tragedy itself is that letting our talents at the disposal of the Universe, could let us influence the world ... and be a better one just cause we were here. But we dont do it.
We dont do anything at all ... not even allow us to be happy souls.
We can be also at the disposal of our friends, relatives and also at the disposal of the loved partner.
How?! Just by doing everything we can to make them feel alive.
Real happiness comes when we are at the disposal of others.
Dare to redefine the path of your actual life.
Adrian G Dumitru
129
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Boundaries with friends
With real friends we should not have any boundaries when it comes about any kind of discussions.
When you feel those boundaries exist ... then you are not close enough with those.
Sometimes we need people in our life ... that pays attention to the things we cant see precisely.
Letting us know ... will help be better us.
Is not that we should live a life .. when we all the time expect others to tell us what is going on, but keep in mind of their remarks.
Boundaries are ok, when it comes to friends, but the biggest challenge is when it comes to the loved person.
If you are in a relationship, where different subjects are difficult to discuss, even if you tryed before, with no results at all, maybe you should define togheter the concept of boundaries .... and if you want togheter an absolute relashionship ... or a relationship with certain boundaries.
So many people have a pin on their phone.
Its ok to have a pin in case you loose your phone, but letting the partner know the pin, makes them understand you dont hide anything at all.
You can let them see everything from social media, including messages, but cant give then the password ... how can this idea be defined?!
Sometimes in life, we need a partner, just because it’s very difficult to be alone. Jumping from this idea to the fact that you was not lucky enough to feel absolute connection with that person ... will let the boundaries exist. Its really ok, in both scenarios.
You can have no boundaries at all ... but you can also live into a love story without letting them absolutelly everything about you.
We are complex creatures ... and have the right to keep intact all our inside personalities.
You can be a great lawyer, a wonderful husband, but meanwhile ... just from time to time ... write your philosophical ideas about the illusion of life and publish them on social media under another name.
You have the right not to mix those things with your friends, but also with the loved person.
Everything is just a decision of how you want to live your life.
Defining the boundaries or the idea of living without them is just a choice.
Adrian G Dumitru
130
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Boooom … and one day
the fairy tale becomes reality
One of the greatest fear of the human being, the one from the modern times, is the fear of success.
We do not believe we can accomplish great things, and the day we see that we did succeded, we try to sabotage ourselves in different ... strange ways.
We come up with this idea of the fairy tale, that no matter what, cannot be real.
But ... we asked to the Universe so many times that we wanted to be happy ...
that one day it pushes us into the scene of life ... with realistics facts.
With a small “accident”, the fairy tale becomes reality.
You become that person that you wanted to be .... maybe a great writter, or a
football player, or a lawyer .... or whatever you asked for.
Also one day ....that love from the fairy tale becomes real .... and you can dare to
walk on the street with the person you love by so much time.
Define better your desires, cause one day they might become real.
If you real want that ... something ... then be prepared ... cause the Universe can say ... booom ... abracadabra ... and the fairy tale becomes reality.
Adrian G Dumitru
131
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Life is full of promises,
but too little actions
We live our lifes thinking all the time how we should act ... instead of enjoying the simple fact that we are alive ... and just be there in the present moment.
We talk and even write our promises to us and to others in different modern forms ... by phone, whatsup, face to face .... but a promise is just a promise.
What if instead of saying to the loved one ... i promise that i will make you the most happiest person from the world ....you just make her be happy today. Dont loose your time promising something you dont know will happen or not ...
but just act now.
Life is too short to make complicated scenarios ... you should just enjoy this day with the loved one ... you have no idea if tomorrow exists or not.
Define better your thoughts, promises and your actions.
Life is too short to play around.
Adrian G Dumitru
132
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
The movies from our mind
… and the one from your soul
We actually live in a movie ... or maybe even 2.
The one from our head ... with so many scenarios that never happens ... and the one from our empty souls.
Living on the stage of life, we should believe that the Universe has our back ...
feel safe and trust in our lifes, no matter what.
The movie from our minds ... usually defines the reality as a complex script ... with lots of bad or even dramatic situations ... that in 99% of the cases are never happening.
The movie from our souls ... is the one that defines a world where people see us only as shadows ... and not as lovelly beings.
Combined, the 2 movies ... create a dark reality ... not letting us be the ones we should be .... smiley persons with a happy soul.
We do not have to think that we live in a world where everything and everybody is againts us.
We should create the image of a beautiful reality ... a movie that always has a happy ending, no matter what.
So instead of a dramatic movie script ... think of a happy one.
Instead of an empty soul ... see a joyful one.
Redefine the 2 movies ... and enjoy life, cause it really can be beautiful.
Adrian G Dumitru
133
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Sex. The greatest sport of the 21st century
Sex was inveted by God for procreation, but the human being from the modern times redefined sex as a sport.
Sex is a way of totally eliminating the barrier between 2 human beings. Its an illusory way of seeing love that we are seeking for healing our souls. The dating apps that people are using today, made it very easy to meet new persons and have new sexual partners.
We say we want a soul mate and end up just doing some sport for us to be in better shape.
But sex, done with the right partner, can be fantastic, healing, empowering and also recalibrating you.
Napoleon Hill dedicated a whole chapter to sex, into the very well known book, the bible of personal development, “Think and grow rich”.
He is speaking about the greatest people from the world .... that sexually were
very active.
Sex can be fantastic at any age, even if you are 18 or 37 or 52.
Probably what we should keep in mind is that throught sex we have complex interconnections and huge exchange of energies from one to another. Done in the same time with being in love empowers you a lot.
We tend to believe that we all are experts into this subject, sex being today the greatest sport from the 21st century.
Think about the subject as a way of healing your body, mind and soul, but also a way of living your love life at a different level.
Adrian G Dumitru
134
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Waiting for a miracle
When you enter into politics, you are teached that if you want to be successful you will never get the power ... but you will need to take the power. Same happens in life.
The Universe will sometimes smile at you, will give you new chances and new opportunities, but you will need to take action so that you get from it what you want.
Most of the times we are stucked ... just doing nothing and waiting for a miracle to come ... and it never comes.
If you feel that the moment for a change had come ... define this new life that you want ... think very well at all the details ... and just do it. The miracle itself is the fact that everything will happen.
Acting on the stage of life, means you really want to receive that magic into your soul.
We have so many things that we want, but only few are important ... and those are the ones that makes your life look like a miracle. The joy from your soul might be what you are expecting.
So .... wait for good things to happen .. define very clear what you want and be
the main character of this movie called ... your life.
Believe in fairy tales, magic and the chance of a new life.
Adrian G Dumitru
135
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Beautiful colors
No matter what age you have, maybe you should paint your life into beautiful colors.
Reality can be seen as black and white, but we have so, so many beautiful colors that we dont use to add a little bit of life to our dailly moments.
Enjoying to walk on a street into the old city, drinking a coffee with the person you love, watching a love movie with a happy end ... whatever you do ... just add some colors to what you see.
Most of the time we see reality as something that we dont like ... but redefining the scene into a beautiful way .... which might look like repainting the painting ... but only with beautiful colors.
You can decide to live your life just as it is ... and also be the painter that never paints.
You know to paint ... but you dont paint?!
Have any ideas of how many books with the title “HAPPINESS” appears anually? In the 80’s we had only few ... they were best sellers ... now thousands of books with this title anually ... and everybody is reading about happiness, but probably only few know to redefine their life and live it as a happy one.
Seeing the scene of our life as a painting ... defining and redefining how things are and how you would love to see them ... might be interesting.
Adrian G Dumitru
136
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
I ve been stolen your heart and I will not give it back to you
Being honest with ourself is one of the most difficult things we must do in life.
And most of the time we fail.
Many philoshopers and religious people explained in books written from hundreds of years ago, that only love can heal our broken souls.
Enjoying the feeling of love inside your heart is probably the meaning of life. But do you have the courage to love?!
What if someone that is suddenlly appers into your life will steal your heart and not give it back to you when you will want that.
Staying into the love story might be difficult also, but giving yourself the freedom to feel alive is a fundamental right for a human beeing.
Today you re happy ... tomorrow you re not ... and having the strength to live your life is the way you should live.
You might loose your mind ... loose your heart ... loose lots of things from a regular life, but feeling alive will compensate everything.
As Jim Rohn used to say ... life is risky, but wait to see what happens when you dont risk at all.
Dont live your life as a zombie ... doing only what you are being asked to do ...
let your soul define the path.
It knows better than your silly mind.
Adrian G Dumitru
137
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
The desire + Being unhappy twice
A new day is a new chance.
The night resets everything.
You should forget everything means past and redefine your life just after openning your eyes into the morning.
But also open your soul ... embrace the world and be happy cause you just have a new chance.
Our egos contains a long list with desires.
We want all kind of things ... living the illusion that compling those desires ... our empty souls will change into happy ones.
The desire, that fata morgana ... this mirage that a thing can fulfil the emptiness inside your soul ... will bring you into the position of being unhappy twice: once cause you dont have it yet and once cause you will think that the present moment is not what has to be.
What if we redefine our lifes ... right in this moment and say: the most powerful desire i have is to live into this moment and enjoy it just as it is.
Is your career not going in the direction you want?! Its ok, at least if is the career you love.
Is your love story does not following the normal standards?!
Its ok ... as long as this is the love story of your life.
Life is a journey not a destination.
Dont define your life in a dogmatic way.
Some of the things are happening for a different reason that you might think. Be an open mind person and see the joy of traveling through life ... as a new chance that is given to you everyday.
Adrian G Dumitru
138
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Air of the soul
Life does not have a manual.
Well ... there have been written millions of books about this illusory concept, which we call life and even if so many people will tell you what to do with your destiny ... in fact, you are the only one that can define your path.
We have so many moments when we feel the emotion of being lost, and are never brave enough to be honest with us ... and only follow our hearts in everything we do.
We go through life feeling all the time the absence of the air we need for our soul ... and we do nothing about it ... cause we just ignore that the soul exists. The game of defining and redefining life is quit simple. Different rules for all of us.
Different aspects in timeline.
But when you live moments of emptiness ... that is the absense of air for your soul.
How can the air of your soul can be defined?!
For one can be riding a horse, for one racing cars ... traveling into the mountains ... or a love story.
Whatever it is ... just do it if it empowers you.
Is ridiculous that we pay so much attention to what we eat for example.
It says that for being healthy we need to be aware all the time at: the air we breath, the food we eat and the water we drink.
We dont do anything at all ... not even allow us to be happy souls.
We can be also at the disposal of our friends, relatives and also at the disposal of the loved partner.
How?! Just by doing everything we can to make them feel alive.
Real happiness comes when we are at the disposal of others.
Dare to redefine the path of your actual life.
Adrian G Dumitru
129
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Boundaries with friends
With real friends we should not have any boundaries when it comes about any kind of discussions.
When you feel those boundaries exist ... then you are not close enough with those.
Sometimes we need people in our life ... that pays attention to the things we cant see precisely.
Letting us know ... will help be better us.
Is not that we should live a life .. when we all the time expect others to tell us what is going on, but keep in mind of their remarks.
Boundaries are ok, when it comes to friends, but the biggest challenge is when it comes to the loved person.
If you are in a relationship, where different subjects are difficult to discuss, even if you tryed before, with no results at all, maybe you should define togheter the concept of boundaries .... and if you want togheter an absolute relashionship ... or a relationship with certain boundaries.
So many people have a pin on their phone.
Its ok to have a pin in case you loose your phone, but letting the partner know the pin, makes them understand you dont hide anything at all.
You can let them see everything from social media, including messages, but cant give then the password ... how can this idea be defined?!
Sometimes in life, we need a partner, just because it’s very difficult to be alone. Jumping from this idea to the fact that you was not lucky enough to feel absolute connection with that person ... will let the boundaries exist. Its really ok, in both scenarios.
You can have no boundaries at all ... but you can also live into a love story without letting them absolutelly everything about you.
We are complex creatures ... and have the right to keep intact all our inside personalities.
You can be a great lawyer, a wonderful husband, but meanwhile ... just from time to time ... write your philosophical ideas about the illusion of life and publish them on social media under another name.
You have the right not to mix those things with your friends, but also with the loved person.
Everything is just a decision of how you want to live your life.
Defining the boundaries or the idea of living without them is just a choice.
Adrian G Dumitru
130
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Boooom … and one day
the fairy tale becomes reality
One of the greatest fear of the human being, the one from the modern times, is the fear of success.
We do not believe we can accomplish great things, and the day we see that we did succeded, we try to sabotage ourselves in different ... strange ways.
We come up with this idea of the fairy tale, that no matter what, cannot be real.
But ... we asked to the Universe so many times that we wanted to be happy ...
that one day it pushes us into the scene of life ... with realistics facts.
With a small “accident”, the fairy tale becomes reality.
You become that person that you wanted to be .... maybe a great writter, or a
football player, or a lawyer .... or whatever you asked for.
Also one day ....that love from the fairy tale becomes real .... and you can dare to
walk on the street with the person you love by so much time.
Define better your desires, cause one day they might become real.
If you real want that ... something ... then be prepared ... cause the Universe can say ... booom ... abracadabra ... and the fairy tale becomes reality.
Adrian G Dumitru
131
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Life is full of promises,
but too little actions
We live our lifes thinking all the time how we should act ... instead of enjoying the simple fact that we are alive ... and just be there in the present moment.
We talk and even write our promises to us and to others in different modern forms ... by phone, whatsup, face to face .... but a promise is just a promise.
What if instead of saying to the loved one ... i promise that i will make you the most happiest person from the world ....you just make her be happy today. Dont loose your time promising something you dont know will happen or not ...
but just act now.
Life is too short to make complicated scenarios ... you should just enjoy this day with the loved one ... you have no idea if tomorrow exists or not.
Define better your thoughts, promises and your actions.
Life is too short to play around.
Adrian G Dumitru
132
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
The movies from our mind
… and the one from your soul
We actually live in a movie ... or maybe even 2.
The one from our head ... with so many scenarios that never happens ... and the one from our empty souls.
Living on the stage of life, we should believe that the Universe has our back ...
feel safe and trust in our lifes, no matter what.
The movie from our minds ... usually defines the reality as a complex script ... with lots of bad or even dramatic situations ... that in 99% of the cases are never happening.
The movie from our souls ... is the one that defines a world where people see us only as shadows ... and not as lovelly beings.
Combined, the 2 movies ... create a dark reality ... not letting us be the ones we should be .... smiley persons with a happy soul.
We do not have to think that we live in a world where everything and everybody is againts us.
We should create the image of a beautiful reality ... a movie that always has a happy ending, no matter what.
So instead of a dramatic movie script ... think of a happy one.
Instead of an empty soul ... see a joyful one.
Redefine the 2 movies ... and enjoy life, cause it really can be beautiful.
Adrian G Dumitru
133
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Sex. The greatest sport of the 21st century
Sex was inveted by God for procreation, but the human being from the modern times redefined sex as a sport.
Sex is a way of totally eliminating the barrier between 2 human beings. Its an illusory way of seeing love that we are seeking for healing our souls. The dating apps that people are using today, made it very easy to meet new persons and have new sexual partners.
We say we want a soul mate and end up just doing some sport for us to be in better shape.
But sex, done with the right partner, can be fantastic, healing, empowering and also recalibrating you.
Napoleon Hill dedicated a whole chapter to sex, into the very well known book, the bible of personal development, “Think and grow rich”.
He is speaking about the greatest people from the world .... that sexually were
very active.
Sex can be fantastic at any age, even if you are 18 or 37 or 52.
Probably what we should keep in mind is that throught sex we have complex interconnections and huge exchange of energies from one to another. Done in the same time with being in love empowers you a lot.
We tend to believe that we all are experts into this subject, sex being today the greatest sport from the 21st century.
Think about the subject as a way of healing your body, mind and soul, but also a way of living your love life at a different level.
Adrian G Dumitru
134
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Waiting for a miracle
When you enter into politics, you are teached that if you want to be successful you will never get the power ... but you will need to take the power. Same happens in life.
The Universe will sometimes smile at you, will give you new chances and new opportunities, but you will need to take action so that you get from it what you want.
Most of the times we are stucked ... just doing nothing and waiting for a miracle to come ... and it never comes.
If you feel that the moment for a change had come ... define this new life that you want ... think very well at all the details ... and just do it. The miracle itself is the fact that everything will happen.
Acting on the stage of life, means you really want to receive that magic into your soul.
We have so many things that we want, but only few are important ... and those are the ones that makes your life look like a miracle. The joy from your soul might be what you are expecting.
So .... wait for good things to happen .. define very clear what you want and be
the main character of this movie called ... your life.
Believe in fairy tales, magic and the chance of a new life.
Adrian G Dumitru
135
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Beautiful colors
No matter what age you have, maybe you should paint your life into beautiful colors.
Reality can be seen as black and white, but we have so, so many beautiful colors that we dont use to add a little bit of life to our dailly moments.
Enjoying to walk on a street into the old city, drinking a coffee with the person you love, watching a love movie with a happy end ... whatever you do ... just add some colors to what you see.
Most of the time we see reality as something that we dont like ... but redefining the scene into a beautiful way .... which might look like repainting the painting ... but only with beautiful colors.
You can decide to live your life just as it is ... and also be the painter that never paints.
You know to paint ... but you dont paint?!
Have any ideas of how many books with the title “HAPPINESS” appears anually? In the 80’s we had only few ... they were best sellers ... now thousands of books with this title anually ... and everybody is reading about happiness, but probably only few know to redefine their life and live it as a happy one.
Seeing the scene of our life as a painting ... defining and redefining how things are and how you would love to see them ... might be interesting.
Adrian G Dumitru
136
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
I ve been stolen your heart and I will not give it back to you
Being honest with ourself is one of the most difficult things we must do in life.
And most of the time we fail.
Many philoshopers and religious people explained in books written from hundreds of years ago, that only love can heal our broken souls.
Enjoying the feeling of love inside your heart is probably the meaning of life. But do you have the courage to love?!
What if someone that is suddenlly appers into your life will steal your heart and not give it back to you when you will want that.
Staying into the love story might be difficult also, but giving yourself the freedom to feel alive is a fundamental right for a human beeing.
Today you re happy ... tomorrow you re not ... and having the strength to live your life is the way you should live.
You might loose your mind ... loose your heart ... loose lots of things from a regular life, but feeling alive will compensate everything.
As Jim Rohn used to say ... life is risky, but wait to see what happens when you dont risk at all.
Dont live your life as a zombie ... doing only what you are being asked to do ...
let your soul define the path.
It knows better than your silly mind.
Adrian G Dumitru
137
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
The desire + Being unhappy twice
A new day is a new chance.
The night resets everything.
You should forget everything means past and redefine your life just after openning your eyes into the morning.
But also open your soul ... embrace the world and be happy cause you just have a new chance.
Our egos contains a long list with desires.
We want all kind of things ... living the illusion that compling those desires ... our empty souls will change into happy ones.
The desire, that fata morgana ... this mirage that a thing can fulfil the emptiness inside your soul ... will bring you into the position of being unhappy twice: once cause you dont have it yet and once cause you will think that the present moment is not what has to be.
What if we redefine our lifes ... right in this moment and say: the most powerful desire i have is to live into this moment and enjoy it just as it is.
Is your career not going in the direction you want?! Its ok, at least if is the career you love.
Is your love story does not following the normal standards?!
Its ok ... as long as this is the love story of your life.
Life is a journey not a destination.
Dont define your life in a dogmatic way.
Some of the things are happening for a different reason that you might think. Be an open mind person and see the joy of traveling through life ... as a new chance that is given to you everyday.
Adrian G Dumitru
138
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Air of the soul
Life does not have a manual.
Well ... there have been written millions of books about this illusory concept, which we call life and even if so many people will tell you what to do with your destiny ... in fact, you are the only one that can define your path.
We have so many moments when we feel the emotion of being lost, and are never brave enough to be honest with us ... and only follow our hearts in everything we do.
We go through life feeling all the time the absence of the air we need for our soul ... and we do nothing about it ... cause we just ignore that the soul exists. The game of defining and redefining life is quit simple. Different rules for all of us.
Different aspects in timeline.
But when you live moments of emptiness ... that is the absense of air for your soul.
How can the air of your soul can be defined?!
For one can be riding a horse, for one racing cars ... traveling into the mountains ... or a love story.
Whatever it is ... just do it if it empowers you.
Is ridiculous that we pay so much attention to what we eat for example.
It says that for being healthy we need to be aware all the time at: the air we breath, the food we eat and the water we drink.
