The only decision we should have is just enjoy the day ... however it is.
Even a bad day is a probably a day that carries a powerful message for you.
Might look like you lost a good business, an important exam ... something that is essential for you ... but in the end you will see that understanding a message from life is probably even more important than anything else.
But ... can we find any trick to wake up every morning with the joy inside of the soul?!
Well ... the moment when you understand that life is a journey and not a destination ... that is a day when you just proved ... you are a wise person.
You will also understand that real rich people are not the ones that have huge amounts of money, or properties ... or important companies .... but ... people that have good vibes all the time.
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Sounds as a paradox ... but even being rich for real is an abstract concept.
Don’t lose your life ... trying to touch the horizon line ... believing that when your dreams will become real ... you will be a happy person ... cause it will not be that way.
It’s all about the art of living our lives ... enjoying each day ... no matter what really happens.
In the end you will just see that planing everything ... will be just a non sense.
All it matters ... is the moment ... and the good vibe.
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The age is not defined by a
number ... but the vibe
you carry in your soul
A dear friend of mine ... which is about 6o years old, owning an island into the Mediterranean Sea ... wants to write a book with me about ... the art of staying young forever.
He believes in his theories by a very, very long time ... and i am sometimes joking of him saying that men are never getting old ... only women do it.
But he is very serious when it comes about this abstract idea about life.
Everything looks for him as a mental program ... and seeing all the time that after a while people get old ... we do the same as them. But we could stay young forever ... just using another mental program.
Yesterday ... it happened that i stayed for 5 minutes with a new neighbor i have.
We have an issues to solve togheter and ... she just started to tell me all her life ... saying that she is an old lady ... bla bla bla.
You see ... she is a very nice person ... but i was amazed finding out she is only 53 ... cause she looks of 65.
I started to understand that the theory with the mental program about the age ... is right.
I wanted to make my neighbor laugh and explained to her that statistically the ladies from that area are living a very long life, much longer than men ... and probably she is today at the half of her now. Hearing this ... i saw her changing completely.
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She could not believe what i was saying ... but deep inside her she knew i was right.
Looked like a non sense to say to her that she is young ... when she thought that she is an old lady ... but the statistics from that area proved i was right.
Yes ... she was probably at the half of her age ... so still young ... but the vibe she had, deep inside her ... really defined her as an old person.
So ... who is the one saying nonsense things?!
Me or her?!
I might be too optimistic and probably she does not know so much about positivity, even if she is a great person ... but in the end deciding to see the beautiful side of our lives ... is only a decision.
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Do you totally dislike the 9 to 5 program?!
Find it a non sense?! Well ... you could chose 24 / 7
... is much better
Few days ago, i met with the priest from my village and we began to chat a little bit.
He started to ask me if it is true that i have a love affair with a lady who was living close to his house.
I smiled ... and realized that it is the middle of the week and the priest was so busy that he had enough time to think about my love affairs.
I think ... he don’t even knew what day it was.
Usually ... the priest is working on Saturday or Sunday ... and when
someone is baptized or die.
This is quite a nice job.
A priest will never work 9 to 5, but of course ... that his weekend is a little bit different than our weekends.
But i believe that people that are going to the church ... are enjoying this fact and don’t find annoying that they have to do it every Sunday. Imagine ... monday morning ... when the whole planet goes to
work ... the priest can go to the spa ... and i believe there are people having this job ... doing that.
And i wonder how it should be to work this way?!
I personally stayed about 21 years in the office.
In the beginning i was working from 9 to 9, monday to sunday, but in the last years i used to work 9 to 5 ... monday to friday ... as all the people from the world.
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I totally disliked that.
After selling my office space ... i moved in another small office, where i did not had electricity ... and was doing my job only from the phone .
It was totally different.
And i felt that my office was in my car also, cause i was speaking on the phone all the time ... while driving. My schedule changed.
I was becoming available 24 / 7 ... but probably worked only few hours a day ... and i was more efficient.
I did not had time to gossip like the priest from my village ... but still i had time to write 9 books with love essays for the lady that stayed on same street with this nice guy from the church. The way we use to work will totally change.
The old style ... will become a non sense.
Probably ... just being efficient will be the only important thing to do. And doing this ... is only a decision!
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Make plans ... just for today.
Nothing more.
I used to have plans for 5 years.
Even big ones for 10 years.
Today, after being involved in a project that took 5 years to be completed ... i am only laughing by myself.
I thought that finishing the project ... will make me the most happiest person from the plannet ... but it was totally different.
The day it ended i realized that i am happy just cause it ended ...
nothing more.
I was feeling like i was out of a prison and i am free again. But free of what?!
It was me that wanted that project ... me the one that came out with this dream ... that in many moments appeared as impossible. Today i am not planning anything.
If someone calls me saying to arrange a meeting over 3 days ... i cancel from start.
I don’t schedule anything.
The only thing i plan ... and sometimes not even that ... is the actual day.
I just don’t want to live with those plans in my life.
I know that it sounds like a non sense what i write now ... when all books about personal growth teaches you that everything is about planning ... wanting etc etc.
The problem is that they don’t say the whole truth and that is ... the fact that you should pay more attention to your desires.
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Everything we want in life should be in total harmony with the laws of the Universe, with our spiritual growth plan ... with a meaning that is not related only with material things.
This way ... not thinking so much at the plans we have for 5-10-15 years ... we should not miss the most important thing in life ... to enjoy the present moment
Just think about it ... and keep the right balance between present and future.
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Who knows better what is best for you?!
You ... or the Universe?!
Sometimes the doors close in front of your eyes.
You open them again ... but still ... the doors close one more time.
Again and again and again.
You do everything in the right way ... you follow all the rules ... but still you can’t continue on the path you want.
For example ... you are having the perfect partner at home ... but you cheat that person all the time ... and still that person remains the perfect partner.
You have the best sister in the world ... she always helps you ... but you never pay attention to her when she wants something. And she still remains that ... best sister you could ever have.
You have the perfect partner in your company ... buy you just don’t care about that ... cause you want a company at a bigger level. But somehow the Universe keeps you in that place ... and does not care of your silly desires.
It happens i know a business woman that is married with the perfect husband.
The guy is taking care of the kids, of the house ... of everything. She cheats on him all the time ... and somehow even if she starts a new perfect love story ... even if she falls in love for real ... somehow the Universe does something and everything stops all the time.
Most probably ... her place is at home, with that perfect guy ... that she does not know to appreciate.
But it will probably take more time from now till she will see the message behind all those messages that comes from the Universe.
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So ... answering to the question ... who knows better what is best for you?!
Well ... the Universe, that infinite intelligence ... knowing everything that ever was and that will ever be ... will let you know ... but you should just stop being for a moment Mr / Mrs Ego ... have eyes to see and ears to listen.
Studying ... what you should name as a non sense ... those doors that are closing in front of your eyes ... even if you believe that things should happen in a totally different way ... all you see ... is just a message.
Everything happens for a reason, difficult to be understood at that time ... but you need to hear what ... the non sense is whispering to you.
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Unsatisfied with your job?!
Join our club!
It’s free membership.
We have billions of members.
I wonder how it should be to have a club for the ones unsatisfied of their jobs.
Indeed ... the club should have billions of members ... but i still don’t understand how people go in this position of totally disliking what is going on at work.
I was personally involved for 23 years in the it business and even if i loved it in the beginning ... today i don’t want to hear about computers anymore.
Later ... i wanted only to rent my properties and thought that everything i will have to do ... will be ... to get my money from my tenants.
Well ... things were not so simple as i thought.
I mean ... i was making money all the time ... but something destroyed my vibe and i begun to be unsatisfied of all what was going on.
After so many years ... i understand that it was not the job itself ... that i hated ... but some of the interactions i had with some of the people.
... clients ... colleagues from work etc etc.
You see ... you can get any job in the world ... and most probably it will happen the same ... cause everywhere you can meet nice people, but also people that you will not like so much. Jobs are about people.
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They appeared to serve people.
And the clients can be of a large spectrum ... as the way they interact with other people.
Thinking that changing the job ... or even changing the area of practice ... might be sometimes a good idea, but it will not completely remove from your life ... the interactions that you will still need to have.
Accepting things just as they are ... and the people that you don’t like so much ... might be wiser than changing the job all the time ... thinking that somewhere else is totally different.
Cause ... no matter how much you’ll try to avoid it ... you will find the nonsense everywhere!
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The nonsense of doing ugly things to the people that they don’t even
know ... is actually kind of a hobby for many
I read during the time all kinds of books.
Philosophy, psychology, history, art, computers etc etc.
One day i realized that i was just trying to understand what life is about ... and nothing more.
I was spending so much time reading ... and on the other hand the Universe was trying to teach me so many things ... through the interactions i had with all the people from my life.
... and i knew that the message was stronger when i actually lost my temper and become nervous because of mr X or mrs Y etc etc.
But the funny thing is that i failed so many times at those exams that life gave me.
Each time when something was not the way i wanted ... i actually started a real war with that person.
And the lesson was repeated on and on and on.
I am still laughing of myself ... at the way i reacted when after completing a real estate project that took 5 years ... the lady from the Electricity Company refused to sign me the papers so that the project can be used by people.
Them because of an idiot ... a fire started into the complex and everything could burn completely.
But today i see that all those things were only exams ... and instead of thinking that those people were doing ugly things to me ... even if they don’t know me so well ... it was just the fact that i overreacted in a silly way.
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Yes ... truth be told ... is that on this plannet there are people that do bad things to other people ... just like they should think this is kind of a hobby ... but all these are only exams for us.
And it all might look like a non sense ... but the message behind the nonsense is always very powerful.
Meditating over the subject ... hearing what the Universe wants to whisper to us... might be the key ... for the spiritual evolution that you need to follow.
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The absence of courage
...a “great” way of failing in life
