So... dear ... if you met a pirate, means you are a treasure.
But is difficult nowadays to clearly understand which one is a thief ... and just
wants you ... and which one is a pirate and dream that he will steal a treasure.
And the amazing illusion will happen when she sees that half of the heart was
stolen by a thief and half of a pirate.
Which one will win?!
I think a real woman will choose the one that will make her feel as a treasure.
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A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
In and out of love
Trying to define our lifes, we realise, we dont really know know what to do.
We are emotional beings.
Today we want something ... tomorrow we dream of something else.
Having this dance of emotions might look strange, but what is the meaning of dance?!
Just feel the music with joy.
What are the meaning of emotions?!
Feel the life ... and feel alive.
But there are things we like ... and love ... and things we dont like ... what should we do?!
It says that love is everything, so think all the time that we are emotional beings and have the right to play however we want on the stage of life.
If it happens that you are in and out of a love story ... dont think too much ... let the music play inside your soul.
If you follow your intuition, whatever you do ... is the best thing that you should do at that moment.
In the real life you cannot go in and out... but when it comes about your love life ... just do what you feel, even if it does not make any sense at all. Meaning of love is to heal our broken souls.
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From lemons to lemoname
It says ... When life gives you lemons, make lemonade.
This is a proverbial phrase used to encourage optimism and a positive can-do attitude in the face of adversity or misfortune. Lemons suggest sourness or difficulty in life; making lemonade is turning them into something positive or desirable
We dream of love stories ... we start and understand that falling in love is easy ...
but then we realise that staying in love is difficult.
When a real love story begins, you cannot choose so many things ... the story is offered to you ... so everything you should do is just enjoy it.
We live a life ... which looks like a deposit of dreams, but we forget to be happy ..
no matter of the conditions where we are.
So ... have a lemonade ... smile and enjoy things with the people from your life.
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Betrayal or just a silly game?!
... A real story
Once upon a time, 2 beautiful married women ... a blonde and a brunette, were in love with the same man.
One was the wife of that lucky man ... and the other was the wife of a very good man, who was too naive to understand what was really happening.
Both couples were in a good financial situation, and were always spending they free time togheter.
Everything was ok till the brunette was undestanding that very soon she will loose
her husband because of the lovely blonde ... but instead of loosing her husband
she lost her minds because of jealousy.
They went through tough times togheter.
The love affair needed to end.
The blonde girl started being depressive ... abandoned ... and could not believe that the fairy tale was gone.
Not so much time ago ... she was so happy ...not with her husband ... but she was happy.
Feeling lost ... she started talking with an old friend ... telling him her drama. She was the Devil itself ... but now she was a victim ... the victim of her actions ... but she could not see that.
Her friend .. listen her for months ... trying to make her undestand she is young, beautiful, has a fantastic husband, 2 beautiful kids ... but she was all the time with her mind at the married man ... a guy 20 years older as her. She loved him a lot ... and could not forget him.
She wanted him back .... and after few months they started the love affair again.
The brunette, a very intelligent lady, undestood what was happening ... but this time, instead of going back into the mental health hospital ... thought of a very good plan ... as her husband to go there. She knew about the friend of the blonde girl.
Her husband disliked this man a lot, cause was richer than him and was too close friend with the the woman who was in love with.
So ... the brilliant girl ... start a love affair with the guy ... but lost control of the story and is falling in love for real.
She could not believe ... that even if was just a betrayal ... she actually met the love of her life.
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It was a fairy tale.
Husband ... that is very jelouse, finds out and wants to kill the guy ... thinking that he has a love affair with her wife, but also with the woman she was loving a lot.
It was a nightmare, and could not understand what is really going on.
Is this guy the representative of karma on earth?! ... or who the hell is he?! A nightmare is starting for him and a fairy tale for the wife.
Things changed overnight ... and was unbelievable ...the only little problem was that the misteriouse guy was married.
The brunette wanted this guy so much ... doing the same, what the blode was doing to her ... but now she was doing that to another woman ... she wanted her husband a lot.
Life is strange .. she was doing the same thing as she once thought the Devil did in her house ... but now she thought everything was a fairy tale.
But the guy was not so naive ... as the blonde and brunette thought ... he paid attention to them ... but remained at home with his wife ... feeling like everything was just a joke.
And ... the jelouse brunette ended again into the health mental hospital ... just one more time.
Hey ... all of you ... we need to understand that people from our life are not our properties.
We can own a house ... a car ... maybe even a bank, but not other people.
Dont feel lost when you see you cannot have the fairy tale into the real life.
Just enjoy the stories the Universe gives u.
Life is too short to see things into a dramatic way ... be jelouse or think we can own other people for life.
Learn to define things better, if you dont want to end up as the beautiful brunette into mental health hospital.
So ... just enjoy the fairy tales ... dont take them so seriouselly.
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A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Zero changes in front
of a determined woman
Dont play around too much.
One day she ‘ll say ... enough.
We love so much everything, that we forget the passing of time.
But women love to see real facts.
You can conquer a woman with words ... but you can keep her only if you know how to act on the stage of life.
If not ... instead of “l love you so much” ... you see just a text with “Adios!” So love her ... but also show her that you really love her a lot.
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He does not want to share his life with her
… but just be part of her life
Men are indeed selfish, but they like the love stories.
Men do not understand the practical side of a relationship.
Men are naive ... and in the end ... they pay the price ... the love story ends. Men act as they have all the time in the world ... but are too blinds to see how everything is gone.
... and dont understand why.
Women wants to share our lifes with them ... not only let them be part of our lifes.
Loving them is not enough!
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A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
The truth about the truth
… it hurts a lot
We play on the stage of life ... as good as we can ... but maybe not good enough.
And sometimes people and things hurt us a lot.
But its difficult to believe we can run through life without any problem at all.
All those things are what we can define as lessons of life.
And one day ... we realise we changed a lot.
All those things that hurt us so much into the past ... and let us be so cold inside of us ... that we cant love anymore with an opened heart.
Defined by pain generated by life ... unable to love someone at an infinite level.
But life is to short to play around like this.
The truth about the truth is that it hurts a lot to be alive, in some moments, but we can be wise enough to know that we can heal our souls with love. Open your heart in your love story.
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A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Dont control the dance
... just syncronize with the partner
I am not an expert in dancing ... but its the same with the love stories.
Trying to control the steps of dance, but not synchronize with the partner is the worst scenario you could choose.
You cannot take your girl to a football game and expect as she to be delighted. I mean, there are girls that like football ... but probably you are not so lucky for that.
We should let our partners have their dailly routines and hobbies just in the way they want to do that, not try to force them do only the things we love to do. Dacing ... translated into our love life ... means feel the love ... and feel the joy of being togheter.
Dont try to control things .... just enjoy life ... and think of love all the time.
Real love can be like a dance for our souls.
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Why a woman blocks you
The man had always been more naive than the woman.
We say are powerful beings, but in the end we try to survive in relationships that we cannot control or understand.
A woman that loves you a lot ... will somehow, in different moments, also hate you a lot.
She might even want to kill you ... but that’s only cause she loves you a lot.
It’s quite difficult to define why they block us.
I mean... are men so idiots that cannot understand the reasons why women hates them?
Well ... a real lady that is not finding the path to your soul, will take you out of her life.
If you cannot see what a woman wants from you ... she will not loose her time to
define with you the reasons.
She will just block you.
To be unblocked you need to start reconnect to her heart ... make her understand that even if you love her so much ...you need some guidance.
Yes ...i know ... it’s difficult to deal with the feminist philosophy ... but remember that even if is strage living with them ...we cannot live without beautiful souls near us.
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A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
The probability of going
out of your own statistics
Oscar Wilde used to say that “Every saint has a past and every sinner has a future”.
Same with all of us ... cause the world is divided into saints and sinners.
The mouth of the world is quit important, but how do you define yourself?!
A saint or a sinners?!
Said will stop smoking and smoke yesterday 12 cigars again?!
I mean, we can speak statisticlly about us: smoke one pack of cigarettes a day or even two, we cheat our partner twice a month, we drink too much every saturday when we go out, spend the whole salary 2 weeks after we get it etc etc.
Those statisticts data defines us ... cause tomorrow, the day after tomorrow and next week and then next year ....probably we will do the same.
Then we say ... life is boring, but never thought so deeply about a real change.
For things to change ... you need to change all those statistics data about you.
How do you define the change?
That is the new way you would love to be ... a good weight, more atractive because of the smile you are always wearing ... much wiser because of the books you had been reading and on and on.
For a real change you need to keep in mind your focus all the time.
It will also help if a person you really love, whisper you those words about change from time to time ... saying you can do it.
So there is always hope ... and the probability of going out of your statitics, if you are honest enough with yourself to define very clear who you are and who you want to become.
Dare to redefine yourself!
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A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
The perfect partner
… or the perfect illusion
Which one do you prefer?
We always think too much, instead of just enjoying life as it is.
Probably is too difficult to understand why we live in the reality we live today ...
instead of living a life, defined by our dreams and desires.
We do not accept that the Universe knows better than us ... where we need to be in this moment.
And this is when we start ... overthinking and comining with lots of new scenarios for us.
The Universe observes us and is laughing.
Let us think we are the boss ... and is lauging again and again.
People are very influenced by the relationships they are involved in.
In the beginning we have the impression we are in the perfect relationship, but in time ... things change too much ... and we become unsatisfied by what we live. Illusions comes in our live .... maybe we meet a new person ... and start to believe that this is what we really need.
Temptations start to redefine our lifes and we start seeing the illusion as the best partner.
Many goes throw these stories ... but not so many talk about that.
But in the end is just a choice ... between reality and the world of illusions.
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A philosophical guide for imposible love stories
Last chance
We have moments in life when we receive what is called ...the last chance.
Life gives us different exams and we fail and fail and fail again ... and we become real experts into failing ...but even failing can be just an episode from our timeline.
Funny thing is that not only life gives us those last chances for different lessons,
but also people from our life.
Should we bother about that?!
If someone says that gives you a last chance, i think that person believes is your teacher ....not that we would not need teachers in this world, but you should let only your soul choose which direction you go.
