Dont know why, but somehow maybe they dont want to mix their energies with yours, until you ask them that.
Recentlly, a lovey girl from Iran inspired me with something, but in the end she was very mad seeing the story.
We like it or not, we interact a lot with some of the people we meet ....cause we
act in such a way as to have an effect on each other.
Some of the connections are more powerful than the others, but in the end is our choice what we see and how we get inspired by those connections.
So just dare to be inspired by anything or anybody you want ... dont ask ... just do it.
Adrian G Dumitru
60
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
I saw everything when i looked into your eyes, even if you tryed to hide your true feelings.
Sometimes there is no need of saying anything at all.
Seeing your magic look ... will let me know everything i ever needed to know. But the problem is that the Universe is laughing of us ... and let us meet again and again and again.
You think that the story is over, i see the eyes i loved a lot and realise that i can say whatever i want, but deep inside is the real truth ... the love. Hiding our feelings, cause we are afraid of being alive.
It hurts to love ... but there are also moments when we will feel the infinite inside...
And i hate but i also love seeing that person again ... cause that ‘s all we have right now.
Adrian G Dumitru
61
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
A wise man once said nothing
There are 3 ways of acting on the stage of life.
First way is being shy and not knowing what to say when something is happening. We just look, dont accept things, but dont have the power to deal with the situation itself.
Later, we grow up and we start to know how to manage discussions and situations.
We try to explain our point of view and we even get angry and over react to the situations.
We have the impression that we control the scene, but probably the scene is controlling us.
When you get angry, you loose control on yourself ... and you loose the game. Some of us, much later on ... understand that the true way of acting in life is just watching the scene ... and say nothing.
This is the real meaning of the saying “A wise man once said nothing” . Understand that you have the right to not react in any way at all is the true wisdom.
Is difficult to understand that ... in the begining you say nothing, but you are very angry inside of you ... then you affirm yourself, but also get angry disliking different things ... and on the last stage of wisdom ... you allow yourself to dont react in any way at all.
Sometimes in life is like we try to fight with the wind, but we cannot see why we do act so silly.
Try only one time this scenario and see what is happening and how you feel inside of you.
It might change your way of seeing things.
Just one time .... try it.
Adrian G Dumitru
62
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Do you want to save the changes?!
We want all kind of things, but the question is ... do we really want those changes or is just a testing wish.
What if life is coming at the end of the day to ask you ... are you ok? Do you want to save the changes you just made on your life?!
If you agree ... then life goes on, in a new direction.
But we still wonder if it s ok or no, hoping we made the right choice.
Let you heart decide the path and follow all the changes you want to see in your life.
Adrian G Dumitru
63
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Deep in love, bet never accepting this
What if one day you realise that you are so deeplly in love, but actually you cannot accept it.
You deny again and again and again and not just in front of others, but also in front of the mirror.
Love is everything, but cant accept it.
Living with strong emotions inside our souls is one of the reasons we are here ...
and the meaning of life itself can be seen through love.
But its hard to open our hearts and accept we are human beings, with feelings insides of us and with a hiden huge desire to love.
So ... deep in love, but imposible of accepting this is our main way to act in life.
Adrian G Dumitru
64
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
An ugly and a beautiful side.
Which one do you choose?
We have an ugly side and a beautiful side.
The problem is that in the begining we only see one of the sides.
Then, in time, we see the rest.
We all know about the concept of yin and yang ... but we cant see that in our lives.
Sometimes we only see the dark side, as we see in our enemies, and sometimes we only see the beautiful side, as we see when we are in love, but both sides coexists in any of the cases.
Real love means accepting both of the sides and focus all the time on the positive issues.
And you know why?!
Cause if it a great love story you will see the beautiful side ... and if it is not a great love story, or if the relationship is lost, you will feel the dark side. ... so real love, means accepting everything.
Just DARE TO LOVE!
Adrian G Dumitru
65
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
How do you measure the
health factor of a relationship?!
Truth be told, we dont have the courage to define very clearlly the health factor of the relationship we are involved in.
Many people live in toxic relationship for many years in a row, just ignoring the
fact that things will never change.
We would love to have a different life.
We see different models around us, but never really do something for a better situation.
We just cant see the hope .... but the hope itself is just a reflection ... of the
interconnection between you and your partner.
Have you ever noticed, meeting an old friend from school, a person that was not in such a good position at that time, that now is having a huge success and is a totally different person than the one you knew?!
Well, first of all, you need to understand that one of the most important issues that influences our life is the presence of certain people in our life, the one that we interact with most of the time: the familly, our friends, people we work with, but a huge proportion of our time we spend with our partner ... and that influences us a lot.
It s a saying ... having the right partner in your life is like having your own money printing machine.
Why?! Cause the right partner can make you shine and let you dare to act with glory on the stage of life.
The oposite, the wrong partner ... will just make you feel misarable all the time ... and be actually nobody, or at least not the person you dream to be. Understanding the importance of defining the health factor of the relationship you have is deciding if you want to receive joy and happiness in your life.
In the end is just a decision ... is just the courage of saying ... i totally dislike what i see and i dare to dream for a better life with or without you ... dear partner.
Adrian G Dumitru
66
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
GAME OVER
Thank you for playing
Some people are in our life for a reason and some for just a season.
It s quite difficult to understand what is happening and why is happening.
But no matter what, we should have the power that in the end we should thank to that person for playing on the stage of our life.
When you feel that the story came to an end, just smile, say thank you and continue your life.
We have other lessons to learn ... so even if the game is over .. the life goes on.
Adrian G Dumitru
67
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
When love is stronger than the mistakes
The Ego doesnt let us forgive the people that hurt us ... at least not so easy and not so often.
But this theory is not available when we are in love ... and we love a lot. Somehow we become blinds when we start being in love ... not that we dont realise what is happening, but hoping that things will change and they will be the way we want them to be.
Indeed love is stronger than seeing the mistakes the partner js doing.
Being in love is an addiction difficult to control ... but still is beautiful to feel in love.
So probably not counting the mistakes ... when we love a lot is quite ok ... dont worry.
Adrian G Dumitru
68
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
How do you close a love story?!
... you just run away to save your ass ?
A lady told me few days ago ... “wont do it again. It hurts a lot”.
Another one said “ i love love stories. I am living one now. It s amazing”. So probably people love love stories as long as they are in the story and are afraid of them and run away as long as the story is not running well.
We are looking to be loved, but we are too sensitive to resist on the stage of the story, ending up asking many times to close the love relationship, cause it hurts too much in different moments.
We are not brave enough to accept a relationship with good or bad issues and to focus only on the positive side all the time.
Defining again and again and again is our main task and forgive that we should love without asking anything in return, not even loving us back.
Adrian G Dumitru
69
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Keep an excel sheet with
everything you feel dailly
Have you ever wondered how many days in one month you are are happy and how many you are not?!
You know, it could be quite simple if you would keep a journal into an excel sheet and it could help you a lot to realise in which position you are. What about your love life?!
How many days in a year you felt happy with your partner?!
Again ... should be very easy to keep a simple record with that.
I mean statistically ... are we happy or not?!
If you start analyzing your life, from this point of view, with just a simple dailly record, you could understand that is quite easy to define your life ... or your love life.
A simple statistic, could let you see that 2-3 days in a month, you are happy ... and probably only one month a year your are happy ... so maybe 5-8% of your time you are happy.
Well it’s quite ok .. but now the question is how many days in one year you are unhappy?! ... how many days in a year you are not feeling alive?!
Does the relationship you have now, can be defined as something that brings you joy ... or is just a silly illusion that makes you happy for 5 % of your time ... and maybe 40-50% brings you unhappiness?!
What should we choose between 5% and 50%?!
Who is winning the game?!
The happiness or the unhappiness?!
What path should we choose?!
Is your choice to decide if you are brave enough to keep this record of you dailly life and measure the joy from your soul.
Truth be told life is so short and we loose our time to be unhappy.
Just dare to be alive ... and happy, for at least 50% of your time.
Adrian G Dumitru
70
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Why so many lies behind a beautiful soul?!
We afraid of lies and the falsehood itself, but sometimes even if we dislike seeing that ... we start to ignore all the signs the intuition sends us.
We just like that person a lot and maybe that person like us a lot also ... and we want to believe that these are just some silly episodes that will end soon.
But statistically speaking, most probably, the things we do today ... we will do tomorrow also.
Believing the behavior itself will just change, without doing anything at all it’s silly.
Probably the key of healing a relationship when one of the partners is making repetitive mistakes is just to have a clear and honest conversation, presenting all the facts that the intuition sends you.
People lie because they are afraid of something ... and most probably are hiding things that will go in the direction where the relationship must be closed.
This is why even behind a beautiful soul you can find lies and you can not believe this is happening.
Probably the power of our intentions might be also a key that needs to be applyed.
Defining what and why we lied or why we lied to each other is a must do process that needs to be started.
Behind any action, there are different thoughts we have in our mind.
Playing honest on the stage of life should be a better scenario than hiding the truth with all kind of lies.
Its ok to discover everything just as it is.
Better define a complicated situation, than calming everything with a lie.
Adrian G Dumitru
71
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Love chat on Revolut
Well, all chating systems allows you to block someone you dont like to chat with. I know 2 persons, very deep in love, both married ... they tryed all kind of things ... and all the time they block each other as 2 silly little kids.
One day they believed the story was over, but the problem was that they could not live one without another for more than 2-3 days, maximum one week.
They blocked each other everywhere ... on insta, facebook, messenger, whatsapp, email ... everywhere ... hoping that the story will end. But ... well it still was a door they could not close.
They both used Revolut ... so they started send each other 1 dollar and on transaction details they wrote:
i hate u
I love u a lot
Cant leave without you
Consider i am dead ... never bother me again
Hope will never see you again
And bla, bla, bla ....
I mean .... if you really, really love someone there will always be a way to meet
that person again and again.
Love is the strongest power you can deal with.
Just enjoy the story.
Adrian G Dumitru
72
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Playing dirty
... unfortunately the second scenario
We play fairplay on the stage of life only till one point ... when we understand that we will loose the game.
Recentlly, a lovey girl from Iran inspired me with something, but in the end she was very mad seeing the story.
We like it or not, we interact a lot with some of the people we meet ....cause we
act in such a way as to have an effect on each other.
Some of the connections are more powerful than the others, but in the end is our choice what we see and how we get inspired by those connections.
So just dare to be inspired by anything or anybody you want ... dont ask ... just do it.
Adrian G Dumitru
60
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
I saw everything when i looked into your eyes, even if you tryed to hide your true feelings.
Sometimes there is no need of saying anything at all.
Seeing your magic look ... will let me know everything i ever needed to know. But the problem is that the Universe is laughing of us ... and let us meet again and again and again.
You think that the story is over, i see the eyes i loved a lot and realise that i can say whatever i want, but deep inside is the real truth ... the love. Hiding our feelings, cause we are afraid of being alive.
It hurts to love ... but there are also moments when we will feel the infinite inside...
And i hate but i also love seeing that person again ... cause that ‘s all we have right now.
Adrian G Dumitru
61
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
A wise man once said nothing
There are 3 ways of acting on the stage of life.
First way is being shy and not knowing what to say when something is happening. We just look, dont accept things, but dont have the power to deal with the situation itself.
Later, we grow up and we start to know how to manage discussions and situations.
We try to explain our point of view and we even get angry and over react to the situations.
We have the impression that we control the scene, but probably the scene is controlling us.
When you get angry, you loose control on yourself ... and you loose the game. Some of us, much later on ... understand that the true way of acting in life is just watching the scene ... and say nothing.
This is the real meaning of the saying “A wise man once said nothing” . Understand that you have the right to not react in any way at all is the true wisdom.
Is difficult to understand that ... in the begining you say nothing, but you are very angry inside of you ... then you affirm yourself, but also get angry disliking different things ... and on the last stage of wisdom ... you allow yourself to dont react in any way at all.
Sometimes in life is like we try to fight with the wind, but we cannot see why we do act so silly.
Try only one time this scenario and see what is happening and how you feel inside of you.
It might change your way of seeing things.
Just one time .... try it.
Adrian G Dumitru
62
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Do you want to save the changes?!
We want all kind of things, but the question is ... do we really want those changes or is just a testing wish.
What if life is coming at the end of the day to ask you ... are you ok? Do you want to save the changes you just made on your life?!
If you agree ... then life goes on, in a new direction.
But we still wonder if it s ok or no, hoping we made the right choice.
Let you heart decide the path and follow all the changes you want to see in your life.
Adrian G Dumitru
63
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Deep in love, bet never accepting this
What if one day you realise that you are so deeplly in love, but actually you cannot accept it.
You deny again and again and again and not just in front of others, but also in front of the mirror.
Love is everything, but cant accept it.
Living with strong emotions inside our souls is one of the reasons we are here ...
and the meaning of life itself can be seen through love.
But its hard to open our hearts and accept we are human beings, with feelings insides of us and with a hiden huge desire to love.
So ... deep in love, but imposible of accepting this is our main way to act in life.
Adrian G Dumitru
64
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
An ugly and a beautiful side.
Which one do you choose?
We have an ugly side and a beautiful side.
The problem is that in the begining we only see one of the sides.
Then, in time, we see the rest.
We all know about the concept of yin and yang ... but we cant see that in our lives.
Sometimes we only see the dark side, as we see in our enemies, and sometimes we only see the beautiful side, as we see when we are in love, but both sides coexists in any of the cases.
Real love means accepting both of the sides and focus all the time on the positive issues.
And you know why?!
Cause if it a great love story you will see the beautiful side ... and if it is not a great love story, or if the relationship is lost, you will feel the dark side. ... so real love, means accepting everything.
Just DARE TO LOVE!
Adrian G Dumitru
65
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
How do you measure the
health factor of a relationship?!
Truth be told, we dont have the courage to define very clearlly the health factor of the relationship we are involved in.
Many people live in toxic relationship for many years in a row, just ignoring the
fact that things will never change.
We would love to have a different life.
We see different models around us, but never really do something for a better situation.
We just cant see the hope .... but the hope itself is just a reflection ... of the
interconnection between you and your partner.
Have you ever noticed, meeting an old friend from school, a person that was not in such a good position at that time, that now is having a huge success and is a totally different person than the one you knew?!
Well, first of all, you need to understand that one of the most important issues that influences our life is the presence of certain people in our life, the one that we interact with most of the time: the familly, our friends, people we work with, but a huge proportion of our time we spend with our partner ... and that influences us a lot.
It s a saying ... having the right partner in your life is like having your own money printing machine.
Why?! Cause the right partner can make you shine and let you dare to act with glory on the stage of life.
The oposite, the wrong partner ... will just make you feel misarable all the time ... and be actually nobody, or at least not the person you dream to be. Understanding the importance of defining the health factor of the relationship you have is deciding if you want to receive joy and happiness in your life.
In the end is just a decision ... is just the courage of saying ... i totally dislike what i see and i dare to dream for a better life with or without you ... dear partner.
Adrian G Dumitru
66
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
GAME OVER
Thank you for playing
Some people are in our life for a reason and some for just a season.
It s quite difficult to understand what is happening and why is happening.
But no matter what, we should have the power that in the end we should thank to that person for playing on the stage of our life.
When you feel that the story came to an end, just smile, say thank you and continue your life.
We have other lessons to learn ... so even if the game is over .. the life goes on.
Adrian G Dumitru
67
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
When love is stronger than the mistakes
The Ego doesnt let us forgive the people that hurt us ... at least not so easy and not so often.
But this theory is not available when we are in love ... and we love a lot. Somehow we become blinds when we start being in love ... not that we dont realise what is happening, but hoping that things will change and they will be the way we want them to be.
Indeed love is stronger than seeing the mistakes the partner js doing.
Being in love is an addiction difficult to control ... but still is beautiful to feel in love.
So probably not counting the mistakes ... when we love a lot is quite ok ... dont worry.
Adrian G Dumitru
68
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
How do you close a love story?!
... you just run away to save your ass ?
A lady told me few days ago ... “wont do it again. It hurts a lot”.
Another one said “ i love love stories. I am living one now. It s amazing”. So probably people love love stories as long as they are in the story and are afraid of them and run away as long as the story is not running well.
We are looking to be loved, but we are too sensitive to resist on the stage of the story, ending up asking many times to close the love relationship, cause it hurts too much in different moments.
We are not brave enough to accept a relationship with good or bad issues and to focus only on the positive side all the time.
Defining again and again and again is our main task and forgive that we should love without asking anything in return, not even loving us back.
Adrian G Dumitru
69
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Keep an excel sheet with
everything you feel dailly
Have you ever wondered how many days in one month you are are happy and how many you are not?!
You know, it could be quite simple if you would keep a journal into an excel sheet and it could help you a lot to realise in which position you are. What about your love life?!
How many days in a year you felt happy with your partner?!
Again ... should be very easy to keep a simple record with that.
I mean statistically ... are we happy or not?!
If you start analyzing your life, from this point of view, with just a simple dailly record, you could understand that is quite easy to define your life ... or your love life.
A simple statistic, could let you see that 2-3 days in a month, you are happy ... and probably only one month a year your are happy ... so maybe 5-8% of your time you are happy.
Well it’s quite ok .. but now the question is how many days in one year you are unhappy?! ... how many days in a year you are not feeling alive?!
Does the relationship you have now, can be defined as something that brings you joy ... or is just a silly illusion that makes you happy for 5 % of your time ... and maybe 40-50% brings you unhappiness?!
What should we choose between 5% and 50%?!
Who is winning the game?!
The happiness or the unhappiness?!
What path should we choose?!
Is your choice to decide if you are brave enough to keep this record of you dailly life and measure the joy from your soul.
Truth be told life is so short and we loose our time to be unhappy.
Just dare to be alive ... and happy, for at least 50% of your time.
Adrian G Dumitru
70
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Why so many lies behind a beautiful soul?!
We afraid of lies and the falsehood itself, but sometimes even if we dislike seeing that ... we start to ignore all the signs the intuition sends us.
We just like that person a lot and maybe that person like us a lot also ... and we want to believe that these are just some silly episodes that will end soon.
But statistically speaking, most probably, the things we do today ... we will do tomorrow also.
Believing the behavior itself will just change, without doing anything at all it’s silly.
Probably the key of healing a relationship when one of the partners is making repetitive mistakes is just to have a clear and honest conversation, presenting all the facts that the intuition sends you.
People lie because they are afraid of something ... and most probably are hiding things that will go in the direction where the relationship must be closed.
This is why even behind a beautiful soul you can find lies and you can not believe this is happening.
Probably the power of our intentions might be also a key that needs to be applyed.
Defining what and why we lied or why we lied to each other is a must do process that needs to be started.
Behind any action, there are different thoughts we have in our mind.
Playing honest on the stage of life should be a better scenario than hiding the truth with all kind of lies.
Its ok to discover everything just as it is.
Better define a complicated situation, than calming everything with a lie.
Adrian G Dumitru
71
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Love chat on Revolut
Well, all chating systems allows you to block someone you dont like to chat with. I know 2 persons, very deep in love, both married ... they tryed all kind of things ... and all the time they block each other as 2 silly little kids.
One day they believed the story was over, but the problem was that they could not live one without another for more than 2-3 days, maximum one week.
They blocked each other everywhere ... on insta, facebook, messenger, whatsapp, email ... everywhere ... hoping that the story will end. But ... well it still was a door they could not close.
They both used Revolut ... so they started send each other 1 dollar and on transaction details they wrote:
i hate u
I love u a lot
Cant leave without you
Consider i am dead ... never bother me again
Hope will never see you again
And bla, bla, bla ....
I mean .... if you really, really love someone there will always be a way to meet
that person again and again.
Love is the strongest power you can deal with.
Just enjoy the story.
Adrian G Dumitru
72
ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Playing dirty
... unfortunately the second scenario
We play fairplay on the stage of life only till one point ... when we understand that we will loose the game.
