The Universe has certain laws that we should ... at least think about.
But when we start to dislike what we see in the real life, that the things dont go in the directionwe want them to go, we start redefining everything and see other scenarios so that we will win ... forgetting that playing dirty is not a path, but only an illusion.
The obsessive desire to get one thing or one person metamorphosize us in persons with blind minds.
We can have everything we want as long as behind the desire is a clean intention, but some issues even if cant be defined very clearlly ... we feel them inside our souls ... that are not ok.
Life is short .... but can be beautiful if we know to act properly on our timeline.
Playing dirty should not be a second scenario.
Some of our silly desires are not for us ... just because that is not a path to follow.
Instead of being so naive, we should just smile and think at the next episodes. Dream big .... but dont play dirty!
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A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
In the end any illusion
becomes just a desillusion
Reality is most of the times not what we want to see, so we try to think all the time at how our life should look like in other circumstances.
We have all kinds of scenarios and jumping into an illusory world is quite easy. The Universe knows very well what to send into your life, but the present moment doesnt satisfy us and this is why we start allowing the illusions in our lives.
Its easier to think that on the path that you follow now, it would had been better if at on point you did other choice.
The illusion that its better to go to the left or to the right, but in the end the path goes to nowhere ... and you should accept any path at all ... because at the end of the road you will find yourself again.
People are looking for illusions, they actually have an addiction to them, but like any addiction the final result .... the end is most of the times quite disgusting ... cause the illusion itself always becomes a desillusion.
We need to define what we want in life ... but what we really, really want. Nobody ever told us what defining means and its quite easy to undestand that if we plant cactus seeds we will not get oranges.
This is why an illusion is always ending with a desillusion.
It depends on you to understand that having a clean life, not accepting the mud that comes from illusions, is just a choise.
Act better on this stage of life ... cause not everything you see is real.
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A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
I already miss you
and you havent left yet
Love addiction is a proposed model of pathological passion-related behavior involving the feeling of falling and being in love. The need of love for all of us is huge.
Some can admit it, some cannot do it, but once you meet that perfect match partner and you open your heart to that lovelly person, you can afford the luxury of the love addiction story.
But it’s very important to be on the same frequency with your partner, otherwise
you will be lost into this game.
Love addiction exists.
You can see it as a medical issue, but it s more a spiritual thing.
Love addiction is asking and allowing yourself to be loved all the time. Just dare to do it!
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Domination
To dominate means to have power and influence over, but i think everybody knows this definition.
The problem is that deep inside us, we have a huge desire of domination over everything means our life ... the circumstances and also the people.
We totally dislike when situations dont go in the direction we want them to go, but we dont understand the power of Universe over our lives.
Some things needs to happen in a certain way, a way that we dont have the power to understand when they really happen.
Or maybe we understand, but we dont like to see that we cannot influence everything in our life.
But the desire of domination exists.
Not being able to play with the Universe, we start a game with the people around. We try to dominate the parents, the kids ... the spouse and all the persons we love or care about.
And the end is that relationships are ruined just because of the silly idea of domination.
We want the things to happen in a certain way and people act in the way we want, because this is what the silly ego tells us.
I am repeating myself ... domanation is the huge desire of having power or
influence over.
But what for?!
Instead of enjoying the beauty of a relationship, just as it is, we just play around with the desire of domination and destroy everything. Things and people dont need to be dominated.
You just need to let everything go and see what stays, cause what stays is what
the Universe prepared for you!
That’s all folks!
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A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Give them 10%
of everything you have
Well ... we all know the saying from the Bible with 10%, but we dont realise it is not only about the money.
What if we should give 10% of our attention to the ones we pretend we love a lot. Do we statistically do this?!
We own lots of things, but also 24 hours a day, 365 days a year.
How much of our time and energy goes to the real important things from our lives?
Most probably ... only when you fall in love, you realise you can focus everything
just in one direction.
Probably 10% goes to 100%.
Imagine you should have a life, being in love with your work, your spouse, your
kids ... and everything means your life.
Let your soul be in love all the time.
Will decide better than your silly mind.
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The perfect place
… the perfect partner
We have in mind the idea of the perfect partner and we dream at the perfect
place to be with that person.
But we dont act so often.
Prefer to live in a prison, instead of living into the perfect world we dream of, but the real question is if the prison itself is the reality or the world from our minds? The truth is that there is no perfect place or if it exists it really is the place you are in, right in this moment and there is no perfect partner ... but the one that sends you joy everyday.
But we dream all the time again and again and again ... at the perfect partner and the perfect place.
Most probably, enjoying life just as it is is the real key to happiness.
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A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
And rodeo again
We dont like reality most of the times.
We always dream of something else.
Became experts in defining what we dont like, which usually reflects the actual life and some of us even became experts in defining very clear what we dream for.
But still, we dont do anything at all to chance something.
We somehow live a life as zombies, thinking we cannot escape the black magic that did that to us.
But the black magic itself is only our negative thinking, our way of seeing reality. There are some people that believe there is a way of escaping at least for a short period of time, doing crazy things as: traveling into dangerous places, trying jumpy jumping, learn to practice rodeo, going with an yacht on the sea when the weather is not fine ... or even having a love affair.
We need something to let us forget about where we are and fly, at least for a while, into another world.
Crazy things makes us feel alive.
This is why rodeo for example can wake you up for a moment.
But living as zombies is a silly way of living.
Trying to escape for a while is just an illusion.
You are a prisoner and you want to be free again for only a short period of time. Then you have again the power to come back to the prison, cause the prison itself is just your mind.
Maybe it is time to think at the fact that you should dare to be alive everyday, in every moment of your life.
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Seeing you again
We align ourselves to the dogmatic thinking of society.
We have the same mental software as all the others, but deep inside us we dream of another path.
But we dont even dare to clearly define what that path is.
So ... we do what we have to do ... but in one moment, something inside us explodes ... and let us be just ... us.
When you are in love, you can understand this concept if you are involved into an imposible love story.
Everybody knows what imposible means, but only few succed to enjoy an imposible love story.
Seeing the eyes of that magic person ... makes us alive.
Define the power of that look over your soul and then you will understand everything.
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Why I see you everyday?!
It says that you atract what you think about all day long.
You think of positive things ... positive things will appear in your life, you think of negative things ... negative things will appear.
But what if it ‘s about a person that you keep seeing everyday, even that one part from you says that wants that and another part of you says that doesnt want that?!
We should define our thoughts and meditate of what we are thinking all the time. Is one of the most important rule in personal development, that we should keep in mind.
The problem is that we want contrary things all the time.
We know what path we should follow, but meanwhile our souls tell us something else.
And we can control our mind, but not our soul.
Even if it hurts to see that person again and again and again .... deep inside
us...we love to meet that beautiful smile.
Dont lie yourself!
Life is too short for that!
And dont worry ... the day your story is really gone ... you will not meet again!
Till then ... just smile her back!
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A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
The need of virtual realities
Why people use narcotics?!
Have you ever wondered why?
Well, in the modern times, people started to use virtual narcotics.
People use those narcotics because they want to forget about the reality they live in.
They use that usually when other people cant see them ... and think they have this right to live for a while in a parallel universe, where reality is not the same. Virtual narcotics as social media, online chat, dating apps allows us to use the drugs in any moment of the day.
Its like now you are in the office, having a fight with the boss ... you are angry ...and in the next moment you can smile, cause someone wrote you a beautiful line on whatsapp.
That is jumping from one world to another in just one second.
The need of virtual realities is huge.
We live in a society where comparing with other times, we have everything we need, except joy inside our souls.
Apps as Tinder for example, allow people to date very quickly with other people and have multiple intimate relationships.
The desire of sex is present, cause of the silly missunderstanding of the need of love.
But love cant be found so easilly to those virtual supermarkets, having so many profiles available ... with the promises they will send you the perfect match partner.
I know is very difficult to define what you really want, but say it loud and dare to dream about the love story you have in mind.
Yes, the truth about the truth, is that people are not looking for intimate relationships, but for someone to love them ... probably a smile that can make them happy.
That need is inside of use.
We cannot replace that with anything in the world.
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Learn to say GOOD BYE
We understand the concept of lessons in life, but sometimes we just disagree to close some chapters.
Everything is clear, but we dont want to accept the story came to the end.
At that’s cause we loved a lot the story.
We ve been teached to say good bye since we were kids, but still ... we dont find the power to say it.
But time is passing ... and the only thing left to do is close our eyes and say
“Good bye!” and just let it go.
Disconnect and continue your life.
Other things, situations and people are waiting for you.
The Universe knows better what is the best for you!
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A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Speaking to the walls
There comes a time when speaking to the person you love a lot, becomes impossible.
All the doors are closed ... and there is no way of saying that you love and miss a lot the story you had togheter.
Its like the only thing left to do ... is to speak to the walls, hoping that the wall will speak to you also.
We have so many beautiful books about love ... so many beautiful poems.
All those authors could not find the path again to remet the love of their life.
Only thing they could do ... was closing the eyes and write those love poems.
And the love became immortal through their poems.
Dont be afraid to speak to the walls ... the walls will never speak back to you, but maybe the Universe will do that.
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A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
The ice heart
Why someone should define you as a person with an ice heart?!
Well, people that know the power of love ... afraid of it ... and let the heart stay in
ice so that love will not come to it.
Yes, we are afraid of love.
We actually afraid that someone could steal the heart and never give it back to us.
We are afraid of feeling alive.
The meaning of heart into our bodies is to make us feel alive, but we prefer to live as zombies.
We are too silly to define what means to be alive.
Hiding the heart, will keep us safe ... nothing will happen.
How can we hide a treasure?! ... cause the heart is the treasure itself.
Difficult to understand why we do that.
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