So even if your actual life just sucks, it doens t mean that you are stuck forever into that situation.
Just dare to define and redefine!
Adrian G Dumitru
48
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
The story of a broken heart from Iran
A friend of mine from Iran, a very beautiful lady, being in depression by already one year, wrote me few days ago, asking for an idea of how she can cure her soul.
She was very deep in love, but they broke up and soon after that she felt she was lost.
A beautiful soul ... lost in the land of love.
It’s a love story from Iran, but could be the same story in Russia, Japan or UK.
The laws of love dont have borders and act the same everywhere.
People somehow dont understand that any story has a begining, then the story itself and an end.
This is one of the rules from our world ... everything has a begining, but also an end.
The begining is fantastic, the story looks like a hollywood movie, but the end is always difficult to accept.
Some people are in our lives for a reason and some for just a season.
Going into depression after breaking up is one of the silliest thing you could do.
You need to accept facts, just as they are.
If the love story is fantastic ... just enjoy it, but even if you break up ... just remember the beautiful moments and continue your life, cause the Universe needs to teach you other lessons also.
It s difficult to give an advice to my friend from Iran, it s difficult to make her understand that depression has no reason to be in her life.
A beautiful lady can start another story ... even today, but needs to understand that we cannot live into the past .... but we must live into the present moment.
An iranian heart is the same as an american one, but the concept of the broken heart should not exists ... anywhere in the world.
Once you understand that everything happens for a reason and you should follow the path of least resistance, you will find no reason to accept depression. Depression is not a disease ... it s just the silly decision to think that you can stop the time or even worst ... go back into the past and still live in there.
Life is beautiful ... feel the present moment and accept the concept of time ....
past, present and future.
Other beautiful experiences are waiting for you!
Adrian G Dumitru
49
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
She runs away far away in Istambul,
hoping she will forget
Once upon a time, a nice lady, married but in love with another man ... ruined by het feelings decided to run far, far away with her husband... in Istambul.
She suffered by what is called sentimental bankrupcy and was hoping that his silly husband will cure her, being away of the love of her life.
But the Universe is laughing and she cannot forget the words of the ghost ...
cause the love itself is acting as a ghost.
Being part of a love story is like entering Mafia.
You can enter but canot go out ... at least not being broken into pieces. Indeed we have silly desires ... but be aware of what you dream for, cause you can run ... but you cant hide of what you feel deep inside your soul.
Adrian G Dumitru
50
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
You cannot meet real love
... in the real life
Real life is difficult.
We have lots of problems and the life itself is difficult to handle.
We can deal with lots of things, but in one point we colapse ... loose the control on everything and end up in strange situations.
So ... we somehow are alive, but we cannot enjoy life.
In that point we realise that whatever we do, the reality is not the best enviroment for what we have in mind.
The idea of an idealistic love story appears ... and we are in there ... into the love story.
On the scene, not in the real life, but in the fairy tale ... we dare to love with the open heart.
The magic appears ... and the real love is present into our life ... but into a parallel universe.
So truth be told, real love cannot be part of the real life, but only in a story.
A story about you and your dreams ... about an idealistic way of seeing life.
Real love exists ... but not in the real world.
So just dare to jump into that parallel universe and see what happens.
Adrian G Dumitru
51
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
She said ... ‘for me the words have no value’
... but how should we express ourselves?!
One day, a beautiful lady, very disapponted by the love of her life ... said ...
‘Enough! From now on... for me ... the words have no value!’.
She wanted a proof from the man that she was in love with, but he was doing just nothing.
He was believing in non action, even if in the past he was a business man and he was a man of action.
He had the idea that in a real love story everything should be arranged without doing anything at all.
So the question is ... does real love needs to be proved?!
Proving means ... demonstrate the truth or existence of (something) by evidence
or argument.
Is it necesary?!
Well ... i believe you can feel real love inside your soul, without any proof at all.
Infinite love is not defined by the actions we do on the timeline of our love story.
Infinite love is that real deep connection with the person you are in love with.
You dont need proofs .... you cannot understand why you are so much in love
with ... but when you look into your soul ... you see and understand everything.
Just love without asking anything in return, cause that is the real love.
Just feel it ... and enjoy the love story.
Adrian G Dumitru
52
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Dont bother to run being no 2
… just do it to win the race
I think that somehow no one bothers to tell us how to play on the scene of life. This is probably why the Universe is giving us so many lessons during our lifetime.
And one of the most important things should be that we should only dream for winning the game, in everything we do.
I mean, when you are in the begining, just being present at a race is the only thing important, but later on, after understanding what is really going on, it doesnt worth playing just to be no 2.
You will be confronted with all kinds of competitions ... and those will appear even into the love stories.
In my opinion if it is real infinite love, should make no sense at all to see the competition when you are into a relationship, but life gives you many tests, just to understand an important lesson.
And many times things are not what they looks like.
But you deserve in life, only what is the best for you ... so play for winning the game ... not for being no 2 ... and if you end up as no 2, especially into a love story ... just stop and start another chapter of your life.
Adrian G Dumitru
53
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Dont run away
… is useless
I know a guy that was very deep in love of a married lady. He was married too ... but still, could not control his feelings and forget the infinite love that he carries for that lady.
They tried to break up for tens of times, but they always failed.
The last time they tryed it ... they spoke very seriouselly thinking that they will start to forget about each other.
They hoped that the imposible will happen and they will break up ... but the Universe was laughing of them again.
Each time they said STOP, the Universe arranged things so that they will meet again and again and again.
And everything was ok till they met again.
Seeing their eyes again, the love exploded into their souls and they continued the love affair.
One day the guy was in a shop and met the lady and her hunsband.
Seeing them he got scared and run away.
The husband thought that the lover of his wife is afraid of him and this is why he was running away ... but the guy was running away cause he was afraid of meeting the illusion again .. the love of his life, a married lady.
I mean morally, with reference to the principles of right and wrong behaviour, something is not ok into this love story ... but love can appear in our life in many, many ways.
The guy from the story, was a guy that was afraiding of the infinite power of love. And probably running away is not a choice ... especially when you know that you deal with forces much strongers than yours.
So dont bother to control your heart ... is useless.
Adrian G Dumitru
54
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Feeling you lose the game
You have a chance and then another ... and maybe another.
Is like the Universe is not letting you lose the game, as long as you still believe that there is a chance.
But one day you start feeling that you are going to loose and that’s only cause deep inside you only see ZERO CHANCE for winning.
The Universe leaves you alone, so that you have time to meditate and think again of a new path so that you will win.
When your soul is feeling the time has come, then everything will happen.
It s about asking, believing and receiving.
Saying “I feel like i am losing you and there is nothing i can do” is just an illusion.
At the right time ... everything happens just the way we want things to happen.
Adrian G Dumitru
55
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
I ve lost the train
Life gives us all kinds of opportunities, but maybe we miss 90% of them.
But it’s ok. There are lessons we need to learn and is difficult to understand in that moment what is really going on.
And we have small dreams, but also big dreams.
When you miss small opportunities is ok, cause maybe tomorrow same opportunity will appear again ... but when we miss the big dream, we realise the impact will going to have on our life.
We dont have the power to believe that maybe that is not the path.
The soul is almost crying, thinking that the big chance had disappeared forever.
We missed the train indeed.
But have you ever thought that missing that train, was to chance to meet a new person in the railroad station ... a person that could really change your life?! Truth be told after a train is leaving, another one is coming and then another one is leaving.
Life is full of opportunities, so just smile ... and continue your life.
Adrian G Dumitru
56
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Home, sweet home
... or just a private prison?!
I love houses ... and also everything has to do with interior design. Nowadays people are investing in their homes almost everything they earn or even more just to create an enjoyable and cozy ambient for their famillies.
Real estate is a huge business today, only because people have the believe that a beautiful house can make them and their familly happy.
But the truth is that you can be a king or a queen, live in a huge palace, but deep inside yourself feel empty and very unhappy.
Is not the house that can make the familly happy ... but the people living in the house that can be togheter a happy familly.
You could come home and say “home, sweet home!”, or leave home and say “thanks God is monday and i leave to work”.
You can live in a tiny house and feel that you have a gorgeous home ... and live in a palace and feel you live in a prison.
Adrian G Dumitru
57
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
2 seconds of being alive
A day has 86.400 seconds.
Imagine you would count from 1 to 86.400 ... but all those seconds, most of them, are not fulfilled with joy, even if we want as this to happen. Why?!
Because we do not know how to stay alive.
And one day a miracle is happening.
You meet one person that knows to make you alive, but somehow you just miss the chance to be into the real life togheter.
You had all oportunities, but you did not know to arrange the things ... and everything is gone.
You try to forget everything, start lieing yourself daily, saying that everything is gone, but boom ... you meet that person again while driving ... and everything colapse and you feel again alive for 2 seconds.
You live in only those 2 seconds everything a human being can feel inside of the soul.
2 seconds are more important and powerful than 86.400 seconds ... and in that moment you realise what is really life about.
2 seconds are more important as money, properties or the carrier you have.
Try to feel alive.
Dont waste your life doing all kinds of silly things.
Adrian G Dumitru
58
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Cause everything is about stealing
We want all kinds of things and some of them we want with all our hearts. The Universe is playing with us ... gives us something, but sometimes not for 100% and we start desiring more and more and more.
In one point we start acting crazy, cause of this infinite desire.
And we kepp asking ourself and start defining all kinds of reason why we actually have everything and actually we have nothing. The idea of the illusion comes into our minds.
We want ... we want ... we want... but there is only one thing that really matters in life and that is meeting the infinite love. So ... why we get 99% and not 100%?!
The one procent left is the connection itself , that you need to have with that person.
And there is something more ... you cannot ask for the soul, but you can steal the heart of that person, cause into a love story you are allowed to do anything you want.
The Universe is your friend and will help you do whatever you want as long as keep in mind what is called ... the laws of the Universe. So just do it ... steal the heart and never give it back!
Adrian G Dumitru
59
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Inspired by the world we live in
We are inspired by the people around us.
And new people that appears in our lives ... inspire us most.
A writer for example is inspired by the love of his life and there is a saying ... if you want to be immortal, live a love story with a writer.
But some people will be offended if will see that inspires you.
Just dare to define and redefine!
Adrian G Dumitru
48
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
The story of a broken heart from Iran
A friend of mine from Iran, a very beautiful lady, being in depression by already one year, wrote me few days ago, asking for an idea of how she can cure her soul.
She was very deep in love, but they broke up and soon after that she felt she was lost.
A beautiful soul ... lost in the land of love.
It’s a love story from Iran, but could be the same story in Russia, Japan or UK.
The laws of love dont have borders and act the same everywhere.
People somehow dont understand that any story has a begining, then the story itself and an end.
This is one of the rules from our world ... everything has a begining, but also an end.
The begining is fantastic, the story looks like a hollywood movie, but the end is always difficult to accept.
Some people are in our lives for a reason and some for just a season.
Going into depression after breaking up is one of the silliest thing you could do.
You need to accept facts, just as they are.
If the love story is fantastic ... just enjoy it, but even if you break up ... just remember the beautiful moments and continue your life, cause the Universe needs to teach you other lessons also.
It s difficult to give an advice to my friend from Iran, it s difficult to make her understand that depression has no reason to be in her life.
A beautiful lady can start another story ... even today, but needs to understand that we cannot live into the past .... but we must live into the present moment.
An iranian heart is the same as an american one, but the concept of the broken heart should not exists ... anywhere in the world.
Once you understand that everything happens for a reason and you should follow the path of least resistance, you will find no reason to accept depression. Depression is not a disease ... it s just the silly decision to think that you can stop the time or even worst ... go back into the past and still live in there.
Life is beautiful ... feel the present moment and accept the concept of time ....
past, present and future.
Other beautiful experiences are waiting for you!
Adrian G Dumitru
49
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
She runs away far away in Istambul,
hoping she will forget
Once upon a time, a nice lady, married but in love with another man ... ruined by het feelings decided to run far, far away with her husband... in Istambul.
She suffered by what is called sentimental bankrupcy and was hoping that his silly husband will cure her, being away of the love of her life.
But the Universe is laughing and she cannot forget the words of the ghost ...
cause the love itself is acting as a ghost.
Being part of a love story is like entering Mafia.
You can enter but canot go out ... at least not being broken into pieces. Indeed we have silly desires ... but be aware of what you dream for, cause you can run ... but you cant hide of what you feel deep inside your soul.
Adrian G Dumitru
50
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
You cannot meet real love
... in the real life
Real life is difficult.
We have lots of problems and the life itself is difficult to handle.
We can deal with lots of things, but in one point we colapse ... loose the control on everything and end up in strange situations.
So ... we somehow are alive, but we cannot enjoy life.
In that point we realise that whatever we do, the reality is not the best enviroment for what we have in mind.
The idea of an idealistic love story appears ... and we are in there ... into the love story.
On the scene, not in the real life, but in the fairy tale ... we dare to love with the open heart.
The magic appears ... and the real love is present into our life ... but into a parallel universe.
So truth be told, real love cannot be part of the real life, but only in a story.
A story about you and your dreams ... about an idealistic way of seeing life.
Real love exists ... but not in the real world.
So just dare to jump into that parallel universe and see what happens.
Adrian G Dumitru
51
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
She said ... ‘for me the words have no value’
... but how should we express ourselves?!
One day, a beautiful lady, very disapponted by the love of her life ... said ...
‘Enough! From now on... for me ... the words have no value!’.
She wanted a proof from the man that she was in love with, but he was doing just nothing.
He was believing in non action, even if in the past he was a business man and he was a man of action.
He had the idea that in a real love story everything should be arranged without doing anything at all.
So the question is ... does real love needs to be proved?!
Proving means ... demonstrate the truth or existence of (something) by evidence
or argument.
Is it necesary?!
Well ... i believe you can feel real love inside your soul, without any proof at all.
Infinite love is not defined by the actions we do on the timeline of our love story.
Infinite love is that real deep connection with the person you are in love with.
You dont need proofs .... you cannot understand why you are so much in love
with ... but when you look into your soul ... you see and understand everything.
Just love without asking anything in return, cause that is the real love.
Just feel it ... and enjoy the love story.
Adrian G Dumitru
52
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Dont bother to run being no 2
… just do it to win the race
I think that somehow no one bothers to tell us how to play on the scene of life. This is probably why the Universe is giving us so many lessons during our lifetime.
And one of the most important things should be that we should only dream for winning the game, in everything we do.
I mean, when you are in the begining, just being present at a race is the only thing important, but later on, after understanding what is really going on, it doesnt worth playing just to be no 2.
You will be confronted with all kinds of competitions ... and those will appear even into the love stories.
In my opinion if it is real infinite love, should make no sense at all to see the competition when you are into a relationship, but life gives you many tests, just to understand an important lesson.
And many times things are not what they looks like.
But you deserve in life, only what is the best for you ... so play for winning the game ... not for being no 2 ... and if you end up as no 2, especially into a love story ... just stop and start another chapter of your life.
Adrian G Dumitru
53
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Dont run away
… is useless
I know a guy that was very deep in love of a married lady. He was married too ... but still, could not control his feelings and forget the infinite love that he carries for that lady.
They tried to break up for tens of times, but they always failed.
The last time they tryed it ... they spoke very seriouselly thinking that they will start to forget about each other.
They hoped that the imposible will happen and they will break up ... but the Universe was laughing of them again.
Each time they said STOP, the Universe arranged things so that they will meet again and again and again.
And everything was ok till they met again.
Seeing their eyes again, the love exploded into their souls and they continued the love affair.
One day the guy was in a shop and met the lady and her hunsband.
Seeing them he got scared and run away.
The husband thought that the lover of his wife is afraid of him and this is why he was running away ... but the guy was running away cause he was afraid of meeting the illusion again .. the love of his life, a married lady.
I mean morally, with reference to the principles of right and wrong behaviour, something is not ok into this love story ... but love can appear in our life in many, many ways.
The guy from the story, was a guy that was afraiding of the infinite power of love. And probably running away is not a choice ... especially when you know that you deal with forces much strongers than yours.
So dont bother to control your heart ... is useless.
Adrian G Dumitru
54
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Feeling you lose the game
You have a chance and then another ... and maybe another.
Is like the Universe is not letting you lose the game, as long as you still believe that there is a chance.
But one day you start feeling that you are going to loose and that’s only cause deep inside you only see ZERO CHANCE for winning.
The Universe leaves you alone, so that you have time to meditate and think again of a new path so that you will win.
When your soul is feeling the time has come, then everything will happen.
It s about asking, believing and receiving.
Saying “I feel like i am losing you and there is nothing i can do” is just an illusion.
At the right time ... everything happens just the way we want things to happen.
Adrian G Dumitru
55
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
I ve lost the train
Life gives us all kinds of opportunities, but maybe we miss 90% of them.
But it’s ok. There are lessons we need to learn and is difficult to understand in that moment what is really going on.
And we have small dreams, but also big dreams.
When you miss small opportunities is ok, cause maybe tomorrow same opportunity will appear again ... but when we miss the big dream, we realise the impact will going to have on our life.
We dont have the power to believe that maybe that is not the path.
The soul is almost crying, thinking that the big chance had disappeared forever.
We missed the train indeed.
But have you ever thought that missing that train, was to chance to meet a new person in the railroad station ... a person that could really change your life?! Truth be told after a train is leaving, another one is coming and then another one is leaving.
Life is full of opportunities, so just smile ... and continue your life.
Adrian G Dumitru
56
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Home, sweet home
... or just a private prison?!
I love houses ... and also everything has to do with interior design. Nowadays people are investing in their homes almost everything they earn or even more just to create an enjoyable and cozy ambient for their famillies.
Real estate is a huge business today, only because people have the believe that a beautiful house can make them and their familly happy.
But the truth is that you can be a king or a queen, live in a huge palace, but deep inside yourself feel empty and very unhappy.
Is not the house that can make the familly happy ... but the people living in the house that can be togheter a happy familly.
You could come home and say “home, sweet home!”, or leave home and say “thanks God is monday and i leave to work”.
You can live in a tiny house and feel that you have a gorgeous home ... and live in a palace and feel you live in a prison.
Adrian G Dumitru
57
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
2 seconds of being alive
A day has 86.400 seconds.
Imagine you would count from 1 to 86.400 ... but all those seconds, most of them, are not fulfilled with joy, even if we want as this to happen. Why?!
Because we do not know how to stay alive.
And one day a miracle is happening.
You meet one person that knows to make you alive, but somehow you just miss the chance to be into the real life togheter.
You had all oportunities, but you did not know to arrange the things ... and everything is gone.
You try to forget everything, start lieing yourself daily, saying that everything is gone, but boom ... you meet that person again while driving ... and everything colapse and you feel again alive for 2 seconds.
You live in only those 2 seconds everything a human being can feel inside of the soul.
2 seconds are more important and powerful than 86.400 seconds ... and in that moment you realise what is really life about.
2 seconds are more important as money, properties or the carrier you have.
Try to feel alive.
Dont waste your life doing all kinds of silly things.
Adrian G Dumitru
58
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Cause everything is about stealing
We want all kinds of things and some of them we want with all our hearts. The Universe is playing with us ... gives us something, but sometimes not for 100% and we start desiring more and more and more.
In one point we start acting crazy, cause of this infinite desire.
And we kepp asking ourself and start defining all kinds of reason why we actually have everything and actually we have nothing. The idea of the illusion comes into our minds.
We want ... we want ... we want... but there is only one thing that really matters in life and that is meeting the infinite love. So ... why we get 99% and not 100%?!
The one procent left is the connection itself , that you need to have with that person.
And there is something more ... you cannot ask for the soul, but you can steal the heart of that person, cause into a love story you are allowed to do anything you want.
The Universe is your friend and will help you do whatever you want as long as keep in mind what is called ... the laws of the Universe. So just do it ... steal the heart and never give it back!
Adrian G Dumitru
59
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Inspired by the world we live in
We are inspired by the people around us.
And new people that appears in our lives ... inspire us most.
A writer for example is inspired by the love of his life and there is a saying ... if you want to be immortal, live a love story with a writer.
But some people will be offended if will see that inspires you.
