brings to you joy and all kinds of strong emotions.
Sometimes the reason it appears is just to cure your soul ... and to be in the story for only a season is enough.
But, in the end, we should not think so much about details, but just enjoy it.
Love is life.
Adrian G Dumitru
9
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
In love with our reflection
Hows that not so long time ago you had been in love and now dont even realise how you were so idiot being in love with that person?!
What is happening is that you start seeing things that you dislike.
The energy of begining is very strong and might create powerfull illusions.
We are in love of making money ... and then we see that money dont bring the happiness.
We are in love of a person that in the end is breaking our heart and realise that was just an ugly story.
We have so many examples but somehow we cannot see them.
We are in love with our reflection ... with the mirror of our desires .... but
everything has to do with the world of desires is just an illusion of the self.
Adrian G Dumitru
10
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
The soul – a mix of something good, something bad and somethings dirty
We accepted to belong to the society and be what the society is.
But we dont feel well.
To feel well, you need to clean your soul.
It is a long, long process, but in the end it might be the best thing that could ever happened to you.
How you clean your soul?!
Is simple. Just accept that the soul on the stange of life is a mix of something good, something bad and something dirty.
Try to observe you and after understanding your behavior in the real life just decide to become a better self.
It might take longer that you expect things to happen, but the reason we are here is because we must discover ourself and follow the evolution of the soul.
So observe yourself, accept yourself and decide which one is the version should
play on the timeline of your life.
Is just a choice.
Adrian G Dumitru
11
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Why we loose our minds?!
Most of the times, what we call reality, is not what we have in mind to see.
Life happens to us.... life does not happen for us.
We decide to use alchol, drogs, multiple sexual relationships, make more and more money, buy expensive things, etc etc ... just to forget that we are unhappy. But we end waking up, day by day, with the same ugly feelings. We dont feel the joy of living... and no joy at all.
The answear?!
There is a reason things are happening in the way they are happening and most of the time we dont understand clearlly what the Universe wants for us.
We need to redefine the way we see life, forget about controlling every minute and not loose our minds cause things are not happening the way we want them to happen.
If you dont know how lucky you are, make a list with all the things you have that money cant buy.
Then enjoy all those things.
Dont try to control life. Just enjoy it!
Adrian G Dumitru
12
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Redefine your love relationship
You stay home with the spouse and feel that you just live boring times?!
What if, just as a life experiment, you try to rediscover the person that long time before was the best love story of your life?!
Redefine the present moment from boring times to the best moment of enjoying life at home.
Life should be enjoyed in any circumstances.
And it must be filled with joy and love.
Adrian G Dumitru
13
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Love stories redefines
by social distancing?!
Just over night love stories had been redefined.
We discuss about the #stayhome effects into the economy, but talk too little about about the souls of people that are in love or are looking for love.
People started to chat a lot, and also videochat, but for the ones that dont stay under the same roof with the persons they are in love with, life is totally different in nowadays time.
The way we live the love had been redefined.
I wonder how love affairs are looking nowadays?! ... and am really curious.
Love affairs are a magic pill, just as a drug, that gives you energy to continue life in 2 different realities, one where you are not happy and one that gives you the joy of living.
But there are also teenagers in love at school that dont meet anymore, people that used tinder etc etc to meet new people and find that ideal partner that never appears ... and they cannot date anymore.
So, life is different, but how we can make our souls survive?!
Does the world goes into an era of emotional bankrupcy?!
How we going to live as this, if the situation is going on for months and months from now?!
100% Love stories had been redefined.
Adrian G Dumitru
14
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Last night of sex,
first night of making love
We love having sex ... the all of us .. men and women. Sex is a miracle of life.
To fulfill the emptiness of our souls we want more and more sex, and in one point with more and more partners.
People that takes drugs are the same... they start with little dozes and in one point they just loose control.
The only thing that you can do after having lots pf partners is just write a book ...
and tell an interesting story.
Just few realise that in one point they need to stop and look only for love.
When you go from last night of sex to the first night of making love ... you start a new life ... and that is a love story.
Adrian G Dumitru
15
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Do you still believe in fairy tales?
No ... most probably this is the answear for the most of us.
We had this strong ability to dream .... when we were kids ...and somehow,
without realising, we stop believing in fairy tales.
When we were teenagers ... the love ... let us still dream ... but again we lost this ability again.
Years are passing, one by one ...we become stronger .... but completlly forget to
dream and to love.
Sometimes the love and the dream ... becomes one entity ... but who we
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
ABSTRACT
LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Adrian G Dumitru
Adrian G Dumitru
1
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
ADRIAN DUMITRU
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Year: 2020
Author: Adrian Dumitru
Adrian G Dumitru
2
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
THE TRUTH ABOUT LIFE IS THAT
… IT'S ALL ABOUT LOVE
You succed hiding your emotions till one day when a lovelly person disturbs you so much and then you really understand that the whole meaning of life is just to see love in everything. You will continue hiding what you feel, just by defining the scene in an abstrat way.
And this is how you let love come to your soul … under the mask of the abstract love.
Is real love, maybe infinite … but you call it abstract.
And you succed hiding the truth, which is just lying yourself again and again.
Adrian G Dumitru
3
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Introduction
There are lots of books published every year, with all kinds of theories, but not so many expressing the concept of abstract love.
I would define this a reflection of our thoughts into the real life.
We call it abstract, cause have nothing to do with the normal dogmatic way of seeing the love stories.
Real love, that perfect scenario with the perfect partner, can be seen at any age, depending of the luck our karma allows us to have.
But we want it so much, that the Universe allows us this meeting, with only one obstacle which in many cases makes the love story imposible.
Thinking in a positive way, we redefine the imposible story as an abstract one. Being a reflection of our dreams, the story itself is a perfect one, except the fact that you cannot enjoy the story into the real word, creating the image of an illusion.
Imposible love stories are present all over the world.
After posting a long time in social media, i received messages from people from all the continents telling me about them.
The word “love” being present near the word “imposible”, creates this strange, illusory and abstract way of seeing the magic of love.
The book is a collection of essays, my thoughts about the interconnection between the illusion and reality.
I used a lot the term illusion, cause we all look for perfect scenarios, especially when it comes to love, but the truth is that perfection is far, far away of reality. We can interconnect illusions with the real world ... just through imposible love stories.
In the end, the book is a personal development writing, that allows us to understand the magic of love but also a method that teaches how to enjoy life even if we dislike the word “imposible”.
Adrian G Dumitru
4
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Abstract love
Is very difficult to define the concept of abstract love.
Living with infinite love in the heart, but never understand how to show it ... that should be the real definition.
But we dont understand that is not necesary to express it ... real love can be felt without the presence of any word at all.
Even if we have this huge need of seeing things ... some of the them can be seen only by the soul... which sends back that infinite feeling ... called love.
Being abstract is strange ... from the dogmatic way of seeing life ... but just let the soul express everthing.
Adrian G Dumitru
5
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
An indiscriminate hunger
for appreciation or affection
Why we post our lifes on social media?!
Why we look who liked or photos?!
Why we care so much obout other what people think of us?!
Art of defining life in the contemporary society should start with those 3 silly questions.
Seneca was a nice guy who lived about 2000 years ago.
If you read his thoughts, and dont know who he was ... and read especially his ideas about the mouth of the world, you might think that he is probably a professor of philosophy speaking about our society from 21st century.
So our value is defined by the mouth of the world?! It was the same 2000 years ago?!
George Soros has an interesting theory about the values on the stock markets. He says that the values are defined by what people think that other people think. So ... we dont speak about real values, but by prices influenced of the opinions of people involved in buying - selling process.
This is why if a group of people start to sell, they all start to sell and the values goes down and vice versa.
Letting other people define your real value in the “stock market” of social media ... in the end proves to be a silly thing.
Nobody can define your value better than you and nobody has the right to underevaluate your actual position.
Adrian G Dumitru
6
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Touching the horizon line
is our main obsessive desire
If you ask a good business man about money and when he will stop this desire of more and more money is like if you should ask an alcoholic why he does not stop when he thinks he drunk enough.
The desire of more is part of our mental dna.
Lots of people, men and women, from all over the world, are using tinder and other apps to date ... but not just to find a soul mate but to date with as many new partners as posible.
More of them become sex addicted.
Using alcohol or drugs ... is usually ending up not just tasting ... but being addicted for life.
We usually find something we like to do and become the slaves of our pleasures.
The desire of more and more is like wanting to touch the horizon line.
You will never be able to feed enough these silly desires.
If you have the power to see this in your life and define very clear the addiction to something, step by step you can heal yourself.
Drinking is not something bad. Drinking a lot might ruin your life.
Tasting drugs in clubs just to have fun and enjoy the evening might not be the worst thing you ever did.
The problem is that in many case you loose control of the situation and “the more and more” is controling you.
This is when the addiction start to define you in silly way.
And truth be told, the horozin line cannot be touch.
In life you have the liberty to taste everything you want, but dont loose the control on yourself.
Life is beautiful as long as the moments you live define you.
If is not something you like to see ... JUST STOP.
Adrian G Dumitru
7
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
The emotional factory
When you live the day that gives you happiness, anger, joy, anxienty ... a cocktail of different feelings ... all caused by the same person ... it means you just met your real love.
It might sound as a disaster, the fact that you just became a factory of very powerfull emotions, but remember that the infinity is everything.
Definition of being in love means to have ALL your heart can feel.
The meaning of life is to feel the joy of living and sometimes the heart sees what is invisible to the eye ... so let your emotional factory do whatever wants.
Adrian G Dumitru
8
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
The love story
The love story appears for a reason or just for a season?!
It might happen to fall in love without realising.... in a time when you did not
even thought that this could happen.
The love story comes on the time line of your life and most probably it brings to you joy and all kinds of strong emotions.
Sometimes the reason it appears is just to cure your soul ... and to be in the story for only a season is enough.
But, in the end, we should not think so much about details, but just enjoy it.
Love is life.
Adrian G Dumitru
9
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
In love with our reflection
Hows that not so long time ago you had been in love and now dont even realise how you were so idiot being in love with that person?!
What is happening is that you start seeing things that you dislike.
The energy of begining is very strong and might create powerfull illusions.
We are in love of making money ... and then we see that money dont bring the happiness.
We are in love of a person that in the end is breaking our heart and realise that was just an ugly story.
We have so many examples but somehow we cannot see them.
We are in love with our reflection ... with the mirror of our desires .... but
everything has to do with the world of desires is just an illusion of the self.
Adrian G Dumitru
10
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
The soul – a mix of something good, something bad and somethings dirty
We accepted to belong to the society and be what the society is.
But we dont feel well.
To feel well, you need to clean your soul.
It is a long, long process, but in the end it might be the best thing that could ever happened to you.
How you clean your soul?!
Is simple. Just accept that the soul on the stange of life is a mix of something good, something bad and something dirty.
Try to observe you and after understanding your behavior in the real life just decide to become a better self.
It might take longer that you expect things to happen, but the reason we are here is because we must discover ourself and follow the evolution of the soul.
So observe yourself, accept yourself and decide which one is the version should
play on the timeline of your life.
Is just a choice.
Adrian G Dumitru
11
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Why we loose our minds?!
Most of the times, what we call reality, is not what we have in mind to see.
Life happens to us.... life does not happen for us.
We decide to use alchol, drogs, multiple sexual relationships, make more and more money, buy expensive things, etc etc ... just to forget that we are unhappy. But we end waking up, day by day, with the same ugly feelings. We dont feel the joy of living... and no joy at all.
The answear?!
There is a reason things are happening in the way they are happening and most of the time we dont understand clearlly what the Universe wants for us.
We need to redefine the way we see life, forget about controlling every minute and not loose our minds cause things are not happening the way we want them to happen.
If you dont know how lucky you are, make a list with all the things you have that money cant buy.
Then enjoy all those things.
Dont try to control life. Just enjoy it!
Adrian G Dumitru
12
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Redefine your love relationship
You stay home with the spouse and feel that you just live boring times?!
What if, just as a life experiment, you try to rediscover the person that long time before was the best love story of your life?!
Redefine the present moment from boring times to the best moment of enjoying life at home.
Life should be enjoyed in any circumstances.
And it must be filled with joy and love.
Adrian G Dumitru
13
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Love stories redefines
by social distancing?!
Just over night love stories had been redefined.
We discuss about the #stayhome effects into the economy, but talk too little about about the souls of people that are in love or are looking for love.
People started to chat a lot, and also videochat, but for the ones that dont stay under the same roof with the persons they are in love with, life is totally different in nowadays time.
The way we live the love had been redefined.
I wonder how love affairs are looking nowadays?! ... and am really curious.
Love affairs are a magic pill, just as a drug, that gives you energy to continue life in 2 different realities, one where you are not happy and one that gives you the joy of living.
But there are also teenagers in love at school that dont meet anymore, people that used tinder etc etc to meet new people and find that ideal partner that never appears ... and they cannot date anymore.
So, life is different, but how we can make our souls survive?!
Does the world goes into an era of emotional bankrupcy?!
How we going to live as this, if the situation is going on for months and months from now?!
100% Love stories had been redefined.
Adrian G Dumitru
14
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Last night of sex,
first night of making love
We love having sex ... the all of us .. men and women. Sex is a miracle of life.
To fulfill the emptiness of our souls we want more and more sex, and in one point with more and more partners.
People that takes drugs are the same... they start with little dozes and in one point they just loose control.
The only thing that you can do after having lots pf partners is just write a book ...
and tell an interesting story.
Just few realise that in one point they need to stop and look only for love.
When you go from last night of sex to the first night of making love ... you start a new life ... and that is a love story.
Adrian G Dumitru
15
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Do you still believe in fairy tales?
No ... most probably this is the answear for the most of us.
We had this strong ability to dream .... when we were kids ...and somehow,
without realising, we stop believing in fairy tales.
When we were teenagers ... the love ... let us still dream ... but again we lost this ability again.
Years are passing, one by one ...we become stronger .... but completlly forget to
dream and to love.
Sometimes the love and the dream ... becomes one entity ... but who we
