And the desires are accomplished ... but you feel no joy inside of your soul.
The desire ... was only a pathless path.
And repeating this on and on and on ... you’ll get to the conclusion that you don’t need something in the outside word, but something changed in the inner world.
Studying the non sense of all your desires ... and see the real meaning ... the message behind the message ... is the key of healing the soul.
The day when you dare to ask yourself ... that maybe you want success because you just want to prove something to the others ... might be the day of the awakening process.
And when you will see that the non sense ... is not a non sense ... but just a key for healing your soul.
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The non sense is part of our lives ... but only connecting to the moment, whatever the moment represents ... this is the key
You can read so many things today and you basically have infinite informations coming from everywhere. All kinds of theories.
Everyone is a philosopher today.
The president is a philosopher, but also the simple worker from a hotel that is opening the door to the clients.
I once read an article about a guy that was working in the palace where Gorbaciov had his office.
Dalai Lama came in visit to the president and before going to Gorbaciov ... he stayed few seconds to speak with this man from the entrance of the building.
That guy saw all the important persons from the world, from that time, but Dalai Lama was the only person that spent few moments with him.
All of them where passing ... not even looking at him ... but the guy was a philosopher also.
Everybody was focused on Gorbaciov ... and you could not blame them ... the guy was probably the most important person from the planet.
But again ... the truth about the truth is that Gorbaciov came to power in 1985 ... only to paint in different colors the non sense of communism.
This is what we should call the high level non sense.
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If you could have the chance to see the interview with the guy from the doors of the palace where Gorbaciov had the office ... you will be amazed about a philosophy that describes the non sense seen by a simple person from that time.
But it is the same non sense, seen from totally different angles. And you suddenly realize you don’t even need to be a philosopher to understand that everything is just ... a non sense.
But the meaning of life is to enjoy it no matter what that moment means.
You could be in an amazing restaurant, near the sea ... or walking into a forest ... or just be in prison ... but connecting to the present is the real key of life.
Sometimes the universe knows better where we should be ...and even if everything might look as a non sense ... seeing the message behind the message might be a wise thing to do.
... dare to enjoy life and connect to the moment!
Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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The energy field where you are .... runs
your life. The vibes will always whisper the
truth .... so pay attention.
Vibes never lie.
They will always give you an idea about what is going on around you.
All you need to do is believe in your intuition.
A successful business woman i know, that have powerful energies that she does not know about ... just told me that each time when she becomes silent and disconnects for a while from all the people she is in contact with ... her success becomes bigger right away.
She uses this trick all the time when she is involved in something important ... and it works.
But still ... she is not understanding what is really going on.
You see ... all those people around you ... creates an energy field and could be a positive or a negative one.
There are people with strong positive energies and a huge power to influence the others.
A motivational speaker could be as that.
This is why when you go to a seminar for 3 days ... you somehow totally change in such a short time.
You are surrounded by positive people ... having good vibrations.
The vibes you feel are excellent.
Then you get back home and ... you actually come back to the life you totally dislike, because it does not make you wake up with joy. To better understand what an energy field means we should talk a little bit about the nuclear accident from Chernobyl.
It was a disaster what happened in 1986 to the Nuclear Power Plant.
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The energy field from that area had a huge negative impact on the health of all those people staying around Chernobyl.
The energy fields are invisible ... same as the nuclear energy fields and you need to understand the power of it.
All the people you are surrounded by ... somehow influence you a lot and is just a decision to spend your life having them around.
Listen to the vibes they give you and decide if you want their influences or not.
If might look as a non sense ... but the day when you will meditate and have the experiment you will be amazed of why you can ... or you can’t run your own life.
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Is not important how they react
... but how you respond to them
One of the lessons of my life is to understand how to interact with people ... one to one.
It happened i met thousands of people ... many kinds of different profiles .... and even if i usually know how to interact with them i sometimes ... still fail to these tests.
The funny thing is that i started to see that at the half of the event ... and even if i realize i should change my response ... i believe it should be really strange to do it.
And most of the times the Ego does not let me do that.
But i also started to have moments when my response is totally different to the reaction of the people i deal with. I just smile to them ... and i think they see it.
They reaction change right away.
Last night i’ve been to a hospital for kids, because my oldest son had an accident into the park.
There were so many cases at the emergencies and only one nurse that was taking the cases.
Our case was a difficult one ... but all the parents saw their cases the same.
The nurse was overwhelmed and could not even make a list in how we will enter inside.
They even told us that they had 185 cases in that day.
Everyone was nervous on the nurse ... cause she does not the job in the way she should do it ... but it was just too much for a human being.
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And new cases of emergencies came ... more and more.
I started to talk to her, explaining that she somehow needs to create a list ... and start from the right to the left ... or from the left to the right ... but at least try to create a list of priorities.
She started to be nervous on me, but when she saw i don’t want to be the first ...but only be on the list, even if our case was a real emergency ... she paid attention to what i had to say. She calmed down and even introduced us inside.
They were too many parents in there that were overreacting and
came to the emergency even if their case was not really urgent.
It was all a mix between real emergency cases and non sense
cases ... but too difficult for the nurse to make everybody understand
that.
And the nurse became again overwhelmed and the parents started to overreact in the usual way.
Everything got back to what was named in there “normal”.
But maybe ... for all the people involved ... is the case as they should learn as in difficult situations is not important how they react ... but how you respond to what happens.
... and having a similar negative response should be ... just a non sense.
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The paradox of marriage: One day you end up living in the same bed with your worst enemy
Years ago .... i was watching an interview with the president from that
time.
He was talking with the reporter about his worst enemy, which was a very powerful guy, owning 7 tv channels ... that were attacking him all the time.
The funny thing was that the president was showing a great respect to his enemy, explaining that he is glad the guy declared to him the truth ... that he hates him from all his heart.
I was watching and could not believe the words of the president ...
cause everything looked as a nonsense.
But the president was a smart guy.
... his worst enemy also.
I started to wonder myself if it is better to have a declared enemy ... than dealing with people that suppose to be your friends ... your partner or ... your family ... but in fact behind your back, they act as enemies.
And the biggest problem that you can have in a marriage ... in the moment when you start to have fights ... you begin to hate each other.
Something ... that in many cases ... was a love story ... begin to be a fight between 2 people that hate each other from all their hearts. And most of the times... they still sleep in the same bed ... for long time ... before they realize they have a huge problem.
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Is funny ... sleeping in the same bed ... with the worst enemy they ever had.
We use to be experts in hiding the truth ... and we end up in non sense situations.
If you ask people ... why they stay in such a toxic relationship ...
there will be no logical explanation from their side.
... and i now understand why the president was so glad that his worst enemy he ever had ... was telling him the truth.
But for many, many couple the toxic story continues .... sometimes
even to the end of their lives.
There are many nonsense situations as that ... but you need to understand that hiding the truth will not be too helpful for a great life.
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Truth be told ... we
love destroying things
My youngest son called me few days ago, telling me: “Hey! When you come home ... bring me a hammer!”.
I was a little bit surprised by his request and i dared to ask: “What could you possible do with a hammer?!”
Annoyed he replies ... “I said i want a hammer! If you come at home without a hammer, i will not open the door for you!”.
I am pretty used with his style, cause he is already 7 years old and ...
as an experiment i brought him a hammer.
I left and when i came back ... i saw the door of the storeroom destroyed.
He needed something from there and could not open the door. Amazed ... i ask him ... but only one day later so that we speak with calm: “ Why have you done this?! Can you give me an explanation?!” And when i speak with calm with him... he always gives me very good answers.
He smiles and says ... “You see ... i was bored ... and when i am bored ... i just love destroying things”.
And ... suddenly i realize he is right.
We do the same as adults ... but we never admit it.
Most of us, because of the way life is ... home, work, traffic, lots of problems ... finding no reason to say “Life is beautiful!” ... at one moment we start acting in a non sense way ... and we start destroying different things from our lives.
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If you ask an adult why he did this ... you won’t get an answer for that ... but everything is just an abstract way of looking for change. Breaking promises, dreams ... things .. relationships ... with actually no real explanation ... is a behavior difficult to understand ... but we
should ask ourselves ... what is the real reason behind the non
sense?!
Truth be told ... same as my kid explained me ... we love destroying
thing ... because we are too bored of the actual reality and we
need ... something else ... don’t know what .... but just something
else.
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Being your own observer
... might be the trick to
find the right path in life.
Whoever we are ... whatever we do ... we are somewhere on the timeline of our own destiny.
And ... saying that it is a non sense where you are today ... might be silly.
I believe that the Universe knows better where we should be.
What we call destiny is about the main details of the script of our
lives, but the way we act on the stage ... is depending only by us.
You can be a great actor on the timeline of your life ... or a silly one.
The funny thing is that if you act in a silly way, the Universe will
repeat those episodes till the day when you understand that you need
to become a great actor.
But how can we do this?
Not many of us have the chance to discover what is the philosophy behind life ... or we discover maybe too late ... after we lose lots of opportunities.
I was involved for many years in sales and i remember that someone once said to me ... “I can’t really understand how a guy as you ... is succeding to convince so many clients to come to his company ... and later on he loses them. It’s quite a big mystery”.
It was probably a lesson ... and i did not understood it.
I was doing something wrong ... but i did not saw the non sense at the right time.
I could become my own observer ... try to understand what i am doing wrong ... and find a way to change things.
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But i was blind ... and i could not see anything even if everything was only a simple decision.
But one day i realized that ... defining our lives ... how we act ... how we react ... the courage we have on the timeline of the important events ... is a trick that could make us jump from an ordinary to an extraordinary life.
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In the morning you just feel the day ... and is only a decision to enjoy it
We have this illusion that the dreams we carry inside of us will make us happy ... somewhere in the future.
And we work a lot to accomplish those dreams .. forgetting to enjoy life ... just as it is.
During my lifetime i had periods when i woke up with joy and periods when i just did not wanted to wake up ... having no reason to do it. Today i believe that the vibe you feel in the morning just defines ... the day.
