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A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Do you miss that
person or the love itself?!
It’s quite difficult to define if we miss that person, that we are in love with, or the love itself.
Maybe years ago, even at the kindergarten, you were in love with a classmate, but now you dont even remember the name of that person.
Some people go today through so many love stories, that cant define anymore if they are looking for a specific person or for love.
That huge gap from our souls cant be easilly fulfilled ... but one day ... if the Universe loves you, will send that person into your life.
So, in the end, we actually miss that person that give us joy in the soul.
So ... we miss the love and also the person, but only if the connection with that person is a magic connection.
Closing a love story means to forget about that joy ... but it’s ok ... the human being had been designed to be happy but also survive also as being unhappy.
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A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
What if … life
will never be the same
Gorbaciov served to the soviet countries, from 1985 till 1991, a kind of sweet communism.
In 1985, they realised the end is very close, so they decided in Moscow to change things ... as people to have better lives.
They saw they cannot continue controlling people with the force, with political police and decided to take Soviet Union in another era.
I mean, everybody admitted that Stalin was a guy that destroyed millions of lives ... even lives of ordinary people.
Gorbaciov was a very nice guy, but in the end he was only the one that played the music of “Good bye ... communism!”.
People dreamed of being free ... but never thought what being free means. The soviet state was like a parent that gave them sallaries every months. The sallaries were not huge, but still money were coming every month.
After 1991, when Gorbaciov became just history, russians discovered that being free ment also to have lots of problems ... they even thought that they will not have what to eat.
The one that had to do the dirty job was Eltin , that had to explain to the people how the real transition can be made and that was not easy.
Well ... now, coming back to our boring lifes ... what if you try to make a huge change and them you see you cannot handle things?! Can you define change?!
Yes ... i am sure you can ... but can you define your determinantion, or it is just a theoretical issue?!
Studying the modern history of the world, applying those principles to a smaller scale will help you understand where you are.
The funny thing is that for you ... your life is more important than it was the Soviet Empire or any other empire from the history.
I read hundreds of books with change, but the only important idea is that ... the idea of change must come from inside, otherwise you will fail.
Play the game of defining and act properly on the stage of life, when you want a big change.
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A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
The right person at the wrong time
We dream at the perfect partener, but we never keep in mind the concept of timeline.
The right person must appear at the right time ... otherwise it’s a waste of time, or what we should call, an illusion.
Is difficult to undestand why you meet someone, when is already too late, cause you are married, have children etc etc.
Dont know if you heard ... there are countries in the world where you dont have the right to divorce ... but in the modern world it’s not necessary of a law to obey this ... cause people are too cowards for that.
They accept the things just as they are and have no courage at all to even think they can, or at least have the right, to be happy.
We dream a lot ... and the Universe is laughing of our desires ... and that is only cause we dont believe we can have everything we want at the time we want that.
Adrian G Dumitru
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ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Pretending we closed a love story
We want all kinds of things ... and we actually pretend we do something about that.
We say we want to loose weight, but we dailly eat chocolate .... we say we will
not drink anymore and go out with friends and drink some extra beers ... and many, many other similar things and situations.
But what if we are married and have a fantastic love story, with someone else than our partner, which really makes us happy but we know its harmful for our marriage?!
On one side we are unhappy, but on the other side we are happy ... so between being happy and unhappy we choose to stay in actual marriages ... pretending we will close the love story .... today, or tomorrow, or in the near future.
We just pretend, cause in fact we love being happy, we love eating chocolate and many other things.
How is our lives look like without the feeling of joy inside of us?!
The joy is given by love ... so pretending is just part of the process ... but someone is counting all those days.
I have a beautiful friend, married, but fallen in love of another man.
She tryed 100 times to close the love story and asked me many times how can she do that ... but the feeling of love is always more powerful than our dogmatic way of living our lifes.
Yes, some things are imoral ... but makes us happy ... you just need to define them!
And remember that everything is fair in love and in war ... so just do, whatever your soul tells you to do.
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A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
One loves you ... one hates you .... why you choose hate?!
One controls your life ... one loves you ... why do you choose a life controlled by others?!
We do not believe we deserve to be loved.
We believe love exists, but not for us.
We read about it, saw it to other couples, dreamed about it ... but cant believe we can have it.
We looked for happiness ... and ended up in a marriage where instead of love, we see only hate and the desire to be controlled by the partner. Everything is mud ... we dont like it ... but we stay in there for years.
To become happy, you need to feel free again ... to be free ... you need to see joy everywhere around you, but listen, the joy will not come from outsite ... but from inside of you.
The fairy tale exists only if you believe they can be real.
Let the love enter your life ... let that person you love a lot, to be part of your life.
Life is maybe too short to spend it in mud, instead of enjoying a love story. We need to define what we really want for us and not accept things, just cause they are happening ... and believe we deserve real love. Love stories can heal your broken soul!
Adrian G Dumitru
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A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
And again … she became a prisoner
i know a story about a lady that had everything she ever wanted, except the fact that she was not happy.
She had a life of a princess, but she was feeling like a prisoner into her marriage. One day, had a dream, that looked so real ... and could not understand what is really going on.
She was feeling happy ... and became a smiley face with a happy soul.
Even thought she will become a queen.
She was dreaming the same story everyday ... for months.
The love appeared in her life and she became another person ... but still, even if she was so fallen in love ... and everybody could see that at her .... that infinite love could not appear into the real world.
One day, she started to ask herself if the love story was real, or only in her mind. Even thought that she was crazy ...and asked other people tell her if is real or not.
In one point ... could not stand anymore the absolute illusion ... the infinite love ... and decided that being a queen is not something for her.
Redefined everything again ... and decided to be just a silly princess, even if being a princess ment just to be a prisoner of her marriage.
The Universe accomplish our dreams, but we need to be ready to get those dreams into the real world.
You need to believe into the fairy tale ... so that it becomes real, but we just refer to give up and be the prisoners of the reality defined by circumstances.
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ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Hunted by our desires
Most of us ... have boring lifes, but we have a huge deposit of dreams and desires in our minds and souls.
We want all kinds of things, but most of all the things we cannot have.
When we have something, if was very easy to get it, we loose our interest into that thing.
But if it looks imposible to have something we desire a lot ... everything becomes an obsesion.
And in one point ... we really want so much something that we really loose our minds.
Having desires is ok ... but having obsesions might take you out from the life of the people you love a lot.
And all doors will be closed in front of your eyes.
We should not be defined by our desires.
We can let them be part of our lifes, but not let them run our lifes.
Truth be told, we love what we cant have ... but one day we can be hunted by our desires.
Define better what you want ... and if it really worth doing it.
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A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Finding yourself
Wherever we go ... we find no real direction.
And we feel lost, just because of that.
Woke up this morning again and decided to go to that new path, hoping that this is the one.
But again, we see how we fail again and again.
And you know why?!
Because we are bodies not connected to their souls, to the infinite source. How can we do this?!
Well ... first of all ... you need to disconnect from everything ... and look inside of you.
Try to define who you are and who you want to become.
It’s really useless to loose your time, going in 100 directions and thinking even at the next 100 new directions ... cause you will still feel that whole inside of you. Finding yourself means to accept who you are and that you have the right to be whoever you want to become.
You want to be happy?! Just define that path to happiness ... just let your soul decide everyday ... do ... only what the soul wants.
We are emotional beings ... but we dont really care about what we feel inside of us.
We just ignore any feeling that we dont like how looks like ... all the signs the inner soul sends to us.
Accept your soul ... let it be your best friend ... and enjoy life!
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A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Send me a picture and
I will tell you everything about you
The way you look is defined not only by what you eat or drink, but also by the way you feel inside of you.
There are people that dont have the luck to have a fantastic body, but a face with a big smile all the time changes absolutelly everything. They look attractive ... shining like a sun.
When you start the day, look in the mirror everyday for one minute.
Do it dailly ... and if many days in a row, you see the same unhappy face, you will need to start defining and redefining what is going on with you.
Keep the pictures with you published also on social media and then after a while just scroll down and and analyze yourself.
You will maybe understand what happened to you last year, or the whole march
or april this year.
Your face tells a story.
Is very important to understand who you are, how you feel inside and why being happy is happening or not.
Make this small exercise for a while.
Defining you as a happy soul with a smiley face should be the main target.
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ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Dont surrender
Its a nice saying ... love is a lot like dacing ... you just surrender to the music. The problem is that we find this quote too late in life, and we surrender in front of the obstacles that appears in from of the love story.
We shall surrender to the love itself, cause the whole meaning of life is understand the power of love.
One day you see you have no plan ... but you love each other a lot ... maybe infinite love.
Everybody around is just saying that this is the pathless path ... and nothing will happen ... but also that you should consider real only something you can hold in your hand.
Magic means that if you feel it in your soul, you can keep it in your hand .... but
what is magic?! ... we forgot long time ago what that means.
Being connected to love ... you will see the infinite ... so dont surrender and if you do it surrender only in front of love.
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ABSTRACT LOVE
A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
The heart was stolen
One day a lady wakes up and realises that her heart was stolen.
She could not believe it.
The thief was the guy that she was in love with ... but the guy was gone. She calls her brother, telling him what happened ... and decided to go to the police.
But the officer said they cannot help them.
The love cases cannot be solved at the police station.
They talk again and decided to go to the Consumer Protection and declare what happened and ask for help.
The officer from her, asked the lady if she agreed to give the heart to the thief ...
and she smiled and say ... yes ... cause i love him.
But listen .. said the officer ...you gave him the heart and now you ask it back?!
How is that?!
Well .. the lady replies ... i did not know that i will not only loose my heart, but also my minds.
I want to come back to reality.
Well ... my dears .. falling is love is strange ... sometimes you dont understand anything at all ... but love is everything ... and yes ... indeed ... you risk to loose your heart and soul ... but only this way you have 1% chance to be happy.
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A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Half of her heart stolen
by a thied and half stolen by a pirate
How should we define the difference between a thief and a pirate?!
Well ... a thief will steal anything at all .. but a pirate is interested only in treasures.
